WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.139 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:07.139 --> 00:00:09.199 With thorn pens 00:00:09.199 --> 00:00:11.779 And the ink of love 00:00:11.779 --> 00:00:15.900 We write letters more precious than gold 00:00:15.900 --> 00:00:17.899 In describing the master of creation 00:00:17.899 --> 00:00:20.899 May God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:20.899 --> 00:00:30.760 Shamail Muhammadiyah 00:00:30.760 --> 00:00:38.170 Chapter on what was mentioned regarding the nature of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:38.170 --> 00:00:43.200 Joking is flattery, sociability, and caress 00:00:43.200 --> 00:00:46.200 Its goal is to bring joy to souls 00:00:46.200 --> 00:00:49.200 Increase familiarity and love 00:00:49.200 --> 00:00:52.200 And other great meanings 00:00:52.200 --> 00:00:57.200 That is why the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to flirt with his companions 00:00:57.200 --> 00:00:59.200 He jokes with them as much as necessary 00:00:59.200 --> 00:01:04.019 He only says the truth 00:01:04.019 --> 00:01:07.019 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him 00:01:07.019 --> 00:01:10.019 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him 00:01:10.019 --> 00:01:12.019 Oh, the ears 00:01:12.019 --> 00:01:14.019 Abu Osama said 00:01:14.019 --> 00:01:16.019 He is one of the narrators 00:01:16.019 --> 00:01:19.689 I mean, he's joking with him 00:01:19.689 --> 00:01:21.689 In this hadith 00:01:21.689 --> 00:01:23.689 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:23.689 --> 00:01:26.689 Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, joked 00:01:26.689 --> 00:01:29.689 He said to him, O one with ears 00:01:29.689 --> 00:01:32.689 This is a joke that does not involve lying 00:01:32.689 --> 00:01:35.689 Every human being has two ears 00:01:35.689 --> 00:01:38.689 He is honest in describing him as such 00:01:38.689 --> 00:01:42.849 It is also not forbidden for it to be in this word 00:01:42.849 --> 00:01:46.849 A kind of praise and praise for Anas, may God be pleased with him 00:01:46.849 --> 00:01:48.849 Meaning he has ears 00:01:48.849 --> 00:01:50.849 He hears and obeys 00:01:50.849 --> 00:01:52.849 He is aware of what is being said to him 00:01:52.849 --> 00:01:56.010 Then Anas, may God be pleased with him 00:01:56.010 --> 00:01:59.010 The servant of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:59.010 --> 00:02:03.010 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not prevent this 00:02:03.010 --> 00:02:05.010 Who joked with him? 00:02:05.010 --> 00:02:10.009 While some people refuse to joke with their servant or driver 00:02:10.009 --> 00:02:14.009 He believes that this reduces his position and status 00:02:14.009 --> 00:02:18.009 This is contrary to the guidance of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:18.009 --> 00:02:24.009 Contrary to what is required of humility that a Muslim should have 00:02:24.009 --> 00:02:29.219 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:02:29.219 --> 00:02:33.219 If the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:33.219 --> 00:02:35.219 To mingle with us 00:02:35.219 --> 00:02:38.219 Until he tells my brother that I am young 00:02:38.219 --> 00:02:40.219 Oh Abu Umair 00:02:40.219 --> 00:02:42.219 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:02:42.219 --> 00:02:44.479 Abu Issa said 00:02:44.479 --> 00:02:46.479 According to the jurisprudence of this hadith 00:02:46.479 --> 00:02:50.479 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was joking 00:02:50.479 --> 00:02:53.479 And in it, we were a little boy 00:02:53.479 --> 00:02:56.479 He said to him: O Abu Umair 00:02:56.479 --> 00:03:01.479 It indicates that there is nothing wrong with giving a boy a bird to play with 00:03:01.479 --> 00:03:05.580 Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him 00:03:05.580 --> 00:03:07.580 Oh Abu Umair 00:03:07.580 --> 00:03:09.580 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:03:09.580 --> 00:03:12.580 Because he had a stranger to play with 00:03:12.580 --> 00:03:13.580 So he died 00:03:13.580 --> 00:03:15.580 The boy was sad for him 00:03:15.580 --> 00:03:19.580 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, joked with him and said 00:03:19.580 --> 00:03:21.580 Oh Abu Umair 00:03:21.580 --> 00:03:25.210 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:03:25.210 --> 00:03:27.210 In this hadith 00:03:27.210 --> 00:03:30.210 Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, tells us 00:03:30.210 --> 00:03:34.210 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to mix with them 00:03:34.210 --> 00:03:36.210 One of the meanings of mixing 00:03:36.210 --> 00:03:38.210 Kidding 00:03:38.210 --> 00:03:43.210 Meaning that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was joking with them 00:03:43.210 --> 00:03:47.210 He even told Anas' little brother 00:03:47.210 --> 00:03:49.210 Oh Abu Umair 00:03:49.210 --> 00:03:51.210 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:03:51.210 --> 00:03:54.210 Abu Umair is Anas’ maternal brother 00:03:54.210 --> 00:03:57.210 He had a little bird to play with 00:03:57.210 --> 00:03:59.210 He is called Al-Naghir 00:03:59.210 --> 00:04:01.210 It is a bird that resembles a sparrow 00:04:01.210 --> 00:04:03.210 Red-billed 00:04:03.210 --> 00:04:05.240 Then Abu Umair’s bird died 00:04:05.240 --> 00:04:07.240 So he felt sad for him 00:04:07.240 --> 00:04:13.240 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to console him and relieve him of sadness 00:04:13.240 --> 00:04:16.240 He told him teasingly 00:04:16.240 --> 00:04:18.240 Oh Abu Umair 00:04:18.240 --> 00:04:20.240 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:04:20.240 --> 00:04:22.300 It is of complete benefit 00:04:22.300 --> 00:04:28.300 Anas's maternal brother, whom the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, called Abu Umair 00:04:28.300 --> 00:04:30.300 His name is Hafs 00:04:30.300 --> 00:04:34.300 He died during the lifetime of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:34.300 --> 00:04:38.300 It is mentioned in the famous story of Abu Talha 00:04:38.300 --> 00:04:40.300 Which is in the two Sahihs 00:04:40.300 --> 00:04:44.300 In it, a son complained to Abu Talha 00:04:44.300 --> 00:04:47.300 He died while Abu Talha was leaving 00:04:47.300 --> 00:04:50.300 When his wife saw that he had died 00:04:50.300 --> 00:04:54.300 I prepared something and carved it into the side of the house 00:04:54.300 --> 00:04:56.300 When Abu Talha came 00:04:57.300 --> 00:04:59.300 He said: How is the boy? 00:04:59.300 --> 00:05:02.300 She said he had calmed himself down 00:05:02.300 --> 00:05:05.300 I hope he has rested 00:05:05.300 --> 00:05:08.300 Abu Talha thought she was telling the truth 00:05:08.300 --> 00:05:10.300 He said, so he spent the night 00:05:10.300 --> 00:05:13.300 When morning came, he took a bath 00:05:13.300 --> 00:05:15.300 When he wanted to leave 00:05:15.300 --> 00:05:18.300 I informed him that he was dead 00:05:18.300 --> 00:05:21.300 Pray with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:21.300 --> 00:05:24.300 Then he told the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:24.300 --> 00:05:26.300 Whatever they were 00:05:26.300 --> 00:05:30.300 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:30.300 --> 00:05:34.300 May God bless you both on your night 00:05:34.300 --> 00:05:37.300 A man from the Ansar said 00:05:37.300 --> 00:05:39.300 I saw that they had nine children 00:05:39.300 --> 00:05:42.300 All of them have read the Qur’an 00:05:42.300 --> 00:05:45.500 Al-Hafiz, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:45.500 --> 00:05:48.500 His saying: Ibn complained to Abu Talha 00:05:48.500 --> 00:05:51.500 The aforementioned son is Abu Umair 00:05:51.500 --> 00:05:55.500 Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to joke with 00:05:55.500 --> 00:05:58.500 And he says to him, Abu Umair 00:05:58.500 --> 00:06:00.500 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:06:00.500 --> 00:06:03.529 In the hadith, it is permissible for minors to use the takniyah 00:06:03.529 --> 00:06:06.529 This is not a lie 00:06:06.529 --> 00:06:08.529 It is permissible to play with birds 00:06:08.529 --> 00:06:12.529 If there is no harm or harm to it 00:06:12.529 --> 00:06:16.529 It contains an explanation of the humility of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:16.529 --> 00:06:18.529 And the perfection of his creation 00:06:18.529 --> 00:06:20.529 And his affection for the little ones 00:06:20.529 --> 00:06:22.529 And his companionship with them 00:06:22.529 --> 00:06:25.529 And bring joy to their hearts 00:06:25.529 --> 00:06:30.709 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:06:30.709 --> 00:06:35.709 They said, O Messenger of God, you are playing with us 00:06:35.709 --> 00:06:40.709 He said yes, but I am only saying the truth 00:06:40.709 --> 00:06:44.470 In this hadith 00:06:44.470 --> 00:06:47.470 The Companions, may God be pleased with them, said 00:06:47.470 --> 00:06:50.470 O Messenger of God, you are playing with us 00:06:50.470 --> 00:06:52.470 That is, we were kidding 00:06:52.470 --> 00:06:55.470 The reason for this astonishment and question 00:06:55.470 --> 00:07:00.470 Either because they ruled out the occurrence of a joke on him, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:00.470 --> 00:07:03.470 His position is great and his rank is great 00:07:03.470 --> 00:07:06.470 It is as if they asked him about his wisdom 00:07:06.470 --> 00:07:10.470 Or their question is about this foreplay 00:07:10.470 --> 00:07:14.470 Is it one of his properties that they do not speak of? 00:07:14.470 --> 00:07:17.470 He explained to them that it was not one of his properties 00:07:17.470 --> 00:07:21.470 Its permissibility depends on telling the truth 00:07:21.470 --> 00:07:25.470 And he said, “I only speak the truth.” 00:07:25.470 --> 00:07:27.470 That is, fair and honest 00:07:27.470 --> 00:07:31.470 In the hadith, it is permissible to joke and flirt 00:07:31.470 --> 00:07:36.470 Rather, it may be a Sunnah if it is intended to unite hearts and do good 00:07:36.470 --> 00:07:38.470 It was not obscene 00:07:38.470 --> 00:07:40.569 It was said to Ibn Uyaynah 00:07:40.569 --> 00:07:42.569 The joke cursed him 00:07:42.569 --> 00:07:46.569 He said, “Rather, it is a Sunnah for those who do it well.” 00:07:46.569 --> 00:07:50.910 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him 00:07:50.910 --> 00:07:55.910 A man asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to bear 00:07:55.910 --> 00:08:00.910 He said, “I am giving you birth to a camel’s son.” 00:08:00.910 --> 00:08:05.910 He said, O Messenger of God, what should I do with the child of a camel? 00:08:05.910 --> 00:08:08.910 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:08:08.910 --> 00:08:11.910 Do camels give birth except camels? 00:08:11.910 --> 00:08:15.899 In this hadith 00:08:15.899 --> 00:08:19.899 A man asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to bear 00:08:19.899 --> 00:08:23.899 That is, he asked him to carry him on an animal 00:08:23.899 --> 00:08:26.899 That is, he gives him an animal to ride 00:08:26.899 --> 00:08:30.899 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him 00:08:30.899 --> 00:08:33.899 I am giving you a camel son 00:08:33.899 --> 00:08:36.929 He told him that as a joke 00:08:36.929 --> 00:08:40.929 The man understood that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:40.929 --> 00:08:43.929 He will give him a young camel boy 00:08:43.929 --> 00:08:46.929 Unrideable 00:08:46.929 --> 00:08:49.929 He said, “What should I do with a camel’s son?” 00:08:49.929 --> 00:08:52.929 That is, how can I ride it? 00:08:52.929 --> 00:08:55.929 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:08:55.929 --> 00:08:58.929 Do camels give birth except camels? 00:08:58.929 --> 00:09:02.929 The male camel is used to refer to both young and old 00:09:02.929 --> 00:09:05.929 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted 00:09:05.929 --> 00:09:09.929 To give him camels that are ready for riding 00:09:09.929 --> 00:09:12.929 But he caressed him before that 00:09:12.929 --> 00:09:15.960 Such gentle caress 00:09:15.960 --> 00:09:18.960 And in the conversation, in addition to his joking 00:09:18.960 --> 00:09:21.960 May God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:21.960 --> 00:09:24.960 Referring to his guidance and the guidance of others 00:09:24.960 --> 00:09:27.960 It is necessary for anyone who hears a word 00:09:27.960 --> 00:09:30.960 To contemplate it and not hasten to reject it 00:09:30.960 --> 00:09:35.620 Before he understood what it meant 00:09:35.620 --> 00:09:38.620 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him 00:09:39.620 --> 00:09:41.620 His name was Zahira 00:09:41.620 --> 00:09:44.620 He used to guide the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:44.620 --> 00:09:47.620 A gift from the desert 00:09:53.690 --> 00:09:56.690 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:09:56.690 --> 00:09:59.690 Zahra is our beginning 00:09:59.690 --> 00:10:02.820 We are present 00:10:02.820 --> 00:10:05.820 May God bless him and grant him peace, he loved him 00:10:05.820 --> 00:10:24.820 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to him one day while he was selling his goods, so he hugged him from behind him while he was not seeing him. He said, “Who is this person who sent me?” He turned around and recognized the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace. 00:10:24.820 --> 00:10:31.820 So he began not to care about what stuck his back to the chest of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he recognized him 00:10:31.820 --> 00:10:44.850 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, began to say, “Who will buy this slave?” He said, “O Messenger of God, then, by God, you will find me miserable.” 00:10:44.850 --> 00:10:55.850 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “But with God, you are not weak.” Or he said, “You are precious with God.” 00:10:55.850 --> 00:11:04.669 In this hadith, a man from the desert named Zahir used to come to Medina 00:11:04.669 --> 00:11:15.669 He gives the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, a gift of things found among the people of the desert, such as aqaq, ghee, and the like 00:11:15.669 --> 00:11:25.669 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was preparing to reward him with a better gift if he wanted to go out to his desert. 00:11:25.669 --> 00:11:37.669 May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he used to say that Zahir is our desert and we are present with him, so the one in the desert needs the one in the metropolis. 00:11:37.669 --> 00:11:47.669 The one in the present needs the one in the desert, each complementing the other with what God Almighty has pleased for him 00:11:47.669 --> 00:11:58.899 And his statement, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, loved him and he was a dirty man, meaning ugly in appearance, but good-natured 00:11:58.899 --> 00:12:09.899 It is a warning that the focus is on the goodness of the inner being, and this is why it was stated in the authentic hadith: God does not look at your images and your money 00:12:09.899 --> 00:12:19.090 But he looks at your hearts and your deeds. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to him one day while he was selling his goods 00:12:19.090 --> 00:12:31.090 So he hugged him from behind him while he was not seeing him, that is, he came to him from behind him, and put his hands under his armpits, and brought him into his lap, and hugged him to his chest. 00:12:31.090 --> 00:12:41.090 He did not see who was holding him and did not know who it was, so he said, “Who sent me?” meaning he left me 00:12:41.090 --> 00:12:56.120 He turned around and recognized the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and he rejoiced with great joy at him, so he did not turn away, that is, he did not hesitate to press his back to the chest of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace. 00:12:56.120 --> 00:13:10.120 To seek blessings from him and to gain closeness to him, the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, began to say, “Who will buy this servant?” This is one of his jokes, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him. 00:13:10.120 --> 00:13:20.120 In which he only says the truth, as the servant called it because all people are servants of God Almighty 00:13:20.120 --> 00:13:32.120 He said, “It is apparent, O Messenger of God, then, by God, you find me lazy, i.e., cheap and not interested in anyone because of my ugliness and ugly appearance.” 00:13:32.120 --> 00:13:45.149 The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said, “But in the eyes of God you are not weak, or you are in the sight of God, exalted because you are a believer with a good disposition.” 00:13:45.149 --> 00:13:55.250 In the hadith, it is permissible to flirt with anyone who is known to accept that, and it is not wise to flirt and joke with all people 00:13:55.250 --> 00:14:07.250 People have different natures and different morals. Some of them are frowning and do not accept jokes, and some of them are average 00:14:07.250 --> 00:14:21.250 Among them were many, so each treatment was special. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, knew that Zahir loved to joke and joke, so he used to joke with him. 00:14:21.250 --> 00:14:34.940 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God be pleased with him, he said: An old woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said, “O Messenger of God, I pray to God to admit me to Paradise.” 00:14:34.940 --> 00:14:49.940 He said, “O mother of so-and-so, an old woman will not enter Paradise.” He said, “Folt is crying,” so he said, “Tell her that she will not enter it when she is old.” 00:14:49.940 --> 00:15:03.940 God Almighty says: We created them, if He willed, and made them virgins, Arabs and equals 00:15:03.940 --> 00:15:19.129 In this hadith, an old woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and the old woman, who was an old woman, came to him asking him to pray to God for her to enter Paradise. 00:15:19.129 --> 00:15:37.129 So he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, told her that an old woman will not enter Paradise. She started crying, meaning she went away crying. So, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he said, “Tell her that she will not enter it when she is old.” 00:15:37.129 --> 00:15:52.419 That is, she will not enter Paradise when she is old, but rather she will enter it when she is young. It was mentioned in the Musnad on the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: 00:15:52.419 --> 00:16:04.419 The people of Paradise will enter Paradise naked, clean, white, wrinkled, and wearing kohl, thirty-three years old 00:16:04.419 --> 00:16:17.539 And he said, “God Almighty says, ‘Indeed, We created them, if He willed, and made them virgins, Arabs, equal to each other.’” 00:16:17.539 --> 00:16:27.539 Ibn Katheer said, meaning, We brought them back in the afterlife after they were old and gray. We became Arab virgins. 00:16:27.539 --> 00:16:37.539 That is, after the maidens, we were returned to being Arab virgins, that is, endearing to their husbands with sweetness, kindness, and kindness. 00:16:37.539 --> 00:16:51.610 Arabs are the plural of Arab, which is a beautiful woman who is beloved to her husband, and the same age is thirty-three years 00:16:51.610 --> 00:17:03.610 She is the fullest age of youth, so their women are Arabs of similar age, agreeing, united, content and satisfactory, neither sad nor distressed. 00:17:03.610 --> 00:17:17.980 Rather, they are the joys of the souls, the joy of the eyes, the brightening of the eyes, and the benefit of joking from the Sunnah of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:17:17.980 --> 00:17:29.980 It is legitimate entertainment and good affection with which the group relaxes itself, so the spirit of love, kindness and affection prevails among Muslims. 00:17:29.980 --> 00:17:40.980 The depression and the feeling of ennui and boredom disappear, but one should be careful not to eat too much of it because of the bad consequences it may cause 00:17:40.980 --> 00:17:47.980 Because a lot of it leads to a lot of laughter, as the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:17:47.980 --> 00:17:53.980 Do not laugh too much, because too much laughter kills the heart 00:17:53.980 --> 00:18:03.079 Joking should be like salt in food, neither too much nor too little to spoil the food 00:18:03.079 --> 00:18:13.079 Likewise, a person should be in the middle, not accepting it completely and not turning away from it completely 00:18:13.079 --> 00:18:18.079 And to avoid insulting and mocking others 00:18:18.079 --> 00:18:24.079 He should only say the truth when joking and avoid lying 00:18:24.079 --> 00:18:35.079 Because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “Woe to the one who speaks and lies to make the people laugh, woe to him, woe to him.” 00:18:35.079 --> 00:18:39.109 He should also avoid intimidating a Muslim, even by joking 00:18:39.109 --> 00:18:46.109 He, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said: It is not permissible for a Muslim to terrorize another Muslim 00:18:46.109 --> 00:18:55.109 And he, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said: “None of you should take his friend’s belongings seriously or playfully.” 00:18:55.109 --> 00:19:02.339 The same applies to any joke that involves a violation of Sharia law or is a means to it 00:19:02.339 --> 00:19:07.339 Or it results in harming a Muslim by word, deed, or otherwise 00:19:07.339 --> 00:19:10.339 It's all forbidden joking 00:19:10.339 --> 00:19:13.339 Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:19:13.339 --> 00:19:20.339 The scholars said that joking that is prohibited is one that is excessive and is continued in it 00:19:20.339 --> 00:19:24.339 It causes laughter and hardness of heart 00:19:24.339 --> 00:19:29.339 It distracts from the remembrance of God Almighty and the thought of religious tasks 00:19:29.339 --> 00:19:33.339 He says many times to hurt 00:19:33.339 --> 00:19:38.339 He inherits hatred and loses respect and dignity 00:19:38.339 --> 00:19:41.339 As for what is safe from these matters 00:19:41.339 --> 00:19:47.339 It is permissible, which the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to do 00:19:47.339 --> 00:19:54.029 The rest of the hadith, God willing, and God knows best 00:19:54.029 --> 00:19:57.029 May God’s blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad 00:19:57.029 --> 00:20:01.029 And upon all his family and companions