In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
With thorn pens
And the ink of love
We write letters more precious than gold
In describing the master of creation
May God bless him and grant him peace
Shamail Muhammadiyah
Chapter on what was mentioned regarding the nature of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Joking is flattery, sociability, and caress
Its goal is to bring joy to souls
Increase familiarity and love
And other great meanings
That is why the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to flirt with his companions
He jokes with them as much as necessary
He only says the truth
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him
That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him
Oh, the ears
Abu Osama said
He is one of the narrators
I mean, he's joking with him
In this hadith
That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, joked
He said to him, O one with ears
This is a joke that does not involve lying
Every human being has two ears
He is honest in describing him as such
It is also not forbidden for it to be in this word
A kind of praise and praise for Anas, may God be pleased with him
Meaning he has ears
He hears and obeys
He is aware of what is being said to him
Then Anas, may God be pleased with him
The servant of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not prevent this
Who joked with him?
While some people refuse to joke with their servant or driver
He believes that this reduces his position and status
This is contrary to the guidance of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Contrary to what is required of humility that a Muslim should have
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said:
If the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
To mingle with us
Until he tells my brother that I am young
Oh Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
Abu Issa said
According to the jurisprudence of this hadith
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was joking
And in it, we were a little boy
He said to him: O Abu Umair
It indicates that there is nothing wrong with giving a boy a bird to play with
Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him
Oh Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
Because he had a stranger to play with
So he died
The boy was sad for him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, joked with him and said
Oh Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
In this hadith
Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, tells us
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to mix with them
One of the meanings of mixing
Kidding
Meaning that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was joking with them
He even told Anas' little brother
Oh Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
Abu Umair is Anas’ maternal brother
He had a little bird to play with
He is called Al-Naghir
It is a bird that resembles a sparrow
Red-billed
Then Abu Umair’s bird died
So he felt sad for him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to console him and relieve him of sadness
He told him teasingly
Oh Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
It is of complete benefit
Anas's maternal brother, whom the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, called Abu Umair
His name is Hafs
He died during the lifetime of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
It is mentioned in the famous story of Abu Talha
Which is in the two Sahihs
In it, a son complained to Abu Talha
He died while Abu Talha was leaving
When his wife saw that he had died
I prepared something and carved it into the side of the house
When Abu Talha came
He said: How is the boy?
She said he had calmed himself down
I hope he has rested
Abu Talha thought she was telling the truth
He said, so he spent the night
When morning came, he took a bath
When he wanted to leave
I informed him that he was dead
Pray with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Then he told the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Whatever they were
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
May God bless you both on your night
A man from the Ansar said
I saw that they had nine children
All of them have read the Qur’an
Al-Hafiz, may God have mercy on him, said
His saying: Ibn complained to Abu Talha
The aforementioned son is Abu Umair
Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to joke with
And he says to him, Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
In the hadith, it is permissible for minors to use the takniyah
This is not a lie
It is permissible to play with birds
If there is no harm or harm to it
It contains an explanation of the humility of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And the perfection of his creation
And his affection for the little ones
And his companionship with them
And bring joy to their hearts
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
They said, O Messenger of God, you are playing with us
He said yes, but I am only saying the truth
In this hadith
The Companions, may God be pleased with them, said
O Messenger of God, you are playing with us
That is, we were kidding
The reason for this astonishment and question
Either because they ruled out the occurrence of a joke on him, may God bless him and grant him peace
His position is great and his rank is great
It is as if they asked him about his wisdom
Or their question is about this foreplay
Is it one of his properties that they do not speak of?
He explained to them that it was not one of his properties
Its permissibility depends on telling the truth
And he said, “I only speak the truth.”
That is, fair and honest
In the hadith, it is permissible to joke and flirt
Rather, it may be a Sunnah if it is intended to unite hearts and do good
It was not obscene
It was said to Ibn Uyaynah
The joke cursed him
He said, “Rather, it is a Sunnah for those who do it well.”
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him
A man asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to bear
He said, “I am giving you birth to a camel’s son.”
He said, O Messenger of God, what should I do with the child of a camel?
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Do camels give birth except camels?
In this hadith
A man asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to bear
That is, he asked him to carry him on an animal
That is, he gives him an animal to ride
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him
I am giving you a camel son
He told him that as a joke
The man understood that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He will give him a young camel boy
Unrideable
He said, “What should I do with a camel’s son?”
That is, how can I ride it?
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Do camels give birth except camels?
The male camel is used to refer to both young and old
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted
To give him camels that are ready for riding
But he caressed him before that
Such gentle caress
And in the conversation, in addition to his joking
May God bless him and grant him peace
Referring to his guidance and the guidance of others
It is necessary for anyone who hears a word
To contemplate it and not hasten to reject it
Before he understood what it meant
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him
His name was Zahira
He used to guide the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
A gift from the desert
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Zahra is our beginning
We are present
May God bless him and grant him peace, he loved him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to him one day while he was selling his goods, so he hugged him from behind him while he was not seeing him. He said, “Who is this person who sent me?” He turned around and recognized the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace.
So he began not to care about what stuck his back to the chest of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he recognized him
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, began to say, “Who will buy this slave?” He said, “O Messenger of God, then, by God, you will find me miserable.”
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “But with God, you are not weak.” Or he said, “You are precious with God.”
In this hadith, a man from the desert named Zahir used to come to Medina
He gives the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, a gift of things found among the people of the desert, such as aqaq, ghee, and the like
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was preparing to reward him with a better gift if he wanted to go out to his desert.
May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he used to say that Zahir is our desert and we are present with him, so the one in the desert needs the one in the metropolis.
The one in the present needs the one in the desert, each complementing the other with what God Almighty has pleased for him
And his statement, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, loved him and he was a dirty man, meaning ugly in appearance, but good-natured
It is a warning that the focus is on the goodness of the inner being, and this is why it was stated in the authentic hadith: God does not look at your images and your money
But he looks at your hearts and your deeds. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to him one day while he was selling his goods
So he hugged him from behind him while he was not seeing him, that is, he came to him from behind him, and put his hands under his armpits, and brought him into his lap, and hugged him to his chest.
He did not see who was holding him and did not know who it was, so he said, “Who sent me?” meaning he left me
He turned around and recognized the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and he rejoiced with great joy at him, so he did not turn away, that is, he did not hesitate to press his back to the chest of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace.
To seek blessings from him and to gain closeness to him, the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, began to say, “Who will buy this servant?” This is one of his jokes, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him.
In which he only says the truth, as the servant called it because all people are servants of God Almighty
He said, “It is apparent, O Messenger of God, then, by God, you find me lazy, i.e., cheap and not interested in anyone because of my ugliness and ugly appearance.”
The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said, “But in the eyes of God you are not weak, or you are in the sight of God, exalted because you are a believer with a good disposition.”
In the hadith, it is permissible to flirt with anyone who is known to accept that, and it is not wise to flirt and joke with all people
People have different natures and different morals. Some of them are frowning and do not accept jokes, and some of them are average
Among them were many, so each treatment was special. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, knew that Zahir loved to joke and joke, so he used to joke with him.
On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God be pleased with him, he said: An old woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said, “O Messenger of God, I pray to God to admit me to Paradise.”
He said, “O mother of so-and-so, an old woman will not enter Paradise.” He said, “Folt is crying,” so he said, “Tell her that she will not enter it when she is old.”
God Almighty says: We created them, if He willed, and made them virgins, Arabs and equals
In this hadith, an old woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and the old woman, who was an old woman, came to him asking him to pray to God for her to enter Paradise.
So he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, told her that an old woman will not enter Paradise. She started crying, meaning she went away crying. So, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he said, “Tell her that she will not enter it when she is old.”
That is, she will not enter Paradise when she is old, but rather she will enter it when she is young. It was mentioned in the Musnad on the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said:
The people of Paradise will enter Paradise naked, clean, white, wrinkled, and wearing kohl, thirty-three years old
And he said, “God Almighty says, ‘Indeed, We created them, if He willed, and made them virgins, Arabs, equal to each other.’”
Ibn Katheer said, meaning, We brought them back in the afterlife after they were old and gray. We became Arab virgins.
That is, after the maidens, we were returned to being Arab virgins, that is, endearing to their husbands with sweetness, kindness, and kindness.
Arabs are the plural of Arab, which is a beautiful woman who is beloved to her husband, and the same age is thirty-three years
She is the fullest age of youth, so their women are Arabs of similar age, agreeing, united, content and satisfactory, neither sad nor distressed.
Rather, they are the joys of the souls, the joy of the eyes, the brightening of the eyes, and the benefit of joking from the Sunnah of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
It is legitimate entertainment and good affection with which the group relaxes itself, so the spirit of love, kindness and affection prevails among Muslims.
The depression and the feeling of ennui and boredom disappear, but one should be careful not to eat too much of it because of the bad consequences it may cause
Because a lot of it leads to a lot of laughter, as the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Do not laugh too much, because too much laughter kills the heart
Joking should be like salt in food, neither too much nor too little to spoil the food
Likewise, a person should be in the middle, not accepting it completely and not turning away from it completely
And to avoid insulting and mocking others
He should only say the truth when joking and avoid lying
Because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “Woe to the one who speaks and lies to make the people laugh, woe to him, woe to him.”
He should also avoid intimidating a Muslim, even by joking
He, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said: It is not permissible for a Muslim to terrorize another Muslim
And he, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said: “None of you should take his friend’s belongings seriously or playfully.”
The same applies to any joke that involves a violation of Sharia law or is a means to it
Or it results in harming a Muslim by word, deed, or otherwise
It's all forbidden joking
Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said
The scholars said that joking that is prohibited is one that is excessive and is continued in it
It causes laughter and hardness of heart
It distracts from the remembrance of God Almighty and the thought of religious tasks
He says many times to hurt
He inherits hatred and loses respect and dignity
As for what is safe from these matters
It is permissible, which the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to do
The rest of the hadith, God willing, and God knows best
May God’s blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad
And upon all his family and companions