1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 *Riyad al-Salihin* (The Meadows of the Righteous) from the words of the Master of the Messengers, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:15,369 Chapter on Patience. 3 00:00:15,369 --> 00:00:18,370 On the authority of Ibn Mas'ud, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: 4 00:00:18,370 --> 00:00:21,370 On the day of the Battle of Hunayn, 5 00:00:21,370 --> 00:00:26,370 the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) favored certain people in the distribution of the spoils. 6 00:00:26,370 --> 00:00:30,460 He gave al-Aqra' ibn Habis one hundred camels, 7 00:00:30,460 --> 00:00:33,460 and gave 'Uyaynah ibn Hisn the like, 8 00:00:33,460 --> 00:00:39,460 and also gave to prominent figures among the Arabs, favoring them that day in the distribution. 9 00:00:39,460 --> 00:00:41,560 Thereupon, a man said: 10 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:45,560 "By Allah, this is a division in which justice was not observed, 11 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,560 nor was the face of Allah sought therein!" 12 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:54,560 So I said: "By Allah, I will certainly inform the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him." 13 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,560 I went to him and told him what the man had said, 14 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:01,560 and his face changed color until it became like red dye. 15 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:07,560 Then he said: "Who will be just if Allah and His Messenger are not just?" 16 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,560 Then he said: "May Allah have mercy on Moses; 17 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:15,560 he was harmed with more than this, yet he bore it with patience." 18 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:21,560 I then said: "Indeed, I will never convey any report to him after this." 19 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,560 Agreed upon. 20 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,620 His words: "like *sarif*" 21 00:01:25,620 --> 00:01:27,620 means red dye. 22 00:01:27,620 --> 00:01:30,359 Hunayn: 23 00:01:30,359 --> 00:01:33,359 A valley between Mecca and al-Ta'if. 24 00:01:33,359 --> 00:01:41,459 "Certain people": meaning those whose hearts were to be reconciled, the freed captives of Mecca (*tulaqa'*), and Arab chieftains, in order to win over their hearts. 25 00:01:41,459 --> 00:01:46,840 "The distribution": the distribution of the spoils of the Hawazin tribe. 26 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:52,030 "He favored them": meaning he granted them lavish gifts. 27 00:01:52,030 --> 00:01:55,219 "Indeed (*la jarama*)": meaning truly. 28 00:01:55,219 --> 00:01:58,629 Key lessons from the hadith: 29 00:01:58,629 --> 00:02:02,760 It is permissible to single out a group with gifts to the exclusion of others, 30 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,760 if the leader sees an overriding public interest in doing so. 31 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:11,180 Among the sound methods of Islamic governance in calling to Allah 32 00:02:11,180 --> 00:02:16,180 is winning over the hearts of notables and figures of influence through the worldly wealth they desire. 33 00:02:16,180 --> 00:02:20,400 In every era, there are enemies of the prophets and their followers, 34 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:24,400 slandering them, rejecting their words, 35 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,530 and casting doubt upon their mission. 36 00:02:27,530 --> 00:02:31,530 The obligation of offering sincere counsel to Allah, His Messenger, and the believers; 37 00:02:31,530 --> 00:02:39,530 for 'Abdullah ibn Mas'ud conveyed the words of those who defamed the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) back to him. 38 00:02:39,530 --> 00:02:45,780 Overlooking the faults of the vile is an ancient practice of the prophets; 39 00:02:45,780 --> 00:02:48,780 for Moses, peace be upon him, was harmed yet bore it with patience, 40 00:02:48,780 --> 00:02:53,780 and Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was harmed yet pardoned. 41 00:02:53,780 --> 00:02:58,979 The Messenger's emulation of his fellow brother prophets, 42 00:02:58,979 --> 00:03:03,979 in fulfillment of the saying of the Exalted: ◁So follow their guidance▷. 43 00:03:03,979 --> 00:03:09,330 The Messenger is a human being, affected by what affects human beings; 44 00:03:09,330 --> 00:03:17,330 whenever he disapproved of something, became angry at something, or rejoiced at a matter, it was clearly seen on his face. 45 00:03:17,330 --> 00:03:23,710 The most just of people, the most God-fearing, and the most knowledgeable of Allah 46 00:03:23,710 --> 00:03:28,710 are the messengers and prophets, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon them. 47 00:03:28,710 --> 00:03:33,930 On the authority of Anas, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: 48 00:03:33,930 --> 00:03:37,930 The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: 49 00:03:37,930 --> 00:03:43,930 "When Allah wills good for His servant, He hastens his punishment in this world; 50 00:03:43,930 --> 00:03:52,930 and when Allah wills evil for His servant, He withholds from him the consequence of his sin until He calls him to account for it on the Day of Resurrection." 51 00:03:52,930 --> 00:04:00,120 And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Greatness of reward comes with the greatness of affliction; 52 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:05,120 and when Allah the Exalted loves a people, He tests them. 53 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:10,120 Whoever is pleased will have Allah's pleasure, and whoever is displeased will have His displeasure." 54 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:15,120 Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, who said it is a fair hadith. 55 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:21,759 "Until He calls him to account for it" means he will come carrying his sin on his back. 56 00:04:21,759 --> 00:04:24,980 Key lessons from the hadith: 57 00:04:24,980 --> 00:04:31,009 Hastening punishment in this world is a sign of good intended by Allah for His servant, 58 00:04:31,009 --> 00:04:36,009 because it serves as an expiation for sins and a means for their erasure. 59 00:04:36,009 --> 00:04:39,259 The punishment of the Hereafter is far more severe and painful; 60 00:04:39,259 --> 00:04:47,259 thus, whoever Allah does not intend good for, He delays their punishment until they are disgraced on the Day of Resurrection. 61 00:04:47,259 --> 00:04:51,389 People are tested in proportion to their religious commitment. 62 00:04:51,389 --> 00:04:56,620 Patience during calamities and illnesses purifies from sins. 63 00:04:56,620 --> 00:05:01,000 A believer must be content with whatever trials afflict them, 64 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,860 and not despair or display resentment over them. 65 00:05:04,860 --> 00:05:07,860 On the authority of Anas, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: 66 00:05:07,860 --> 00:05:12,860 A son of Abu Talhah, may Allah be pleased with him, was sick, 67 00:05:12,860 --> 00:05:16,860 and while Abu Talhah went out, the boy passed away. 68 00:05:16,860 --> 00:05:19,860 When Abu Talhah returned, he asked: 69 00:05:19,860 --> 00:05:21,860 "How is my son doing?" 70 00:05:21,860 --> 00:05:24,860 Umm Sulaym, the boy's mother, replied: 71 00:05:24,860 --> 00:05:27,860 "He is in a quieter state than he has ever been." 72 00:05:27,860 --> 00:05:30,860 She then served him dinner, and he ate, 73 00:05:30,860 --> 00:05:32,860 and thereafter he had marital relations with her. 74 00:05:32,860 --> 00:05:36,860 When he finished, she said: "Bury the boy." 75 00:05:36,860 --> 00:05:39,899 The next morning, Abu Talhah 76 00:05:39,899 --> 00:05:43,899 went to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and informed him. 77 00:05:43,899 --> 00:05:47,899 He asked: "Did you consummate your marriage last night?" 78 00:05:47,899 --> 00:05:49,899 He replied: "Yes." 79 00:05:49,899 --> 00:05:52,899 He said: "O Allah, bless them both." 80 00:05:52,899 --> 00:05:54,899 Subsequently, she gave birth to a boy. 81 00:05:54,899 --> 00:05:57,899 Abu Talhah said to me: 82 00:05:57,899 --> 00:06:02,899 "Carry him until you bring him to the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him," 83 00:06:02,899 --> 00:06:04,899 and he sent some dates along with him. 84 00:06:04,899 --> 00:06:07,899 The Prophet asked: "Is there anything with him?" 85 00:06:07,899 --> 00:06:10,899 He replied: "Yes, some dates." 86 00:06:10,899 --> 00:06:13,899 The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) took them, 87 00:06:13,899 --> 00:06:15,899 chewed them, 88 00:06:15,899 --> 00:06:17,899 then took them from his mouth 89 00:06:17,899 --> 00:06:19,899 and placed them into the mouth of the boy. 90 00:06:19,899 --> 00:06:23,899 He then softened them for him (*tahnik*) and named him 'Abdullah. 91 00:06:23,899 --> 00:06:25,990 Agreed upon. 92 00:06:25,990 --> 00:06:27,990 In a narration of al-Bukhari: 93 00:06:27,990 --> 00:06:29,990 Ibn 'Uyaynah said: 94 00:06:29,990 --> 00:06:32,990 A man from the Ansar said: 95 00:06:32,990 --> 00:06:37,990 "I saw nine sons, all of whom had memorized the Qur'an," 96 00:06:37,990 --> 00:06:42,120 meaning from the offspring of 'Abdullah, the newborn child. 97 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,120 In a narration of Muslim: 98 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:48,120 A son belonging to Abu Talhah and Umm Sulaym died, 99 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,120 and she said to her family: 100 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:56,120 "Do not speak to Abu Talhah about his son until I am the one who informs him." 101 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,120 He came home, 102 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,120 and she served him dinner, so he ate and drank. 103 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:06,120 Then she beautified herself for him more attractively than she ever had before, 104 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,120 and he had intimate relations with her. 105 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:12,120 When she saw that he was satisfied and had fulfilled his desire, 106 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:13,120 she said: 107 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,120 "O Abu Talhah, 108 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:20,120 tell me, if a people lent something on loan to a household, 109 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,120 and then asked for their loan back, 110 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,120 do they have the right to refuse them?" 111 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,120 He said: "No." 112 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,120 She said: 113 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,180 "Then seek reward with Allah for your son." 114 00:07:29,180 --> 00:07:30,180 He said: 115 00:07:30,180 --> 00:07:31,180 He became angry 116 00:07:31,180 --> 00:07:33,180 and then said: 117 00:07:33,180 --> 00:07:36,180 "You left me until I indulged myself, 118 00:07:36,180 --> 00:07:38,180 and only then did you tell me about my son?!" 119 00:07:38,180 --> 00:07:43,180 He set out until he reached the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, 120 00:07:43,180 --> 00:07:46,180 and informed him of what had happened. 121 00:07:46,180 --> 00:07:50,180 The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: 122 00:07:50,180 --> 00:07:54,180 "May Allah bless the two of you in your night." 123 00:07:54,180 --> 00:07:55,180 He said: 124 00:07:55,180 --> 00:07:56,180 So she became pregnant. 125 00:07:56,180 --> 00:07:57,180 He said: 126 00:07:57,180 --> 00:08:03,180 The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was on a journey, and she accompanied him. 127 00:08:03,180 --> 00:08:11,180 Whenever the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) returned to Medina from a journey, he would never arrive unexpectedly by night. 128 00:08:11,180 --> 00:08:13,180 As they drew near Medina, 129 00:08:13,180 --> 00:08:15,180 labor pains overtook her, 130 00:08:15,180 --> 00:08:18,180 so Abu Talhah stayed behind with her, 131 00:08:18,180 --> 00:08:22,180 while the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) went ahead. 132 00:08:22,180 --> 00:08:23,180 He said: 133 00:08:23,180 --> 00:08:25,180 Abu Talhah was saying: 134 00:08:25,180 --> 00:08:28,180 "You know, O Lord, 135 00:08:28,180 --> 00:08:34,179 that I love to depart with the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) whenever he departs, 136 00:08:34,179 --> 00:08:37,179 and enter with him whenever he enters, 137 00:08:37,179 --> 00:08:40,250 but I have been detained by what You see." 138 00:08:40,250 --> 00:08:42,250 Umm Sulaym said: 139 00:08:42,250 --> 00:08:43,250 "O Abu Talhah, 140 00:08:43,250 --> 00:08:46,250 I no longer feel the pain I was feeling; 141 00:08:46,250 --> 00:08:47,250 let us proceed." 142 00:08:47,250 --> 00:08:49,250 So we set off, 143 00:08:49,250 --> 00:08:52,250 and labor pains overtook her as soon as they arrived, 144 00:08:52,250 --> 00:08:54,250 and she gave birth to a boy. 145 00:08:54,250 --> 00:08:56,250 My mother said to me: 146 00:08:56,250 --> 00:08:57,250 "O Anas, 147 00:08:57,250 --> 00:08:59,250 let no one nurse him 148 00:08:59,250 --> 00:09:04,250 until you take him in the morning to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him." 149 00:09:04,250 --> 00:09:06,279 When morning came, 150 00:09:06,279 --> 00:09:12,279 I carried him and took him to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. 151 00:09:12,279 --> 00:09:15,279 And he mentioned the completion of the hadith. 152 00:09:15,279 --> 00:09:17,399 "Was sick (*yashtaki*)": 153 00:09:17,399 --> 00:09:19,399 meaning he was suffering from an illness, 154 00:09:19,399 --> 00:09:23,399 and it does not mean that he was voicing a complaint. 155 00:09:23,399 --> 00:09:25,659 The son of Abu Talhah: 156 00:09:25,659 --> 00:09:27,659 He was Abu 'Umayr, 157 00:09:27,659 --> 00:09:32,659 whom the Prophet (peace be upon him) used to playfully tease by saying: 158 00:09:32,659 --> 00:09:34,659 "O Abu 'Umayr, 159 00:09:34,659 --> 00:09:36,659 what did the little sparrow (*nughayr*) do?" 160 00:09:36,659 --> 00:09:38,779 "He is in a quieter state than he has ever been": 161 00:09:38,779 --> 00:09:40,779 meaning his soul became tranquil through death, 162 00:09:40,779 --> 00:09:44,779 after having been restless and troubled. 163 00:09:44,779 --> 00:09:47,230 "Then he had marital relations with her": 164 00:09:47,230 --> 00:09:49,230 a polite euphemism for sexual intercourse. 165 00:09:49,230 --> 00:09:51,259 "She beautified herself for him": 166 00:09:51,259 --> 00:09:55,330 meaning by improving her appearance with adornments and the like. 167 00:09:55,330 --> 00:09:56,330 "He lay with her": 168 00:09:56,330 --> 00:09:58,330 meaning he engaged in intimacy with her. 169 00:09:58,330 --> 00:09:59,419 "Tell me (*ara'ayta*)": 170 00:09:59,419 --> 00:10:01,419 meaning inform me. 171 00:10:01,419 --> 00:10:03,679 "Seek reward with Allah for your son": 172 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:08,679 meaning seek the reward from Allah the Exalted for your affliction regarding your son. 173 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:09,840 "I indulged myself": 174 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,840 meaning becoming stained with the fluid of intercourse. 175 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,970 "He would never arrive unexpectedly by night": 176 00:10:14,970 --> 00:10:17,970 meaning he would not enter the city during the night, 177 00:10:17,970 --> 00:10:20,970 lest he see something displeasing from his household. 178 00:10:20,970 --> 00:10:23,159 "Labor pains overtook her": 179 00:10:23,159 --> 00:10:25,159 meaning the pangs of childbirth. 180 00:10:26,899 --> 00:10:28,899 Key lessons from the hadith: 181 00:10:28,899 --> 00:10:34,120 The hadith offers a living example of the Muslim woman and righteous wife, 182 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:38,120 in her profound wisdom and brilliant intellect. 183 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,409 Umm Sulaym's patience upon the death of her child 184 00:10:41,409 --> 00:10:44,409 is a role model for women. 185 00:10:44,409 --> 00:10:48,759 Exercising tact and gentleness when breaking news of a death or calamity. 186 00:10:48,759 --> 00:10:52,110 Prioritizing the husband's comfort over burdening him with grief, 187 00:10:52,110 --> 00:10:56,110 which is an expression of a wife's devotion to her husband. 188 00:10:56,110 --> 00:11:00,399 The Companions' love for the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, 189 00:11:00,399 --> 00:11:03,399 and their eagerness to accompany him, seek his counsel, 190 00:11:03,399 --> 00:11:06,620 and seek blessings through his company. 191 00:11:06,620 --> 00:11:11,620 Spouses should each ease the other's burdens during afflictions, 192 00:11:11,620 --> 00:11:13,620 and beautify themselves for one another 193 00:11:13,620 --> 00:11:17,879 to ensure the endurance of marital companionship and deepen affection. 194 00:11:17,879 --> 00:11:21,879 Whoever leaves something for the sake of Allah, Allah will replace it with something far better. 195 00:11:21,879 --> 00:11:25,139 The permissibility of using ambiguous expressions (*ma'arid*) 196 00:11:25,139 --> 00:11:28,139 when necessity calls for it, 197 00:11:28,139 --> 00:11:31,139 and that this is not considered lying. 198 00:11:31,139 --> 00:11:35,519 A woman's striving to attend to her husband's best interests 199 00:11:35,519 --> 00:11:37,519 and attending to his service, 200 00:11:37,519 --> 00:11:39,519 just as Umm Sulaym did 201 00:11:39,519 --> 00:11:43,940 when she offered him dinner and he ate; 202 00:11:43,940 --> 00:11:47,940 the answered prayer of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), 203 00:11:47,940 --> 00:11:51,940 for he blessed their child conceived on that night, 204 00:11:51,940 --> 00:11:54,940 and his descendants grew numerous and righteous; 205 00:11:54,940 --> 00:11:58,940 the recommendation to console the afflicted in times of calamity, 206 00:11:58,940 --> 00:12:02,940 just as Umm Sulaym did with Abu Talhah 207 00:12:02,940 --> 00:12:07,990 when she gave him the analogy of a borrowed trust. 208 00:12:07,990 --> 00:12:10,990 And on the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), 209 00:12:10,990 --> 00:12:14,990 the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: 210 00:12:14,990 --> 00:12:18,019 "The strong person is not the one who can wrestle others down; 211 00:12:18,019 --> 00:12:23,090 rather, the strong person is the one who controls himself when angry." 212 00:12:23,090 --> 00:12:25,120 Agreed upon. 213 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:30,120 In the original Arabic usage, the term *sura'ah* refers to someone who frequently wrestles people down. 214 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,590 Among the lessons of the hadith: 215 00:12:34,590 --> 00:12:38,590 Islam transforms the pre-Islamic, ignorant concept of strength 216 00:12:38,590 --> 00:12:43,590 into noble character traits that forge a distinguished Muslim personality; 217 00:12:43,590 --> 00:12:46,590 thus, the strongest of people 218 00:12:46,590 --> 00:12:50,590 is the one who takes control of himself and reins in his desires; 219 00:12:50,590 --> 00:12:54,940 striving against one's own soul and mastering it 220 00:12:54,940 --> 00:12:58,330 is harder than fighting an enemy; 221 00:12:58,330 --> 00:13:01,330 the obligation to avoid anger, 222 00:13:01,330 --> 00:13:06,490 due to the physical, psychological, and social harms it entails; 223 00:13:06,490 --> 00:13:09,490 anger is an innate human trait 224 00:13:09,490 --> 00:13:13,840 that can be dispelled by several means, including self-restraint; 225 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,840 the prohibition of transgressing against others, 226 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:20,990 whether in a state of anger or otherwise. 227 00:13:20,990 --> 00:13:24,990 And on the authority of Sulayman Ibn Surad (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: 228 00:13:24,990 --> 00:13:27,990 "I was sitting with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), 229 00:13:27,990 --> 00:13:30,990 while two men were trading insults, 230 00:13:30,990 --> 00:13:34,990 and one of them had a red face and swollen neck veins. 231 00:13:34,990 --> 00:13:38,990 Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: 232 00:13:38,990 --> 00:13:44,990 'I know a word which, if he were to utter it, would make what he feels depart from him. 233 00:13:44,990 --> 00:13:49,990 If he were to say: I seek refuge in Allah from the accursed Satan, 234 00:13:49,990 --> 00:13:51,990 what he feels would leave him.' 235 00:13:51,990 --> 00:13:53,990 So they said to him, 236 00:13:53,990 --> 00:13:57,990 'The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: 237 00:13:57,990 --> 00:14:02,019 Seek refuge in Allah from the accursed Satan.'" 238 00:14:02,019 --> 00:14:04,019 Agreed upon. 239 00:14:04,019 --> 00:14:06,600 "Trading insults" (*yastabban*): 240 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,600 meaning each of them was reviling the other; 241 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,860 "his neck veins" (*awdajuhu*): 242 00:14:11,860 --> 00:14:17,139 the blood vessels encircling the neck which are severed during slaughter; 243 00:14:17,139 --> 00:14:18,139 "a word" (*kalimah*): 244 00:14:18,139 --> 00:14:20,139 refers here to a complete, meaningful sentence; 245 00:14:20,139 --> 00:14:21,340 "I seek refuge" (*a'udhu*): 246 00:14:21,340 --> 00:14:24,340 meaning I resort to and hold fast to Allah. 247 00:14:24,340 --> 00:14:27,100 Among the lessons of the hadith: 248 00:14:27,100 --> 00:14:31,419 The hadith is derived from the words of Allah the Exalted: 249 00:14:31,419 --> 00:14:35,419 "And if an evil suggestion comes to you from Satan, 250 00:14:35,419 --> 00:14:37,419 then seek refuge in Allah. 251 00:14:37,419 --> 00:14:40,779 Indeed, He is the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing." 252 00:14:40,779 --> 00:14:42,779 Anger is provoked by Satan 253 00:14:42,779 --> 00:14:46,779 because of the spiritual and worldly harm it brings about; 254 00:14:46,779 --> 00:14:49,779 hence, its root cause is eliminated— 255 00:14:49,779 --> 00:14:52,779 namely the whispering of Satan—by seeking refuge in Allah; 256 00:14:52,779 --> 00:14:55,129 the Companions are human beings, 257 00:14:55,129 --> 00:15:00,129 subject to the same natural bouts of anger that affect all mankind, 258 00:15:00,129 --> 00:15:03,129 yet they were distinguished by their swift responsiveness 259 00:15:03,129 --> 00:15:07,129 to the reminders of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 260 00:15:07,129 --> 00:15:10,450 and by not persisting in falsehood; 261 00:15:10,450 --> 00:15:13,450 the wisdom of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 262 00:15:13,450 --> 00:15:15,450 in calling to Allah, 263 00:15:15,450 --> 00:15:18,450 reminding people of Him, and counseling the Muslims, 264 00:15:18,450 --> 00:15:21,450 in that when someone is expected 265 00:15:21,450 --> 00:15:23,450 not to receive counsel well, 266 00:15:23,450 --> 00:15:26,450 it should not be addressed to him directly; 267 00:15:26,450 --> 00:15:28,700 the recommendation to offer advice to others 268 00:15:28,700 --> 00:15:30,700 even if they did not ask for it; 269 00:15:30,700 --> 00:15:34,929 the permissibility of conveying advice to someone who did not hear it firsthand, 270 00:15:34,929 --> 00:15:37,929 so that he may benefit from what it contains. 271 00:15:37,929 --> 00:15:42,090 *Riyad al-Salihin*.