Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Oh Aisha, what makes you cry?
The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his wives are the mothers of the believers
It is the finest treatment between husband and wife
And everyone who wants to learn the art of dealing with spouses
He must study the treatment of our Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wives
This is the ideal for a married couple
One of the beautiful pictures of interaction between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his wife Aisha
What she went through while she was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, during the Farewell Pilgrimage
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
Let us perform Hajj
Even if we are unlucky
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying
He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?”
I said luck, I wish I had not made Hajj
He said, Glory be to God
That is something that God Almighty has decreed for the daughters of Adam
Perform all the rituals except not circumambulating the Kaaba
She said: When we entered Mecca
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Whoever wants to make it an Umrah, let him make it an Umrah
Except for the one who has a sacrificial animal with him
She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, slaughtered cows on the Day of Sacrifice for his wives
When it was the night of Batha, she became pure
She said, O Messenger of God
I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah
And I come back with an excuse
So Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr ordered
So he took me to Tan'im and stayed for Umrah
Narrated by Ahmed
Our mother was Aisha, may God be pleased with her
You listen to the sermon of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions
He urged them to make their ritual a Umrah
But she was surprised when she started menstruating
It is in Sarf, near Mecca
This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah
The time remaining for the Day of Arafah is short
Menstruation has its time
So I met our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
She will not be able to survive
She hears the encouragement of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions
By making it a lifetime
So she cried
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her
And she is crying
He did not let her know the secret of her crying
And he said
What makes you cry, Aisha?
Aisha cried when she had her period
It happened because of her distress and sadness over missing out on Umrah
This is why men may not realize it quickly
The man may not care about him
Because he believes that menstruation is a natural thing that happens to every woman
And it is
But the woman may be in a psychological state
Affected by menstruation
Like the woman who is waiting for pregnancy after her marriage and it is delayed
She cries when her period begins
Or for any other reason
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did what Aisha did
Guiding husbands on the art of dealing with women in such situations
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied
By asking her why she was crying
Rather, it made it easier for her
Show her that she is not the only one who suffers from this menstruation
Rather, all the daughters of Adam
And he said
This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
Al-Qurtubi said it means menstruation
And he wrote it to them
That is, mount them on it
And fix it on them
It comforts and entertains her
It is evidence of his inclination and affection for her
Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said
He decreed it for them and forced them to do so
They are devoted to being patient with him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed her down with two things
The first is that menstruation is something God has prescribed for women in general
The other is that she is like them
What is happening to them is happening to them
After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Move to another dimension in her psychological soothing
He explained to her that menstruation on a woman in ihram would not harm her
It does not affect her ihram
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her on what to do in this situation
And he said
Perform all the rituals, except that you do not circumambulate the Kaaba
Al-Bukhari titled this hadith in his Sahih by saying:
A menstruating woman performs all rituals except circumambulating the Kaaba
Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said
Bukhari’s purpose in this chapter
Menstruation does not prevent anything from the rituals of Hajj
Other than circumambulating the Kaaba and praying as a consequence
Other than that, it includes stances, remembrance, and supplication
Menstruation does not prevent any of it
A menstruating woman does it all
This included standing at Arafat and Muzdalifah
Throwing camels and remembering God Almighty
And his supplication in these places
All of this is agreed upon as permissible
Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said
A menstruating woman witnesses all rituals
And enlarge it on the two Eids
Evidence that it is permissible to read the Qur’an
Because it is Sunnah to mention God in rituals
Women are in Ramadan
Be worried about getting your period
Especially in the last ten days
Because of her intense desire to worship and read the Qur’an
And seize the season of goodness
You may resort to using some medications
Which delays menstruation
Which is almost without damage
On her health and psychology
These medications may cause
In menstrual dysfunction in women
Colors descend on it
Which makes her confused
She does not know whether she is menstruating or pure
Even if the woman remembered
The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
For Aisha, may God be pleased with her
This is something that God has written for the daughters of Adam
So do what the pilgrim does
However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure
She will be satisfied with what was prescribed for her regarding menstruation
In the time that God has destined for her
Then do what a fasting person does
Of righteousness and goodness in this month
However, she does not fast or pray
It would have been better for her than these medications
Which may harm her without her realizing it
And from the perfuming of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
For the sake of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
He, may God bless him and grant him peace
When some of us fled after stoning the Jamarat
He stayed in Al-Muhassab
It is a place between Mina and the Grand Mosque
He prayed noon and afternoon prayers there
And Morocco and dinner
When the evening came
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, interviewed him
On the subject of ritual sacrifice
She said, O Messenger of God
I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah
And I come back with an excuse
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, tried
Convince her that it was written for her
He said to her
Your circumambulation of the Kaaba and between Safa and Marwa
It is sufficient for your Hajj and Umrah
Narrated by Abu Dawood
She refused and said, O Messenger of God
You performed Umrah and I did not perform Umrah
O Messenger of God
Bring people back with two wages
And I will come back with a reward
O Messenger of God
People issue two pennies
One penny was issued
O Messenger of God
Your companions will return with the reward of Hajj and Umrah
I did not go beyond Hajj
Will your wives return for Hajj and Umrah?
And I return under an excuse that does not include Umrah
Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said
When she insisted
Make her live a life of pleasure for herself
Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said
She found it within herself
To return her companions
Independent Hajj and Umrah
If they are enjoying themselves
And he did not observe and did not associate
She returns with Umrah as part of her Hajj
So he ordered her brother to grant her life of prosperity
To sweeten her heart
This is an example of a fragrant biography
From the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
It expresses the beauty of his dealings, may God bless him and grant him peace
With Aisha, may God be pleased with her
His entire biography is beautiful
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her