The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Arriving at Mecca and circumambulating the House
The Hajj convoy arrived in Mecca on the morning of Sunday, the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his companions circumambulated the Sacred House and between Safa and Marwah
Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them, said
We were with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and we performed Hajj
We presented Mecca for four days during Dhul-Hijjah
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered us to circumambulate the House, Safa, and Marwa
And we should make it an umrah and a pilgrimage, except for those who have a sacrificial animal
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says:
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came and circumambulated the House and between Safa and Marwah
He was not allowed to do so, but he had a sacrificial animal with him
So the wives and companions who were with him went around
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered the one who had not brought the sacrificial animal to be freed
It is permissible for the one who did not bring the sacrificial animal
And his wives were not given water to the sacrificial animal, so they were declared permissible
The narration of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, indicated this
However, all the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, circumambulated the Kaaba
And he had not met any of them before Arafat except her, may God be pleased with her
She did not circumambulate the House because of her menstruation
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
I noticed and did not circumambulate the House
This means that a woman is in ihram for Hajj or a lifetime
If she arrives in Mecca, she hasten to circumambulate the Kaaba before anything happens to her
Some believe that a menstruating woman can perform sa'i between Safa and Marwa
Because Safa and Marwa are outside the sanctuary
This is true if she circumambulated the Kaaba while she was pure and then menstruated
But if she came to Mecca while she was menstruating
So she waits until she is pure and does not run between Safa and Marwa
This also happened to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, during her argument
She had menstruated before entering Mecca
She says, may God be pleased with her
I came to Mecca while I was menstruating
I did not circumambulate the House or between Safa and Marwa
But she did not circumambulate the Kaaba
In compliance with the order of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
When he told her
So he fulfilled what the pilgrim fulfilled
However, do not circumambulate the House until you have washed yourself
The hadith clearly prohibits a menstruating woman from circumambulating
Until her bleeding stops and she takes a bath
A woman's care for her husband's feelings
After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, circumambulated
And his companions in the House, Safa and Marwa
The matter of one who does not water the sacrificial animal
To exit his ihram and make it his lifetime
The reason for this is that they follow the custom of the Arabs in pre-Islamic times
They do not combine Umrah with Hajj in the rituals of Hajj
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to
Nullification of the pre-Islamic order
And establishing the rule of Islam
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
We went out with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
We only see that it is Hajj
When we came to Mecca
We walked around the house
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded
Whoever does not bring the sacrificial animal may be permitted
It is permissible for the one who did not bring the sacrificial animal
And his wives did not give us guidance
So they were permitted
The Companions did not comply with the command of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
By making it a Umrah at first
Rather, they said, “We will go to Manna.”
One of us mentioned dripping
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, reached the news
And he said
If I had taken care of my affairs, I would not have turned around
What you gave
Had I not had the sacrificial animal with me, I would have been permitted to do so
This saying is from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions
It contains an explanation of the reason for his refusal to exit ihram
This shows us the importance of practical role models in guiding people
The guidance issued by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Different from the reality of what he did
He orders them to exit their ihram
And it was not solved
So they hesitated in this act
He explained to them the reason for his abstention
It is the Hadi market
This reminds us of what happened after the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah
When he ordered them to exit their ihram and shave their heads
They did not
Until he actually started doing what the Mother of the Believers indicated
Umm Salamah, may God be pleased with her
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, and he was angry
And she said
Whoever angers you, O Messenger of God, God will cause him to enter Hell
He said
Or did you not feel that I was ordering people to do something?
So they hesitate
Even if I had accepted my affairs, I would not have turned around
I didn't take the gift with me until I bought it and then I decided to do so as they did
Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, became angry
Violating the sanctity of Sharia law
And their reluctance to accept his rule
And from the love of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, for our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace
She called out the one who made him angry when she saw our anger
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not object to her doing it
Because she agreed with Sharia in this act
Whoever angers our Prophet or offends him, we will call him against him
Rather, we do this as our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, did
A victory for God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
And you are my dear sister
You are concerned about your husband's feelings
And be comforting to him
Don't be of help to him
Your husband may come to you while he is worried about something that happened to him outside the home
Don't blame him to begin with
Until you know the reason behind it
Then you treat it with wisdom
Especially if the husband responds to his wife’s interaction
He shared with her the troubles and pain he was going through outside the home
If it is in his advocacy work
Or in any matter of the world
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