WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.160 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.160 --> 00:00:09.449 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 00:00:09.449 --> 00:00:13.500 When a woman says to a man 00:00:13.500 --> 00:00:14.939 Hit you 00:00:14.939 --> 00:00:19.920 The life of the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 00:00:19.920 --> 00:00:22.160 Full of adversity 00:00:22.160 --> 00:00:27.350 As soon as one ordeal ends, another begins 00:00:27.350 --> 00:00:31.809 He, peace be upon him, moves from one ordeal to another 00:00:32.049 --> 00:00:35.850 From being thrown into a pit to the ordeal of slavery 00:00:35.850 --> 00:00:38.600 He is Al-Karim bin Al-Karim 00:00:38.600 --> 00:00:42.960 Then comes the most severe ordeal he has ever experienced in his life 00:00:42.960 --> 00:00:46.049 It is the temptation of women 00:00:46.049 --> 00:00:51.409 The trials that a believer experiences are evidence of the sincerity of his faith 00:00:51.409 --> 00:00:56.079 And his advancement in the level of faith and his high ranks 00:00:56.079 --> 00:00:59.600 The higher his rank, the greater his faith 00:00:59.600 --> 00:01:02.420 May God increase his calamity 00:01:02.460 --> 00:01:05.939 On the authority of Musab bin Saad, on the authority of his father, he said: 00:01:05.939 --> 00:01:08.060 I said, O Messenger of God 00:01:08.060 --> 00:01:11.060 Which people are more afflicted? 00:01:11.060 --> 00:01:12.219 He said 00:01:12.219 --> 00:01:16.579 The prophets, then the best, then the best 00:01:16.579 --> 00:01:19.659 The man will be tested according to his religion 00:01:19.659 --> 00:01:23.980 If his religion is solid, his affliction will become more severe 00:01:23.980 --> 00:01:26.819 Even if there is tenderness in his religion 00:01:26.819 --> 00:01:29.769 He is afflicted according to his religion 00:01:29.769 --> 00:01:32.530 The affliction never ceases to befall the servant 00:01:32.530 --> 00:01:37.530 Until he leaves him walking on the earth with no sin 00:01:37.530 --> 00:01:39.819 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:01:39.819 --> 00:01:41.540 And the temptation of women 00:01:41.540 --> 00:01:44.859 It is the greatest temptation that a man can experience 00:01:44.859 --> 00:01:49.260 The most dangerous affliction that tests a man's faith 00:01:49.260 --> 00:01:54.140 As stated in the hadith of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both 00:01:54.140 --> 00:01:58.140 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:01:58.180 --> 00:02:03.459 I have not left any temptation more harmful to men than women 00:02:03.459 --> 00:02:05.969 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:02:05.969 --> 00:02:09.650 This temptation has varying degrees 00:02:09.650 --> 00:02:12.650 But the most dangerous is for men 00:02:12.650 --> 00:02:18.449 The initiative to commit immorality comes from a woman of position and beauty 00:02:18.449 --> 00:02:21.289 As stated in the hadith of Abu Hurairah 00:02:21.289 --> 00:02:25.169 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:02:25.169 --> 00:02:28.330 Seven whom God will mislead under His shadow 00:02:28.330 --> 00:02:31.240 A day when there will be no shade except his shade 00:02:31.240 --> 00:02:33.159 Imam Al-Adel 00:02:33.159 --> 00:02:36.680 A young man who grew up worshiping his Lord 00:02:36.680 --> 00:02:40.520 And a man whose heart is hanging in mosques 00:02:40.520 --> 00:02:43.360 Two men loved each other for the sake of God 00:02:43.360 --> 00:02:46.990 They gathered on it and dispersed on it 00:02:46.990 --> 00:02:51.430 A man was sought by a woman of position and beauty 00:02:51.430 --> 00:02:52.750 And he said 00:02:52.750 --> 00:02:55.150 I fear God 00:02:55.150 --> 00:02:57.270 And a man of charity 00:02:57.310 --> 00:03:02.349 He hid it so that his left hand would not know what his right hand was spending 00:03:02.349 --> 00:03:07.379 And a man mentioned God in private, and his eyes filled with tears 00:03:07.379 --> 00:03:09.860 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:03:09.860 --> 00:03:14.340 Who is saved from this temptation at this level? 00:03:14.340 --> 00:03:18.759 God will lead him astray in the shadow of His Throne on the Day of Resurrection 00:03:18.759 --> 00:03:20.919 And Joseph, peace be upon him 00:03:20.919 --> 00:03:24.639 He has been afflicted to this degree with the wife of the dear 00:03:24.639 --> 00:03:27.819 But God protected him 00:03:27.860 --> 00:03:32.180 The hadith of the seven whom God leads astray under His shadow 00:03:32.180 --> 00:03:35.539 And the temptation of Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph 00:03:35.539 --> 00:03:40.340 There is an indication that if a woman is fascinated by a man 00:03:40.340 --> 00:03:44.419 I broke the barrier of modesty in order to reach him 00:03:44.419 --> 00:03:49.300 She crossed all barriers and barriers in order to reach him 00:03:49.300 --> 00:03:51.960 Here lies the danger 00:03:51.960 --> 00:03:56.360 A man is weak by nature and cannot be patient with a woman 00:03:56.360 --> 00:04:00.120 He is susceptible to her temptation and temptation 00:04:00.120 --> 00:04:02.280 As God Almighty said 00:04:02.280 --> 00:04:05.800 And God wants to repent to you 00:04:05.800 --> 00:04:11.800 Those who follow desires want you to lean greatly 00:04:11.800 --> 00:04:15.199 God wants to ease your burden 00:04:15.199 --> 00:04:18.660 Man was created weak 00:04:18.660 --> 00:04:21.459 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:21.459 --> 00:04:26.420 The power of lust is often hidden from people's eyes 00:04:26.420 --> 00:04:28.899 And her devil was afraid 00:04:28.899 --> 00:04:31.459 It can be done many times 00:04:31.459 --> 00:04:34.500 Substitute what is permissible for what is forbidden 00:04:34.500 --> 00:04:37.860 Otherwise, if lust becomes active and takes over 00:04:37.860 --> 00:04:40.579 It may be stronger than anger 00:04:40.579 --> 00:04:42.540 And God Almighty said 00:04:42.540 --> 00:04:45.660 Man was created weak 00:04:45.660 --> 00:04:49.899 That is, he is weak towards women and cannot be patient with them 00:04:49.899 --> 00:04:54.699 The context of the words indicates that he is weak in abandoning desires 00:04:54.699 --> 00:05:00.019 He must have a permissible desire to dispense with the forbidden 00:05:00.019 --> 00:05:03.459 That's why he said peacock and fighter 00:05:03.459 --> 00:05:07.300 Weak in lack of patience with women 00:05:07.300 --> 00:05:09.579 The soul's inclination towards women 00:05:09.579 --> 00:05:13.620 It is common in the nature of all human beings 00:05:13.620 --> 00:05:16.860 This is an example for young people in particular 00:05:16.860 --> 00:05:18.860 And for men in general 00:05:18.860 --> 00:05:24.220 Not to test their strength in the face of the temptation and seduction of women 00:05:24.259 --> 00:05:26.740 Their fall is fast 00:05:26.740 --> 00:05:31.449 They must seek refuge in God from the temptation of women 00:05:31.449 --> 00:05:33.449 This is a weakness in a man 00:05:33.449 --> 00:05:37.009 If he is met with a woman’s desire to engage in immorality with him 00:05:37.009 --> 00:05:40.930 She invited him explicitly, without hinting 00:05:40.930 --> 00:05:43.329 He became blown away 00:05:43.329 --> 00:05:46.569 No one is safe from this temptation 00:05:46.569 --> 00:05:50.079 Except for those whom God Almighty protects 00:05:50.079 --> 00:05:52.519 This has great significance 00:05:52.519 --> 00:05:57.759 However, adultery does not occur except with the woman’s facilitation and consent 00:05:57.759 --> 00:06:01.800 Either directly or indirectly 00:06:01.800 --> 00:06:07.680 This means that a woman must protect herself from falling into adultery 00:06:07.680 --> 00:06:11.639 She does not deceive herself that the man deceived her 00:06:11.639 --> 00:06:13.839 If it were not for her inner desire 00:06:13.839 --> 00:06:16.759 Why would anyone dare her? 00:06:16.759 --> 00:06:18.759 Scientists have said 00:06:18.800 --> 00:06:24.040 A thousand men cannot convince one woman to commit adultery 00:06:24.040 --> 00:06:27.439 If she has no desire to do so 00:06:27.439 --> 00:06:29.439 Even one woman 00:06:29.439 --> 00:06:31.879 You can seduce a thousand men 00:06:31.879 --> 00:06:36.160 And make them commit adultery if you wish 00:06:36.160 --> 00:06:40.879 When we consider what God Almighty says about the wife of the Mighty One 00:06:40.879 --> 00:06:45.160 The one in whose house he was thinking about himself 00:06:45.199 --> 00:06:47.120 Realize that your dear woman 00:06:47.120 --> 00:06:50.959 I had tried several times before this moment 00:06:50.959 --> 00:06:53.360 Indirect ways 00:06:53.360 --> 00:06:56.000 But it failed 00:06:56.000 --> 00:06:59.800 Joseph, peace be upon him, did not pay attention to her 00:06:59.800 --> 00:07:02.600 Why did these methods not work? 00:07:02.600 --> 00:07:05.199 I resorted to the direct route 00:07:05.199 --> 00:07:09.360 Taking all the reasons for immorality 00:07:09.360 --> 00:07:13.750 She closed the doors and said hello to you 00:07:13.750 --> 00:07:17.430 But the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 00:07:17.430 --> 00:07:21.149 God saved him and protected him from this temptation 00:07:21.149 --> 00:07:25.629 In which all financial means were prepared for him 00:07:25.629 --> 00:07:31.509 Which makes him fall into immorality with the wife of the Mighty One without fear 00:07:31.509 --> 00:07:34.069 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:34.069 --> 00:07:36.189 This great ordeal 00:07:36.189 --> 00:07:39.589 It was greater for Joseph than the plight of his brothers 00:07:39.589 --> 00:07:42.709 His patience with her is of greater reward 00:07:42.709 --> 00:07:46.670 Because patience is a choice despite the presence of many reasons 00:07:46.670 --> 00:07:48.589 for the act to occur 00:07:48.589 --> 00:07:51.750 He offered God's love to her 00:07:51.750 --> 00:07:54.149 As for his ordeal with his brothers 00:07:54.149 --> 00:07:56.589 His patience was the patience of Al-Tarrar 00:07:56.589 --> 00:07:58.750 Like diseases and calamities 00:07:58.750 --> 00:08:01.949 Which afflicts the servant without his choice 00:08:01.949 --> 00:08:05.350 He has no recourse but to be patient with her 00:08:05.350 --> 00:08:07.709 Willingly or unwillingly 00:08:07.709 --> 00:08:11.029 This is because Joseph, peace and blessings be upon him 00:08:11.069 --> 00:08:14.189 He remained honored in the house of Al-Aziz 00:08:14.189 --> 00:08:17.910 He had beauty, perfection, and splendor 00:08:17.910 --> 00:08:19.910 What necessitates that? 00:08:19.910 --> 00:08:23.870 That the one in whose house he was thinking about himself 00:08:23.870 --> 00:08:27.310 That is, he is her servant and under her control 00:08:27.310 --> 00:08:29.310 And the dwelling is one 00:08:29.310 --> 00:08:33.750 It is easy for a bad thing to happen without anyone notifying it 00:08:33.750 --> 00:08:36.200 No human feeling 00:08:36.200 --> 00:08:38.000 The disaster increased 00:08:38.000 --> 00:08:40.320 That the doors were closed 00:08:40.360 --> 00:08:42.759 The store became empty 00:08:42.759 --> 00:08:46.320 They are safe from anyone entering them 00:08:46.320 --> 00:08:48.960 Because the doors were closed 00:08:48.960 --> 00:08:52.960 She invited him to herself and said, "Hello!" 00:08:52.960 --> 00:08:57.440 That is, do the hated thing and come to me 00:08:57.440 --> 00:08:59.799 However, it is strange 00:08:59.799 --> 00:09:02.440 He is not as modest as he is 00:09:02.440 --> 00:09:05.960 If he is in his homeland and among his acquaintances 00:09:05.960 --> 00:09:09.759 He is a prisoner under her hand, and she is his mistress 00:09:09.799 --> 00:09:13.879 There is beauty in it that makes it there 00:09:13.879 --> 00:09:16.080 He is a single young man 00:09:16.080 --> 00:09:23.059 She threatened him with imprisonment or painful punishment if he did not do what she ordered him to do 00:09:23.059 --> 00:09:27.980 So he was patient in refraining from disobeying God despite the presence of a strong advocate in him 00:09:27.980 --> 00:09:32.220 Because he was concerned about it and left it to God 00:09:32.220 --> 00:09:37.100 God's will took precedence over the soul's desire to command evil 00:09:37.100 --> 00:09:39.379 He saw the proof of his Lord 00:09:39.419 --> 00:09:42.340 This is what he has of knowledge and faith 00:09:42.340 --> 00:09:45.500 The reason for abandoning everything that God has forbidden 00:09:45.500 --> 00:09:51.210 What forced him to distance himself from this great sin 00:09:51.210 --> 00:09:55.690 What made Al-Aziz’s wife fall in love with Joseph? 00:09:55.690 --> 00:09:59.809 What saved Joseph from her infatuation? 00:09:59.809 --> 00:10:01.809 For the rest of the talk 00:10:01.809 --> 00:10:07.500 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:07.500 --> 00:10:11.460 The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz