In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Men's types
In the hadith of Umm Zara’
Did Zara's mother ask for a divorce from her husband?
Umm Zar’a’s summary of her divorce story
It made some people search for the real reason for divorce
Why was he not convinced by contemplating the hadith?
The reason for the divorce is only what Umm Zaraa briefly said
He married her and divorced her for several reasons
Among them is that the Arabs were known for polygamy
It is not surprising that Abu Zara married more than his wife
Among them is that a man does not lack money or the potential for marriage
What makes him resort to divorce directly?
Among them is that we know that it is the nature of women
To hide some facts when she wants to defend herself
By changing some facts or at least concealing them
We saw examples of this in a previous episode
What is the real reason for her divorce?
Firstly, the mother of Zara is no different from the women of the worlds
She hates her husband marrying her
This hatred is innate in women
The woman loves to be alone with her husband
The fire of jealousy boils in her heart
When she knew that he married her
This natural, innate hatred
It differs from hatred of God’s rule in that polygamy is permissible
She does not sin
Unlike those who hate God's rule
This may be said
Until her work is thwarted and she enters the fire
God Almighty said
That is because they hated what God revealed
So he thwarted their actions
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, they do not want him or love him
So he thwarted their actions
It is no wonder that you hate Umm Zara
That her husband should marry her
Secondly, what is expected of women
If her husband marries her
To have a reaction to his marriage
This reaction
It varies from one woman to another
According to the woman's faith and attachment
And the intensity of her love for her husband
This reaction
It has several pictures
Including complete rejection of the topic
This might drag her down
Either to claim
Divorce this wife
Or by divorcing her
Including extreme sadness
The husband does not accept it
He described it as treason
Including sadness and pain
With satisfaction with God’s will and destiny
Then try to calm yourself down
To the satisfaction of God
And other behaviour
The first picture is contrary to Sharia law
He forbids it
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said it is not permissible for a woman
She asks about her sister's divorce
To throw up her newspaper
For she has what is destined for her
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said
It is forbidden for women
And wrapping it up
Doesn't she ask about her sister's divorce?
And be satisfied with what God has divided for her
Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
Saying it is not permissible
It is apparent that this is prohibited
It is not permissible for her
To make a condition of her husband
To divorce his second wife
If he wants you to return to him
Or stay with him
The prohibition was also stated
About filing for divorce
Without a legitimate reason
On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him
He said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Any woman
She asked her husband for a divorce
Nothing wrong with that
It is forbidden for her
The smell of heaven
Narrated by Abu Dawood
Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
And in it that
The news contained is intimidating
Women requesting divorce
Her husband carried
On if not
He accepted that for a hadith
Thouban
A man's marriage to his wife
She is not permitted to ask for a divorce
And it doesn't count
Permissible legal reasons
For divorce
Ibn Uthaymeen, may God have mercy on him, said
Even if the first one revolted against him
He does not have to divorce her
Because the original
That the first wife does not have
He prevented him from marrying
Don't force him to do that
She has no right either
To ask for divorce if he is not divorced
The new wife
Abdul Aziz Al-Rajhi said
And it is not right
A woman may ask for a divorce from
Her husband if he marries her
As for the second picture
It is not acceptable
The husband described him as a traitor
This is a different description
True, the man
He didn't even commit a crime
It is said that he betrayed the trust
But I do something
God allowed it for him
But these phrases
We took it from the secular West
And we promoted it
In films and series
Until I drank it some
Sick hearts
What reaction do we expect?
From the mother planted and led to
Her divorce
As for the second and third pictures
For reaction
We don't expect it
Even there is a divorce
The first picture remains
For reaction
Did you ask for it or did you plant it?
From my father, he wanted to divorce her
He divorced her after her insistence
He came in
Dictionary of Sheikh Ibn al-Arabi
And the dictionary of Sheikh bin Asakir
A narration of the hadith
Brief in it
The reason for her divorce
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
She said: The Messenger of God said
May God bless him and grant him peace
Would you like me to be?
You are like a father sowing a mother
Transplant she said
He was a man with a nickname
Abu Zara and his wife
Or he planted it and it improved
To her and she says
Be good to me, Abu
Plant and clothe Abu
He planted and fed me Abu
He planted and my father honored me
Planting and such
Of speech is a movie
He said it or planted
Until he divorced her
So Umm Zar’ married
A man, so he honored her too
And she was saying
He honored me and gave me
And similar words
She says at the end of that
Even if he collects that
Everything is filled
The smallest bowl is for my father
Plant this novel
Even if it has weakness
In its chain of transmission
He can enjoy it
In finding out the reason for my father's divorce
Plant her
He urged her to divorce him
And this is what
The soul tends toward it
And God knows best
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Thank God
Lord of the worlds