WEBVTT 00:00:01.419 --> 00:00:07.419 The story of the Hajj of our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her. 00:00:07.419 --> 00:00:16.449 Arrival in Makkah and circumambulation of the House. 00:00:16.449 --> 00:00:22.449 The Hajj caravan reached Makkah on the morning of Sunday, the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah. 00:00:22.449 --> 00:00:29.449 The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and his Companions performed the circumambulation of the Sacred House and the sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:00:29.449 --> 00:00:33.539 Jabir Ibn ‘Abdullah, may Allah be pleased with them both, said: 00:00:33.539 --> 00:00:39.539 We were with the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, and we entered into the state of ihram for Hajj. 00:00:39.539 --> 00:00:43.539 We arrived in Makkah on the fourth of Dhu al-Hijjah. 00:00:43.539 --> 00:00:50.539 The Prophet, peace be upon him, commanded us to circumambulate the House and perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:00:50.539 --> 00:00:56.539 He ordered us to convert it into an ‘Umrah and exit the state of ihram, except for those who had the sacrificial animal with them. 00:00:56.539 --> 00:01:00.799 Our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, says: 00:01:00.799 --> 00:01:07.799 The Prophet, peace be upon him, arrived and circumambulated the House and performed the sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:01:07.799 --> 00:01:10.799 He did not exit the state of ihram because he had the sacrificial animal with him. 00:01:10.799 --> 00:01:14.799 Those of his wives and Companions who had the animal with them also circumambulated. 00:01:14.799 --> 00:01:21.799 The Prophet, peace be upon him, commanded those who had not brought the sacrificial animal to exit the state of ihram. 00:01:21.799 --> 00:01:24.799 So, those who had not brought the animal exited the state of ihram. 00:01:24.799 --> 00:01:28.799 His wives had not brought the sacrificial animal, so they exited the state of ihram. 00:01:28.799 --> 00:01:32.859 The narration of our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, indicates: 00:01:32.859 --> 00:01:38.859 That all the wives of the Prophet, peace be upon him, had circumambulated the House. 00:01:38.859 --> 00:01:44.930 And that none of them were prevented from doing so before ‘Arafah except for her, may Allah be pleased with her. 00:01:44.930 --> 00:01:47.930 She did not circumambulate the House due to her menses. 00:01:47.930 --> 00:01:52.019 Our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said: 00:01:52.019 --> 00:01:55.019 I began my menses, so I did not circumambulate the House. 00:01:56.019 --> 00:02:00.019 This means that a woman in the state of ihram for Hajj or ‘Umrah: 00:02:00.019 --> 00:02:07.019 If she arrives in Makkah, she should hasten to circumambulate the House before anything prevents her. 00:02:12.340 --> 00:02:18.939 Some believe that a menstruating woman can perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:02:18.939 --> 00:02:22.939 Because Safa and Marwah are outside the Sacred Mosque. 00:02:22.939 --> 00:02:28.939 This is correct if she had circumambulated the House while pure and then began her menses. 00:02:28.939 --> 00:02:31.939 However, if she arrives in Makkah while menstruating: 00:02:31.939 --> 00:02:37.939 She must wait until she is pure and should not perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:02:37.939 --> 00:02:42.939 As happened to our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, during her Hajj. 00:02:42.939 --> 00:02:45.939 For she began her menses before entering Makkah. 00:02:45.939 --> 00:02:49.039 She, may Allah be pleased with her, says: 00:02:49.039 --> 00:02:52.039 I arrived in Makkah while I was menstruating. 00:02:52.039 --> 00:02:56.039 I did not circumambulate the House nor perform sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:59.039 She did not circumambulate the House: 00:02:59.039 --> 00:03:03.039 In compliance with the command of the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him. 00:03:03.039 --> 00:03:05.039 When he said to her: 00:03:05.039 --> 00:03:07.039 "Perform all the rites that a pilgrim performs," 00:03:07.039 --> 00:03:12.169 "Except that you do not circumambulate the House until you have performed ghusl." 00:03:12.169 --> 00:03:16.169 The hadith is explicit in forbidding a menstruating woman from circumambulation. 00:03:16.169 --> 00:03:21.419 Until her bleeding ceases and she performs ghusl. 00:03:21.419 --> 00:03:24.419 A woman’s consideration for her husband’s feelings. 00:03:24.419 --> 00:03:28.960 After the Prophet, peace be upon him, had circumambulated: 00:03:28.960 --> 00:03:31.960 And his Companions had circumambulated the House and performed sa‘i between Safa and Marwah. 00:03:31.960 --> 00:03:34.960 He commanded those who had not brought the sacrificial animal: 00:03:34.960 --> 00:03:38.960 To exit their state of ihram and convert it into an ‘Umrah. 00:03:38.960 --> 00:03:42.960 The reason for this is that they were following the custom of the Arabs during the Jahiliyyah: 00:03:42.960 --> 00:03:47.960 They would not combine ‘Umrah with Hajj during the Hajj season. 00:03:47.960 --> 00:03:50.960 So the Prophet, peace be upon him, wanted: 00:03:50.960 --> 00:03:52.960 To abolish the practices of the Jahiliyyah. 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:56.090 And to establish the rulings of Islam. 00:03:56.090 --> 00:03:59.090 Our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, says: 00:03:59.090 --> 00:04:03.090 We went out with the Prophet, peace be upon him, 00:04:03.090 --> 00:04:06.090 And we thought of nothing but Hajj. 00:04:06.090 --> 00:04:08.090 When we arrived in Makkah, 00:04:08.090 --> 00:04:10.090 We circumambulated the House. 00:04:10.090 --> 00:04:13.180 Then the Prophet, peace be upon him, commanded: 00:04:13.180 --> 00:04:17.180 Those who had not brought the sacrificial animal to exit the state of ihram. 00:04:17.180 --> 00:04:20.180 So those who had not brought the animal exited the state of ihram. 00:04:20.180 --> 00:04:23.180 And his wives had not brought the sacrificial animal, 00:04:23.180 --> 00:04:24.180 So they exited the state of ihram. 00:04:24.180 --> 00:04:29.949 The Companions did not initially comply with the command of the Prophet, peace be upon him: 00:04:29.949 --> 00:04:32.949 To convert it into an ‘Umrah at the beginning. 00:04:32.949 --> 00:04:35.949 Rather, they said, "We are heading to Mina," 00:04:35.949 --> 00:04:39.019 "While our private parts are dripping [with semen]." 00:04:39.019 --> 00:04:42.019 This reached the Prophet, peace be upon him, 00:04:42.019 --> 00:04:44.019 So he said: 00:04:44.019 --> 00:04:47.019 "If I had known beforehand what I know now," 00:04:47.019 --> 00:04:49.050 "I would not have brought the sacrificial animal." 00:04:49.050 --> 00:04:52.050 "And were it not for the fact that I have the animal with me, I would have exited the state of ihram." 00:04:52.050 --> 00:04:57.269 This statement from the Prophet, peace be upon him, to his Companions: 00:04:57.269 --> 00:05:02.269 Explains the reason for his refraining from exiting his state of ihram. 00:05:02.269 --> 00:05:08.339 This shows us the importance of practical example in guiding people. 00:05:08.339 --> 00:05:12.339 For the guidance issued by the Prophet, peace be upon him, 00:05:12.339 --> 00:05:15.339 Was different from the reality of his own actions. 00:05:15.339 --> 00:05:18.339 He commanded them to exit their state of ihram, 00:05:18.339 --> 00:05:20.339 While he himself did not. 00:05:20.339 --> 00:05:23.339 That is why they hesitated to perform this action. 00:05:23.339 --> 00:05:25.339 So he explained to them the reason for his refraining, 00:05:25.339 --> 00:05:27.339 Which was the bringing of the sacrificial animal. 00:05:27.339 --> 00:05:31.339 This reminds us of what happened after the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah: 00:05:31.339 --> 00:05:36.339 When he commanded them to exit their state of ihram and shave their heads, 00:05:36.339 --> 00:05:38.339 And they did not do so, 00:05:38.339 --> 00:05:43.339 Until he began the action himself, as suggested to him by the Mother of the Believers, 00:05:43.339 --> 00:05:46.339 Umm Salamah, may Allah be pleased with her. 00:05:46.339 --> 00:05:53.850 The Prophet, peace be upon him, entered upon our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, while he was angry. 00:05:53.850 --> 00:05:55.850 She said: 00:05:55.850 --> 00:05:59.850 "Who has angered you, O Messenger of Allah? May Allah cast him into the Fire." 00:05:59.850 --> 00:06:01.879 He said: 00:06:01.879 --> 00:06:04.879 "Do you not realize that I commanded the people to do something," 00:06:04.879 --> 00:06:06.879 "And they are hesitating?" 00:06:06.879 --> 00:06:09.879 "If I had known beforehand what I know now," 00:06:09.879 --> 00:06:15.879 "I would not have brought the sacrificial animal with me; I would have bought it and then exited the state of ihram as they did." 00:06:15.879 --> 00:06:19.939 The Prophet, peace be upon him, was angry: 00:06:19.939 --> 00:06:21.939 Because of the violation of the sanctity of the Shari‘ah, 00:06:21.939 --> 00:06:24.939 And their hesitation in accepting his ruling. 00:06:24.939 --> 00:06:32.230 Out of the love of our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, for our Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, 00:06:32.230 --> 00:06:36.230 She invoked evil upon the one who angered him when she saw him angry. 00:06:36.230 --> 00:06:41.230 The Prophet, peace be upon him, did not object to her action, 00:06:41.230 --> 00:06:45.230 Because she was in accordance with the Shari‘ah in this act. 00:06:45.230 --> 00:06:50.230 Whoever angers our Prophet or harms him, we invoke [Allah's justice] against them. 00:06:50.230 --> 00:06:55.230 We do so just as our Mother ‘Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, did, 00:06:55.230 --> 00:07:00.230 In defense of Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him. 00:07:00.230 --> 00:07:02.420 And you, noble sister, 00:07:02.420 --> 00:07:05.420 Be attentive to the feelings of your husband. 00:07:05.420 --> 00:07:07.420 Be a source of comfort to him, 00:07:07.420 --> 00:07:09.420 And do not be a burden upon him. 00:07:09.420 --> 00:07:15.420 Your husband might come to you distressed over something that happened to him outside the house. 00:07:15.420 --> 00:07:18.420 Do not immediately cast blame upon him, 00:07:18.420 --> 00:07:21.420 Until you know the reason for his state. 00:07:21.420 --> 00:07:24.420 Then treat it with wisdom. 00:07:24.420 --> 00:07:28.420 Especially if the husband responds to his wife’s interaction, 00:07:28.420 --> 00:07:33.420 And shares with her the troubles and pains he experiences outside the house, 00:07:33.420 --> 00:07:35.420 Whether it is in his da‘wah work, 00:07:35.420 --> 00:07:38.420 Or in any of the affairs of this world. 00:07:38.420 --> 00:07:40.420 Subscribe to the channel.