1 00:00:01,419 --> 00:00:07,419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:07,419 --> 00:00:16,449 Arriving at Mecca and circumambulating the House 3 00:00:16,449 --> 00:00:22,449 The Hajj convoy arrived in Mecca on the morning of Sunday, the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah 4 00:00:22,449 --> 00:00:29,449 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his companions circumambulated the Sacred House and between Safa and Marwah 5 00:00:29,449 --> 00:00:33,539 Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them, said 6 00:00:33,539 --> 00:00:39,539 We were with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and we performed Hajj 7 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:43,539 We presented Mecca for four days during Dhul-Hijjah 8 00:00:43,539 --> 00:00:50,539 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered us to circumambulate the House, Safa, and Marwa 9 00:00:50,539 --> 00:00:56,539 And we should make it an umrah and a pilgrimage, except for those who have a sacrificial animal 10 00:00:56,539 --> 00:01:00,799 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says: 11 00:01:00,799 --> 00:01:07,799 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came and circumambulated the House and between Safa and Marwah 12 00:01:07,799 --> 00:01:10,799 He was not allowed to do so, but he had a sacrificial animal with him 13 00:01:10,799 --> 00:01:14,799 So the wives and companions who were with him went around 14 00:01:14,799 --> 00:01:21,799 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered the one who had not brought the sacrificial animal to be freed 15 00:01:21,799 --> 00:01:24,799 It is permissible for the one who did not bring the sacrificial animal 16 00:01:24,799 --> 00:01:28,799 And his wives were not given water to the sacrificial animal, so they were declared permissible 17 00:01:28,799 --> 00:01:32,859 The narration of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, indicated this 18 00:01:32,859 --> 00:01:38,859 However, all the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, circumambulated the Kaaba 19 00:01:38,859 --> 00:01:44,930 And he had not met any of them before Arafat except her, may God be pleased with her 20 00:01:44,930 --> 00:01:47,930 She did not circumambulate the House because of her menstruation 21 00:01:47,930 --> 00:01:52,019 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 22 00:01:52,019 --> 00:01:55,019 I noticed and did not circumambulate the House 23 00:01:56,019 --> 00:02:00,019 This means that a woman is in ihram for Hajj or a lifetime 24 00:02:00,019 --> 00:02:07,019 If she arrives in Mecca, she hasten to circumambulate the Kaaba before anything happens to her 25 00:02:12,340 --> 00:02:18,939 Some believe that a menstruating woman can perform sa'i between Safa and Marwa 26 00:02:18,939 --> 00:02:22,939 Because Safa and Marwa are outside the sanctuary 27 00:02:22,939 --> 00:02:28,939 This is true if she circumambulated the Kaaba while she was pure and then menstruated 28 00:02:28,939 --> 00:02:31,939 But if she came to Mecca while she was menstruating 29 00:02:31,939 --> 00:02:37,939 So she waits until she is pure and does not run between Safa and Marwa 30 00:02:37,939 --> 00:02:42,939 This also happened to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, during her argument 31 00:02:42,939 --> 00:02:45,939 She had menstruated before entering Mecca 32 00:02:45,939 --> 00:02:49,039 She says, may God be pleased with her 33 00:02:49,039 --> 00:02:52,039 I came to Mecca while I was menstruating 34 00:02:52,039 --> 00:02:56,039 I did not circumambulate the House or between Safa and Marwa 35 00:02:56,039 --> 00:02:59,039 But she did not circumambulate the Kaaba 36 00:02:59,039 --> 00:03:03,039 In compliance with the order of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 37 00:03:03,039 --> 00:03:05,039 When he told her 38 00:03:05,039 --> 00:03:07,039 So he fulfilled what the pilgrim fulfilled 39 00:03:07,039 --> 00:03:12,169 However, do not circumambulate the House until you have washed yourself 40 00:03:12,169 --> 00:03:16,169 The hadith clearly prohibits a menstruating woman from circumambulating 41 00:03:16,169 --> 00:03:21,419 Until her bleeding stops and she takes a bath 42 00:03:21,419 --> 00:03:24,419 A woman's care for her husband's feelings 43 00:03:24,419 --> 00:03:28,960 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, circumambulated 44 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,960 And his companions in the House, Safa and Marwa 45 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,960 The matter of one who does not water the sacrificial animal 46 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,960 To exit his ihram and make it his lifetime 47 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:42,960 The reason for this is that they follow the custom of the Arabs in pre-Islamic times 48 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:47,960 They do not combine Umrah with Hajj in the rituals of Hajj 49 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,960 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to 50 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,960 Nullification of the pre-Islamic order 51 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,090 And establishing the rule of Islam 52 00:03:56,090 --> 00:03:59,090 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 53 00:03:59,090 --> 00:04:03,090 We went out with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 54 00:04:03,090 --> 00:04:06,090 We only see that it is Hajj 55 00:04:06,090 --> 00:04:08,090 When we came to Mecca 56 00:04:08,090 --> 00:04:10,090 We walked around the house 57 00:04:10,090 --> 00:04:13,180 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded 58 00:04:13,180 --> 00:04:17,180 Whoever does not bring the sacrificial animal may be permitted 59 00:04:17,180 --> 00:04:20,180 It is permissible for the one who did not bring the sacrificial animal 60 00:04:20,180 --> 00:04:23,180 And his wives did not give us guidance 61 00:04:23,180 --> 00:04:24,180 So they were permitted 62 00:04:24,180 --> 00:04:29,949 The Companions did not comply with the command of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 63 00:04:29,949 --> 00:04:32,949 By making it a Umrah at first 64 00:04:32,949 --> 00:04:35,949 Rather, they said, “We will go to Manna.” 65 00:04:35,949 --> 00:04:39,019 One of us mentioned dripping 66 00:04:39,019 --> 00:04:42,019 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, reached the news 67 00:04:42,019 --> 00:04:44,019 And he said 68 00:04:44,019 --> 00:04:47,019 If I had taken care of my affairs, I would not have turned around 69 00:04:47,019 --> 00:04:49,050 What you gave 70 00:04:49,050 --> 00:04:52,050 Had I not had the sacrificial animal with me, I would have been permitted to do so 71 00:04:52,050 --> 00:04:57,269 This saying is from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 72 00:04:57,269 --> 00:05:02,269 It contains an explanation of the reason for his refusal to exit ihram 73 00:05:02,269 --> 00:05:08,339 This shows us the importance of practical role models in guiding people 74 00:05:08,339 --> 00:05:12,339 The guidance issued by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 75 00:05:12,339 --> 00:05:15,339 Different from the reality of what he did 76 00:05:15,339 --> 00:05:18,339 He orders them to exit their ihram 77 00:05:18,339 --> 00:05:20,339 And it was not solved 78 00:05:20,339 --> 00:05:23,339 So they hesitated in this act 79 00:05:23,339 --> 00:05:25,339 He explained to them the reason for his abstention 80 00:05:25,339 --> 00:05:27,339 It is the Hadi market 81 00:05:27,339 --> 00:05:31,339 This reminds us of what happened after the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah 82 00:05:31,339 --> 00:05:36,339 When he ordered them to exit their ihram and shave their heads 83 00:05:36,339 --> 00:05:38,339 They did not 84 00:05:38,339 --> 00:05:43,339 Until he actually started doing what the Mother of the Believers indicated 85 00:05:43,339 --> 00:05:46,339 Umm Salamah, may God be pleased with her 86 00:05:46,339 --> 00:05:53,850 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, and he was angry 87 00:05:53,850 --> 00:05:55,850 And she said 88 00:05:55,850 --> 00:05:59,850 Whoever angers you, O Messenger of God, God will cause him to enter Hell 89 00:05:59,850 --> 00:06:01,879 He said 90 00:06:01,879 --> 00:06:04,879 Or did you not feel that I was ordering people to do something? 91 00:06:04,879 --> 00:06:06,879 So they hesitate 92 00:06:06,879 --> 00:06:09,879 Even if I had accepted my affairs, I would not have turned around 93 00:06:09,879 --> 00:06:15,879 I didn't take the gift with me until I bought it and then I decided to do so as they did 94 00:06:15,879 --> 00:06:19,939 Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, became angry 95 00:06:19,939 --> 00:06:21,939 Violating the sanctity of Sharia law 96 00:06:21,939 --> 00:06:24,939 And their reluctance to accept his rule 97 00:06:24,939 --> 00:06:32,230 And from the love of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, for our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 98 00:06:32,230 --> 00:06:36,230 She called out the one who made him angry when she saw our anger 99 00:06:36,230 --> 00:06:41,230 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not object to her doing it 100 00:06:41,230 --> 00:06:45,230 Because she agreed with Sharia in this act 101 00:06:45,230 --> 00:06:50,230 Whoever angers our Prophet or offends him, we will call him against him 102 00:06:50,230 --> 00:06:55,230 Rather, we do this as our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, did 103 00:06:55,230 --> 00:07:00,230 A victory for God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 104 00:07:00,230 --> 00:07:02,420 And you are my dear sister 105 00:07:02,420 --> 00:07:05,420 You are concerned about your husband's feelings 106 00:07:05,420 --> 00:07:07,420 And be comforting to him 107 00:07:07,420 --> 00:07:09,420 Don't be of help to him 108 00:07:09,420 --> 00:07:15,420 Your husband may come to you while he is worried about something that happened to him outside the home 109 00:07:15,420 --> 00:07:18,420 Don't blame him to begin with 110 00:07:18,420 --> 00:07:21,420 Until you know the reason behind it 111 00:07:21,420 --> 00:07:24,420 Then you treat it with wisdom 112 00:07:24,420 --> 00:07:28,420 Especially if the husband responds to his wife’s interaction 113 00:07:28,420 --> 00:07:33,420 He shared with her the troubles and pain he was going through outside the home 114 00:07:33,420 --> 00:07:35,420 If it is in his advocacy work 115 00:07:35,420 --> 00:07:38,420 Or in any matter of the world 116 00:07:38,420 --> 00:07:40,420 Subscribe to the channel