In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz
When a woman says to a man
Hit you
The life of the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him
Full of adversity
As soon as one ordeal ends, another begins
He, peace be upon him, moves from one ordeal to another
From being thrown into a pit to the ordeal of slavery
He is Al-Karim bin Al-Karim
Then comes the most severe ordeal he has ever experienced in his life
It is the temptation of women
The trials that a believer experiences are evidence of the sincerity of his faith
And his advancement in the level of faith and his high ranks
The higher his rank, the greater his faith
May God increase his calamity
On the authority of Musab bin Saad, on the authority of his father, he said:
I said, O Messenger of God
Which people are more afflicted?
He said
The prophets, then the best, then the best
The man will be tested according to his religion
If his religion is solid, his affliction will become more severe
Even if there is tenderness in his religion
He is afflicted according to his religion
The affliction never ceases to befall the servant
Until he leaves him walking on the earth with no sin
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
And the temptation of women
It is the greatest temptation that a man can experience
The most dangerous affliction that tests a man's faith
As stated in the hadith of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
I have not left any temptation more harmful to men than women
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
This temptation has varying degrees
But the most dangerous is for men
The initiative to commit immorality comes from a woman of position and beauty
As stated in the hadith of Abu Hurairah
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
Seven whom God will mislead under His shadow
A day when there will be no shade except his shade
Imam Al-Adel
A young man who grew up worshiping his Lord
And a man whose heart is hanging in mosques
Two men loved each other for the sake of God
They gathered on it and dispersed on it
A man was sought by a woman of position and beauty
And he said
I fear God
And a man of charity
He hid it so that his left hand would not know what his right hand was spending
And a man mentioned God in private, and his eyes filled with tears
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
Who is saved from this temptation at this level?
God will lead him astray in the shadow of His Throne on the Day of Resurrection
And Joseph, peace be upon him
He has been afflicted to this degree with the wife of the dear
But God protected him
The hadith of the seven whom God leads astray under His shadow
And the temptation of Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph
There is an indication that if a woman is fascinated by a man
I broke the barrier of modesty in order to reach him
She crossed all barriers and barriers in order to reach him
Here lies the danger
A man is weak by nature and cannot be patient with a woman
He is susceptible to her temptation and temptation
As God Almighty said
And God wants to repent to you
Those who follow desires want you to lean greatly
God wants to ease your burden
Man was created weak
Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said
The power of lust is often hidden from people's eyes
And her devil was afraid
It can be done many times
Substitute what is permissible for what is forbidden
Otherwise, if lust becomes active and takes over
It may be stronger than anger
And God Almighty said
Man was created weak
That is, he is weak towards women and cannot be patient with them
The context of the words indicates that he is weak in abandoning desires
He must have a permissible desire to dispense with the forbidden
That's why he said peacock and fighter
Weak in lack of patience with women
The soul's inclination towards women
It is common in the nature of all human beings
This is an example for young people in particular
And for men in general
Not to test their strength in the face of the temptation and seduction of women
Their fall is fast
They must seek refuge in God from the temptation of women
This is a weakness in a man
If he is met with a woman’s desire to engage in immorality with him
She invited him explicitly, without hinting
He became blown away
No one is safe from this temptation
Except for those whom God Almighty protects
This has great significance
However, adultery does not occur except with the woman’s facilitation and consent
Either directly or indirectly
This means that a woman must protect herself from falling into adultery
She does not deceive herself that the man deceived her
If it were not for her inner desire
Why would anyone dare her?
Scientists have said
A thousand men cannot convince one woman to commit adultery
If she has no desire to do so
Even one woman
You can seduce a thousand men
And make them commit adultery if you wish
When we consider what God Almighty says about the wife of the Mighty One
The one in whose house he was thinking about himself
Realize that your dear woman
I had tried several times before this moment
Indirect ways
But it failed
Joseph, peace be upon him, did not pay attention to her
Why did these methods not work?
I resorted to the direct route
Taking all the reasons for immorality
She closed the doors and said hello to you
But the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him
God saved him and protected him from this temptation
In which all financial means were prepared for him
Which makes him fall into immorality with the wife of the Mighty One without fear
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
This great ordeal
It was greater for Joseph than the plight of his brothers
His patience with her is of greater reward
Because patience is a choice despite the presence of many reasons
for the act to occur
He offered God's love to her
As for his ordeal with his brothers
His patience was the patience of Al-Tarrar
Like diseases and calamities
Which afflicts the servant without his choice
He has no recourse but to be patient with her
Willingly or unwillingly
This is because Joseph, peace and blessings be upon him
He remained honored in the house of Al-Aziz
He had beauty, perfection, and splendor
What necessitates that?
That the one in whose house he was thinking about himself
That is, he is her servant and under her control
And the dwelling is one
It is easy for a bad thing to happen without anyone notifying it
No human feeling
The disaster increased
That the doors were closed
The store became empty
They are safe from anyone entering them
Because the doors were closed
She invited him to herself and said, "Hello!"
That is, do the hated thing and come to me
However, it is strange
He is not as modest as he is
If he is in his homeland and among his acquaintances
He is a prisoner under her hand, and she is his mistress
There is beauty in it that makes it there
He is a single young man
She threatened him with imprisonment or painful punishment if he did not do what she ordered him to do
So he was patient in refraining from disobeying God despite the presence of a strong advocate in him
Because he was concerned about it and left it to God
God's will took precedence over the soul's desire to command evil
He saw the proof of his Lord
This is what he has of knowledge and faith
The reason for abandoning everything that God has forbidden
What forced him to distance himself from this great sin
What made Al-Aziz’s wife fall in love with Joseph?
What saved Joseph from her infatuation?
For the rest of the talk
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz