WEBVTT 00:00:01.419 --> 00:00:07.419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:07.419 --> 00:00:13.660 The hardship of Hajj and Umrah 00:00:13.660 --> 00:00:18.519 Hajj rituals must be tiring 00:00:18.519 --> 00:00:22.519 This fatigue does not go away from this worship 00:00:22.519 --> 00:00:28.550 Today, some have tried to turn Hajj into a tourist trip without fatigue 00:00:28.550 --> 00:00:31.550 Hajj was stripped of its meanings 00:00:31.550 --> 00:00:37.549 They were unable to preserve the guidance of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:37.549 --> 00:00:42.549 They performed a Hajj other than the one the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did 00:00:42.549 --> 00:00:46.549 Devoid of feelings and spirituality 00:00:46.549 --> 00:00:51.549 They lost many of the great meanings in this great ritual 00:00:51.549 --> 00:00:58.869 He was raised by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:58.869 --> 00:01:06.870 He explained to her that the reward for performing rituals is linked to the expense and hardship that stems from its performance 00:01:06.870 --> 00:01:07.870 And he said 00:01:07.870 --> 00:01:11.870 But it is according to your expense or burden 00:01:11.870 --> 00:01:13.870 What is your reward for this? 00:01:13.870 --> 00:01:16.870 As much as you are tired and hard at work during Umrah 00:01:16.870 --> 00:01:19.870 Or your expense in doing so 00:01:19.870 --> 00:01:24.099 The hardship here is not intended for its own sake 00:01:24.099 --> 00:01:28.099 Rather, it is one of the requirements for performing rituals 00:01:28.099 --> 00:01:30.099 It is inherent in him 00:01:30.099 --> 00:01:34.099 This is what you need 00:01:34.099 --> 00:01:42.099 This is a general rule in all acts of worship, the performance of which is associated with inescapable hardship 00:01:42.099 --> 00:01:46.099 The reward is proportional to the hardship 00:01:46.099 --> 00:01:50.700 I'm waiting for you here 00:01:50.700 --> 00:01:56.689 Events of the Prophet’s biography related to the House of Prophethood 00:01:57.689 --> 00:02:03.689 This clearly indicates the great status of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:02:03.689 --> 00:02:06.689 With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:06.689 --> 00:02:09.780 And this is one of them 00:02:09.780 --> 00:02:11.780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:11.780 --> 00:02:13.780 When Abdul Rahman ordered 00:02:13.780 --> 00:02:16.780 To take our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:02:16.780 --> 00:02:18.780 To soften to age 00:02:18.780 --> 00:02:21.780 He told them he wouldn't move 00:02:21.780 --> 00:02:23.780 Until they reach it 00:02:23.780 --> 00:02:33.819 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and those with him in the Hajj caravan that came from Medina were ready to return 00:02:33.819 --> 00:02:45.819 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered the people to wait until our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, had finished her Umrah, then they would set off for Medina. 00:02:45.819 --> 00:03:00.199 The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, “Go with your brother to Tan’eem and marry his family, then your appointment will be in such-and-such a place.” 00:03:01.229 --> 00:03:16.229 He said to her brother, Abd al-Rahman, “Take your sister out of the Haram, let her perform Umrah, then circumambulate the Kaaba, then finish your circumambulation, for I am waiting for you here.” 00:03:16.229 --> 00:03:27.419 This is not the first time that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, imprisoned people on a trip for the sake of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her. 00:03:27.419 --> 00:03:43.460 Rather, this happened on another trip when I lost the necklace and people were imprisoned to search for the necklace and the verse on tayammum was revealed and it was counted among the blessings of the family of Abu Bakr upon the people. 00:03:43.460 --> 00:03:56.340 On the way to Umrah al-Tanaim, Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr, may God be pleased with him, responded to what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded him to do. 00:03:56.340 --> 00:04:08.340 So he mounted our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, on his camel, and he set off with her to Al-Tan’im and Al-Ridaf, putting her behind him on the camel. 00:04:08.340 --> 00:04:15.340 This is permissible with mahrams, provided that the buttocks do not press the bodies together 00:04:15.340 --> 00:04:28.889 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, at that time was young, approximately seventeen years old, as she says about herself, may God be pleased with her 00:04:28.889 --> 00:04:39.920 I remember that when I was a young slave girl, I became drowsy and my face affected the back of my backpack, and there is nothing strange about her drowsiness 00:04:39.920 --> 00:04:50.920 The time at which I moved to perform Umrah was at night, which is the time for sleep and rest, according to the custom of people at all times 00:04:50.920 --> 00:05:03.209 She also explained that she was young, even though it was late at night and at a time when lights were not common 00:05:03.209 --> 00:05:10.209 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was walking with her brother alone, and the weather was hot 00:05:10.209 --> 00:05:21.339 However, the jealousy of the great companion Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr over her was great, saying, “Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her.” 00:05:21.339 --> 00:05:32.339 So I started to lift my veil from my neck, and he hit my leg with a saddlebag. I said to him, “Do you see anyone?” 00:05:32.339 --> 00:05:43.339 The meaning is that he hits her leg with a whip, stick, or something else when her veil reveals her neck out of jealousy for her 00:05:43.339 --> 00:05:52.339 So she says to him, “Do you see anyone?” That is, we are in the middle of nowhere, and there is no foreigner here that I can hide from 00:05:52.339 --> 00:05:59.720 This is the Companion’s jealousy over his mahrams in the desert and at night when no one is there 00:05:59.720 --> 00:06:11.750 So what about some men today who allow their wives, daughters, and mahrams to reveal their bodies in front of the eyes of all people? 00:06:11.750 --> 00:06:22.939 So, my sister, be aware of the need for your guardian or your husband to be jealous during Hajj, so do not do things that arouse his jealousy, even if they are permissible. 00:06:22.939 --> 00:06:29.939 A man's jealousy is something to be thanked for, and it is a sign of his manhood 00:06:29.939 --> 00:06:38.009 You should also tolerate any anger or raising your voice because of his jealousy over you 00:06:38.009 --> 00:06:45.860 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, performed Umrah from Tan’eem 00:06:45.860 --> 00:06:57.050 When our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, arrived at Tan’im, she performed the ihram for Umrah alone, and her brother Abdul Rahman did not perform the ihram for Umrah. 00:06:57.050 --> 00:07:03.050 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says, “Until we came to Tan’im.” 00:07:03.050 --> 00:07:12.050 So she performed the Umrah from it as a recompense for the Umrah of the people who had performed Umrah, then she circumambulated the House, Safa, and Marwah. 00:07:12.050 --> 00:07:23.110 Then she cut her hair, thus ending her Umrah. She came out of ihram and returned to her lover with a good soul 00:07:23.110 --> 00:07:26.110 She had fulfilled her wish 00:07:26.110 --> 00:07:34.339 This Umrah was performed by our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, after all the Hajj activities were completed 00:07:34.339 --> 00:07:41.339 The days of Tashreeq ended, as our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, told us 00:07:41.339 --> 00:07:51.339 She said, “When we had completed the Hajj, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent me with Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr to al-Tan’im.” 00:07:51.339 --> 00:07:56.339 So I performed Umrah and he said, “This is the place for your Umrah.” 00:07:56.339 --> 00:08:01.660 When our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, completed her Umrah rituals 00:08:01.660 --> 00:08:05.660 I returned to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:05.660 --> 00:08:12.660 He had dated her and specified the place for her by saying, “Then we will come to such and such a place.” 00:08:12.660 --> 00:08:18.689 This place he referred to is Al-Muhasab, which is at the top of Mecca 00:08:19.689 --> 00:08:22.720 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 00:08:22.720 --> 00:08:29.720 Then I went out with him with the other group until Al-Muhasab came down and we went down with him 00:08:29.720 --> 00:08:32.720 So he called Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr and said 00:08:32.720 --> 00:08:35.720 Take your sister out of the sanctuary 00:08:35.720 --> 00:08:38.720 Let him perform Umrah and then finish 00:08:38.720 --> 00:08:40.720 Then bring her here 00:08:40.720 --> 00:08:44.720 I will wait until you come to me 00:08:45.720 --> 00:08:51.720 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, waited for her at the top of Mecca until she came 00:08:51.720 --> 00:08:55.720 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:08:55.720 --> 00:09:02.720 Then we continued until we reached the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, who was suffering from measles 00:09:02.720 --> 00:09:10.980 The time for our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, to return from Umrah was the end of the night, the time of dawn 00:09:10.980 --> 00:09:21.039 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says: Then I brought him magic, and he said: Have you finished? So I said yes 00:09:21.039 --> 00:09:30.100 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, waited for it without boredom, and when it arrived, it was a beautiful statement 00:09:30.100 --> 00:09:37.100 Are you done? He did not say you were late, nor did he express any boredom about her going to Umrah 00:09:37.100 --> 00:09:46.100 Rather, he showed apparent love for her, and in fact, may God bless him and grant him peace, he increased her beautiful morals and good interactions with her. 00:09:46.100 --> 00:09:54.100 If he said to her, “This is the place of your Umrah” to make her happy and reassure herself 00:09:54.100 --> 00:10:01.100 Because she only asked for Umrah to be equal to those of her wives and companions who performed Umrah 00:10:01.100 --> 00:10:05.100 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, reassured her by saying: 00:10:05.100 --> 00:10:10.100 This is the place of your Umrah, i.e. in compensation for your previous Umrah