WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.660 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:04.660 --> 00:00:16.579 Oh Aisha, what makes you cry? 00:00:16.579 --> 00:00:22.579 The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his wives are the mothers of the believers 00:00:22.579 --> 00:00:26.179 It is the finest treatment between husband and wife 00:00:26.179 --> 00:00:30.719 And everyone who wants to learn the art of dealing with spouses 00:00:30.719 --> 00:00:36.719 He must study the treatment of our Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wives 00:00:36.979 --> 00:00:39.979 This is the ideal for a married couple 00:00:39.979 --> 00:00:47.270 One of the beautiful pictures of interaction between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his wife Aisha 00:00:47.270 --> 00:00:53.270 What she went through while she was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, during the Farewell Pilgrimage 00:00:53.270 --> 00:00:56.299 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:00:56.299 --> 00:00:58.299 Let us perform Hajj 00:00:58.299 --> 00:01:02.399 Even if we are unlucky 00:01:02.399 --> 00:01:07.400 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying 00:01:07.400 --> 00:01:11.400 He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?” 00:01:11.400 --> 00:01:16.400 I said luck, I wish I had not made Hajj 00:01:16.400 --> 00:01:19.400 He said, Glory be to God 00:01:19.400 --> 00:01:24.400 That is something that God Almighty has decreed for the daughters of Adam 00:01:24.400 --> 00:01:29.400 Perform all the rituals except not circumambulating the Kaaba 00:01:29.400 --> 00:01:32.400 She said: When we entered Mecca 00:01:32.400 --> 00:01:36.400 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:36.400 --> 00:01:40.400 Whoever wants to make it an Umrah, let him make it an Umrah 00:01:40.400 --> 00:01:43.400 Except for the one who has a sacrificial animal with him 00:01:43.400 --> 00:01:51.400 She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, slaughtered cows on the Day of Sacrifice for his wives 00:01:51.400 --> 00:01:55.530 When it was the night of Batha, she became pure 00:01:55.530 --> 00:01:58.530 She said, O Messenger of God 00:01:58.530 --> 00:02:01.530 I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah 00:02:01.530 --> 00:02:04.530 And I come back with an excuse 00:02:04.530 --> 00:02:07.530 So Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr ordered 00:02:07.530 --> 00:02:11.530 So he took me to Tan'im and stayed for Umrah 00:02:11.530 --> 00:02:13.530 Narrated by Ahmed 00:02:13.530 --> 00:02:16.590 Our mother was Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:02:16.590 --> 00:02:21.590 You listen to the sermon of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 00:02:21.590 --> 00:02:25.590 He urged them to make their ritual a Umrah 00:02:25.590 --> 00:02:28.590 But she was surprised when she started menstruating 00:02:28.590 --> 00:02:31.590 It is in Sarf, near Mecca 00:02:31.590 --> 00:02:35.590 This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah 00:02:35.590 --> 00:02:39.590 The time remaining for the Day of Arafah is short 00:02:39.590 --> 00:02:41.590 Menstruation has its time 00:02:41.590 --> 00:02:44.590 So I met our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:02:44.590 --> 00:02:47.590 She will not be able to survive 00:02:47.590 --> 00:02:51.590 She hears the encouragement of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 00:02:51.590 --> 00:02:53.590 By making it a lifetime 00:02:53.590 --> 00:02:55.590 So she cried 00:02:55.590 --> 00:02:58.590 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her 00:02:58.590 --> 00:03:00.590 And she is crying 00:03:00.590 --> 00:03:03.590 He did not let her know the secret of her crying 00:03:03.590 --> 00:03:04.590 And he said 00:03:04.590 --> 00:03:07.590 What makes you cry, Aisha? 00:03:07.590 --> 00:03:10.719 Aisha cried when she had her period 00:03:10.719 --> 00:03:16.719 It happened because of her distress and sadness over missing out on Umrah 00:03:16.719 --> 00:03:20.719 This is why men may not realize it quickly 00:03:20.719 --> 00:03:22.719 The man may not care about him 00:03:22.719 --> 00:03:27.719 Because he believes that menstruation is a natural thing that happens to every woman 00:03:27.719 --> 00:03:29.719 And it is 00:03:29.719 --> 00:03:32.719 But the woman may be in a psychological state 00:03:32.719 --> 00:03:35.719 Affected by menstruation 00:03:35.719 --> 00:03:39.719 Like the woman who is waiting for pregnancy after her marriage and it is delayed 00:03:39.719 --> 00:03:42.719 She cries when her period begins 00:03:42.719 --> 00:03:44.719 Or for any other reason 00:03:44.719 --> 00:03:49.780 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did what Aisha did 00:03:49.780 --> 00:03:55.780 Guiding husbands on the art of dealing with women in such situations 00:03:55.780 --> 00:03:58.780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied 00:03:58.780 --> 00:04:01.780 By asking her why she was crying 00:04:01.780 --> 00:04:03.780 Rather, it made it easier for her 00:04:03.780 --> 00:04:09.780 Show her that she is not the only one who suffers from this menstruation 00:04:09.780 --> 00:04:11.780 Rather, all the daughters of Adam 00:04:11.780 --> 00:04:13.780 And he said 00:04:13.780 --> 00:04:17.779 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 00:04:17.779 --> 00:04:20.779 Al-Qurtubi said it means menstruation 00:04:20.779 --> 00:04:22.779 And he wrote it to them 00:04:22.779 --> 00:04:24.779 That is, mount them on it 00:04:24.779 --> 00:04:26.779 And fix it on them 00:04:26.779 --> 00:04:29.779 It comforts and entertains her 00:04:29.779 --> 00:04:33.779 It is evidence of his inclination and affection for her 00:04:33.779 --> 00:04:36.980 Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:36.980 --> 00:04:40.980 He decreed it for them and forced them to do so 00:04:40.980 --> 00:04:43.980 They are devoted to being patient with him 00:04:43.980 --> 00:04:49.100 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed her down with two things 00:04:49.100 --> 00:04:55.100 The first is that menstruation is something God has prescribed for women in general 00:04:55.100 --> 00:04:58.100 The other is that she is like them 00:04:58.100 --> 00:05:01.100 What is happening to them is happening to them 00:05:01.100 --> 00:05:08.329 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:05:08.329 --> 00:05:13.329 Move to another dimension in her psychological soothing 00:05:13.329 --> 00:05:18.329 He explained to her that menstruation on a woman in ihram would not harm her 00:05:18.329 --> 00:05:21.329 It does not affect her ihram 00:05:21.329 --> 00:05:27.329 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her on what to do in this situation 00:05:27.329 --> 00:05:29.329 And he said 00:05:29.329 --> 00:05:34.329 Perform all the rituals, except that you do not circumambulate the Kaaba 00:05:34.329 --> 00:05:38.329 Al-Bukhari titled this hadith in his Sahih by saying: 00:05:38.329 --> 00:05:43.329 A menstruating woman performs all rituals except circumambulating the Kaaba 00:05:43.329 --> 00:05:45.459 Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:45.459 --> 00:05:48.459 Bukhari’s purpose in this chapter 00:05:48.459 --> 00:05:52.459 Menstruation does not prevent anything from the rituals of Hajj 00:05:52.459 --> 00:05:56.459 Other than circumambulating the Kaaba and praying as a consequence 00:05:56.459 --> 00:06:00.459 Other than that, it includes stances, remembrance, and supplication 00:06:00.459 --> 00:06:03.459 Menstruation does not prevent any of it 00:06:03.459 --> 00:06:05.459 A menstruating woman does it all 00:06:06.490 --> 00:06:10.490 This included standing at Arafat and Muzdalifah 00:06:10.490 --> 00:06:13.490 Throwing camels and remembering God Almighty 00:06:13.490 --> 00:06:16.490 And his supplication in these places 00:06:16.490 --> 00:06:19.490 All of this is agreed upon as permissible 00:06:19.490 --> 00:06:22.709 Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:22.709 --> 00:06:26.709 A menstruating woman witnesses all rituals 00:06:26.709 --> 00:06:28.709 And enlarge it on the two Eids 00:06:28.709 --> 00:06:31.709 Evidence that it is permissible to read the Qur’an 00:06:31.709 --> 00:06:34.709 Because it is Sunnah to mention God in rituals 00:06:35.709 --> 00:06:37.870 Women are in Ramadan 00:06:37.870 --> 00:06:41.870 Be worried about getting your period 00:06:41.870 --> 00:06:44.870 Especially in the last ten days 00:06:44.870 --> 00:06:48.870 Because of her intense desire to worship and read the Qur’an 00:06:48.870 --> 00:06:50.870 And seize the season of goodness 00:06:50.870 --> 00:06:53.870 You may resort to using some medications 00:06:53.870 --> 00:06:55.870 Which delays menstruation 00:06:55.870 --> 00:06:58.870 Which is almost without damage 00:06:58.870 --> 00:07:00.870 On her health and psychology 00:07:00.870 --> 00:07:03.870 These medications may cause 00:07:03.870 --> 00:07:06.870 In menstrual dysfunction in women 00:07:06.870 --> 00:07:08.870 Colors descend on it 00:07:08.870 --> 00:07:11.870 Which makes her confused 00:07:11.870 --> 00:07:16.129 She does not know whether she is menstruating or pure 00:07:16.129 --> 00:07:18.129 Even if the woman remembered 00:07:18.129 --> 00:07:20.129 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:20.129 --> 00:07:23.129 For Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:07:23.129 --> 00:07:27.129 This is something that God has written for the daughters of Adam 00:07:27.129 --> 00:07:29.129 So do what the pilgrim does 00:07:29.129 --> 00:07:33.129 However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure 00:07:33.129 --> 00:07:36.129 She will be satisfied with what was prescribed for her regarding menstruation 00:07:36.129 --> 00:07:39.129 In the time that God has destined for her 00:07:39.129 --> 00:07:41.129 Then do what a fasting person does 00:07:41.129 --> 00:07:44.129 Of righteousness and goodness in this month 00:07:44.129 --> 00:07:47.129 However, she does not fast or pray 00:07:47.129 --> 00:07:50.129 It would have been better for her than these medications 00:07:50.129 --> 00:07:53.129 Which may harm her without her realizing it 00:07:53.129 --> 00:07:56.189 And from the perfuming of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:56.189 --> 00:07:59.189 For the sake of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:07:59.189 --> 00:08:02.189 He, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:02.189 --> 00:08:05.189 When some of us fled after stoning the Jamarat 00:08:05.189 --> 00:08:07.189 He stayed in Al-Muhassab 00:08:07.189 --> 00:08:10.189 It is a place between Mina and the Grand Mosque 00:08:10.189 --> 00:08:13.189 He prayed noon and afternoon prayers there 00:08:13.189 --> 00:08:15.189 And Morocco and dinner 00:08:15.189 --> 00:08:17.290 When the evening came 00:08:17.290 --> 00:08:20.290 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, interviewed him 00:08:20.290 --> 00:08:22.290 On the subject of ritual sacrifice 00:08:22.290 --> 00:08:25.290 She said, O Messenger of God 00:08:25.290 --> 00:08:28.290 I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah 00:08:28.290 --> 00:08:31.290 And I come back with an excuse 00:08:31.290 --> 00:08:34.289 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, tried 00:08:34.289 --> 00:08:37.289 Convince her that it was written for her 00:08:37.289 --> 00:08:39.289 He said to her 00:08:39.289 --> 00:08:42.289 Your circumambulation of the Kaaba and between Safa and Marwa 00:08:42.289 --> 00:08:45.289 It is sufficient for your Hajj and Umrah 00:08:45.289 --> 00:08:47.289 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:08:47.289 --> 00:08:50.289 She refused and said, O Messenger of God 00:08:50.289 --> 00:08:53.289 You performed Umrah and I did not perform Umrah 00:08:53.289 --> 00:08:55.289 O Messenger of God 00:08:55.289 --> 00:08:57.289 Bring people back with two wages 00:08:57.289 --> 00:08:59.289 And I will come back with a reward 00:08:59.289 --> 00:09:01.289 O Messenger of God 00:09:01.289 --> 00:09:03.289 People issue two pennies 00:09:03.289 --> 00:09:05.289 One penny was issued 00:09:05.289 --> 00:09:07.289 O Messenger of God 00:09:07.289 --> 00:09:10.289 Your companions will return with the reward of Hajj and Umrah 00:09:10.289 --> 00:09:12.289 I did not go beyond Hajj 00:09:12.289 --> 00:09:15.289 Will your wives return for Hajj and Umrah? 00:09:15.289 --> 00:09:19.289 And I return under an excuse that does not include Umrah 00:09:19.289 --> 00:09:22.320 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said 00:09:22.320 --> 00:09:24.320 When she insisted 00:09:24.320 --> 00:09:27.480 Make her live a life of pleasure for herself 00:09:27.480 --> 00:09:30.480 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 00:09:30.480 --> 00:09:32.480 She found it within herself 00:09:32.480 --> 00:09:34.480 To return her companions 00:09:34.480 --> 00:09:36.480 Independent Hajj and Umrah 00:09:36.480 --> 00:09:39.480 If they are enjoying themselves 00:09:39.480 --> 00:09:42.480 And he did not observe and did not associate 00:09:42.480 --> 00:09:46.480 She returns with Umrah as part of her Hajj 00:09:46.480 --> 00:09:49.480 So he ordered her brother to grant her life of prosperity 00:09:49.480 --> 00:09:52.639 To sweeten her heart 00:09:52.639 --> 00:09:55.639 This is an example of a fragrant biography 00:09:55.639 --> 00:09:58.639 From the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:58.639 --> 00:10:02.639 It expresses the beauty of his dealings, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:02.639 --> 00:10:05.639 With Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:10:05.639 --> 00:10:08.899 His entire biography is beautiful 00:10:08.899 --> 00:10:11.899 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:11.899 --> 00:10:14.899 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:10:14.899 --> 00:10:22.100 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her