Summary of Sunni concepts
Guardianship
God Almighty established that the man in his house has guardianship over the woman
And God Almighty said
Men are guardians of women because God has favored some of them over others
And what they spent of their money
This guardianship does not include the elimination of the woman’s personality in the home or in human society, as some believe
Ignorance of what Sharia wants from us
Rather, it is something that has its causes through formation and innate predisposition
God Almighty has made pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, and raising a child a woman’s job
These are huge matters that require tenderness, compassion, effective speed, and an urgent response to childhood demands
All of this is one of the characteristics of women that distinguishes them from men
It is not fair for women to be burdened with these huge burdens
Responsible for work, maintenance of the marital home, and managing its affairs
These are things that require characteristics that she does not have, but rather they are characteristics of men
Spherical in thinking, studying matters from all their aspects, and strong and firm in decisions
So God entrusted them with all of this and gave them leadership and leadership in it
To be able to perform their assigned job
If this balance is disturbed, jobs and tasks change
Or all of them were controlled by one party without the other
Disagreement between spouses is inevitable
The house was filled with joy and its problems multiplied
And God Almighty spoke the truth
Does He not know Who created Him? He is the Kind and All-Aware
Stewardship is also a must
Because the home, like any institution, must have one guardian
He shall be responsible for its management after consultation and understanding with his partners
Its establishment does not negate the presence or personality of partners and workers in its functions
Guardianship is also a man’s right
It is counterbalanced by the obligation to spend on the household
Protect him and manage his affairs
So, in short, it is a guardian accompanied by kindness, care, and maintenance
And etiquette in behavior with the wife and children
It is a complementary relationship between both men and women
It is misleading to turn this relationship into a relationship of opposition and contradiction
Summary of Sunni concepts