1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,200 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:09,490 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 3 00:00:09,490 --> 00:00:13,810 Women understand women's cunning 4 00:00:13,810 --> 00:00:18,929 After the dear woman reached the saying of women 5 00:00:18,929 --> 00:00:25,160 A dear woman tells her boy about himself because he has fallen in love with her 6 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,960 We see it in clear error 7 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,119 I realized the meaning of this statement 8 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:37,320 We only said this out of deceit, not to encourage it 9 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:41,409 So I met his deceiver with greater cunning than him 10 00:00:41,409 --> 00:00:48,210 When I heard about their deception, I sent for them 11 00:00:48,210 --> 00:00:56,609 And I made a place for them to recliner 12 00:00:56,609 --> 00:01:09,299 Each of them brought a knife 13 00:01:09,299 --> 00:01:13,000 She said he left them 14 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:17,859 When they saw him, they enlarged him 15 00:01:17,859 --> 00:01:20,659 They cut off their hands 16 00:01:20,659 --> 00:01:26,060 And they said, God forbid 17 00:01:26,060 --> 00:01:30,659 What a human being 18 00:01:30,659 --> 00:01:37,739 This is nothing but a generous king 19 00:01:37,739 --> 00:01:42,540 This verse indicates that it was the nature of society at that time 20 00:01:42,540 --> 00:01:47,140 Passing on people’s conversations in councils and what goes on in them 21 00:01:47,140 --> 00:01:49,540 It is a bad trait 22 00:01:49,540 --> 00:01:54,140 The transmission of hadith between people is not free of additions and distortions 23 00:01:54,140 --> 00:01:58,870 And changing the meaning and carrying it to the worst bearings 24 00:01:58,870 --> 00:02:03,069 This stems from the quality of society's culture 25 00:02:03,069 --> 00:02:06,269 If society is busy with trivial matters 26 00:02:06,269 --> 00:02:10,069 He fell into such bad ethics 27 00:02:10,069 --> 00:02:16,590 He became concerned only with delving into people's honor and pondering their backbiting 28 00:02:16,590 --> 00:02:21,389 And you, my sister, are an example in the story of the dear woman and the other women 29 00:02:21,389 --> 00:02:28,389 They transmitted the hadith related to Al-Aziz’s wife courting Joseph, peace be upon him 30 00:02:28,389 --> 00:02:31,990 Such councils are not suitable for you 31 00:02:31,990 --> 00:02:35,789 You must choose the councils you attend 32 00:02:35,789 --> 00:02:38,789 Choose who you sit with 33 00:02:38,789 --> 00:02:43,590 So that one day it will not be the talk of councils 34 00:02:43,590 --> 00:02:49,419 And so that the secrets of your home do not spread through this bad company 35 00:02:49,620 --> 00:02:54,419 There is a certain good for you in the will of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 36 00:02:54,419 --> 00:02:59,020 When he said, “Do not keep company with anyone but a believer.” 37 00:02:59,020 --> 00:03:02,419 Only a pious person will eat your food 38 00:03:02,419 --> 00:03:04,550 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 39 00:03:04,550 --> 00:03:09,550 Companionship outside the home should be with believing women 40 00:03:09,550 --> 00:03:14,550 If you want her to enter your home and inform her of your privacy 41 00:03:14,550 --> 00:03:17,810 Make sure of her piety 42 00:03:17,810 --> 00:03:21,810 The story of Youssef with Al-Aziz’s wife in this second scene 43 00:03:21,810 --> 00:03:25,810 We note this issue clearly 44 00:03:25,810 --> 00:03:30,810 The news that was to be kept secret spread throughout the community 45 00:03:30,810 --> 00:03:35,810 It became on people's tongues and in their private and public gatherings 46 00:03:35,810 --> 00:03:40,810 Even the women who spoke to us about the news and commented on it 47 00:03:40,810 --> 00:03:44,810 Their words soon reached the dear woman 48 00:03:44,810 --> 00:03:47,030 And I understood what it meant 49 00:03:47,030 --> 00:03:50,030 What did we mean by this statement? 50 00:03:50,030 --> 00:03:57,030 Women in Medina said that Al-Aziz’s wife was seducing her boy about himself 51 00:03:57,030 --> 00:03:59,030 She was passionate about love 52 00:03:59,030 --> 00:04:03,030 We see it in clear error 53 00:04:03,030 --> 00:04:06,349 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 54 00:04:06,349 --> 00:04:11,449 And we said this out of denial of evil and hatred of vice 55 00:04:11,449 --> 00:04:15,449 Nor for the love of goodness and the support of virtue 56 00:04:15,449 --> 00:04:18,449 But we said it out of deception and trickery 57 00:04:18,449 --> 00:04:22,449 To reach her and force her to invite them 58 00:04:22,449 --> 00:04:25,449 And their views with their seeing eyes 59 00:04:25,449 --> 00:04:30,449 What invalidates what they claim to see with the eyes of their seeing 60 00:04:30,449 --> 00:04:33,449 So they excuse her for what they humiliated her for 61 00:04:33,449 --> 00:04:36,449 It is deception, not opinion 62 00:04:36,449 --> 00:04:38,670 When I heard about their deception 63 00:04:38,670 --> 00:04:43,670 It was expected that you would hear it from a frequenter among these houses 64 00:04:43,670 --> 00:04:45,670 From communication visits 65 00:04:45,670 --> 00:04:49,670 The servants differ from each to the other 66 00:04:49,670 --> 00:04:52,670 And they said it only so that you could hear it 67 00:04:52,670 --> 00:04:55,699 If he does not reach it, pardon 68 00:04:55,699 --> 00:04:58,699 They were intentional about delivering it 69 00:04:58,699 --> 00:05:00,699 It was what we wanted 70 00:05:00,699 --> 00:05:06,120 They had bad intentions with what they said 71 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,120 They wanted to see the beautiful boy 72 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,120 Which the dear woman was passionate about 73 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:16,279 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 74 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:20,339 But what they said was what they said about that 75 00:05:20,339 --> 00:05:25,339 And she told them what they told about her and Joseph 76 00:05:25,339 --> 00:05:28,339 They are more devious than they mentioned 77 00:05:28,339 --> 00:05:30,339 To show them to Joseph 78 00:05:30,339 --> 00:05:32,500 They are so cunning 79 00:05:32,500 --> 00:05:34,500 They didn't just want to see 80 00:05:34,500 --> 00:05:37,500 But they wanted something more than that 81 00:05:37,500 --> 00:05:41,500 The verses that follow this verse indicate this 82 00:05:41,500 --> 00:05:45,500 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, explained it by saying: 83 00:05:45,500 --> 00:05:48,500 Perhaps they are aiming for them 84 00:05:48,500 --> 00:05:52,500 He is attracted by their unexpected beauty 85 00:05:52,500 --> 00:05:57,500 He was not attracted by her beauty, which he had become accustomed to before he reached his peak 86 00:05:57,500 --> 00:06:01,500 His look at her was the way a slave looked at his mistress 87 00:06:01,500 --> 00:06:04,500 Or the boy to his mother 88 00:06:04,500 --> 00:06:09,629 It was presented in the surah with the most creative form of brevity and eloquence 89 00:06:09,629 --> 00:06:12,629 The highest expression of politeness and integrity 90 00:06:12,629 --> 00:06:17,139 I understood the dear woman from what they said 91 00:06:17,139 --> 00:06:20,139 It's not just a saying 92 00:06:20,139 --> 00:06:24,139 Rather, it was cunning on their part to achieve Joseph’s vision 93 00:06:24,139 --> 00:06:29,139 Even the Qur’anic expression indicates her quick understanding of his deception 94 00:06:29,139 --> 00:06:31,139 And He said, Glory be to Him 95 00:06:31,139 --> 00:06:34,370 When I heard about their deception 96 00:06:34,370 --> 00:06:36,370 And deception is not heard 97 00:06:36,370 --> 00:06:38,370 He only hears what you say 98 00:06:38,370 --> 00:06:43,370 But she did not understand what was meant immediately after hearing it 99 00:06:43,370 --> 00:06:47,370 God Almighty expressed it by her hearing what was meant 100 00:06:47,370 --> 00:06:49,370 And not just for words 101 00:06:49,370 --> 00:06:55,370 This is because women are more capable than men of understanding women’s cunning and plotting 102 00:06:55,370 --> 00:07:03,370 Therefore, a woman becomes quickly sensitive to any communication between her husband and the women around him 103 00:07:03,370 --> 00:07:06,370 Because she understands women's plots more than him 104 00:07:06,370 --> 00:07:10,370 She fears that he will fall into their schemes and schemes 105 00:07:10,370 --> 00:07:13,370 So they reach for them and he leaves her 106 00:07:13,370 --> 00:07:18,430 Al-Aziz’s wife responded to the women’s deception with greater deception than his own 107 00:07:18,430 --> 00:07:21,500 When I heard about their deception 108 00:07:21,500 --> 00:07:25,500 I sent for them and prepared a place for them 109 00:07:25,500 --> 00:07:28,500 Each of them brought a knife 110 00:07:28,500 --> 00:07:31,500 He said he would leave them 111 00:07:31,500 --> 00:07:35,589 When they saw him, they made him arrogant and cut off their hands 112 00:07:36,589 --> 00:07:40,589 They said, God forbid, this is not human 113 00:07:40,589 --> 00:07:43,589 This is nothing but a generous king 114 00:07:43,589 --> 00:07:46,819 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 115 00:07:46,819 --> 00:07:48,819 sent to them 116 00:07:48,819 --> 00:07:52,819 That is, she invited them to her house to host them 117 00:07:52,819 --> 00:07:55,980 And I prepared a place for them 118 00:07:55,980 --> 00:07:59,980 Ibn Abbas and Saeed Ibn Jubair and Mujahid said 119 00:07:59,980 --> 00:08:02,980 Al-Hasan, Al-Sadi and others 120 00:08:02,980 --> 00:08:05,980 It is a gathering in which there is a bed and beds prepared 121 00:08:05,980 --> 00:08:08,980 And the food in them is cut with knives 122 00:08:08,980 --> 00:08:11,980 From Atraj and the like 123 00:08:11,980 --> 00:08:14,980 That is why God Almighty said 124 00:08:14,980 --> 00:08:17,980 Each of them brought a knife 125 00:08:17,980 --> 00:08:21,009 This was a plot on her part 126 00:08:21,009 --> 00:08:25,009 And to meet them in their deception to see him 127 00:08:25,009 --> 00:08:28,300 He said he would leave them 128 00:08:28,300 --> 00:08:32,299 This is because she had hidden it somewhere else 129 00:08:32,299 --> 00:08:36,299 When he came out and we saw him, they enlarged him 130 00:08:36,299 --> 00:08:38,299 That is, the greatest of it 131 00:08:38,299 --> 00:08:41,299 That is, the greatest of his status and the most venerable of his destiny 132 00:08:41,299 --> 00:08:45,299 They started cutting off their hands in amazement at seeing him 133 00:08:45,299 --> 00:08:50,299 They think they are cutting the citron with knives 134 00:08:50,299 --> 00:08:54,299 What is meant is that they cut their hands with it 135 00:08:54,299 --> 00:08:58,360 It was the result of the deceit of Mirror Al-Aziz with women 136 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,360 They cut off their hands without realizing it 137 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:07,360 From the greatness of what we saw of the beauty of Joseph, peace be upon him 138 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:11,620 This is a picture of the gatherings of wealthy women 139 00:09:11,620 --> 00:09:15,620 What goes on in them and what occupies their minds 140 00:09:15,620 --> 00:09:20,620 These are the conditions of women who turn away from the remembrance of God 141 00:09:20,620 --> 00:09:23,620 They indulge in worldly pleasures 142 00:09:23,620 --> 00:09:27,620 They only care about talking about women's symptoms 143 00:09:27,620 --> 00:09:30,620 And plotting against each other 144 00:09:30,620 --> 00:09:33,620 Competition over issues of beauty, adornment, and luxury 145 00:09:33,620 --> 00:09:36,620 They are in daily battles 146 00:09:36,620 --> 00:09:40,620 It brings them nothing but grief and remorse 147 00:09:40,620 --> 00:09:44,840 And dissatisfaction with what God has divided for them 148 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,840 Praise be to God who distinguished the believer by her faith 149 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,840 He praised her for her goodness and the nature of her work 150 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,940 And He said, Glory be to Him 151 00:09:54,940 --> 00:10:00,940 The righteous women are obedient and protect the unseen with what God has preserved 152 00:10:00,940 --> 00:10:02,940 For the rest of the talk 153 00:10:02,940 --> 00:10:06,940 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 154 00:10:06,940 --> 00:10:12,960 The story of Joseph and Al-Aziz’s wife