WEBVTT 00:00:01.419 --> 00:00:07.419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:07.419 --> 00:00:16.449 Arriving at Mecca and circumambulating the House 00:00:16.449 --> 00:00:22.449 The Hajj convoy arrived in Mecca on the morning of Sunday, the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah 00:00:22.449 --> 00:00:29.449 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his companions circumambulated the Sacred House and between Safa and Marwah 00:00:29.449 --> 00:00:33.539 Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them, said 00:00:33.539 --> 00:00:39.539 We were with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and we performed Hajj 00:00:39.539 --> 00:00:43.539 We presented Mecca for four days during Dhul-Hijjah 00:00:43.539 --> 00:00:50.539 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered us to circumambulate the House, Safa, and Marwa 00:00:50.539 --> 00:00:56.539 And we should make it an umrah and a pilgrimage, except for those who have a sacrificial animal 00:00:56.539 --> 00:01:00.799 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says: 00:01:00.799 --> 00:01:07.799 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came and circumambulated the House and between Safa and Marwah 00:01:07.799 --> 00:01:10.799 He was not allowed to do so, but he had a sacrificial animal with him 00:01:10.799 --> 00:01:14.799 So the wives and companions who were with him went around 00:01:14.799 --> 00:01:21.799 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered the one who had not brought the sacrificial animal to be freed 00:01:21.799 --> 00:01:24.799 It is permissible for the one who did not bring the sacrificial animal 00:01:24.799 --> 00:01:28.799 And his wives were not given water to the sacrificial animal, so they were declared permissible 00:01:28.799 --> 00:01:32.859 The narration of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, indicated this 00:01:32.859 --> 00:01:38.859 However, all the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, circumambulated the Kaaba 00:01:38.859 --> 00:01:44.930 And he had not met any of them before Arafat except her, may God be pleased with her 00:01:44.930 --> 00:01:47.930 She did not circumambulate the House because of her menstruation 00:01:47.930 --> 00:01:52.019 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 00:01:52.019 --> 00:01:55.019 I noticed and did not circumambulate the House 00:01:56.019 --> 00:02:00.019 This means that a woman is in ihram for Hajj or a lifetime 00:02:00.019 --> 00:02:07.019 If she arrives in Mecca, she hasten to circumambulate the Kaaba before anything happens to her 00:02:12.340 --> 00:02:18.939 Some believe that a menstruating woman can perform sa'i between Safa and Marwa 00:02:18.939 --> 00:02:22.939 Because Safa and Marwa are outside the sanctuary 00:02:22.939 --> 00:02:28.939 This is true if she circumambulated the Kaaba while she was pure and then menstruated 00:02:28.939 --> 00:02:31.939 But if she came to Mecca while she was menstruating 00:02:31.939 --> 00:02:37.939 So she waits until she is pure and does not run between Safa and Marwa 00:02:37.939 --> 00:02:42.939 This also happened to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, during her argument 00:02:42.939 --> 00:02:45.939 She had menstruated before entering Mecca 00:02:45.939 --> 00:02:49.039 She says, may God be pleased with her 00:02:49.039 --> 00:02:52.039 I came to Mecca while I was menstruating 00:02:52.039 --> 00:02:56.039 I did not circumambulate the House or between Safa and Marwa 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:59.039 But she did not circumambulate the Kaaba 00:02:59.039 --> 00:03:03.039 In compliance with the order of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:03.039 --> 00:03:05.039 When he told her 00:03:05.039 --> 00:03:07.039 So he fulfilled what the pilgrim fulfilled 00:03:07.039 --> 00:03:12.169 However, do not circumambulate the House until you have washed yourself 00:03:12.169 --> 00:03:16.169 The hadith clearly prohibits a menstruating woman from circumambulating 00:03:16.169 --> 00:03:21.419 Until her bleeding stops and she takes a bath 00:03:21.419 --> 00:03:24.419 A woman's care for her husband's feelings 00:03:24.419 --> 00:03:28.960 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, circumambulated 00:03:28.960 --> 00:03:31.960 And his companions in the House, Safa and Marwa 00:03:31.960 --> 00:03:34.960 The matter of one who does not water the sacrificial animal 00:03:34.960 --> 00:03:38.960 To exit his ihram and make it his lifetime 00:03:38.960 --> 00:03:42.960 The reason for this is that they follow the custom of the Arabs in pre-Islamic times 00:03:42.960 --> 00:03:47.960 They do not combine Umrah with Hajj in the rituals of Hajj 00:03:47.960 --> 00:03:50.960 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to 00:03:50.960 --> 00:03:52.960 Nullification of the pre-Islamic order 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:56.090 And establishing the rule of Islam 00:03:56.090 --> 00:03:59.090 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:03:59.090 --> 00:04:03.090 We went out with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:03.090 --> 00:04:06.090 We only see that it is Hajj 00:04:06.090 --> 00:04:08.090 When we came to Mecca 00:04:08.090 --> 00:04:10.090 We walked around the house 00:04:10.090 --> 00:04:13.180 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded 00:04:13.180 --> 00:04:17.180 Whoever does not bring the sacrificial animal may be permitted 00:04:17.180 --> 00:04:20.180 It is permissible for the one who did not bring the sacrificial animal 00:04:20.180 --> 00:04:23.180 And his wives did not give us guidance 00:04:23.180 --> 00:04:24.180 So they were permitted 00:04:24.180 --> 00:04:29.949 The Companions did not comply with the command of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:29.949 --> 00:04:32.949 By making it a Umrah at first 00:04:32.949 --> 00:04:35.949 Rather, they said, “We will go to Manna.” 00:04:35.949 --> 00:04:39.019 One of us mentioned dripping 00:04:39.019 --> 00:04:42.019 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, reached the news 00:04:42.019 --> 00:04:44.019 And he said 00:04:44.019 --> 00:04:47.019 If I had taken care of my affairs, I would not have turned around 00:04:47.019 --> 00:04:49.050 What you gave 00:04:49.050 --> 00:04:52.050 Had I not had the sacrificial animal with me, I would have been permitted to do so 00:04:52.050 --> 00:04:57.269 This saying is from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 00:04:57.269 --> 00:05:02.269 It contains an explanation of the reason for his refusal to exit ihram 00:05:02.269 --> 00:05:08.339 This shows us the importance of practical role models in guiding people 00:05:08.339 --> 00:05:12.339 The guidance issued by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:12.339 --> 00:05:15.339 Different from the reality of what he did 00:05:15.339 --> 00:05:18.339 He orders them to exit their ihram 00:05:18.339 --> 00:05:20.339 And it was not solved 00:05:20.339 --> 00:05:23.339 So they hesitated in this act 00:05:23.339 --> 00:05:25.339 He explained to them the reason for his abstention 00:05:25.339 --> 00:05:27.339 It is the Hadi market 00:05:27.339 --> 00:05:31.339 This reminds us of what happened after the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah 00:05:31.339 --> 00:05:36.339 When he ordered them to exit their ihram and shave their heads 00:05:36.339 --> 00:05:38.339 They did not 00:05:38.339 --> 00:05:43.339 Until he actually started doing what the Mother of the Believers indicated 00:05:43.339 --> 00:05:46.339 Umm Salamah, may God be pleased with her 00:05:46.339 --> 00:05:53.850 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, and he was angry 00:05:53.850 --> 00:05:55.850 And she said 00:05:55.850 --> 00:05:59.850 Whoever angers you, O Messenger of God, God will cause him to enter Hell 00:05:59.850 --> 00:06:01.879 He said 00:06:01.879 --> 00:06:04.879 Or did you not feel that I was ordering people to do something? 00:06:04.879 --> 00:06:06.879 So they hesitate 00:06:06.879 --> 00:06:09.879 Even if I had accepted my affairs, I would not have turned around 00:06:09.879 --> 00:06:15.879 I didn't take the gift with me until I bought it and then I decided to do so as they did 00:06:15.879 --> 00:06:19.939 Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, became angry 00:06:19.939 --> 00:06:21.939 Violating the sanctity of Sharia law 00:06:21.939 --> 00:06:24.939 And their reluctance to accept his rule 00:06:24.939 --> 00:06:32.230 And from the love of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, for our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:32.230 --> 00:06:36.230 She called out the one who made him angry when she saw our anger 00:06:36.230 --> 00:06:41.230 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not object to her doing it 00:06:41.230 --> 00:06:45.230 Because she agreed with Sharia in this act 00:06:45.230 --> 00:06:50.230 Whoever angers our Prophet or offends him, we will call him against him 00:06:50.230 --> 00:06:55.230 Rather, we do this as our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, did 00:06:55.230 --> 00:07:00.230 A victory for God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:00.230 --> 00:07:02.420 And you are my dear sister 00:07:02.420 --> 00:07:05.420 You are concerned about your husband's feelings 00:07:05.420 --> 00:07:07.420 And be comforting to him 00:07:07.420 --> 00:07:09.420 Don't be of help to him 00:07:09.420 --> 00:07:15.420 Your husband may come to you while he is worried about something that happened to him outside the home 00:07:15.420 --> 00:07:18.420 Don't blame him to begin with 00:07:18.420 --> 00:07:21.420 Until you know the reason behind it 00:07:21.420 --> 00:07:24.420 Then you treat it with wisdom 00:07:24.420 --> 00:07:28.420 Especially if the husband responds to his wife’s interaction 00:07:28.420 --> 00:07:33.420 He shared with her the troubles and pain he was going through outside the home 00:07:33.420 --> 00:07:35.420 If it is in his advocacy work 00:07:35.420 --> 00:07:38.420 Or in any matter of the world 00:07:38.420 --> 00:07:40.420 Subscribe to the channel