Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace
Chapter on patience
On the authority of Ibn Masoudh, may God be pleased with him, he said:
When it was a day of nostalgia
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, preferred people in the division
Al-Aqra' gave Ibn Habis a hundred camels
Ibn Hisn gave a similar example
He gave gifts to some of the noble Arabs and influenced them in the division at that time
A man said
By God, this is an unjust division
And what I want is the face of God
So I said, By God, I will inform the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I went to him and told him what he said
Then his face changed until it looked like a drain
Then he said: Who will be just if God and His Messenger do not be just?
Then he said, “May God have mercy on Moses.”
He has been harmed more than this, so be patient
So I said, “There is no crime that I will not raise a conversation about after that.”
Agreed
And his saying is like sharf
It is a red dye
Nostalgia
A valley between Mecca and Taif
People, i.e. those whose hearts are composed, the free ones, and the leaders of the Arabs who form them
The division is the division of the spoils of the Hawaz tribe
He favored them, meaning he gave them precious gifts
No offense really
One of the benefits of talking
It is permissible to single out a group for giving rather than another group
If the imam sees a valid benefit for that
From the legal policy of calling to God
Winning the hearts of nobles and people of prestige with whatever money they like
In every era there are enemies to the prophets and their followers
They challenge them and refute what they say
And they doubt themselves
It is obligatory to advise God, His Messenger, and the believers
Abdullah bin Masoud conveyed the words of those who attacked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to him
Forgiving sins of meanness is an ancient tradition among the prophets
Moses, peace be upon him, was harmed, but he was patient
Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, was harmed and forgiven
The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, followed the example of his fellow prophets
In fulfillment of the Almighty’s saying, he is followed by His guidance
The Messenger is a human being who is affected by what humans are affected by
Whenever he denied something, was angry about something, or was pleased with something, he would know it on his face
The most just people, the most fearful of God, and the most knowledgeable of God
They are the messengers and prophets, may God’s prayers and peace be upon them
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
If God wants good for His servant, He hastens his punishment in this world
If God intends evil for His servant, He will hold back his sin until he repays it on the Day of Resurrection
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that the greatness of the reward comes with the greatness of the calamity
If God Almighty loves a people, He tests them
Whoever is satisfied will have contentment, and whoever is discontent will have discontent
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi and said it is a good hadith
He comes to bring his sin, carrying it on his shoulders
One of the benefits of talking
Hastening the punishment in this world is a sign of the good that God intended for His servant
Because it is an expiation for sins and a reason for their disappearance
The torment of the Hereafter is more severe and more painful
If God does not intend good for him, He will delay his punishment until he is disgraced on the Day of Resurrection
People are afflicted according to their religion
Patience in the face of misfortunes and diseases is purification of sins
The believer must be satisfied with what he is afflicted with
Do not despair or be angry with him
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
Ibn Abu Talha, may God be pleased with him, was complaining
Abu Talha went out and arrested the boy
When Abu Talha returned, he said:
What my son did
Umm Salim, the boy’s mother, said
He lives as he was
So I brought dinner to him and he had dinner
Then it hit her
When he finished, she said, “See the boy.”
When Abu Talha became
He came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and told him
He said, “You got married tonight.”
He said yes
He said, God bless them
She gave birth to a boy
Abu Talha said to me
Carry it until you bring it to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He sent some dates with him
He said he had something in mind
He said yes dates
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, took it
So he chewed it
Then he took it from his mouth
And he did it to the boy
Then he refined it and named him Abdullah
Agreed
And in a narration by Al-Bukhari
Ibn Uyaynah said
A man from the Ansar said
I saw nine children, all of whom had read the Qur’an
I mean, one of the children of Abdullah, born
And in a narration by Muslim
A son of Abu Talha died from Umm Sulaym
She said to her family
Do not speak to Abu Talha about his son until I speak to him
So he came
So I brought him dinner and he ate and drank
Then she did the best thing for him that she had done before
So he fell into it
When she saw that he was satisfied and satisfied with her
She said
O Abu Talha!
Have you seen if some people lent their naked clothes to a family?
So they asked for their nakedness
Inspire them to stop them
He said no
And she said
So count your son
He said
So he got angry
Then he said
She left me even if I was stained
Then she told me about my son
So he set off until he came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So he told him what happened
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
May God bless your night
He said
So I got pregnant
He said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was on a journey and she was with him
Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to Medina from a journey, he would not go to it any other way
They approached the city
So the mob hit her
So Abu Talha detained her
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, set off
He said
Abu Talha says
You know, Lord
I like to go out with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he goes out
And enter with him if he enters
She was seized by what she saw
Umm Salim says
O Abu Talha!
What I find is what I was finding
Go
So we set off
The camp struck her as they advanced
She gave birth to a boy
My mother said to me
Oh Anas
No one breastfeeds him
Until you bring it to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
When it became
She tolerated him and took him to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
He mentioned the entire hadith
To complain
That is, he suffers from a disease
It does not mean that a complaint was issued against him
Ibn Abi Talha
He is Abu Omair
Which the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to joke with by saying:
Oh Abu Umair
What did Al-Naghir do?
He lives as he was
That is, his soul was inhabited by death
After she was worried and upset
Then it hit her
A metaphor for sexual intercourse
I made him up
That is, by improving the appearance with jewelry and the like
He signed it
That is, he collected it
See?
That is, tell me
Count your son
That is, seek the reward for your misfortune in your son from God Almighty
Stained
That is, you can have intercourse
He doesn't knock it
That is, he does not come there at night
Because he does not see anything in his family that he hates
She went into labor
That is, the pain of childbirth
One of the benefits of talking
The hadith contains a realistic example of a Muslim woman and a good wife
In her great mind and burning intelligence
Umm Salim’s patience with her son’s death
A role model for women
Be gentle in reporting a death or misfortune
Preferring the husband’s satisfaction over his sadness
This is part of the wife’s loyalty to her husband
The love of the Companions for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Make sure to follow him and consult him
And be blessed with his company
The spouses must each alleviate the misfortune of the other
And they adorn each other
For constant companionship and enabling affection
Whoever leaves something for God, God will compensate him with something better
The legitimacy of delusional exhibits
If necessary
And that is not a lie
A woman’s diligence in working out her husband’s interests
And do his service
Umm Salim also made it
Where I brought dinner to him, so he had dinner
Answering the call of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
So he blessed their son born that night
His descendants were numerous and prosperous
It is desirable to entertain the afflicted person during calamities
As Umm Salim did with Abu Talha
When I set an example for him by being gentle
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
It's not extreme
But the strong one is the one who controls himself when angry
Agreed
The origin of the Arabic term “slavery” is someone who makes people fall a lot
One of the benefits of talking
Islam changed the pre-Islamic concept of power
To have decent morals that build a distinguished Muslim personality
The most powerful people
He is the one who took control of his soul and weaned it from its desires
Struggling with oneself and taking control of it
It is more difficult than fighting the enemy
It is necessary to avoid anger
Because of the physical, psychological and social damage it causes
Anger is a human trait
She is distracted by things, including self-control
The prohibition of assaulting others
In case of anger and other things
On the authority of Suleiman bin Sard, may God be pleased with him, he said:
Sitting with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And two men are being investigated
One of them had his face red and his cheeks swollen
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
I know of a word that if he had said it, what he found would have gone away from him
If he said, “I seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan.”
What he found was gone
And they said to him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
You seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan
Agreed
It becomes clear
That is, each of them insulted his friend
Odajah
The veins surrounding the neck that the slaughterer cuts
Word
It is a useful sentence
I seek refuge
That is, I seek refuge and hold fast
One of the benefits of talking
The hadith is derived from the Almighty’s saying
Or he will make you angry with Satan
So seek refuge in God
He is All-Hearing and All-Knowing
Anger is provoked by Satan
Because of the harm it causes in religion and this world
Therefore, his reason was cut off
It is Satan's whispering of seeking refuge
Companions are human beings
They emit the kind of anger that befalls the general public
However, they were distinguished by their quick response
To remind the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
And do not persist in falsehood
The wisdom of the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
In calling to God
A reminder of God and advice to Muslims
That is what is expected
Not responding to advice
Do not address him directly
Desirability of giving advice to others
Even if they didn't ask for it
It is permissible to convey advice to those who did not hear it
To benefit from what is in it
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