WEBVTT 00:00:00.850 --> 00:00:04.799 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:04.799 --> 00:00:12.039 The life of the predecessors between words and deeds 00:00:12.039 --> 00:00:14.539 The ancestor’s care for children 00:00:14.539 --> 00:00:19.120 Taking care of their upbringing and education 00:00:19.120 --> 00:00:21.620 And be patient with that 00:00:21.620 --> 00:00:26.850 Ali bin Abi Talib, may God be pleased with him, said about this verse 00:00:26.850 --> 00:00:30.350 Protect yourselves and your families from hellfire 00:00:30.350 --> 00:00:34.350 He said: Teach them and discipline them 00:00:34.350 --> 00:00:39.990 Omar bin Al-Asir, may God be pleased with him, stood over a circle of Quraysh 00:00:39.990 --> 00:00:40.990 And he said 00:00:40.990 --> 00:00:44.990 What is the matter with you that you have brought up these abominations? 00:00:44.990 --> 00:00:46.990 Don't 00:00:46.990 --> 00:00:48.990 And expand their presence in the council 00:00:48.990 --> 00:00:50.990 And let them talk 00:00:50.990 --> 00:00:52.990 And make them understand it 00:00:52.990 --> 00:00:56.020 They are small people 00:00:56.020 --> 00:00:59.020 Or doubt that they are great people 00:00:59.020 --> 00:01:01.020 You were young people 00:01:01.020 --> 00:01:04.019 Today you are great people 00:01:04.019 --> 00:01:06.400 On the authority of Ikrimah, he said: 00:01:06.400 --> 00:01:09.400 He was Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both 00:01:09.400 --> 00:01:12.400 He puts cables on my feet 00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:15.400 He teaches me the Qur’an and Sunnah 00:01:15.400 --> 00:01:18.040 Some wise men said 00:01:18.040 --> 00:01:21.040 Take the initiative to discipline the children 00:01:21.040 --> 00:01:25.040 Before the work piles up and the mind disperses 00:01:25.040 --> 00:01:27.359 Some poets said 00:01:27.359 --> 00:01:31.430 If you straighten the branches, they become straight 00:01:31.430 --> 00:01:35.430 It does not soften when straightened by wood 00:01:35.430 --> 00:01:39.459 Literature may benefit events in a leisurely manner 00:01:39.459 --> 00:01:43.879 And politeness is of no use to gray hair 00:01:43.879 --> 00:01:46.879 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said: 00:01:46.879 --> 00:01:49.879 He taught the boy to pray 00:01:49.879 --> 00:01:52.879 If he knows his right from his left 00:01:52.879 --> 00:01:56.040 He also said, may God be pleased with him, to a man 00:01:56.040 --> 00:02:00.040 Oh, this is the best manner of your son 00:02:00.040 --> 00:02:03.040 You are responsible for it 00:02:03.040 --> 00:02:06.159 He is responsible for your pools 00:02:06.159 --> 00:02:09.159 On the authority of Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, he said: 00:02:09.159 --> 00:02:13.159 A man should force his son to learn 00:02:13.159 --> 00:02:16.389 He is responsible for it 00:02:16.389 --> 00:02:19.389 Ibrahim Al-Harbi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:02:19.389 --> 00:02:22.389 Keep your children away from bad companions 00:02:22.389 --> 00:02:25.389 Before you dye them in affliction 00:02:25.389 --> 00:02:28.639 He also dyes the garment 00:02:28.639 --> 00:02:31.639 Also, may God have mercy on him, the first corruption of boys 00:02:31.639 --> 00:02:34.639 each other 00:02:34.639 --> 00:02:38.250 Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him, reached the age of 00:02:38.250 --> 00:02:41.250 To build for him, he bought a section for a thousand dirhams 00:02:41.250 --> 00:02:44.250 So you conclude with it 00:02:44.250 --> 00:02:47.250 So Omar wrote to him 00:02:47.250 --> 00:02:50.250 A determination from me to you when I sold the beans 00:02:50.250 --> 00:02:53.250 Which I bought for a thousand dirhams 00:02:53.250 --> 00:02:56.280 And I gave its price in charity 00:02:57.280 --> 00:03:00.280 And it was engraved 00:03:00.280 --> 00:03:03.280 May God have mercy on Maran who knew his destiny 00:03:03.280 --> 00:03:06.479 And peace 00:03:06.479 --> 00:03:09.479 He wrote, may God have mercy on him, to his son’s teacher 00:03:09.479 --> 00:03:12.479 Treat them with harshness, for it is more forbidden 00:03:12.479 --> 00:03:15.479 For their feet and abandonment in the morning 00:03:15.479 --> 00:03:18.479 Her habit leads to heedlessness 00:03:18.479 --> 00:03:21.479 And lack of laughter 00:03:21.479 --> 00:03:24.479 Too much of it kills the heart 00:03:24.479 --> 00:03:27.479 They think of your manners 00:03:27.479 --> 00:03:30.479 Hating amusement parks 00:03:30.479 --> 00:03:33.479 Which started from Satan 00:03:33.479 --> 00:03:36.509 Its punishment is the wrath of the Most Gracious 00:03:36.509 --> 00:03:39.509 For I have heard from trustworthy people who carry knowledge 00:03:39.509 --> 00:03:42.509 To attend concerts and listen to songs 00:03:42.509 --> 00:03:45.509 And meditate on them 00:03:45.509 --> 00:03:48.539 Hypocrisy grows in the heart 00:03:48.539 --> 00:03:51.539 Grass also grows with water 00:03:52.539 --> 00:03:56.210 Al-Shafi’i, may God have mercy on him, entered one day 00:03:56.210 --> 00:03:59.210 To some Harun al-Rashid stone 00:03:59.210 --> 00:04:02.210 He was given permission to do so 00:04:02.210 --> 00:04:05.280 The servant made him sit with Abu Abd al-Samad 00:04:05.280 --> 00:04:08.280 The teacher of the sons of Al-Rashid 00:04:08.280 --> 00:04:11.280 He said to him, O Abu Abdullah 00:04:11.280 --> 00:04:14.280 These are the children of the Commander of the Faithful 00:04:14.280 --> 00:04:17.279 This is their discipline 00:04:17.279 --> 00:04:20.399 If I were to recommend it, I would go to Abu Abd al-Samad 00:04:20.399 --> 00:04:23.399 He said to him, “Let it be the first thing you start with.” 00:04:23.399 --> 00:04:26.399 From reforming the children of the Commander of the Faithful 00:04:26.399 --> 00:04:29.439 Fix yourself 00:04:29.439 --> 00:04:32.439 Their eyes are fixed on your eyes 00:04:32.439 --> 00:04:35.439 What is good for them is what you approve of 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:38.439 What is ugly to them is what you find ugly 00:04:38.439 --> 00:04:41.560 Teach them the Book of God 00:04:41.560 --> 00:04:44.560 And do not force them to do it, lest they get bored with it 00:04:44.560 --> 00:04:47.720 And do not leave them lest they abandon him 00:04:47.720 --> 00:04:50.720 Then increase their hair and groom it 00:04:50.720 --> 00:04:53.720 It is the most honorable hadith 00:04:53.720 --> 00:04:56.720 Do not push them away from one knowledge to another 00:04:56.720 --> 00:04:59.819 Until they master it 00:04:59.819 --> 00:05:03.399 The speech is crowded in the ear 00:05:03.399 --> 00:05:06.399 Misunderstanding 00:05:06.399 --> 00:05:09.399 Al-Maimoni, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:09.399 --> 00:05:12.399 I asked Abu Abdullah 00:05:12.399 --> 00:05:15.399 Ahmed bin Hanbal, may God have mercy on him 00:05:16.399 --> 00:05:19.399 He said no to the Qur’an 00:05:19.399 --> 00:05:22.399 I said I know it all 00:05:22.399 --> 00:05:25.399 He said, “Unless it is difficult, learn it from him.” 00:05:25.399 --> 00:05:28.399 Then he told me 00:05:28.399 --> 00:05:31.399 If he reads first 00:05:31.399 --> 00:05:34.779 Read again and then commit to it 00:05:34.779 --> 00:05:37.779 Ibn Muflih, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:37.779 --> 00:05:40.779 The followers of Imam Ahmed are based on this 00:05:40.779 --> 00:05:45.990 To our time 00:05:45.990 --> 00:05:50.329 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:05:50.329 --> 00:05:53.329 A man's rank will be raised 00:05:53.329 --> 00:05:56.329 He says: Oh my Lord 00:05:56.329 --> 00:05:59.329 How do I get this? 00:05:59.329 --> 00:06:02.560 He is told to ask forgiveness from your son 00:06:02.560 --> 00:06:05.560 Ibrahim bin Adham, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:05.560 --> 00:06:08.560 For a man who has children 00:06:08.560 --> 00:06:11.560 He said yes he said 00:06:11.560 --> 00:06:14.560 How wonderful your children are 00:06:15.560 --> 00:06:20.319 Patience over the loss of the child 00:06:20.319 --> 00:06:24.209 Muhammad bin Is Al-Zahid said 00:06:24.209 --> 00:06:27.310 May God have mercy on him for what he has reached 00:06:27.310 --> 00:06:30.310 Abdul Rahman bin Mahdi, may God have mercy on him 00:06:30.310 --> 00:06:33.310 His son died 00:06:33.310 --> 00:06:36.310 He was greatly alarmed 00:06:36.310 --> 00:06:39.310 This reached Muhammad bin Idris 00:06:39.310 --> 00:06:42.310 Shafi'i, may God have mercy on him 00:06:42.310 --> 00:06:45.310 So he wrote to him 00:06:46.310 --> 00:06:49.310 So what if it comes together? 00:06:49.310 --> 00:06:52.370 On gaining weight 00:06:52.370 --> 00:06:55.370 So I say, I am your comforter 00:06:55.370 --> 00:06:58.370 No, I'm not confident 00:06:58.370 --> 00:07:01.370 Of eternity but the year of religion 00:07:01.370 --> 00:07:04.370 A goat filled with Baq 00:07:04.370 --> 00:07:07.370 After his companion and for the comforter 00:07:07.370 --> 00:07:10.529 Even if they lived for a while 00:07:10.529 --> 00:07:13.529 He said, “They were fighting with him.” 00:07:14.529 --> 00:07:19.550 He preferred to spend on them 00:07:19.550 --> 00:07:22.870 On the authority of Abu Qilabah, on the authority of Abu Asma 00:07:22.870 --> 00:07:25.870 On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him 00:07:25.870 --> 00:07:28.870 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:07:28.870 --> 00:07:31.899 The best dinar a man can spend 00:07:31.899 --> 00:07:34.899 A dinar that he spends on his family 00:07:34.899 --> 00:07:37.899 A dinar is spent by a man 00:07:37.899 --> 00:07:40.899 On his animal for the sake of God 00:07:40.899 --> 00:07:43.899 And a dinar that he spends on his friends 00:07:43.899 --> 00:07:45.899 For God's sake 00:07:45.899 --> 00:07:49.029 Abu Qalabah, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:49.029 --> 00:07:51.029 He started with the children 00:07:51.029 --> 00:07:54.029 What man is the greatest worker? 00:07:54.029 --> 00:07:57.029 From a man who spends on young children 00:07:57.029 --> 00:08:00.029 Until God Almighty enriches them 00:08:00.029 --> 00:08:03.480 Abdullah Ibn Al-Mubarak said 00:08:03.480 --> 00:08:06.480 May God have mercy on him, the site is not located 00:08:06.480 --> 00:08:09.480 Earning money for one's children is one thing 00:08:09.480 --> 00:08:12.480 Nor jihad for the sake of God Almighty 00:08:12.480 --> 00:08:15.990 Al-Shaabi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:15.990 --> 00:08:19.990 Whatever slave leaves behind wealth, he is the greatest of his earners 00:08:19.990 --> 00:08:22.990 From the money he leaves to his son 00:08:22.990 --> 00:08:26.370 He keeps himself away from people 00:08:26.370 --> 00:08:29.370 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said: 00:08:29.370 --> 00:08:32.370 He who takes care of his family is a traitor 00:08:32.370 --> 00:08:36.039 On the authority of Muslim he said: 00:08:36.039 --> 00:08:39.039 I was told by Muawiyah Ibn Qurrah, may God have mercy on him 00:08:39.039 --> 00:08:42.039 And I came from pasture 00:08:42.039 --> 00:08:45.039 He said: What did you do? 00:08:45.039 --> 00:08:48.039 I said, “I disavow such-and-such and such-and-such for my family.” 00:08:48.039 --> 00:08:51.039 He said, “I got it from what is permissible.” 00:08:51.039 --> 00:08:54.039 He said I said yes 00:08:54.039 --> 00:08:57.039 He said because I am in the morning 00:08:57.039 --> 00:09:00.039 What I became every day 00:09:00.039 --> 00:09:03.039 I love to stay up all night 00:09:03.039 --> 00:09:07.039 And I fast during the day