1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:22,469 Chapter on the desirability of shaking hands when meeting, with a cheerful face, kissing the hand of a righteous man, and kissing his son out of compassion 3 00:00:22,469 --> 00:00:27,469 Embracing those coming from travel and hating bending over 4 00:00:27,469 --> 00:00:40,170 On the authority of Abu al-Khattab Qatada, he said: I said to Anas: Was the handshake common among the Companions of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace? 5 00:00:40,170 --> 00:00:47,869 He said: Yes, it was narrated by Al-Bukhari, one of the benefits of the hadith 6 00:00:47,869 --> 00:00:56,130 Shaking hands is a recommended Sunnah and is a legitimate custom with no harm or violation 7 00:00:57,130 --> 00:01:03,380 Rather, it is a unanimously agreed upon Sunnah upon meeting 8 00:01:03,380 --> 00:01:12,379 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said, when the people of Yemen came, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 9 00:01:12,379 --> 00:01:18,379 The people of Yemen have come to you and they were the first to come with a handshake 10 00:01:18,379 --> 00:01:21,500 Narrated by Abu Dawood 11 00:01:21,500 --> 00:01:30,430 One of the benefits of the hadith is that it is desirable for a Muslim to mention the good qualities that he contains so that he can follow his example 12 00:01:30,430 --> 00:01:38,939 On the authority of Al-Baraa, may God be pleased with him, he said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 13 00:01:38,939 --> 00:01:47,939 No two Muslims meet and shake hands without being forgiven before they part 14 00:01:47,939 --> 00:01:50,030 Narrated by Abu Dawood 15 00:01:50,030 --> 00:01:56,450 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: A man said, O Messenger of God 16 00:01:56,450 --> 00:02:03,450 The man among us meets his brother or friend, should he bow to him and say no? 17 00:02:03,450 --> 00:02:07,450 He said, "Should he adhere to it and accept it?" 18 00:02:07,450 --> 00:02:09,449 He said no 19 00:02:09,449 --> 00:02:13,449 He said, taking his hand and shaking it 20 00:02:13,449 --> 00:02:15,449 He said yes 21 00:02:15,449 --> 00:02:17,479 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 22 00:02:17,479 --> 00:02:21,219 One of the benefits of talking 23 00:02:21,219 --> 00:02:27,219 It is necessary to ask about the legal ruling for those who are ignorant of it and fear falling into the forbidden 24 00:02:27,219 --> 00:02:32,629 Teaching preachers not to get angry if they are asked about a ruling that is forbidden 25 00:02:32,629 --> 00:02:36,629 Rather, the questioner answers according to the extent of his question 26 00:02:36,629 --> 00:02:43,180 The scholar should not be weary of people frequently asking questions about legal rulings 27 00:02:43,180 --> 00:02:47,180 Even if the question is repeated in one ruling 28 00:02:47,180 --> 00:02:52,689 It is inviolable for the next person to bow down, even if he is an elder of the people or someone else 29 00:02:52,689 --> 00:02:56,229 Commitment is embracing 30 00:02:56,229 --> 00:03:00,229 It is not permissible except in cases excluded by Sharia law 31 00:03:00,229 --> 00:03:03,229 Such as bidding farewell or welcoming a traveler 32 00:03:03,229 --> 00:03:09,650 The legitimacy of a handshake and that it be in the hand 33 00:03:09,650 --> 00:03:14,800 On the authority of Safwan bin Assal, may God be pleased with him, he said: 34 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,800 A Jew said to his friend 35 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,800 Take us to this prophet 36 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,930 So he came, O Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 37 00:03:24,930 --> 00:03:28,990 So he asked him about nine clear verses 38 00:03:28,990 --> 00:03:31,990 So he mentioned the hadith until he said it 39 00:03:31,990 --> 00:03:35,990 He kissed his hand and foot and said 40 00:03:35,990 --> 00:03:39,090 We bear witness that you are a prophet 41 00:03:39,090 --> 00:03:41,090 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 42 00:03:41,090 --> 00:03:44,860 Nine clear verses 43 00:03:44,860 --> 00:03:47,860 This is what was mentioned in the same hadith according to Al-Tirmidhi 44 00:03:47,860 --> 00:03:50,860 Do not associate anything with God 45 00:03:50,860 --> 00:03:53,860 And do not steal or commit adultery 46 00:03:53,860 --> 00:03:58,860 And do not kill the soul that God has forbidden except with justice 47 00:03:58,860 --> 00:04:02,860 And do not lead an innocent person to someone with authority to kill him 48 00:04:02,860 --> 00:04:06,860 Do not use Suhoor or eat lightning 49 00:04:06,860 --> 00:04:08,860 And do not slander a chaste woman 50 00:04:08,860 --> 00:04:11,860 And do not flee on the day of battle 51 00:04:11,860 --> 00:04:15,020 And especially to you, Jews 52 00:04:15,020 --> 00:04:18,019 Do not transgress on the Sabbath 53 00:04:18,019 --> 00:04:21,110 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, answered 54 00:04:21,110 --> 00:04:23,110 About the nine they asked about 55 00:04:23,110 --> 00:04:27,110 It is common between Muslims and Jews 56 00:04:27,110 --> 00:04:30,110 He added their tenth 57 00:04:30,110 --> 00:04:33,110 And they had hidden it within themselves 58 00:04:33,110 --> 00:04:38,110 He answered them with more evidence of the miracle 59 00:04:38,110 --> 00:04:41,879 One of the benefits of talking 60 00:04:41,879 --> 00:04:47,100 It is permissible to kiss the hands or feet of someone who believes they are pious and righteous 61 00:04:47,100 --> 00:04:49,100 May blessings be expected from them 62 00:04:49,100 --> 00:04:53,100 Where he did that with him, may God bless him and grant him peace 63 00:04:53,100 --> 00:04:55,100 He did not deny it 64 00:04:55,100 --> 00:05:01,829 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, a story in which he said: 65 00:05:01,829 --> 00:05:05,829 So they brought us closer to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 66 00:05:05,829 --> 00:05:07,829 So we kissed his hand 67 00:05:07,829 --> 00:05:09,860 Narrated by Abu Dawood 68 00:05:09,860 --> 00:05:12,699 The story 69 00:05:12,699 --> 00:05:16,699 It is what Abu Dawud narrated at the end of the book Al-Jihad 70 00:05:16,699 --> 00:05:18,699 About my father at night 71 00:05:18,699 --> 00:05:20,699 That Ibn Omar happened 72 00:05:20,699 --> 00:05:26,699 He was in one of the companies of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 73 00:05:26,699 --> 00:05:27,860 He said 74 00:05:27,860 --> 00:05:30,860 So the people examined it carefully 75 00:05:30,860 --> 00:05:32,860 So I was one of those who had luck 76 00:05:32,860 --> 00:05:35,860 This was in the Battle of Mu'tah 77 00:05:35,860 --> 00:05:38,860 When we emerged, we said 78 00:05:38,860 --> 00:05:41,860 How do we do it when we have fled the encroachment? 79 00:05:41,860 --> 00:05:43,860 We were plagued with anger 80 00:05:43,860 --> 00:05:44,860 So we said 81 00:05:44,860 --> 00:05:48,860 We enter the city and slip out of it to go 82 00:05:48,860 --> 00:05:50,860 No one sees us 83 00:05:50,860 --> 00:05:51,860 He said 84 00:05:51,860 --> 00:05:53,860 So we entered 85 00:05:53,860 --> 00:05:54,860 So we said 86 00:05:54,860 --> 00:05:59,860 If we presented ourselves to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 87 00:05:59,860 --> 00:06:03,860 If we have repentance, we will remain 88 00:06:03,860 --> 00:06:06,860 If not, we will go 89 00:06:06,860 --> 00:06:07,860 He said 90 00:06:07,860 --> 00:06:13,860 So we sat with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, before the dawn prayer 91 00:06:13,860 --> 00:06:17,860 When he came out, we went to him and said 92 00:06:17,860 --> 00:06:19,860 We are fleeing 93 00:06:19,860 --> 00:06:22,860 So he came to us and said 94 00:06:22,860 --> 00:06:25,860 Rather, you are the Akkarun 95 00:06:25,860 --> 00:06:28,860 The rest is what was mentioned in the hadith 96 00:06:28,860 --> 00:06:31,720 One of the benefits of talking 97 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:37,009 It is permissible to kiss the hand of the divine world and parents 98 00:06:37,009 --> 00:06:40,009 Unless this is a habit 99 00:06:40,009 --> 00:06:45,930 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 100 00:06:45,930 --> 00:06:48,930 Zaid bin Haritha came to the city 101 00:06:48,930 --> 00:06:52,930 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, is in my house 102 00:06:52,930 --> 00:06:55,930 He came to him and knocked on the door 103 00:06:55,930 --> 00:07:00,930 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up to him, dragging a garment 104 00:07:00,930 --> 00:07:04,060 So he embraced him and accepted him 105 00:07:04,060 --> 00:07:06,819 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 106 00:07:06,819 --> 00:07:09,050 One of the benefits of talking 107 00:07:09,050 --> 00:07:13,050 It is permissible to kiss and embrace someone who has returned from travel 108 00:07:13,050 --> 00:07:15,050 Unless he fears strife 109 00:07:15,050 --> 00:07:18,560 Rushing to meet the one he loves 110 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:22,100 If he senses his arrival 111 00:07:22,100 --> 00:07:25,100 The virtue of Zaid bin Haritha, may God be pleased with him 112 00:07:25,100 --> 00:07:29,100 And the love of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 113 00:07:29,100 --> 00:07:34,740 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said 114 00:07:34,740 --> 00:07:38,740 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me 115 00:07:38,740 --> 00:07:41,740 Do not despise any favor 116 00:07:41,740 --> 00:07:45,740 Even if you meet your brother with a cheerful face 117 00:07:45,740 --> 00:07:47,860 Narrated by Muslim 118 00:07:47,860 --> 00:07:52,060 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 119 00:07:52,060 --> 00:07:58,060 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, accepted Al-Hasan bin Ali, may God be pleased with them both 120 00:07:58,060 --> 00:08:01,060 Al-Aqra' bin Habis said: 121 00:08:01,060 --> 00:08:03,060 I have ten children 122 00:08:03,060 --> 00:08:06,060 I did not accept any of them 123 00:08:06,060 --> 00:08:10,149 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 124 00:08:10,149 --> 00:08:14,220 He who does not have mercy will not have mercy 125 00:08:14,220 --> 00:08:16,220 Agreed 126 00:08:16,220 --> 00:08:20,889 Riyadh Al-Salehin