1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:15,369 Chapter on patience 3 00:00:15,369 --> 00:00:18,370 On the authority of Ibn Masoudh, may God be pleased with him, he said: 4 00:00:18,370 --> 00:00:21,370 When it was a day of nostalgia 5 00:00:21,370 --> 00:00:26,370 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, preferred people in the division 6 00:00:26,370 --> 00:00:30,460 Al-Aqra' gave Ibn Habis a hundred camels 7 00:00:30,460 --> 00:00:33,460 Ibn Hisn gave a similar example 8 00:00:33,460 --> 00:00:39,460 He gave gifts to some of the noble Arabs and influenced them in the division at that time 9 00:00:39,460 --> 00:00:41,560 A man said 10 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:45,560 By God, this is an unjust division 11 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,560 And what I want is the face of God 12 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:54,560 So I said, By God, I will inform the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 13 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,560 So I went to him and told him what he said 14 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:01,560 Then his face changed until it looked like a drain 15 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:07,560 Then he said: Who will be just if God and His Messenger do not be just? 16 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,560 Then he said, “May God have mercy on Moses.” 17 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:15,560 He has been harmed more than this, so be patient 18 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:21,560 So I said, “There is no crime that I will not raise a conversation about after that.” 19 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,560 Agreed 20 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,620 And his saying is like sharf 21 00:01:25,620 --> 00:01:27,620 It is a red dye 22 00:01:27,620 --> 00:01:30,359 Nostalgia 23 00:01:30,359 --> 00:01:33,359 A valley between Mecca and Taif 24 00:01:33,359 --> 00:01:41,459 People, i.e. those whose hearts are composed, the free ones, and the leaders of the Arabs who form them 25 00:01:41,459 --> 00:01:46,840 The division is the division of the spoils of the Hawaz tribe 26 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:52,030 He favored them, meaning he gave them precious gifts 27 00:01:52,030 --> 00:01:55,219 No offense really 28 00:01:55,219 --> 00:01:58,629 One of the benefits of talking 29 00:01:58,629 --> 00:02:02,760 It is permissible to single out a group for giving rather than another group 30 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,760 If the imam sees a valid benefit for that 31 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:11,180 From the legal policy of calling to God 32 00:02:11,180 --> 00:02:16,180 Winning the hearts of nobles and people of prestige with whatever money they like 33 00:02:16,180 --> 00:02:20,400 In every era there are enemies to the prophets and their followers 34 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:24,400 They challenge them and refute what they say 35 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,530 And they doubt themselves 36 00:02:27,530 --> 00:02:31,530 It is obligatory to advise God, His Messenger, and the believers 37 00:02:31,530 --> 00:02:39,530 Abdullah bin Masoud conveyed the words of those who attacked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to him 38 00:02:39,530 --> 00:02:45,780 Forgiving sins of meanness is an ancient tradition among the prophets 39 00:02:45,780 --> 00:02:48,780 Moses, peace be upon him, was harmed, but he was patient 40 00:02:48,780 --> 00:02:53,780 Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, was harmed and forgiven 41 00:02:53,780 --> 00:02:58,979 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, followed the example of his fellow prophets 42 00:02:58,979 --> 00:03:03,979 In fulfillment of the Almighty’s saying, he is followed by His guidance 43 00:03:03,979 --> 00:03:09,330 The Messenger is a human being who is affected by what humans are affected by 44 00:03:09,330 --> 00:03:17,330 Whenever he denied something, was angry about something, or was pleased with something, he would know it on his face 45 00:03:17,330 --> 00:03:23,710 The most just people, the most fearful of God, and the most knowledgeable of God 46 00:03:23,710 --> 00:03:28,710 They are the messengers and prophets, may God’s prayers and peace be upon them 47 00:03:28,710 --> 00:03:33,930 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 48 00:03:33,930 --> 00:03:37,930 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 49 00:03:37,930 --> 00:03:43,930 If God wants good for His servant, He hastens his punishment in this world 50 00:03:43,930 --> 00:03:52,930 If God intends evil for His servant, He will hold back his sin until he repays it on the Day of Resurrection 51 00:03:52,930 --> 00:04:00,120 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that the greatness of the reward comes with the greatness of the calamity 52 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:05,120 If God Almighty loves a people, He tests them 53 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:10,120 Whoever is satisfied will have contentment, and whoever is discontent will have discontent 54 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:15,120 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi and said it is a good hadith 55 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:21,759 He comes to bring his sin, carrying it on his shoulders 56 00:04:21,759 --> 00:04:24,980 One of the benefits of talking 57 00:04:24,980 --> 00:04:31,009 Hastening the punishment in this world is a sign of the good that God intended for His servant 58 00:04:31,009 --> 00:04:36,009 Because it is an expiation for sins and a reason for their disappearance 59 00:04:36,009 --> 00:04:39,259 The torment of the Hereafter is more severe and more painful 60 00:04:39,259 --> 00:04:47,259 If God does not intend good for him, He will delay his punishment until he is disgraced on the Day of Resurrection 61 00:04:47,259 --> 00:04:51,389 People are afflicted according to their religion 62 00:04:51,389 --> 00:04:56,620 Patience in the face of misfortunes and diseases is purification of sins 63 00:04:56,620 --> 00:05:01,000 The believer must be satisfied with what he is afflicted with 64 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,860 Do not despair or be angry with him 65 00:05:04,860 --> 00:05:07,860 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 66 00:05:07,860 --> 00:05:12,860 Ibn Abu Talha, may God be pleased with him, was complaining 67 00:05:12,860 --> 00:05:16,860 Abu Talha went out and arrested the boy 68 00:05:16,860 --> 00:05:19,860 When Abu Talha returned, he said: 69 00:05:19,860 --> 00:05:21,860 What my son did 70 00:05:21,860 --> 00:05:24,860 Umm Salim, the boy’s mother, said 71 00:05:24,860 --> 00:05:27,860 He lives as he was 72 00:05:27,860 --> 00:05:30,860 So I brought dinner to him and he had dinner 73 00:05:30,860 --> 00:05:32,860 Then it hit her 74 00:05:32,860 --> 00:05:36,860 When he finished, she said, “See the boy.” 75 00:05:36,860 --> 00:05:39,899 When Abu Talha became 76 00:05:39,899 --> 00:05:43,899 He came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and told him 77 00:05:43,899 --> 00:05:47,899 He said, “You got married tonight.” 78 00:05:47,899 --> 00:05:49,899 He said yes 79 00:05:49,899 --> 00:05:52,899 He said, God bless them 80 00:05:52,899 --> 00:05:54,899 She gave birth to a boy 81 00:05:54,899 --> 00:05:57,899 Abu Talha said to me 82 00:05:57,899 --> 00:06:02,899 Carry it until you bring it to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 83 00:06:02,899 --> 00:06:04,899 He sent some dates with him 84 00:06:04,899 --> 00:06:07,899 He said he had something in mind 85 00:06:07,899 --> 00:06:10,899 He said yes dates 86 00:06:10,899 --> 00:06:13,899 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, took it 87 00:06:13,899 --> 00:06:15,899 So he chewed it 88 00:06:15,899 --> 00:06:17,899 Then he took it from his mouth 89 00:06:17,899 --> 00:06:19,899 And he did it to the boy 90 00:06:19,899 --> 00:06:23,899 Then he refined it and named him Abdullah 91 00:06:23,899 --> 00:06:25,990 Agreed 92 00:06:25,990 --> 00:06:27,990 And in a narration by Al-Bukhari 93 00:06:27,990 --> 00:06:29,990 Ibn Uyaynah said 94 00:06:29,990 --> 00:06:32,990 A man from the Ansar said 95 00:06:32,990 --> 00:06:37,990 I saw nine children, all of whom had read the Qur’an 96 00:06:37,990 --> 00:06:42,120 I mean, one of the children of Abdullah, born 97 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,120 And in a narration by Muslim 98 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:48,120 A son of Abu Talha died from Umm Sulaym 99 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,120 She said to her family 100 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:56,120 Do not speak to Abu Talha about his son until I speak to him 101 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,120 So he came 102 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,120 So I brought him dinner and he ate and drank 103 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:06,120 Then she did the best thing for him that she had done before 104 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,120 So he fell into it 105 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:12,120 When she saw that he was satisfied and satisfied with her 106 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:13,120 She said 107 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,120 O Abu Talha! 108 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:20,120 Have you seen if some people lent their naked clothes to a family? 109 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,120 So they asked for their nakedness 110 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,120 Inspire them to stop them 111 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,120 He said no 112 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,120 And she said 113 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,180 So count your son 114 00:07:29,180 --> 00:07:30,180 He said 115 00:07:30,180 --> 00:07:31,180 So he got angry 116 00:07:31,180 --> 00:07:33,180 Then he said 117 00:07:33,180 --> 00:07:36,180 She left me even if I was stained 118 00:07:36,180 --> 00:07:38,180 Then she told me about my son 119 00:07:38,180 --> 00:07:43,180 So he set off until he came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 120 00:07:43,180 --> 00:07:46,180 So he told him what happened 121 00:07:46,180 --> 00:07:50,180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 122 00:07:50,180 --> 00:07:54,180 May God bless your night 123 00:07:54,180 --> 00:07:55,180 He said 124 00:07:55,180 --> 00:07:56,180 So I got pregnant 125 00:07:56,180 --> 00:07:57,180 He said 126 00:07:57,180 --> 00:08:03,180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was on a journey and she was with him 127 00:08:03,180 --> 00:08:11,180 Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to Medina from a journey, he would not go to it any other way 128 00:08:11,180 --> 00:08:13,180 They approached the city 129 00:08:13,180 --> 00:08:15,180 So the mob hit her 130 00:08:15,180 --> 00:08:18,180 So Abu Talha detained her 131 00:08:18,180 --> 00:08:22,180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, set off 132 00:08:22,180 --> 00:08:23,180 He said 133 00:08:23,180 --> 00:08:25,180 Abu Talha says 134 00:08:25,180 --> 00:08:28,180 You know, Lord 135 00:08:28,180 --> 00:08:34,179 I like to go out with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he goes out 136 00:08:34,179 --> 00:08:37,179 And enter with him if he enters 137 00:08:37,179 --> 00:08:40,250 She was seized by what she saw 138 00:08:40,250 --> 00:08:42,250 Umm Salim says 139 00:08:42,250 --> 00:08:43,250 O Abu Talha! 140 00:08:43,250 --> 00:08:46,250 What I find is what I was finding 141 00:08:46,250 --> 00:08:47,250 Go 142 00:08:47,250 --> 00:08:49,250 So we set off 143 00:08:49,250 --> 00:08:52,250 The camp struck her as they advanced 144 00:08:52,250 --> 00:08:54,250 She gave birth to a boy 145 00:08:54,250 --> 00:08:56,250 My mother said to me 146 00:08:56,250 --> 00:08:57,250 Oh Anas 147 00:08:57,250 --> 00:08:59,250 No one breastfeeds him 148 00:08:59,250 --> 00:09:04,250 Until you bring it to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 149 00:09:04,250 --> 00:09:06,279 When it became 150 00:09:06,279 --> 00:09:12,279 She tolerated him and took him to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 151 00:09:12,279 --> 00:09:15,279 He mentioned the entire hadith 152 00:09:15,279 --> 00:09:17,399 To complain 153 00:09:17,399 --> 00:09:19,399 That is, he suffers from a disease 154 00:09:19,399 --> 00:09:23,399 It does not mean that a complaint was issued against him 155 00:09:23,399 --> 00:09:25,659 Ibn Abi Talha 156 00:09:25,659 --> 00:09:27,659 He is Abu Omair 157 00:09:27,659 --> 00:09:32,659 Which the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to joke with by saying: 158 00:09:32,659 --> 00:09:34,659 Oh Abu Umair 159 00:09:34,659 --> 00:09:36,659 What did Al-Naghir do? 160 00:09:36,659 --> 00:09:38,779 He lives as he was 161 00:09:38,779 --> 00:09:40,779 That is, his soul was inhabited by death 162 00:09:40,779 --> 00:09:44,779 After she was worried and upset 163 00:09:44,779 --> 00:09:47,230 Then it hit her 164 00:09:47,230 --> 00:09:49,230 A metaphor for sexual intercourse 165 00:09:49,230 --> 00:09:51,259 I made him up 166 00:09:51,259 --> 00:09:55,330 That is, by improving the appearance with jewelry and the like 167 00:09:55,330 --> 00:09:56,330 He signed it 168 00:09:56,330 --> 00:09:58,330 That is, he collected it 169 00:09:58,330 --> 00:09:59,419 See? 170 00:09:59,419 --> 00:10:01,419 That is, tell me 171 00:10:01,419 --> 00:10:03,679 Count your son 172 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:08,679 That is, seek the reward for your misfortune in your son from God Almighty 173 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:09,840 Stained 174 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,840 That is, you can have intercourse 175 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,970 He doesn't knock it 176 00:10:14,970 --> 00:10:17,970 That is, he does not come there at night 177 00:10:17,970 --> 00:10:20,970 Because he does not see anything in his family that he hates 178 00:10:20,970 --> 00:10:23,159 She went into labor 179 00:10:23,159 --> 00:10:25,159 That is, the pain of childbirth 180 00:10:26,899 --> 00:10:28,899 One of the benefits of talking 181 00:10:28,899 --> 00:10:34,120 The hadith contains a realistic example of a Muslim woman and a good wife 182 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:38,120 In her great mind and burning intelligence 183 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,409 Umm Salim’s patience with her son’s death 184 00:10:41,409 --> 00:10:44,409 A role model for women 185 00:10:44,409 --> 00:10:48,759 Be gentle in reporting a death or misfortune 186 00:10:48,759 --> 00:10:52,110 Preferring the husband’s satisfaction over his sadness 187 00:10:52,110 --> 00:10:56,110 This is part of the wife’s loyalty to her husband 188 00:10:56,110 --> 00:11:00,399 The love of the Companions for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 189 00:11:00,399 --> 00:11:03,399 Make sure to follow him and consult him 190 00:11:03,399 --> 00:11:06,620 And be blessed with his company 191 00:11:06,620 --> 00:11:11,620 The spouses must each alleviate the misfortune of the other 192 00:11:11,620 --> 00:11:13,620 And they adorn each other 193 00:11:13,620 --> 00:11:17,879 For constant companionship and enabling affection 194 00:11:17,879 --> 00:11:21,879 Whoever leaves something for God, God will compensate him with something better 195 00:11:21,879 --> 00:11:25,139 The legitimacy of delusional exhibits 196 00:11:25,139 --> 00:11:28,139 If necessary 197 00:11:28,139 --> 00:11:31,139 And that is not a lie 198 00:11:31,139 --> 00:11:35,519 A woman’s diligence in working out her husband’s interests 199 00:11:35,519 --> 00:11:37,519 And do his service 200 00:11:37,519 --> 00:11:39,519 Umm Salim also made it 201 00:11:39,519 --> 00:11:43,940 Where I brought dinner to him, so he had dinner 202 00:11:43,940 --> 00:11:47,940 Answering the call of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 203 00:11:47,940 --> 00:11:51,940 So he blessed their son born that night 204 00:11:51,940 --> 00:11:54,940 His descendants were numerous and prosperous 205 00:11:54,940 --> 00:11:58,940 It is desirable to entertain the afflicted person during calamities 206 00:11:58,940 --> 00:12:02,940 As Umm Salim did with Abu Talha 207 00:12:02,940 --> 00:12:07,990 When I set an example for him by being gentle 208 00:12:07,990 --> 00:12:10,990 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 209 00:12:10,990 --> 00:12:14,990 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 210 00:12:14,990 --> 00:12:18,019 It's not extreme 211 00:12:18,019 --> 00:12:23,090 But the strong one is the one who controls himself when angry 212 00:12:23,090 --> 00:12:25,120 Agreed 213 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:30,120 The origin of the Arabic term “slavery” is someone who makes people fall a lot 214 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,590 One of the benefits of talking 215 00:12:34,590 --> 00:12:38,590 Islam changed the pre-Islamic concept of power 216 00:12:38,590 --> 00:12:43,590 To have decent morals that build a distinguished Muslim personality 217 00:12:43,590 --> 00:12:46,590 The most powerful people 218 00:12:46,590 --> 00:12:50,590 He is the one who took control of his soul and weaned it from its desires 219 00:12:50,590 --> 00:12:54,940 Struggling with oneself and taking control of it 220 00:12:54,940 --> 00:12:58,330 It is more difficult than fighting the enemy 221 00:12:58,330 --> 00:13:01,330 It is necessary to avoid anger 222 00:13:01,330 --> 00:13:06,490 Because of the physical, psychological and social damage it causes 223 00:13:06,490 --> 00:13:09,490 Anger is a human trait 224 00:13:09,490 --> 00:13:13,840 She is distracted by things, including self-control 225 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,840 The prohibition of assaulting others 226 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:20,990 In case of anger and other things 227 00:13:20,990 --> 00:13:24,990 On the authority of Suleiman bin Sard, may God be pleased with him, he said: 228 00:13:24,990 --> 00:13:27,990 Sitting with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 229 00:13:27,990 --> 00:13:30,990 And two men are being investigated 230 00:13:30,990 --> 00:13:34,990 One of them had his face red and his cheeks swollen 231 00:13:34,990 --> 00:13:38,990 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 232 00:13:38,990 --> 00:13:44,990 I know of a word that if he had said it, what he found would have gone away from him 233 00:13:44,990 --> 00:13:49,990 If he said, “I seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan.” 234 00:13:49,990 --> 00:13:51,990 What he found was gone 235 00:13:51,990 --> 00:13:53,990 And they said to him 236 00:13:53,990 --> 00:13:57,990 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 237 00:13:57,990 --> 00:14:02,019 You seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan 238 00:14:02,019 --> 00:14:04,019 Agreed 239 00:14:04,019 --> 00:14:06,600 It becomes clear 240 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,600 That is, each of them insulted his friend 241 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,860 Odajah 242 00:14:11,860 --> 00:14:17,139 The veins surrounding the neck that the slaughterer cuts 243 00:14:17,139 --> 00:14:18,139 Word 244 00:14:18,139 --> 00:14:20,139 It is a useful sentence 245 00:14:20,139 --> 00:14:21,340 I seek refuge 246 00:14:21,340 --> 00:14:24,340 That is, I seek refuge and hold fast 247 00:14:24,340 --> 00:14:27,100 One of the benefits of talking 248 00:14:27,100 --> 00:14:31,419 The hadith is derived from the Almighty’s saying 249 00:14:31,419 --> 00:14:35,419 Or he will make you angry with Satan 250 00:14:35,419 --> 00:14:37,419 So seek refuge in God 251 00:14:37,419 --> 00:14:40,779 He is All-Hearing and All-Knowing 252 00:14:40,779 --> 00:14:42,779 Anger is provoked by Satan 253 00:14:42,779 --> 00:14:46,779 Because of the harm it causes in religion and this world 254 00:14:46,779 --> 00:14:49,779 Therefore, his reason was cut off 255 00:14:49,779 --> 00:14:52,779 It is Satan's whispering of seeking refuge 256 00:14:52,779 --> 00:14:55,129 Companions are human beings 257 00:14:55,129 --> 00:15:00,129 They emit the kind of anger that befalls the general public 258 00:15:00,129 --> 00:15:03,129 However, they were distinguished by their quick response 259 00:15:03,129 --> 00:15:07,129 To remind the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 260 00:15:07,129 --> 00:15:10,450 And do not persist in falsehood 261 00:15:10,450 --> 00:15:13,450 The wisdom of the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 262 00:15:13,450 --> 00:15:15,450 In calling to God 263 00:15:15,450 --> 00:15:18,450 A reminder of God and advice to Muslims 264 00:15:18,450 --> 00:15:21,450 That is what is expected 265 00:15:21,450 --> 00:15:23,450 Not responding to advice 266 00:15:23,450 --> 00:15:26,450 Do not address him directly 267 00:15:26,450 --> 00:15:28,700 Desirability of giving advice to others 268 00:15:28,700 --> 00:15:30,700 Even if they didn't ask for it 269 00:15:30,700 --> 00:15:34,929 It is permissible to convey advice to those who did not hear it 270 00:15:34,929 --> 00:15:37,929 To benefit from what is in it 271 00:15:37,929 --> 00:15:42,090 Riyadh Al-Salehin