1 00:00:00,850 --> 00:00:04,799 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:04,799 --> 00:00:12,039 The life of the predecessors between words and deeds 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,539 The ancestor’s care for children 4 00:00:14,539 --> 00:00:19,120 Taking care of their upbringing and education 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,620 And be patient with that 6 00:00:21,620 --> 00:00:26,850 Ali bin Abi Talib, may God be pleased with him, said about this verse 7 00:00:26,850 --> 00:00:30,350 Protect yourselves and your families from hellfire 8 00:00:30,350 --> 00:00:34,350 He said: Teach them and discipline them 9 00:00:34,350 --> 00:00:39,990 Omar bin Al-Asir, may God be pleased with him, stood over a circle of Quraysh 10 00:00:39,990 --> 00:00:40,990 And he said 11 00:00:40,990 --> 00:00:44,990 What is the matter with you that you have brought up these abominations? 12 00:00:44,990 --> 00:00:46,990 Don't 13 00:00:46,990 --> 00:00:48,990 And expand their presence in the council 14 00:00:48,990 --> 00:00:50,990 And let them talk 15 00:00:50,990 --> 00:00:52,990 And make them understand it 16 00:00:52,990 --> 00:00:56,020 They are small people 17 00:00:56,020 --> 00:00:59,020 Or doubt that they are great people 18 00:00:59,020 --> 00:01:01,020 You were young people 19 00:01:01,020 --> 00:01:04,019 Today you are great people 20 00:01:04,019 --> 00:01:06,400 On the authority of Ikrimah, he said: 21 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,400 He was Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both 22 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,400 He puts cables on my feet 23 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,400 He teaches me the Qur’an and Sunnah 24 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,040 Some wise men said 25 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,040 Take the initiative to discipline the children 26 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:25,040 Before the work piles up and the mind disperses 27 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,359 Some poets said 28 00:01:27,359 --> 00:01:31,430 If you straighten the branches, they become straight 29 00:01:31,430 --> 00:01:35,430 It does not soften when straightened by wood 30 00:01:35,430 --> 00:01:39,459 Literature may benefit events in a leisurely manner 31 00:01:39,459 --> 00:01:43,879 And politeness is of no use to gray hair 32 00:01:43,879 --> 00:01:46,879 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said: 33 00:01:46,879 --> 00:01:49,879 He taught the boy to pray 34 00:01:49,879 --> 00:01:52,879 If he knows his right from his left 35 00:01:52,879 --> 00:01:56,040 He also said, may God be pleased with him, to a man 36 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,040 Oh, this is the best manner of your son 37 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,040 You are responsible for it 38 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,159 He is responsible for your pools 39 00:02:06,159 --> 00:02:09,159 On the authority of Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, he said: 40 00:02:09,159 --> 00:02:13,159 A man should force his son to learn 41 00:02:13,159 --> 00:02:16,389 He is responsible for it 42 00:02:16,389 --> 00:02:19,389 Ibrahim Al-Harbi, may God have mercy on him, said 43 00:02:19,389 --> 00:02:22,389 Keep your children away from bad companions 44 00:02:22,389 --> 00:02:25,389 Before you dye them in affliction 45 00:02:25,389 --> 00:02:28,639 He also dyes the garment 46 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,639 Also, may God have mercy on him, the first corruption of boys 47 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,639 each other 48 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,250 Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him, reached the age of 49 00:02:38,250 --> 00:02:41,250 To build for him, he bought a section for a thousand dirhams 50 00:02:41,250 --> 00:02:44,250 So you conclude with it 51 00:02:44,250 --> 00:02:47,250 So Omar wrote to him 52 00:02:47,250 --> 00:02:50,250 A determination from me to you when I sold the beans 53 00:02:50,250 --> 00:02:53,250 Which I bought for a thousand dirhams 54 00:02:53,250 --> 00:02:56,280 And I gave its price in charity 55 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,280 And it was engraved 56 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,280 May God have mercy on Maran who knew his destiny 57 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,479 And peace 58 00:03:06,479 --> 00:03:09,479 He wrote, may God have mercy on him, to his son’s teacher 59 00:03:09,479 --> 00:03:12,479 Treat them with harshness, for it is more forbidden 60 00:03:12,479 --> 00:03:15,479 For their feet and abandonment in the morning 61 00:03:15,479 --> 00:03:18,479 Her habit leads to heedlessness 62 00:03:18,479 --> 00:03:21,479 And lack of laughter 63 00:03:21,479 --> 00:03:24,479 Too much of it kills the heart 64 00:03:24,479 --> 00:03:27,479 They think of your manners 65 00:03:27,479 --> 00:03:30,479 Hating amusement parks 66 00:03:30,479 --> 00:03:33,479 Which started from Satan 67 00:03:33,479 --> 00:03:36,509 Its punishment is the wrath of the Most Gracious 68 00:03:36,509 --> 00:03:39,509 For I have heard from trustworthy people who carry knowledge 69 00:03:39,509 --> 00:03:42,509 To attend concerts and listen to songs 70 00:03:42,509 --> 00:03:45,509 And meditate on them 71 00:03:45,509 --> 00:03:48,539 Hypocrisy grows in the heart 72 00:03:48,539 --> 00:03:51,539 Grass also grows with water 73 00:03:52,539 --> 00:03:56,210 Al-Shafi’i, may God have mercy on him, entered one day 74 00:03:56,210 --> 00:03:59,210 To some Harun al-Rashid stone 75 00:03:59,210 --> 00:04:02,210 He was given permission to do so 76 00:04:02,210 --> 00:04:05,280 The servant made him sit with Abu Abd al-Samad 77 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,280 The teacher of the sons of Al-Rashid 78 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,280 He said to him, O Abu Abdullah 79 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,280 These are the children of the Commander of the Faithful 80 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,279 This is their discipline 81 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,399 If I were to recommend it, I would go to Abu Abd al-Samad 82 00:04:20,399 --> 00:04:23,399 He said to him, “Let it be the first thing you start with.” 83 00:04:23,399 --> 00:04:26,399 From reforming the children of the Commander of the Faithful 84 00:04:26,399 --> 00:04:29,439 Fix yourself 85 00:04:29,439 --> 00:04:32,439 Their eyes are fixed on your eyes 86 00:04:32,439 --> 00:04:35,439 What is good for them is what you approve of 87 00:04:35,439 --> 00:04:38,439 What is ugly to them is what you find ugly 88 00:04:38,439 --> 00:04:41,560 Teach them the Book of God 89 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,560 And do not force them to do it, lest they get bored with it 90 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,720 And do not leave them lest they abandon him 91 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,720 Then increase their hair and groom it 92 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,720 It is the most honorable hadith 93 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,720 Do not push them away from one knowledge to another 94 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,819 Until they master it 95 00:04:59,819 --> 00:05:03,399 The speech is crowded in the ear 96 00:05:03,399 --> 00:05:06,399 Misunderstanding 97 00:05:06,399 --> 00:05:09,399 Al-Maimoni, may God have mercy on him, said 98 00:05:09,399 --> 00:05:12,399 I asked Abu Abdullah 99 00:05:12,399 --> 00:05:15,399 Ahmed bin Hanbal, may God have mercy on him 100 00:05:16,399 --> 00:05:19,399 He said no to the Qur’an 101 00:05:19,399 --> 00:05:22,399 I said I know it all 102 00:05:22,399 --> 00:05:25,399 He said, “Unless it is difficult, learn it from him.” 103 00:05:25,399 --> 00:05:28,399 Then he told me 104 00:05:28,399 --> 00:05:31,399 If he reads first 105 00:05:31,399 --> 00:05:34,779 Read again and then commit to it 106 00:05:34,779 --> 00:05:37,779 Ibn Muflih, may God have mercy on him, said 107 00:05:37,779 --> 00:05:40,779 The followers of Imam Ahmed are based on this 108 00:05:40,779 --> 00:05:45,990 To our time 109 00:05:45,990 --> 00:05:50,329 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 110 00:05:50,329 --> 00:05:53,329 A man's rank will be raised 111 00:05:53,329 --> 00:05:56,329 He says: Oh my Lord 112 00:05:56,329 --> 00:05:59,329 How do I get this? 113 00:05:59,329 --> 00:06:02,560 He is told to ask forgiveness from your son 114 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,560 Ibrahim bin Adham, may God have mercy on him, said 115 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,560 For a man who has children 116 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,560 He said yes he said 117 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,560 How wonderful your children are 118 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:20,319 Patience over the loss of the child 119 00:06:20,319 --> 00:06:24,209 Muhammad bin Is Al-Zahid said 120 00:06:24,209 --> 00:06:27,310 May God have mercy on him for what he has reached 121 00:06:27,310 --> 00:06:30,310 Abdul Rahman bin Mahdi, may God have mercy on him 122 00:06:30,310 --> 00:06:33,310 His son died 123 00:06:33,310 --> 00:06:36,310 He was greatly alarmed 124 00:06:36,310 --> 00:06:39,310 This reached Muhammad bin Idris 125 00:06:39,310 --> 00:06:42,310 Shafi'i, may God have mercy on him 126 00:06:42,310 --> 00:06:45,310 So he wrote to him 127 00:06:46,310 --> 00:06:49,310 So what if it comes together? 128 00:06:49,310 --> 00:06:52,370 On gaining weight 129 00:06:52,370 --> 00:06:55,370 So I say, I am your comforter 130 00:06:55,370 --> 00:06:58,370 No, I'm not confident 131 00:06:58,370 --> 00:07:01,370 Of eternity but the year of religion 132 00:07:01,370 --> 00:07:04,370 A goat filled with Baq 133 00:07:04,370 --> 00:07:07,370 After his companion and for the comforter 134 00:07:07,370 --> 00:07:10,529 Even if they lived for a while 135 00:07:10,529 --> 00:07:13,529 He said, “They were fighting with him.” 136 00:07:14,529 --> 00:07:19,550 He preferred to spend on them 137 00:07:19,550 --> 00:07:22,870 On the authority of Abu Qilabah, on the authority of Abu Asma 138 00:07:22,870 --> 00:07:25,870 On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him 139 00:07:25,870 --> 00:07:28,870 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 140 00:07:28,870 --> 00:07:31,899 The best dinar a man can spend 141 00:07:31,899 --> 00:07:34,899 A dinar that he spends on his family 142 00:07:34,899 --> 00:07:37,899 A dinar is spent by a man 143 00:07:37,899 --> 00:07:40,899 On his animal for the sake of God 144 00:07:40,899 --> 00:07:43,899 And a dinar that he spends on his friends 145 00:07:43,899 --> 00:07:45,899 For God's sake 146 00:07:45,899 --> 00:07:49,029 Abu Qalabah, may God have mercy on him, said 147 00:07:49,029 --> 00:07:51,029 He started with the children 148 00:07:51,029 --> 00:07:54,029 What man is the greatest worker? 149 00:07:54,029 --> 00:07:57,029 From a man who spends on young children 150 00:07:57,029 --> 00:08:00,029 Until God Almighty enriches them 151 00:08:00,029 --> 00:08:03,480 Abdullah Ibn Al-Mubarak said 152 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,480 May God have mercy on him, the site is not located 153 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,480 Earning money for one's children is one thing 154 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,480 Nor jihad for the sake of God Almighty 155 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:15,990 Al-Shaabi, may God have mercy on him, said 156 00:08:15,990 --> 00:08:19,990 Whatever slave leaves behind wealth, he is the greatest of his earners 157 00:08:19,990 --> 00:08:22,990 From the money he leaves to his son 158 00:08:22,990 --> 00:08:26,370 He keeps himself away from people 159 00:08:26,370 --> 00:08:29,370 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said: 160 00:08:29,370 --> 00:08:32,370 He who takes care of his family is a traitor 161 00:08:32,370 --> 00:08:36,039 On the authority of Muslim he said: 162 00:08:36,039 --> 00:08:39,039 I was told by Muawiyah Ibn Qurrah, may God have mercy on him 163 00:08:39,039 --> 00:08:42,039 And I came from pasture 164 00:08:42,039 --> 00:08:45,039 He said: What did you do? 165 00:08:45,039 --> 00:08:48,039 I said, “I disavow such-and-such and such-and-such for my family.” 166 00:08:48,039 --> 00:08:51,039 He said, “I got it from what is permissible.” 167 00:08:51,039 --> 00:08:54,039 He said I said yes 168 00:08:54,039 --> 00:08:57,039 He said because I am in the morning 169 00:08:57,039 --> 00:09:00,039 What I became every day 170 00:09:00,039 --> 00:09:03,039 I love to stay up all night 171 00:09:03,039 --> 00:09:07,039 And I fast during the day