1 00:00:01,419 --> 00:00:07,419 The story of the Hajj of our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her. 2 00:00:07,419 --> 00:00:16,449 Arrival in Makkah and circumambulation of the House. 3 00:00:16,449 --> 00:00:22,449 The Hajj caravan reached Makkah on the morning of Sunday, the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah. 4 00:00:22,449 --> 00:00:29,449 The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and his Companions performed the circumambulation of the Sacred House and the sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 5 00:00:29,449 --> 00:00:33,539 Jabir Ibn ‘Abdullah, may Allah be pleased with them both, said: 6 00:00:33,539 --> 00:00:39,539 We were with the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, and we entered into the state of ihram for Hajj. 7 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:43,539 We arrived in Makkah on the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah. 8 00:00:43,539 --> 00:00:50,539 The Prophet, peace be upon him, commanded us to circumambulate the House and perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 9 00:00:50,539 --> 00:00:56,539 He ordered us to convert it into an ‘Umrah and exit the state of ihram, except for those who had the sacrificial animal with them. 10 00:00:56,539 --> 00:01:00,799 Our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, says: 11 00:01:00,799 --> 00:01:07,799 The Prophet, peace be upon him, arrived and circumambulated the House and performed the sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 12 00:01:07,799 --> 00:01:10,799 He did not exit the state of ihram because he had the sacrificial animal with him. 13 00:01:10,799 --> 00:01:14,799 Those of his wives and Companions who had the animal with them also circumambulated. 14 00:01:14,799 --> 00:01:21,799 The Prophet, peace be upon him, commanded those who had not brought the sacrificial animal to exit the state of ihram. 15 00:01:21,799 --> 00:01:24,799 So, those who had not brought the animal exited the state of ihram. 16 00:01:24,799 --> 00:01:28,799 His wives had not brought the sacrificial animal, so they exited the state of ihram. 17 00:01:28,799 --> 00:01:32,859 The narration of our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, indicates: 18 00:01:32,859 --> 00:01:38,859 That all the wives of the Prophet, peace be upon him, had circumambulated the House. 19 00:01:38,859 --> 00:01:44,930 And that none of them were prevented from doing so before ‘Arafah except for her, may Allah be pleased with her. 20 00:01:44,930 --> 00:01:47,930 She did not circumambulate the House due to her menses. 21 00:01:47,930 --> 00:01:52,019 Our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said: 22 00:01:52,019 --> 00:01:55,019 I began my menses, so I did not circumambulate the House. 23 00:01:56,019 --> 00:02:00,019 This means that a woman in the state of ihram for Hajj or ‘Umrah: 24 00:02:00,019 --> 00:02:07,019 If she arrives in Makkah, she should hasten to circumambulate the House before anything prevents her. 25 00:02:12,340 --> 00:02:18,939 Some believe that a menstruating woman can perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 26 00:02:18,939 --> 00:02:22,939 Because Safa and Marwah are outside the Sacred Mosque. 27 00:02:22,939 --> 00:02:28,939 This is correct if she had circumambulated the House while pure and then began her menses. 28 00:02:28,939 --> 00:02:31,939 However, if she arrives in Makkah while menstruating: 29 00:02:31,939 --> 00:02:37,939 She must wait until she is pure and should not perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 30 00:02:37,939 --> 00:02:42,939 As happened to our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, during her Hajj. 31 00:02:42,939 --> 00:02:45,939 For she began her menses before entering Makkah. 32 00:02:45,939 --> 00:02:49,039 She, may Allah be pleased with her, says: 33 00:02:49,039 --> 00:02:52,039 I arrived in Makkah while I was menstruating. 34 00:02:52,039 --> 00:02:56,039 I did not circumambulate the House nor perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 35 00:02:56,039 --> 00:02:59,039 She did not circumambulate the House: 36 00:02:59,039 --> 00:03:03,039 In compliance with the command of the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him. 37 00:03:03,039 --> 00:03:05,039 When he said to her: 38 00:03:05,039 --> 00:03:07,039 "Perform all the rites that a pilgrim performs," 39 00:03:07,039 --> 00:03:12,169 "Except that you do not circumambulate the House until you have performed ghusl." 40 00:03:12,169 --> 00:03:16,169 The hadith is explicit in forbidding a menstruating woman from circumambulation. 41 00:03:16,169 --> 00:03:21,419 Until her bleeding ceases and she performs ghusl. 42 00:03:21,419 --> 00:03:24,419 A woman’s consideration for her husband’s feelings. 43 00:03:24,419 --> 00:03:28,960 After the Prophet, peace be upon him, had circumambulated: 44 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,960 And his Companions had circumambulated the House and performed sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 45 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,960 He commanded those who had not brought the sacrificial animal: 46 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,960 To exit their state of ihram and convert it into an ‘Umrah. 47 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:42,960 The reason for this is that they were following the custom of the Arabs during the Jahiliyyah: 48 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:47,960 They would not combine ‘Umrah with Hajj during the Hajj season. 49 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,960 So the Prophet, peace be upon him, wanted: 50 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,960 To abolish the practices of the Jahiliyyah. 51 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,090 And to establish the rulings of Islam. 52 00:03:56,090 --> 00:03:59,090 Our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, says: 53 00:03:59,090 --> 00:04:03,090 We went out with the Prophet, peace be upon him, 54 00:04:03,090 --> 00:04:06,090 And we thought of nothing but Hajj. 55 00:04:06,090 --> 00:04:08,090 When we arrived in Makkah, 56 00:04:08,090 --> 00:04:10,090 We circumambulated the House. 57 00:04:10,090 --> 00:04:13,180 Then the Prophet, peace be upon him, commanded: 58 00:04:13,180 --> 00:04:17,180 Those who had not brought the sacrificial animal to exit the state of ihram. 59 00:04:17,180 --> 00:04:20,180 So those who had not brought the animal exited the state of ihram. 60 00:04:20,180 --> 00:04:23,180 And his wives had not brought the sacrificial animal, 61 00:04:23,180 --> 00:04:24,180 So they exited the state of ihram. 62 00:04:24,180 --> 00:04:29,949 The Companions did not initially comply with the command of the Prophet, peace be upon him: 63 00:04:29,949 --> 00:04:32,949 To convert it into an ‘Umrah at the beginning. 64 00:04:32,949 --> 00:04:35,949 Rather, they said, "We are heading to Mina," 65 00:04:35,949 --> 00:04:39,019 "While our private parts are dripping [with semen]." 66 00:04:39,019 --> 00:04:42,019 This reached the Prophet, peace be upon him, 67 00:04:42,019 --> 00:04:44,019 So he said: 68 00:04:44,019 --> 00:04:47,019 "If I had known beforehand what I know now," 69 00:04:47,019 --> 00:04:49,050 "I would not have brought the sacrificial animal." 70 00:04:49,050 --> 00:04:52,050 "And were it not for the fact that I have the animal with me, I would have exited the state of ihram." 71 00:04:52,050 --> 00:04:57,269 This statement from the Prophet, peace be upon him, to his Companions: 72 00:04:57,269 --> 00:05:02,269 Explains the reason for his refraining from exiting his state of ihram. 73 00:05:02,269 --> 00:05:08,339 This shows us the importance of practical example in guiding people. 74 00:05:08,339 --> 00:05:12,339 For the guidance issued by the Prophet, peace be upon him, 75 00:05:12,339 --> 00:05:15,339 Was different from the reality of his own actions. 76 00:05:15,339 --> 00:05:18,339 He commanded them to exit their state of ihram, 77 00:05:18,339 --> 00:05:20,339 While he himself did not. 78 00:05:20,339 --> 00:05:23,339 That is why they hesitated to perform this action. 79 00:05:23,339 --> 00:05:25,339 So he explained to them the reason for his refraining, 80 00:05:25,339 --> 00:05:27,339 Which was the bringing of the sacrificial animal. 81 00:05:27,339 --> 00:05:31,339 This reminds us of what happened after the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah: 82 00:05:31,339 --> 00:05:36,339 When he commanded them to exit their state of ihram and shave their heads, 83 00:05:36,339 --> 00:05:38,339 And they did not do so, 84 00:05:38,339 --> 00:05:43,339 Until he began the action himself, as suggested to him by the Mother of the Believers, 85 00:05:43,339 --> 00:05:46,339 Umm Salamah, may Allah be pleased with her. 86 00:05:46,339 --> 00:05:53,850 The Prophet, peace be upon him, entered upon our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, while he was angry. 87 00:05:53,850 --> 00:05:55,850 She said: 88 00:05:55,850 --> 00:05:59,850 "Who has angered you, O Messenger of Allah? May Allah cast him into the Fire." 89 00:05:59,850 --> 00:06:01,879 He said: 90 00:06:01,879 --> 00:06:04,879 "Do you not realize that I commanded the people to do something," 91 00:06:04,879 --> 00:06:06,879 "And they are hesitating?" 92 00:06:06,879 --> 00:06:09,879 "If I had known beforehand what I know now," 93 00:06:09,879 --> 00:06:15,879 "I would not have brought the sacrificial animal with me; I would have bought it and then exited the state of ihram as they did." 94 00:06:15,879 --> 00:06:19,939 The Prophet, peace be upon him, was angry: 95 00:06:19,939 --> 00:06:21,939 Because of the violation of the sanctity of the Shari‘ah, 96 00:06:21,939 --> 00:06:24,939 And their hesitation in accepting his ruling. 97 00:06:24,939 --> 00:06:32,230 Out of the love of our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, for our Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, 98 00:06:32,230 --> 00:06:36,230 She invoked evil upon the one who angered him when she saw him angry. 99 00:06:36,230 --> 00:06:41,230 The Prophet, peace be upon him, did not object to her action, 100 00:06:41,230 --> 00:06:45,230 Because she was in accordance with the Shari‘ah in this act. 101 00:06:45,230 --> 00:06:50,230 Whoever angers our Prophet or harms him, we invoke [Allah's justice] against them. 102 00:06:50,230 --> 00:06:55,230 We do so just as our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, did, 103 00:06:55,230 --> 00:07:00,230 In defense of Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him. 104 00:07:00,230 --> 00:07:02,420 And you, noble sister, 105 00:07:02,420 --> 00:07:05,420 Be attentive to the feelings of your husband. 106 00:07:05,420 --> 00:07:07,420 Be a source of comfort to him, 107 00:07:07,420 --> 00:07:09,420 And do not be a burden upon him. 108 00:07:09,420 --> 00:07:15,420 Your husband might come to you distressed over something that happened to him outside the house. 109 00:07:15,420 --> 00:07:18,420 Do not immediately cast blame upon him, 110 00:07:18,420 --> 00:07:21,420 Until you know the reason for his state. 111 00:07:21,420 --> 00:07:24,420 Then treat it with wisdom. 112 00:07:24,420 --> 00:07:28,420 Especially if the husband responds to his wife’s interaction, 113 00:07:28,420 --> 00:07:33,420 And shares with her the troubles and pains he experiences outside the house, 114 00:07:33,420 --> 00:07:35,420 Whether it is in his da‘wah work, 115 00:07:35,420 --> 00:07:38,420 Or in any of the affairs of this world. 116 00:07:38,420 --> 00:07:40,420 Subscribe to the channel.