WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:09.779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:15.369 Chapter on patience 00:00:15.369 --> 00:00:18.370 On the authority of Ibn Masoudh, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:00:18.370 --> 00:00:21.370 When it was a day of nostalgia 00:00:21.370 --> 00:00:26.370 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, preferred people in the division 00:00:26.370 --> 00:00:30.460 Al-Aqra' gave Ibn Habis a hundred camels 00:00:30.460 --> 00:00:33.460 Ibn Hisn gave a similar example 00:00:33.460 --> 00:00:39.460 He gave gifts to some of the noble Arabs and influenced them in the division at that time 00:00:39.460 --> 00:00:41.560 A man said 00:00:41.560 --> 00:00:45.560 By God, this is an unjust division 00:00:45.560 --> 00:00:48.560 And what I want is the face of God 00:00:48.560 --> 00:00:54.560 So I said, By God, I will inform the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:54.560 --> 00:00:57.560 So I went to him and told him what he said 00:00:57.560 --> 00:01:01.560 Then his face changed until it looked like a drain 00:01:01.560 --> 00:01:07.560 Then he said: Who will be just if God and His Messenger do not be just? 00:01:07.560 --> 00:01:11.560 Then he said, “May God have mercy on Moses.” 00:01:11.560 --> 00:01:15.560 He has been harmed more than this, so be patient 00:01:15.560 --> 00:01:21.560 So I said, “There is no crime that I will not raise a conversation about after that.” 00:01:21.560 --> 00:01:23.560 Agreed 00:01:23.560 --> 00:01:25.620 And his saying is like sharf 00:01:25.620 --> 00:01:27.620 It is a red dye 00:01:27.620 --> 00:01:30.359 Nostalgia 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:33.359 A valley between Mecca and Taif 00:01:33.359 --> 00:01:41.459 People, i.e. those whose hearts are composed, the free ones, and the leaders of the Arabs who form them 00:01:41.459 --> 00:01:46.840 The division is the division of the spoils of the Hawaz tribe 00:01:46.840 --> 00:01:52.030 He favored them, meaning he gave them precious gifts 00:01:52.030 --> 00:01:55.219 No offense really 00:01:55.219 --> 00:01:58.629 One of the benefits of talking 00:01:58.629 --> 00:02:02.760 It is permissible to single out a group for giving rather than another group 00:02:02.760 --> 00:02:06.760 If the imam sees a valid benefit for that 00:02:06.760 --> 00:02:11.180 From the legal policy of calling to God 00:02:11.180 --> 00:02:16.180 Winning the hearts of nobles and people of prestige with whatever money they like 00:02:16.180 --> 00:02:20.400 In every era there are enemies to the prophets and their followers 00:02:20.400 --> 00:02:24.400 They challenge them and refute what they say 00:02:24.400 --> 00:02:27.530 And they doubt themselves 00:02:27.530 --> 00:02:31.530 It is obligatory to advise God, His Messenger, and the believers 00:02:31.530 --> 00:02:39.530 Abdullah bin Masoud conveyed the words of those who attacked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to him 00:02:39.530 --> 00:02:45.780 Forgiving sins of meanness is an ancient tradition among the prophets 00:02:45.780 --> 00:02:48.780 Moses, peace be upon him, was harmed, but he was patient 00:02:48.780 --> 00:02:53.780 Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, was harmed and forgiven 00:02:53.780 --> 00:02:58.979 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, followed the example of his fellow prophets 00:02:58.979 --> 00:03:03.979 In fulfillment of the Almighty’s saying, he is followed by His guidance 00:03:03.979 --> 00:03:09.330 The Messenger is a human being who is affected by what humans are affected by 00:03:09.330 --> 00:03:17.330 Whenever he denied something, was angry about something, or was pleased with something, he would know it on his face 00:03:17.330 --> 00:03:23.710 The most just people, the most fearful of God, and the most knowledgeable of God 00:03:23.710 --> 00:03:28.710 They are the messengers and prophets, may God’s prayers and peace be upon them 00:03:28.710 --> 00:03:33.930 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:03:33.930 --> 00:03:37.930 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:37.930 --> 00:03:43.930 If God wants good for His servant, He hastens his punishment in this world 00:03:43.930 --> 00:03:52.930 If God intends evil for His servant, He will hold back his sin until he repays it on the Day of Resurrection 00:03:52.930 --> 00:04:00.120 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that the greatness of the reward comes with the greatness of the calamity 00:04:00.120 --> 00:04:05.120 If God Almighty loves a people, He tests them 00:04:05.120 --> 00:04:10.120 Whoever is satisfied will have contentment, and whoever is discontent will have discontent 00:04:10.120 --> 00:04:15.120 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi and said it is a good hadith 00:04:15.120 --> 00:04:21.759 He comes to bring his sin, carrying it on his shoulders 00:04:21.759 --> 00:04:24.980 One of the benefits of talking 00:04:24.980 --> 00:04:31.009 Hastening the punishment in this world is a sign of the good that God intended for His servant 00:04:31.009 --> 00:04:36.009 Because it is an expiation for sins and a reason for their disappearance 00:04:36.009 --> 00:04:39.259 The torment of the Hereafter is more severe and more painful 00:04:39.259 --> 00:04:47.259 If God does not intend good for him, He will delay his punishment until he is disgraced on the Day of Resurrection 00:04:47.259 --> 00:04:51.389 People are afflicted according to their religion 00:04:51.389 --> 00:04:56.620 Patience in the face of misfortunes and diseases is purification of sins 00:04:56.620 --> 00:05:01.000 The believer must be satisfied with what he is afflicted with 00:05:01.000 --> 00:05:04.860 Do not despair or be angry with him 00:05:04.860 --> 00:05:07.860 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:05:07.860 --> 00:05:12.860 Ibn Abu Talha, may God be pleased with him, was complaining 00:05:12.860 --> 00:05:16.860 Abu Talha went out and arrested the boy 00:05:16.860 --> 00:05:19.860 When Abu Talha returned, he said: 00:05:19.860 --> 00:05:21.860 What my son did 00:05:21.860 --> 00:05:24.860 Umm Salim, the boy’s mother, said 00:05:24.860 --> 00:05:27.860 He lives as he was 00:05:27.860 --> 00:05:30.860 So I brought dinner to him and he had dinner 00:05:30.860 --> 00:05:32.860 Then it hit her 00:05:32.860 --> 00:05:36.860 When he finished, she said, “See the boy.” 00:05:36.860 --> 00:05:39.899 When Abu Talha became 00:05:39.899 --> 00:05:43.899 He came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and told him 00:05:43.899 --> 00:05:47.899 He said, “You got married tonight.” 00:05:47.899 --> 00:05:49.899 He said yes 00:05:49.899 --> 00:05:52.899 He said, God bless them 00:05:52.899 --> 00:05:54.899 She gave birth to a boy 00:05:54.899 --> 00:05:57.899 Abu Talha said to me 00:05:57.899 --> 00:06:02.899 Carry it until you bring it to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:02.899 --> 00:06:04.899 He sent some dates with him 00:06:04.899 --> 00:06:07.899 He said he had something in mind 00:06:07.899 --> 00:06:10.899 He said yes dates 00:06:10.899 --> 00:06:13.899 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, took it 00:06:13.899 --> 00:06:15.899 So he chewed it 00:06:15.899 --> 00:06:17.899 Then he took it from his mouth 00:06:17.899 --> 00:06:19.899 And he did it to the boy 00:06:19.899 --> 00:06:23.899 Then he refined it and named him Abdullah 00:06:23.899 --> 00:06:25.990 Agreed 00:06:25.990 --> 00:06:27.990 And in a narration by Al-Bukhari 00:06:27.990 --> 00:06:29.990 Ibn Uyaynah said 00:06:29.990 --> 00:06:32.990 A man from the Ansar said 00:06:32.990 --> 00:06:37.990 I saw nine children, all of whom had read the Qur’an 00:06:37.990 --> 00:06:42.120 I mean, one of the children of Abdullah, born 00:06:42.120 --> 00:06:44.120 And in a narration by Muslim 00:06:44.120 --> 00:06:48.120 A son of Abu Talha died from Umm Sulaym 00:06:48.120 --> 00:06:50.120 She said to her family 00:06:50.120 --> 00:06:56.120 Do not speak to Abu Talha about his son until I speak to him 00:06:56.120 --> 00:06:57.120 So he came 00:06:57.120 --> 00:07:01.120 So I brought him dinner and he ate and drank 00:07:01.120 --> 00:07:06.120 Then she did the best thing for him that she had done before 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:08.120 So he fell into it 00:07:08.120 --> 00:07:12.120 When she saw that he was satisfied and satisfied with her 00:07:12.120 --> 00:07:13.120 She said 00:07:13.120 --> 00:07:15.120 O Abu Talha! 00:07:15.120 --> 00:07:20.120 Have you seen if some people lent their naked clothes to a family? 00:07:20.120 --> 00:07:22.120 So they asked for their nakedness 00:07:22.120 --> 00:07:24.120 Inspire them to stop them 00:07:24.120 --> 00:07:26.120 He said no 00:07:26.120 --> 00:07:27.120 And she said 00:07:27.120 --> 00:07:29.180 So count your son 00:07:29.180 --> 00:07:30.180 He said 00:07:30.180 --> 00:07:31.180 So he got angry 00:07:31.180 --> 00:07:33.180 Then he said 00:07:33.180 --> 00:07:36.180 She left me even if I was stained 00:07:36.180 --> 00:07:38.180 Then she told me about my son 00:07:38.180 --> 00:07:43.180 So he set off until he came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:43.180 --> 00:07:46.180 So he told him what happened 00:07:46.180 --> 00:07:50.180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:07:50.180 --> 00:07:54.180 May God bless your night 00:07:54.180 --> 00:07:55.180 He said 00:07:55.180 --> 00:07:56.180 So I got pregnant 00:07:56.180 --> 00:07:57.180 He said 00:07:57.180 --> 00:08:03.180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was on a journey and she was with him 00:08:03.180 --> 00:08:11.180 Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to Medina from a journey, he would not go to it any other way 00:08:11.180 --> 00:08:13.180 They approached the city 00:08:13.180 --> 00:08:15.180 So the mob hit her 00:08:15.180 --> 00:08:18.180 So Abu Talha detained her 00:08:18.180 --> 00:08:22.180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, set off 00:08:22.180 --> 00:08:23.180 He said 00:08:23.180 --> 00:08:25.180 Abu Talha says 00:08:25.180 --> 00:08:28.180 You know, Lord 00:08:28.180 --> 00:08:34.179 I like to go out with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he goes out 00:08:34.179 --> 00:08:37.179 And enter with him if he enters 00:08:37.179 --> 00:08:40.250 She was seized by what she saw 00:08:40.250 --> 00:08:42.250 Umm Salim says 00:08:42.250 --> 00:08:43.250 O Abu Talha! 00:08:43.250 --> 00:08:46.250 What I find is what I was finding 00:08:46.250 --> 00:08:47.250 Go 00:08:47.250 --> 00:08:49.250 So we set off 00:08:49.250 --> 00:08:52.250 The camp struck her as they advanced 00:08:52.250 --> 00:08:54.250 She gave birth to a boy 00:08:54.250 --> 00:08:56.250 My mother said to me 00:08:56.250 --> 00:08:57.250 Oh Anas 00:08:57.250 --> 00:08:59.250 No one breastfeeds him 00:08:59.250 --> 00:09:04.250 Until you bring it to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:04.250 --> 00:09:06.279 When it became 00:09:06.279 --> 00:09:12.279 She tolerated him and took him to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:12.279 --> 00:09:15.279 He mentioned the entire hadith 00:09:15.279 --> 00:09:17.399 To complain 00:09:17.399 --> 00:09:19.399 That is, he suffers from a disease 00:09:19.399 --> 00:09:23.399 It does not mean that a complaint was issued against him 00:09:23.399 --> 00:09:25.659 Ibn Abi Talha 00:09:25.659 --> 00:09:27.659 He is Abu Omair 00:09:27.659 --> 00:09:32.659 Which the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to joke with by saying: 00:09:32.659 --> 00:09:34.659 Oh Abu Umair 00:09:34.659 --> 00:09:36.659 What did Al-Naghir do? 00:09:36.659 --> 00:09:38.779 He lives as he was 00:09:38.779 --> 00:09:40.779 That is, his soul was inhabited by death 00:09:40.779 --> 00:09:44.779 After she was worried and upset 00:09:44.779 --> 00:09:47.230 Then it hit her 00:09:47.230 --> 00:09:49.230 A metaphor for sexual intercourse 00:09:49.230 --> 00:09:51.259 I made him up 00:09:51.259 --> 00:09:55.330 That is, by improving the appearance with jewelry and the like 00:09:55.330 --> 00:09:56.330 He signed it 00:09:56.330 --> 00:09:58.330 That is, he collected it 00:09:58.330 --> 00:09:59.419 See? 00:09:59.419 --> 00:10:01.419 That is, tell me 00:10:01.419 --> 00:10:03.679 Count your son 00:10:03.679 --> 00:10:08.679 That is, seek the reward for your misfortune in your son from God Almighty 00:10:08.679 --> 00:10:09.840 Stained 00:10:09.840 --> 00:10:12.840 That is, you can have intercourse 00:10:12.840 --> 00:10:14.970 He doesn't knock it 00:10:14.970 --> 00:10:17.970 That is, he does not come there at night 00:10:17.970 --> 00:10:20.970 Because he does not see anything in his family that he hates 00:10:20.970 --> 00:10:23.159 She went into labor 00:10:23.159 --> 00:10:25.159 That is, the pain of childbirth 00:10:26.899 --> 00:10:28.899 One of the benefits of talking 00:10:28.899 --> 00:10:34.120 The hadith contains a realistic example of a Muslim woman and a good wife 00:10:34.120 --> 00:10:38.120 In her great mind and burning intelligence 00:10:38.120 --> 00:10:41.409 Umm Salim’s patience with her son’s death 00:10:41.409 --> 00:10:44.409 A role model for women 00:10:44.409 --> 00:10:48.759 Be gentle in reporting a death or misfortune 00:10:48.759 --> 00:10:52.110 Preferring the husband’s satisfaction over his sadness 00:10:52.110 --> 00:10:56.110 This is part of the wife’s loyalty to her husband 00:10:56.110 --> 00:11:00.399 The love of the Companions for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:11:00.399 --> 00:11:03.399 Make sure to follow him and consult him 00:11:03.399 --> 00:11:06.620 And be blessed with his company 00:11:06.620 --> 00:11:11.620 The spouses must each alleviate the misfortune of the other 00:11:11.620 --> 00:11:13.620 And they adorn each other 00:11:13.620 --> 00:11:17.879 For constant companionship and enabling affection 00:11:17.879 --> 00:11:21.879 Whoever leaves something for God, God will compensate him with something better 00:11:21.879 --> 00:11:25.139 The legitimacy of delusional exhibits 00:11:25.139 --> 00:11:28.139 If necessary 00:11:28.139 --> 00:11:31.139 And that is not a lie 00:11:31.139 --> 00:11:35.519 A woman’s diligence in working out her husband’s interests 00:11:35.519 --> 00:11:37.519 And do his service 00:11:37.519 --> 00:11:39.519 Umm Salim also made it 00:11:39.519 --> 00:11:43.940 Where I brought dinner to him, so he had dinner 00:11:43.940 --> 00:11:47.940 Answering the call of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:11:47.940 --> 00:11:51.940 So he blessed their son born that night 00:11:51.940 --> 00:11:54.940 His descendants were numerous and prosperous 00:11:54.940 --> 00:11:58.940 It is desirable to entertain the afflicted person during calamities 00:11:58.940 --> 00:12:02.940 As Umm Salim did with Abu Talha 00:12:02.940 --> 00:12:07.990 When I set an example for him by being gentle 00:12:07.990 --> 00:12:10.990 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:12:10.990 --> 00:12:14.990 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:12:14.990 --> 00:12:18.019 It's not extreme 00:12:18.019 --> 00:12:23.090 But the strong one is the one who controls himself when angry 00:12:23.090 --> 00:12:25.120 Agreed 00:12:25.120 --> 00:12:30.120 The origin of the Arabic term “slavery” is someone who makes people fall a lot 00:12:30.120 --> 00:12:34.590 One of the benefits of talking 00:12:34.590 --> 00:12:38.590 Islam changed the pre-Islamic concept of power 00:12:38.590 --> 00:12:43.590 To have decent morals that build a distinguished Muslim personality 00:12:43.590 --> 00:12:46.590 The most powerful people 00:12:46.590 --> 00:12:50.590 He is the one who took control of his soul and weaned it from its desires 00:12:50.590 --> 00:12:54.940 Struggling with oneself and taking control of it 00:12:54.940 --> 00:12:58.330 It is more difficult than fighting the enemy 00:12:58.330 --> 00:13:01.330 It is necessary to avoid anger 00:13:01.330 --> 00:13:06.490 Because of the physical, psychological and social damage it causes 00:13:06.490 --> 00:13:09.490 Anger is a human trait 00:13:09.490 --> 00:13:13.840 She is distracted by things, including self-control 00:13:13.840 --> 00:13:16.840 The prohibition of assaulting others 00:13:16.840 --> 00:13:20.990 In case of anger and other things 00:13:20.990 --> 00:13:24.990 On the authority of Suleiman bin Sard, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:13:24.990 --> 00:13:27.990 Sitting with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:13:27.990 --> 00:13:30.990 And two men are being investigated 00:13:30.990 --> 00:13:34.990 One of them had his face red and his cheeks swollen 00:13:34.990 --> 00:13:38.990 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:13:38.990 --> 00:13:44.990 I know of a word that if he had said it, what he found would have gone away from him 00:13:44.990 --> 00:13:49.990 If he said, “I seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan.” 00:13:49.990 --> 00:13:51.990 What he found was gone 00:13:51.990 --> 00:13:53.990 And they said to him 00:13:53.990 --> 00:13:57.990 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:13:57.990 --> 00:14:02.019 You seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan 00:14:02.019 --> 00:14:04.019 Agreed 00:14:04.019 --> 00:14:06.600 It becomes clear 00:14:06.600 --> 00:14:09.600 That is, each of them insulted his friend 00:14:09.600 --> 00:14:11.860 Odajah 00:14:11.860 --> 00:14:17.139 The veins surrounding the neck that the slaughterer cuts 00:14:17.139 --> 00:14:18.139 Word 00:14:18.139 --> 00:14:20.139 It is a useful sentence 00:14:20.139 --> 00:14:21.340 I seek refuge 00:14:21.340 --> 00:14:24.340 That is, I seek refuge and hold fast 00:14:24.340 --> 00:14:27.100 One of the benefits of talking 00:14:27.100 --> 00:14:31.419 The hadith is derived from the Almighty’s saying 00:14:31.419 --> 00:14:35.419 Or he will make you angry with Satan 00:14:35.419 --> 00:14:37.419 So seek refuge in God 00:14:37.419 --> 00:14:40.779 He is All-Hearing and All-Knowing 00:14:40.779 --> 00:14:42.779 Anger is provoked by Satan 00:14:42.779 --> 00:14:46.779 Because of the harm it causes in religion and this world 00:14:46.779 --> 00:14:49.779 Therefore, his reason was cut off 00:14:49.779 --> 00:14:52.779 It is Satan's whispering of seeking refuge 00:14:52.779 --> 00:14:55.129 Companions are human beings 00:14:55.129 --> 00:15:00.129 They emit the kind of anger that befalls the general public 00:15:00.129 --> 00:15:03.129 However, they were distinguished by their quick response 00:15:03.129 --> 00:15:07.129 To remind the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:15:07.129 --> 00:15:10.450 And do not persist in falsehood 00:15:10.450 --> 00:15:13.450 The wisdom of the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:15:13.450 --> 00:15:15.450 In calling to God 00:15:15.450 --> 00:15:18.450 A reminder of God and advice to Muslims 00:15:18.450 --> 00:15:21.450 That is what is expected 00:15:21.450 --> 00:15:23.450 Not responding to advice 00:15:23.450 --> 00:15:26.450 Do not address him directly 00:15:26.450 --> 00:15:28.700 Desirability of giving advice to others 00:15:28.700 --> 00:15:30.700 Even if they didn't ask for it 00:15:30.700 --> 00:15:34.929 It is permissible to convey advice to those who did not hear it 00:15:34.929 --> 00:15:37.929 To benefit from what is in it 00:15:37.929 --> 00:15:42.090 Riyadh Al-Salehin