1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,660 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:04,660 --> 00:00:16,579 Oh Aisha, what makes you cry? 3 00:00:16,579 --> 00:00:22,579 The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his wives are the mothers of the believers 4 00:00:22,579 --> 00:00:26,179 It is the finest treatment between husband and wife 5 00:00:26,179 --> 00:00:30,719 And everyone who wants to learn the art of dealing with spouses 6 00:00:30,719 --> 00:00:36,719 He must study the treatment of our Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wives 7 00:00:36,979 --> 00:00:39,979 This is the ideal for a married couple 8 00:00:39,979 --> 00:00:47,270 One of the beautiful pictures of interaction between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his wife Aisha 9 00:00:47,270 --> 00:00:53,270 What she went through while she was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, during the Farewell Pilgrimage 10 00:00:53,270 --> 00:00:56,299 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 11 00:00:56,299 --> 00:00:58,299 Let us perform Hajj 12 00:00:58,299 --> 00:01:02,399 Even if we are unlucky 13 00:01:02,399 --> 00:01:07,400 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying 14 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:11,400 He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?” 15 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:16,400 I said luck, I wish I had not made Hajj 16 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,400 He said, Glory be to God 17 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:24,400 That is something that God Almighty has decreed for the daughters of Adam 18 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:29,400 Perform all the rituals except not circumambulating the Kaaba 19 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,400 She said: When we entered Mecca 20 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:36,400 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 21 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,400 Whoever wants to make it an Umrah, let him make it an Umrah 22 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,400 Except for the one who has a sacrificial animal with him 23 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:51,400 She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, slaughtered cows on the Day of Sacrifice for his wives 24 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,530 When it was the night of Batha, she became pure 25 00:01:55,530 --> 00:01:58,530 She said, O Messenger of God 26 00:01:58,530 --> 00:02:01,530 I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah 27 00:02:01,530 --> 00:02:04,530 And I come back with an excuse 28 00:02:04,530 --> 00:02:07,530 So Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr ordered 29 00:02:07,530 --> 00:02:11,530 So he took me to Tan'im and stayed for Umrah 30 00:02:11,530 --> 00:02:13,530 Narrated by Ahmed 31 00:02:13,530 --> 00:02:16,590 Our mother was Aisha, may God be pleased with her 32 00:02:16,590 --> 00:02:21,590 You listen to the sermon of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 33 00:02:21,590 --> 00:02:25,590 He urged them to make their ritual a Umrah 34 00:02:25,590 --> 00:02:28,590 But she was surprised when she started menstruating 35 00:02:28,590 --> 00:02:31,590 It is in Sarf, near Mecca 36 00:02:31,590 --> 00:02:35,590 This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah 37 00:02:35,590 --> 00:02:39,590 The time remaining for the Day of Arafah is short 38 00:02:39,590 --> 00:02:41,590 Menstruation has its time 39 00:02:41,590 --> 00:02:44,590 So I met our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 40 00:02:44,590 --> 00:02:47,590 She will not be able to survive 41 00:02:47,590 --> 00:02:51,590 She hears the encouragement of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 42 00:02:51,590 --> 00:02:53,590 By making it a lifetime 43 00:02:53,590 --> 00:02:55,590 So she cried 44 00:02:55,590 --> 00:02:58,590 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her 45 00:02:58,590 --> 00:03:00,590 And she is crying 46 00:03:00,590 --> 00:03:03,590 He did not let her know the secret of her crying 47 00:03:03,590 --> 00:03:04,590 And he said 48 00:03:04,590 --> 00:03:07,590 What makes you cry, Aisha? 49 00:03:07,590 --> 00:03:10,719 Aisha cried when she had her period 50 00:03:10,719 --> 00:03:16,719 It happened because of her distress and sadness over missing out on Umrah 51 00:03:16,719 --> 00:03:20,719 This is why men may not realize it quickly 52 00:03:20,719 --> 00:03:22,719 The man may not care about him 53 00:03:22,719 --> 00:03:27,719 Because he believes that menstruation is a natural thing that happens to every woman 54 00:03:27,719 --> 00:03:29,719 And it is 55 00:03:29,719 --> 00:03:32,719 But the woman may be in a psychological state 56 00:03:32,719 --> 00:03:35,719 Affected by menstruation 57 00:03:35,719 --> 00:03:39,719 Like the woman who is waiting for pregnancy after her marriage and it is delayed 58 00:03:39,719 --> 00:03:42,719 She cries when her period begins 59 00:03:42,719 --> 00:03:44,719 Or for any other reason 60 00:03:44,719 --> 00:03:49,780 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did what Aisha did 61 00:03:49,780 --> 00:03:55,780 Guiding husbands on the art of dealing with women in such situations 62 00:03:55,780 --> 00:03:58,780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied 63 00:03:58,780 --> 00:04:01,780 By asking her why she was crying 64 00:04:01,780 --> 00:04:03,780 Rather, it made it easier for her 65 00:04:03,780 --> 00:04:09,780 Show her that she is not the only one who suffers from this menstruation 66 00:04:09,780 --> 00:04:11,780 Rather, all the daughters of Adam 67 00:04:11,780 --> 00:04:13,780 And he said 68 00:04:13,780 --> 00:04:17,779 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 69 00:04:17,779 --> 00:04:20,779 Al-Qurtubi said it means menstruation 70 00:04:20,779 --> 00:04:22,779 And he wrote it to them 71 00:04:22,779 --> 00:04:24,779 That is, mount them on it 72 00:04:24,779 --> 00:04:26,779 And fix it on them 73 00:04:26,779 --> 00:04:29,779 It comforts and entertains her 74 00:04:29,779 --> 00:04:33,779 It is evidence of his inclination and affection for her 75 00:04:33,779 --> 00:04:36,980 Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said 76 00:04:36,980 --> 00:04:40,980 He decreed it for them and forced them to do so 77 00:04:40,980 --> 00:04:43,980 They are devoted to being patient with him 78 00:04:43,980 --> 00:04:49,100 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed her down with two things 79 00:04:49,100 --> 00:04:55,100 The first is that menstruation is something God has prescribed for women in general 80 00:04:55,100 --> 00:04:58,100 The other is that she is like them 81 00:04:58,100 --> 00:05:01,100 What is happening to them is happening to them 82 00:05:01,100 --> 00:05:08,329 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 83 00:05:08,329 --> 00:05:13,329 Move to another dimension in her psychological soothing 84 00:05:13,329 --> 00:05:18,329 He explained to her that menstruation on a woman in ihram would not harm her 85 00:05:18,329 --> 00:05:21,329 It does not affect her ihram 86 00:05:21,329 --> 00:05:27,329 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her on what to do in this situation 87 00:05:27,329 --> 00:05:29,329 And he said 88 00:05:29,329 --> 00:05:34,329 Perform all the rituals, except that you do not circumambulate the Kaaba 89 00:05:34,329 --> 00:05:38,329 Al-Bukhari titled this hadith in his Sahih by saying: 90 00:05:38,329 --> 00:05:43,329 A menstruating woman performs all rituals except circumambulating the Kaaba 91 00:05:43,329 --> 00:05:45,459 Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said 92 00:05:45,459 --> 00:05:48,459 Bukhari’s purpose in this chapter 93 00:05:48,459 --> 00:05:52,459 Menstruation does not prevent anything from the rituals of Hajj 94 00:05:52,459 --> 00:05:56,459 Other than circumambulating the Kaaba and praying as a consequence 95 00:05:56,459 --> 00:06:00,459 Other than that, it includes stances, remembrance, and supplication 96 00:06:00,459 --> 00:06:03,459 Menstruation does not prevent any of it 97 00:06:03,459 --> 00:06:05,459 A menstruating woman does it all 98 00:06:06,490 --> 00:06:10,490 This included standing at Arafat and Muzdalifah 99 00:06:10,490 --> 00:06:13,490 Throwing camels and remembering God Almighty 100 00:06:13,490 --> 00:06:16,490 And his supplication in these places 101 00:06:16,490 --> 00:06:19,490 All of this is agreed upon as permissible 102 00:06:19,490 --> 00:06:22,709 Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said 103 00:06:22,709 --> 00:06:26,709 A menstruating woman witnesses all rituals 104 00:06:26,709 --> 00:06:28,709 And enlarge it on the two Eids 105 00:06:28,709 --> 00:06:31,709 Evidence that it is permissible to read the Qur’an 106 00:06:31,709 --> 00:06:34,709 Because it is Sunnah to mention God in rituals 107 00:06:35,709 --> 00:06:37,870 Women are in Ramadan 108 00:06:37,870 --> 00:06:41,870 Be worried about getting your period 109 00:06:41,870 --> 00:06:44,870 Especially in the last ten days 110 00:06:44,870 --> 00:06:48,870 Because of her intense desire to worship and read the Qur’an 111 00:06:48,870 --> 00:06:50,870 And seize the season of goodness 112 00:06:50,870 --> 00:06:53,870 You may resort to using some medications 113 00:06:53,870 --> 00:06:55,870 Which delays menstruation 114 00:06:55,870 --> 00:06:58,870 Which is almost without damage 115 00:06:58,870 --> 00:07:00,870 On her health and psychology 116 00:07:00,870 --> 00:07:03,870 These medications may cause 117 00:07:03,870 --> 00:07:06,870 In menstrual dysfunction in women 118 00:07:06,870 --> 00:07:08,870 Colors descend on it 119 00:07:08,870 --> 00:07:11,870 Which makes her confused 120 00:07:11,870 --> 00:07:16,129 She does not know whether she is menstruating or pure 121 00:07:16,129 --> 00:07:18,129 Even if the woman remembered 122 00:07:18,129 --> 00:07:20,129 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 123 00:07:20,129 --> 00:07:23,129 For Aisha, may God be pleased with her 124 00:07:23,129 --> 00:07:27,129 This is something that God has written for the daughters of Adam 125 00:07:27,129 --> 00:07:29,129 So do what the pilgrim does 126 00:07:29,129 --> 00:07:33,129 However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure 127 00:07:33,129 --> 00:07:36,129 She will be satisfied with what was prescribed for her regarding menstruation 128 00:07:36,129 --> 00:07:39,129 In the time that God has destined for her 129 00:07:39,129 --> 00:07:41,129 Then do what a fasting person does 130 00:07:41,129 --> 00:07:44,129 Of righteousness and goodness in this month 131 00:07:44,129 --> 00:07:47,129 However, she does not fast or pray 132 00:07:47,129 --> 00:07:50,129 It would have been better for her than these medications 133 00:07:50,129 --> 00:07:53,129 Which may harm her without her realizing it 134 00:07:53,129 --> 00:07:56,189 And from the perfuming of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 135 00:07:56,189 --> 00:07:59,189 For the sake of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 136 00:07:59,189 --> 00:08:02,189 He, may God bless him and grant him peace 137 00:08:02,189 --> 00:08:05,189 When some of us fled after stoning the Jamarat 138 00:08:05,189 --> 00:08:07,189 He stayed in Al-Muhassab 139 00:08:07,189 --> 00:08:10,189 It is a place between Mina and the Grand Mosque 140 00:08:10,189 --> 00:08:13,189 He prayed noon and afternoon prayers there 141 00:08:13,189 --> 00:08:15,189 And Morocco and dinner 142 00:08:15,189 --> 00:08:17,290 When the evening came 143 00:08:17,290 --> 00:08:20,290 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, interviewed him 144 00:08:20,290 --> 00:08:22,290 On the subject of ritual sacrifice 145 00:08:22,290 --> 00:08:25,290 She said, O Messenger of God 146 00:08:25,290 --> 00:08:28,290 I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah 147 00:08:28,290 --> 00:08:31,290 And I come back with an excuse 148 00:08:31,290 --> 00:08:34,289 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, tried 149 00:08:34,289 --> 00:08:37,289 Convince her that it was written for her 150 00:08:37,289 --> 00:08:39,289 He said to her 151 00:08:39,289 --> 00:08:42,289 Your circumambulation of the Kaaba and between Safa and Marwa 152 00:08:42,289 --> 00:08:45,289 It is sufficient for your Hajj and Umrah 153 00:08:45,289 --> 00:08:47,289 Narrated by Abu Dawood 154 00:08:47,289 --> 00:08:50,289 She refused and said, O Messenger of God 155 00:08:50,289 --> 00:08:53,289 You performed Umrah and I did not perform Umrah 156 00:08:53,289 --> 00:08:55,289 O Messenger of God 157 00:08:55,289 --> 00:08:57,289 Bring people back with two wages 158 00:08:57,289 --> 00:08:59,289 And I will come back with a reward 159 00:08:59,289 --> 00:09:01,289 O Messenger of God 160 00:09:01,289 --> 00:09:03,289 People issue two pennies 161 00:09:03,289 --> 00:09:05,289 One penny was issued 162 00:09:05,289 --> 00:09:07,289 O Messenger of God 163 00:09:07,289 --> 00:09:10,289 Your companions will return with the reward of Hajj and Umrah 164 00:09:10,289 --> 00:09:12,289 I did not go beyond Hajj 165 00:09:12,289 --> 00:09:15,289 Will your wives return for Hajj and Umrah? 166 00:09:15,289 --> 00:09:19,289 And I return under an excuse that does not include Umrah 167 00:09:19,289 --> 00:09:22,320 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said 168 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,320 When she insisted 169 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,480 Make her live a life of pleasure for herself 170 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,480 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 171 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,480 She found it within herself 172 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,480 To return her companions 173 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,480 Independent Hajj and Umrah 174 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,480 If they are enjoying themselves 175 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,480 And he did not observe and did not associate 176 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,480 She returns with Umrah as part of her Hajj 177 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,480 So he ordered her brother to grant her life of prosperity 178 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,639 To sweeten her heart 179 00:09:52,639 --> 00:09:55,639 This is an example of a fragrant biography 180 00:09:55,639 --> 00:09:58,639 From the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 181 00:09:58,639 --> 00:10:02,639 It expresses the beauty of his dealings, may God bless him and grant him peace 182 00:10:02,639 --> 00:10:05,639 With Aisha, may God be pleased with her 183 00:10:05,639 --> 00:10:08,899 His entire biography is beautiful 184 00:10:08,899 --> 00:10:11,899 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 185 00:10:11,899 --> 00:10:14,899 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 186 00:10:14,899 --> 00:10:22,100 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her