In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
With the pens of longing and the ink of love
We write hearts more precious than gold
In describing the Master of Creation, may God bless him and grant him peace
Shamail Muhammad
Chapter on what was mentioned in the words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, regarding Samar
Samar means talking at night
The origin of brown is the color of moonlight
Because they were talking about it
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
11 women sat
So we pledged and contracted
Do they not conceal anything from their husbands?
She said the first
My husband had sloppy camel meat
On top of a rugged mountain
It is not easy to rise
Not fat, so it moves
She said the second
My husband, I don't care about news
I am afraid that I will not leave
If I remember him, I remember his reward and reward
She said the third
My adoring husband
If I speak, I will release
If I remain silent, I will comment
She said the fourth
My husband is Kalil Tihama
There is neither heat nor comfort
No fear or boredom
She said the fifth
If my husband enters, he will be a leopard
And if a lion comes out
He is not asked about what he promised
She said six
My husband ate wraps
If he drinks, he will be relieved
And if he lies down, he will recover
And the palm does not enter
To teach broadcasting
She said the seventh
My husband is afraid of me
Or gaya
Apply
Every disease has a disease
Shajak or Falak
Or collect all yours
She said eight
My husband touched a rabbit
And the wind is the smell of grapes
She said nine
My husband is a high-ranking man
Long Najad
Great ash
The house is close to the club
She said ten o'clock
My husband is Malik
And what's wrong with you?
What's better than that?
He has many blessed camels
Few theatres
If we hear Al-Mizhar's voice
I am sure that they are your threat
She said eleven
My husband is a father of sow
And he is not the father of Zaraa
People of my ear jewelry
And it was filled with fat from my genitals
And he made me smile
So I shouted to myself
He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq
You make me among the people of neighing, humming, trampling, and purring
Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
And I lie down and it becomes morning
And I drink and I get sick
My father's mother planted
My father's mother did not plant anything
Akumha Raddah
And her house is spacious
Ibn Abi Zar'a
Ibn Abi did not plant anything
Mtjaaa Kamsl Shatba
And the arm of Jafrah satisfies him
Daughter of Abu Zara
My father’s daughter did not plant anything
Her father volunteered
And her mother volunteered
And he filled her cover
And her neighbour's anger
My father's slave girl
What is my father’s slave girl?
Don't broadcast our conversation
And do not let our mirror be cleansed
Do not fill our house with nests
She said
Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning
He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
So he divorced me and married her
Then she married a secret man
Shreya rode
And he took it in writing
He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
And he gave me a pair of every scent
And he said
Eat or plant and see your family
If I collect everything, he will give me
What amounted to the smallest pot of my father’s plants
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me
I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
This hadith is from what was mentioned in Samar of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
With some of his wives
Sociable and kind
This is part of good treatment and a kind soul
And the devil's prank
The talk of the sailor, the party, and the stories
What souls find comfort in
And it goes away from the hearts
He spoke with sociability
All of this is a legitimate objective
This is the long story that Aisha, may God be pleased with her, mentioned to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
About these women in the news of each of them and her husband
The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, listened to her as a companion and a good companion
In it, eleven women gathered in one meeting
We pledged not to conceal anything from their husbands
Whether it is praise or insult
Some of them mentioned her husband with praise
Some of them mentioned him with a mug
The first woman said, describing her husband
My husband had sloppy camel meat
That is, it is like very lean camel meat
On top of a mountain
This mountain is not easy to climb
Because it has a lot of rocks
And the meat is fat, so it is transferred
That is, he endures the hardships for his sake to transfer it
It is tomorrow
That is, he endures the hardships for his sake to transfer it
She is not satisfied with her husband
Because of his bad character and harsh nature
She likens it to camel meat
Which the soul recovers
He compared his bad character to a rugged mountain
I wish he, with his abundance, was available and easy to ascend
Rather, it is on top of a difficult mountain to reach
And at the same time
He does not deserve to endure the hardships for his sake
To reach it
The second woman said
My husband, I don't share any news
That is, I do not divulge or broadcast his news and description
I am afraid that I will not leave
That is, I fear if I start mentioning his description and experience
I will not leave any of his experience behind
Because of its length and abundance
It means its many faults and disadvantages
I cannot fulfill his mention
If I remember him, I remember his reward and reward
The origin of jaundice is bulging of the veins in the neck
And the swelling of the navel
It is as if she told him he has visible and hidden faults
I was aware of the defects that appear due to impotence
Which is the swelling of the veins
He has hidden flaws that only women know about
And I was jealous of her
Which is the bulge of the navel
The third woman said
The lover's husband
And it's long
And meaning
There is nothing more than useless length
If I speak, I will release
If I remain silent, I will comment
That is, if she uttered and said something and it reached him
He will release it
Even if you keep silent about its shortcomings
To him, it is like a hanging spoon
Neither married nor divorced
The fourth woman said
My husband is Kalil Tihama
You want it to be unharmed
Rather, it is comfort and pleasure to live like the night of Tihama
Mild delicious
There is neither excessive heat nor excessive cold
And Tihama
It is the coastal plain of the Red Sea from the Asian side
No fear or boredom
That is, I am not afraid of him because of his generous morals
He does not tire of me or become curious about me and become bored with my company
And he is not bad-mannered
I am tired of being with him
The fifth woman said
If my husband enters, he will be a leopard
And if a lion comes out
That is, if he enters the house
He slept a lot like a leopard
You want him to sleep
He ignores the defects in the house that I need to fix
Or he neglects to take care of the lost belongings and money in his house and what remains
He does not hold her accountable for little or much
And if he is outside the house
He was like a lion in his courage, strength and anger
She wants him to be nice to her
Outside the home, he will be brave, strong, and angry
He is not asked about what he promised
That is, he does not ask her about the money or the like he left at home to complete his generosity
The sixth woman said
My husband ate wraps
That is, he eats her skin
He does not leave any food behind
Rolling is in food
A lot of it, while mixing its types
Until there is nothing left of it
Likewise, if Sharib became sick
He is the one who does not leave anything in the vessel
Transparency is taken from the word transparency
It is the remaining drink in the vessel
And if he sleeps, he turns around
That is, he wrapped himself in his clothes alone in one part of the house and grabbed them
She is depressed about it
He does not insert the cuff to know the broadcast
That is, he does not put his palm inside my dress
To know the sadness that I have
This is due to his lack of interest and closeness to her
He does not touch her, caress her, or consort with her
He does not satisfy her need
She does not complain of her distress and sadness to him
In her criticism of him, she combined meanness and miserliness
And bad relations with his family
And his lack of desire to marry
With his excessive desire for food and drink
This is extremely reprehensible among the Arabs
The seventh woman said
My husband is jealous
That is, he is covered by his ignorance
From the cancellation that is disappointment
Or she said Aiyaa
From blindness, which is incapacity
It was said that he is stubborn
Who is tired of having intercourse with women?
It is completely impossible to do
What a stupid idiot
It was said that he is unable to speak
Then his lips closed
Every disease has a disease
That is, every disease that differentiates between people
I mean, it's flawed
They gathered in it
Shajak or villak
Or collect both for you
It means that if she joked with him
Shog her in the head
And if you get angry
He broke one of her organs
Or split her skin
Or add it all together
From beating and wounding
The limb is broken and speech is painful
The eighth woman said
My husband touched a rabbit
And the wind is the smell of grapes
She described it as having smooth skin
As soft as rabbit hair
It was said that what was meant by her saying was “to touch a rabbit.”
That is, gentleness and generosity of character
And he is a good race
For its cleanliness and good use
And the grapes are good
Or a pleasant-smelling tree
The ninth woman said
My husband is a high-ranking man
It is the pillar that supports the house
It means the house he lives in
High-ranking
For guests and those with needs to see it
It was said that I meant the high pillar
He described it as an honor and a blessing
That is, his house is counted
Tall Najad, i.e. tall
Great ash
Because his fire is not extinguished
To guide the guests to her
There will be a lot of ashes
This shows his generosity
The house is close to the club
The club is the People's Council
That is, if his people consulted about a matter
They relied on his opinion
And it was said
She described him as generous and kind
He does not live close to the club
Except for this characteristic
Because the two guests go to the club
And because the club owners
They take what they need
In their council from a house close to the club
The mean people stay away from the club
The tenth woman said
My husband is Malik
And what's wrong with you?
What's better than that?
This is veneration for her husband
His name was Malik
And it is better than what you will remember from its description
He has many blessed camels
That is, he owns many blessed camels
It is the place of her brook
Few theatres
That is, it is not directed to pastures much of it
For his preparation for the two guests
So that he can slaughter some of it for them if they come to him
This shows his generosity
And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar
That is, they are your threat
That is, if the camels heard Al-Mizhar’s voice
He was happy with the arrival of the two guests
The camels knew they would perish
And you will slaughter to feed them
And the flower
It is a musical instrument, by God
She wanted her husband to return his camel if the two guests came with him
He brought them musical instruments
And slaughter some of those camels for them
The eleventh woman said
She is the mother of plants
Atika bint or Kimil bin Saida of Yemen
My husband is a father of sow
That is, his nickname is Abu Zara
What is the father of Zara?
You mean glorification
People of my ear jewelry
That is, he filled my ears with jewels
And it was filled with fat from my genitals
The humerus is between the elbow and the shoulder
The meaning is that he made me fat and filled my body with fat and flesh from eating
She did not want the organist's specialty
But if they get fat, others get fat
She said
He made me proud, and I made myself proud
Any bone to myself
So it became great to me
He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq
That is, its people were sheep owners
They do not own camels or horses
They were not rich
The Arabs do not respect the owners of the sheep
Rather, they attack the people of horses and camels
They lived in a place called Shaq
Or what is meant is to split a mountain
Because of their scarcity and the scarcity of their sheep
The mountain split towards him
It was said that what was meant was that he found me with a lot of livelihood, effort and hardship
She said
So he made me among the people of Sahil and Hoot
The neighing sound of a horse
The atat is the sound of camels
The meaning is to make her one of the owners of horses and camels
And say it
Trampled and refined
That is, trampling the plant to bring love out of the ear
The food melts
It removes any peel or the like mixed with it
And the meaning
He moved it from the intensity of living and his effort
To the vast wealth of horses, camels and crops
And say it
Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
That is, my words are not objectionable or rejected
And I lie down and it becomes morning
That is, I sleep until the morning
Because she had servants who did the housework for her
And I drink and soothe myself
That is, I drink until I pretend to drink from the intensity of drinking
Nothing interrupts my drinking
Then the woman praised her husband’s mother, Abu Zar’
And she said
My father's mother planted
My father's mother did not plant anything
Akumha Raddah
Akoum are the containers in which luggage is collected
And it is large
And she said, “Her house is spacious.”
That is, her house is large and spacious
Then she praised Ibn Abi Zur’
And she said
His bed is like an amusement to write off
Any sleeping place looks like a crossed-out leaf
You want its texture to resemble a sword in terms of agility and lightness
And she says
And the arm of unbelief satisfies him
Al-Jafra is a female goat that has reached four months
And what she wants
He eats little
The Arabs praise this
Then the woman praised the daughter of Abu Zur’
And she said
Her father willingly and her mother willingly
That is, obedient to her father and mother
Do not disobey them
And fill its covering
That is, she fills her dress due to her obesity
And her neighbour's anger
That is, it makes her hurt
For her beauty, politeness and chastity
Then she praised Abu Zur’a’s slave girl
And she said
Don't broadcast her talk indiscriminately
That is, do not broadcast and spread their conversations and secrets
And do not let our mirror be cleansed
That is, do not spoil their food
Do not separate it or go with it
What is meant to be described as honesty
Do not fill our house with nests
That is, do not leave garbage dispersed in the house, such as bird nests
Rather, it is for the benefit of the home
Take care of cleaning it
Then Umm Zara’ mentioned the change that had occurred in her life with Abu Zara’
When he saw another woman
So he married her and divorced Umm Zar’
She said
Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning
The pots are milk containers
Stir to extract the butter
She wanted the time he got out
It was a time of fertility and good spring
She said
He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
The reason for her description is the goodness of her children
Alert about the reason for my father marrying her to her
Because the Arabs wanted boys
One of the noble women in character and morals
And say it
They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
That is, two moves under its middle
They play with the woman's small breasts
They are like pomegranates in their beauty
She said
So he divorced me and married her
Then you say
Then she married a secret man
That is, I married an honorable man after my father planted
Shreya rode
That is, he continues his walk diligently without interruption
And he took it in writing
The line is the spear
It is attributed to a place in Yemen
Bring spears from him
He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
That is, he brought her a lot of camels
The rich person has a lot of money and other things
Among them is wealth in money, which is its abundance
And say it
And he gave me a pair of every scent
That is, he was giving her everything
He goes from camels, cows, sheep, and slaves in pairs
That is, two by two
It is possible that she wanted a husband
Any type
And he said
Eat or plant and see your family
That is, pray for your family, treat them well, and provide them with plenty of food
She said
If I collected everything he would give me
What amounted to the smallest pot of my father’s plants
That is, everything he honored me with
It is not worth any of the honor of Abu Zar’
She described this second husband
With pride in himself, wealth and courage
And grace and generosity
Because he allowed her to eat whatever she wanted from his money
She gives whatever she wants to her family, exaggerating her honor
However, Abu Zar'a's location was not located there
And a lot of it, not a little, is planted
With her father's abuse, he finally divorced her
But her love for him made her husband hate her
As it was said
Love is only for the first lover
After the Mother of the Believers, Aisha, may God be pleased with her, told the story
This story is from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He told her
I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
He added in a narration
However, I will not divorce you
That is, my life with you was in honor and love
As was the biography of Abu Zar’a and Umm Zar’a
This is from his humility, may God bless him and grant him peace
And his good manners
Otherwise, may God bless him and grant him peace
He does not imitate anyone else
Rather, he imitates him and his good qualities and morals
He benefits from talking
It is permissible to mention the virtues of women to men
If they are anonymous
Other than aids
It is permissible to inform men
With his love for his wife
And in it is the virtue of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
And the capacity of its memorization and memory
With her young age
And if the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed for her
For her sake
And this hadith
It has several benefits
It takes a long time to mention it
Perhaps we will devote a special series to it, God willing
The rest of the talk, God willing
And God knows best
May God’s blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad
And upon all his family and companions