1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,160 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:09,449 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 3 00:00:09,449 --> 00:00:13,500 When a woman says to a man 4 00:00:13,500 --> 00:00:14,939 Hit you 5 00:00:14,939 --> 00:00:19,920 The life of the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,160 Full of adversity 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:27,350 As soon as one ordeal ends, another begins 8 00:00:27,350 --> 00:00:31,809 He, peace be upon him, moves from one ordeal to another 9 00:00:32,049 --> 00:00:35,850 From being thrown into a pit to the ordeal of slavery 10 00:00:35,850 --> 00:00:38,600 He is Al-Karim bin Al-Karim 11 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,960 Then comes the most severe ordeal he has ever experienced in his life 12 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,049 It is the temptation of women 13 00:00:46,049 --> 00:00:51,409 The trials that a believer experiences are evidence of the sincerity of his faith 14 00:00:51,409 --> 00:00:56,079 And his advancement in the level of faith and his high ranks 15 00:00:56,079 --> 00:00:59,600 The higher his rank, the greater his faith 16 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,420 May God increase his calamity 17 00:01:02,460 --> 00:01:05,939 On the authority of Musab bin Saad, on the authority of his father, he said: 18 00:01:05,939 --> 00:01:08,060 I said, O Messenger of God 19 00:01:08,060 --> 00:01:11,060 Which people are more afflicted? 20 00:01:11,060 --> 00:01:12,219 He said 21 00:01:12,219 --> 00:01:16,579 The prophets, then the best, then the best 22 00:01:16,579 --> 00:01:19,659 The man will be tested according to his religion 23 00:01:19,659 --> 00:01:23,980 If his religion is solid, his affliction will become more severe 24 00:01:23,980 --> 00:01:26,819 Even if there is tenderness in his religion 25 00:01:26,819 --> 00:01:29,769 He is afflicted according to his religion 26 00:01:29,769 --> 00:01:32,530 The affliction never ceases to befall the servant 27 00:01:32,530 --> 00:01:37,530 Until he leaves him walking on the earth with no sin 28 00:01:37,530 --> 00:01:39,819 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 29 00:01:39,819 --> 00:01:41,540 And the temptation of women 30 00:01:41,540 --> 00:01:44,859 It is the greatest temptation that a man can experience 31 00:01:44,859 --> 00:01:49,260 The most dangerous affliction that tests a man's faith 32 00:01:49,260 --> 00:01:54,140 As stated in the hadith of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both 33 00:01:54,140 --> 00:01:58,140 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 34 00:01:58,180 --> 00:02:03,459 I have not left any temptation more harmful to men than women 35 00:02:03,459 --> 00:02:05,969 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 36 00:02:05,969 --> 00:02:09,650 This temptation has varying degrees 37 00:02:09,650 --> 00:02:12,650 But the most dangerous is for men 38 00:02:12,650 --> 00:02:18,449 The initiative to commit immorality comes from a woman of position and beauty 39 00:02:18,449 --> 00:02:21,289 As stated in the hadith of Abu Hurairah 40 00:02:21,289 --> 00:02:25,169 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 41 00:02:25,169 --> 00:02:28,330 Seven whom God will mislead under His shadow 42 00:02:28,330 --> 00:02:31,240 A day when there will be no shade except his shade 43 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,159 Imam Al-Adel 44 00:02:33,159 --> 00:02:36,680 A young man who grew up worshiping his Lord 45 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,520 And a man whose heart is hanging in mosques 46 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,360 Two men loved each other for the sake of God 47 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,990 They gathered on it and dispersed on it 48 00:02:46,990 --> 00:02:51,430 A man was sought by a woman of position and beauty 49 00:02:51,430 --> 00:02:52,750 And he said 50 00:02:52,750 --> 00:02:55,150 I fear God 51 00:02:55,150 --> 00:02:57,270 And a man of charity 52 00:02:57,310 --> 00:03:02,349 He hid it so that his left hand would not know what his right hand was spending 53 00:03:02,349 --> 00:03:07,379 And a man mentioned God in private, and his eyes filled with tears 54 00:03:07,379 --> 00:03:09,860 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 55 00:03:09,860 --> 00:03:14,340 Who is saved from this temptation at this level? 56 00:03:14,340 --> 00:03:18,759 God will lead him astray in the shadow of His Throne on the Day of Resurrection 57 00:03:18,759 --> 00:03:20,919 And Joseph, peace be upon him 58 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,639 He has been afflicted to this degree with the wife of the dear 59 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,819 But God protected him 60 00:03:27,860 --> 00:03:32,180 The hadith of the seven whom God leads astray under His shadow 61 00:03:32,180 --> 00:03:35,539 And the temptation of Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph 62 00:03:35,539 --> 00:03:40,340 There is an indication that if a woman is fascinated by a man 63 00:03:40,340 --> 00:03:44,419 I broke the barrier of modesty in order to reach him 64 00:03:44,419 --> 00:03:49,300 She crossed all barriers and barriers in order to reach him 65 00:03:49,300 --> 00:03:51,960 Here lies the danger 66 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:56,360 A man is weak by nature and cannot be patient with a woman 67 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:00,120 He is susceptible to her temptation and temptation 68 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,280 As God Almighty said 69 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,800 And God wants to repent to you 70 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:11,800 Those who follow desires want you to lean greatly 71 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:15,199 God wants to ease your burden 72 00:04:15,199 --> 00:04:18,660 Man was created weak 73 00:04:18,660 --> 00:04:21,459 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said 74 00:04:21,459 --> 00:04:26,420 The power of lust is often hidden from people's eyes 75 00:04:26,420 --> 00:04:28,899 And her devil was afraid 76 00:04:28,899 --> 00:04:31,459 It can be done many times 77 00:04:31,459 --> 00:04:34,500 Substitute what is permissible for what is forbidden 78 00:04:34,500 --> 00:04:37,860 Otherwise, if lust becomes active and takes over 79 00:04:37,860 --> 00:04:40,579 It may be stronger than anger 80 00:04:40,579 --> 00:04:42,540 And God Almighty said 81 00:04:42,540 --> 00:04:45,660 Man was created weak 82 00:04:45,660 --> 00:04:49,899 That is, he is weak towards women and cannot be patient with them 83 00:04:49,899 --> 00:04:54,699 The context of the words indicates that he is weak in abandoning desires 84 00:04:54,699 --> 00:05:00,019 He must have a permissible desire to dispense with the forbidden 85 00:05:00,019 --> 00:05:03,459 That's why he said peacock and fighter 86 00:05:03,459 --> 00:05:07,300 Weak in lack of patience with women 87 00:05:07,300 --> 00:05:09,579 The soul's inclination towards women 88 00:05:09,579 --> 00:05:13,620 It is common in the nature of all human beings 89 00:05:13,620 --> 00:05:16,860 This is an example for young people in particular 90 00:05:16,860 --> 00:05:18,860 And for men in general 91 00:05:18,860 --> 00:05:24,220 Not to test their strength in the face of the temptation and seduction of women 92 00:05:24,259 --> 00:05:26,740 Their fall is fast 93 00:05:26,740 --> 00:05:31,449 They must seek refuge in God from the temptation of women 94 00:05:31,449 --> 00:05:33,449 This is a weakness in a man 95 00:05:33,449 --> 00:05:37,009 If he is met with a woman’s desire to engage in immorality with him 96 00:05:37,009 --> 00:05:40,930 She invited him explicitly, without hinting 97 00:05:40,930 --> 00:05:43,329 He became blown away 98 00:05:43,329 --> 00:05:46,569 No one is safe from this temptation 99 00:05:46,569 --> 00:05:50,079 Except for those whom God Almighty protects 100 00:05:50,079 --> 00:05:52,519 This has great significance 101 00:05:52,519 --> 00:05:57,759 However, adultery does not occur except with the woman’s facilitation and consent 102 00:05:57,759 --> 00:06:01,800 Either directly or indirectly 103 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:07,680 This means that a woman must protect herself from falling into adultery 104 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:11,639 She does not deceive herself that the man deceived her 105 00:06:11,639 --> 00:06:13,839 If it were not for her inner desire 106 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,759 Why would anyone dare her? 107 00:06:16,759 --> 00:06:18,759 Scientists have said 108 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:24,040 A thousand men cannot convince one woman to commit adultery 109 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,439 If she has no desire to do so 110 00:06:27,439 --> 00:06:29,439 Even one woman 111 00:06:29,439 --> 00:06:31,879 You can seduce a thousand men 112 00:06:31,879 --> 00:06:36,160 And make them commit adultery if you wish 113 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:40,879 When we consider what God Almighty says about the wife of the Mighty One 114 00:06:40,879 --> 00:06:45,160 The one in whose house he was thinking about himself 115 00:06:45,199 --> 00:06:47,120 Realize that your dear woman 116 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,959 I had tried several times before this moment 117 00:06:50,959 --> 00:06:53,360 Indirect ways 118 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,000 But it failed 119 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,800 Joseph, peace be upon him, did not pay attention to her 120 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,600 Why did these methods not work? 121 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,199 I resorted to the direct route 122 00:07:05,199 --> 00:07:09,360 Taking all the reasons for immorality 123 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,750 She closed the doors and said hello to you 124 00:07:13,750 --> 00:07:17,430 But the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 125 00:07:17,430 --> 00:07:21,149 God saved him and protected him from this temptation 126 00:07:21,149 --> 00:07:25,629 In which all financial means were prepared for him 127 00:07:25,629 --> 00:07:31,509 Which makes him fall into immorality with the wife of the Mighty One without fear 128 00:07:31,509 --> 00:07:34,069 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 129 00:07:34,069 --> 00:07:36,189 This great ordeal 130 00:07:36,189 --> 00:07:39,589 It was greater for Joseph than the plight of his brothers 131 00:07:39,589 --> 00:07:42,709 His patience with her is of greater reward 132 00:07:42,709 --> 00:07:46,670 Because patience is a choice despite the presence of many reasons 133 00:07:46,670 --> 00:07:48,589 for the act to occur 134 00:07:48,589 --> 00:07:51,750 He offered God's love to her 135 00:07:51,750 --> 00:07:54,149 As for his ordeal with his brothers 136 00:07:54,149 --> 00:07:56,589 His patience was the patience of Al-Tarrar 137 00:07:56,589 --> 00:07:58,750 Like diseases and calamities 138 00:07:58,750 --> 00:08:01,949 Which afflicts the servant without his choice 139 00:08:01,949 --> 00:08:05,350 He has no recourse but to be patient with her 140 00:08:05,350 --> 00:08:07,709 Willingly or unwillingly 141 00:08:07,709 --> 00:08:11,029 This is because Joseph, peace and blessings be upon him 142 00:08:11,069 --> 00:08:14,189 He remained honored in the house of Al-Aziz 143 00:08:14,189 --> 00:08:17,910 He had beauty, perfection, and splendor 144 00:08:17,910 --> 00:08:19,910 What necessitates that? 145 00:08:19,910 --> 00:08:23,870 That the one in whose house he was thinking about himself 146 00:08:23,870 --> 00:08:27,310 That is, he is her servant and under her control 147 00:08:27,310 --> 00:08:29,310 And the dwelling is one 148 00:08:29,310 --> 00:08:33,750 It is easy for a bad thing to happen without anyone notifying it 149 00:08:33,750 --> 00:08:36,200 No human feeling 150 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:38,000 The disaster increased 151 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,320 That the doors were closed 152 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,759 The store became empty 153 00:08:42,759 --> 00:08:46,320 They are safe from anyone entering them 154 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,960 Because the doors were closed 155 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,960 She invited him to herself and said, "Hello!" 156 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:57,440 That is, do the hated thing and come to me 157 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,799 However, it is strange 158 00:08:59,799 --> 00:09:02,440 He is not as modest as he is 159 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,960 If he is in his homeland and among his acquaintances 160 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,759 He is a prisoner under her hand, and she is his mistress 161 00:09:09,799 --> 00:09:13,879 There is beauty in it that makes it there 162 00:09:13,879 --> 00:09:16,080 He is a single young man 163 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:23,059 She threatened him with imprisonment or painful punishment if he did not do what she ordered him to do 164 00:09:23,059 --> 00:09:27,980 So he was patient in refraining from disobeying God despite the presence of a strong advocate in him 165 00:09:27,980 --> 00:09:32,220 Because he was concerned about it and left it to God 166 00:09:32,220 --> 00:09:37,100 God's will took precedence over the soul's desire to command evil 167 00:09:37,100 --> 00:09:39,379 He saw the proof of his Lord 168 00:09:39,419 --> 00:09:42,340 This is what he has of knowledge and faith 169 00:09:42,340 --> 00:09:45,500 The reason for abandoning everything that God has forbidden 170 00:09:45,500 --> 00:09:51,210 What forced him to distance himself from this great sin 171 00:09:51,210 --> 00:09:55,690 What made Al-Aziz’s wife fall in love with Joseph? 172 00:09:55,690 --> 00:09:59,809 What saved Joseph from her infatuation? 173 00:09:59,809 --> 00:10:01,809 For the rest of the talk 174 00:10:01,809 --> 00:10:07,500 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 175 00:10:07,500 --> 00:10:11,460 The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz