In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The life of the predecessors between words and deeds
The ancestor’s care for children
Taking care of their upbringing and education
And be patient with that
Ali bin Abi Talib, may God be pleased with him, said about this verse
Protect yourselves and your families from hellfire
He said: Teach them and discipline them
Omar bin Al-Asir, may God be pleased with him, stood over a circle of Quraysh
And he said
What is the matter with you that you have brought up these abominations?
Don't
And expand their presence in the council
And let them talk
And make them understand it
They are small people
Or doubt that they are great people
You were young people
Today you are great people
On the authority of Ikrimah, he said:
He was Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both
He puts cables on my feet
He teaches me the Qur’an and Sunnah
Some wise men said
Take the initiative to discipline the children
Before the work piles up and the mind disperses
Some poets said
If you straighten the branches, they become straight
It does not soften when straightened by wood
Literature may benefit events in a leisurely manner
And politeness is of no use to gray hair
On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said:
He taught the boy to pray
If he knows his right from his left
He also said, may God be pleased with him, to a man
Oh, this is the best manner of your son
You are responsible for it
He is responsible for your pools
On the authority of Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, he said:
A man should force his son to learn
He is responsible for it
Ibrahim Al-Harbi, may God have mercy on him, said
Keep your children away from bad companions
Before you dye them in affliction
He also dyes the garment
Also, may God have mercy on him, the first corruption of boys
each other
Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him, reached the age of
To build for him, he bought a section for a thousand dirhams
So you conclude with it
So Omar wrote to him
A determination from me to you when I sold the beans
Which I bought for a thousand dirhams
And I gave its price in charity
And it was engraved
May God have mercy on Maran who knew his destiny
And peace
He wrote, may God have mercy on him, to his son’s teacher
Treat them with harshness, for it is more forbidden
For their feet and abandonment in the morning
Her habit leads to heedlessness
And lack of laughter
Too much of it kills the heart
They think of your manners
Hating amusement parks
Which started from Satan
Its punishment is the wrath of the Most Gracious
For I have heard from trustworthy people who carry knowledge
To attend concerts and listen to songs
And meditate on them
Hypocrisy grows in the heart
Grass also grows with water
Al-Shafi’i, may God have mercy on him, entered one day
To some Harun al-Rashid stone
He was given permission to do so
The servant made him sit with Abu Abd al-Samad
The teacher of the sons of Al-Rashid
He said to him, O Abu Abdullah
These are the children of the Commander of the Faithful
This is their discipline
If I were to recommend it, I would go to Abu Abd al-Samad
He said to him, “Let it be the first thing you start with.”
From reforming the children of the Commander of the Faithful
Fix yourself
Their eyes are fixed on your eyes
What is good for them is what you approve of
What is ugly to them is what you find ugly
Teach them the Book of God
And do not force them to do it, lest they get bored with it
And do not leave them lest they abandon him
Then increase their hair and groom it
It is the most honorable hadith
Do not push them away from one knowledge to another
Until they master it
The speech is crowded in the ear
Misunderstanding
Al-Maimoni, may God have mercy on him, said
I asked Abu Abdullah
Ahmed bin Hanbal, may God have mercy on him
He said no to the Qur’an
I said I know it all
He said, “Unless it is difficult, learn it from him.”
Then he told me
If he reads first
Read again and then commit to it
Ibn Muflih, may God have mercy on him, said
The followers of Imam Ahmed are based on this
To our time
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
A man's rank will be raised
He says: Oh my Lord
How do I get this?
He is told to ask forgiveness from your son
Ibrahim bin Adham, may God have mercy on him, said
For a man who has children
He said yes he said
How wonderful your children are
Patience over the loss of the child
Muhammad bin Is Al-Zahid said
May God have mercy on him for what he has reached
Abdul Rahman bin Mahdi, may God have mercy on him
His son died
He was greatly alarmed
This reached Muhammad bin Idris
Shafi'i, may God have mercy on him
So he wrote to him
So what if it comes together?
On gaining weight
So I say, I am your comforter
No, I'm not confident
Of eternity but the year of religion
A goat filled with Baq
After his companion and for the comforter
Even if they lived for a while
He said, “They were fighting with him.”
He preferred to spend on them
On the authority of Abu Qilabah, on the authority of Abu Asma
On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
The best dinar a man can spend
A dinar that he spends on his family
A dinar is spent by a man
On his animal for the sake of God
And a dinar that he spends on his friends
For God's sake
Abu Qalabah, may God have mercy on him, said
He started with the children
What man is the greatest worker?
From a man who spends on young children
Until God Almighty enriches them
Abdullah Ibn Al-Mubarak said
May God have mercy on him, the site is not located
Earning money for one's children is one thing
Nor jihad for the sake of God Almighty
Al-Shaabi, may God have mercy on him, said
Whatever slave leaves behind wealth, he is the greatest of his earners
From the money he leaves to his son
He keeps himself away from people
On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said:
He who takes care of his family is a traitor
On the authority of Muslim he said:
I was told by Muawiyah Ibn Qurrah, may God have mercy on him
And I came from pasture
He said: What did you do?
I said, “I disavow such-and-such and such-and-such for my family.”
He said, “I got it from what is permissible.”
He said I said yes
He said because I am in the morning
What I became every day
I love to stay up all night
And I fast during the day