WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:09.779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:22.469 Chapter on the desirability of shaking hands when meeting, with a cheerful face, kissing the hand of a righteous man, and kissing his son out of compassion 00:00:22.469 --> 00:00:27.469 Embracing those coming from travel and hating bending over 00:00:27.469 --> 00:00:40.170 On the authority of Abu al-Khattab Qatada, he said: I said to Anas: Was the handshake common among the Companions of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace? 00:00:40.170 --> 00:00:47.869 He said: Yes, it was narrated by Al-Bukhari, one of the benefits of the hadith 00:00:47.869 --> 00:00:56.130 Shaking hands is a recommended Sunnah and is a legitimate custom with no harm or violation 00:00:57.130 --> 00:01:03.380 Rather, it is a unanimously agreed upon Sunnah upon meeting 00:01:03.380 --> 00:01:12.379 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said, when the people of Yemen came, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:12.379 --> 00:01:18.379 The people of Yemen have come to you and they were the first to come with a handshake 00:01:18.379 --> 00:01:21.500 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:01:21.500 --> 00:01:30.430 One of the benefits of the hadith is that it is desirable for a Muslim to mention the good qualities that he contains so that he can follow his example 00:01:30.430 --> 00:01:38.939 On the authority of Al-Baraa, may God be pleased with him, he said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:38.939 --> 00:01:47.939 No two Muslims meet and shake hands without being forgiven before they part 00:01:47.939 --> 00:01:50.030 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:01:50.030 --> 00:01:56.450 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: A man said, O Messenger of God 00:01:56.450 --> 00:02:03.450 The man among us meets his brother or friend, should he bow to him and say no? 00:02:03.450 --> 00:02:07.450 He said, "Should he adhere to it and accept it?" 00:02:07.450 --> 00:02:09.449 He said no 00:02:09.449 --> 00:02:13.449 He said, taking his hand and shaking it 00:02:13.449 --> 00:02:15.449 He said yes 00:02:15.449 --> 00:02:17.479 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:02:17.479 --> 00:02:21.219 One of the benefits of talking 00:02:21.219 --> 00:02:27.219 It is necessary to ask about the legal ruling for those who are ignorant of it and fear falling into the forbidden 00:02:27.219 --> 00:02:32.629 Teaching preachers not to get angry if they are asked about a ruling that is forbidden 00:02:32.629 --> 00:02:36.629 Rather, the questioner answers according to the extent of his question 00:02:36.629 --> 00:02:43.180 The scholar should not be weary of people frequently asking questions about legal rulings 00:02:43.180 --> 00:02:47.180 Even if the question is repeated in one ruling 00:02:47.180 --> 00:02:52.689 It is inviolable for the next person to bow down, even if he is an elder of the people or someone else 00:02:52.689 --> 00:02:56.229 Commitment is embracing 00:02:56.229 --> 00:03:00.229 It is not permissible except in cases excluded by Sharia law 00:03:00.229 --> 00:03:03.229 Such as bidding farewell or welcoming a traveler 00:03:03.229 --> 00:03:09.650 The legitimacy of a handshake and that it be in the hand 00:03:09.650 --> 00:03:14.800 On the authority of Safwan bin Assal, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:03:14.800 --> 00:03:17.800 A Jew said to his friend 00:03:17.800 --> 00:03:20.800 Take us to this prophet 00:03:20.800 --> 00:03:24.930 So he came, O Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:24.930 --> 00:03:28.990 So he asked him about nine clear verses 00:03:28.990 --> 00:03:31.990 So he mentioned the hadith until he said it 00:03:31.990 --> 00:03:35.990 He kissed his hand and foot and said 00:03:35.990 --> 00:03:39.090 We bear witness that you are a prophet 00:03:39.090 --> 00:03:41.090 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:03:41.090 --> 00:03:44.860 Nine clear verses 00:03:44.860 --> 00:03:47.860 This is what was mentioned in the same hadith according to Al-Tirmidhi 00:03:47.860 --> 00:03:50.860 Do not associate anything with God 00:03:50.860 --> 00:03:53.860 And do not steal or commit adultery 00:03:53.860 --> 00:03:58.860 And do not kill the soul that God has forbidden except with justice 00:03:58.860 --> 00:04:02.860 And do not lead an innocent person to someone with authority to kill him 00:04:02.860 --> 00:04:06.860 Do not use Suhoor or eat lightning 00:04:06.860 --> 00:04:08.860 And do not slander a chaste woman 00:04:08.860 --> 00:04:11.860 And do not flee on the day of battle 00:04:11.860 --> 00:04:15.020 And especially to you, Jews 00:04:15.020 --> 00:04:18.019 Do not transgress on the Sabbath 00:04:18.019 --> 00:04:21.110 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, answered 00:04:21.110 --> 00:04:23.110 About the nine they asked about 00:04:23.110 --> 00:04:27.110 It is common between Muslims and Jews 00:04:27.110 --> 00:04:30.110 He added their tenth 00:04:30.110 --> 00:04:33.110 And they had hidden it within themselves 00:04:33.110 --> 00:04:38.110 He answered them with more evidence of the miracle 00:04:38.110 --> 00:04:41.879 One of the benefits of talking 00:04:41.879 --> 00:04:47.100 It is permissible to kiss the hands or feet of someone who believes they are pious and righteous 00:04:47.100 --> 00:04:49.100 May blessings be expected from them 00:04:49.100 --> 00:04:53.100 Where he did that with him, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:53.100 --> 00:04:55.100 He did not deny it 00:04:55.100 --> 00:05:01.829 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, a story in which he said: 00:05:01.829 --> 00:05:05.829 So they brought us closer to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:05.829 --> 00:05:07.829 So we kissed his hand 00:05:07.829 --> 00:05:09.860 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:05:09.860 --> 00:05:12.699 The story 00:05:12.699 --> 00:05:16.699 It is what Abu Dawud narrated at the end of the book Al-Jihad 00:05:16.699 --> 00:05:18.699 About my father at night 00:05:18.699 --> 00:05:20.699 That Ibn Omar happened 00:05:20.699 --> 00:05:26.699 He was in one of the companies of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:26.699 --> 00:05:27.860 He said 00:05:27.860 --> 00:05:30.860 So the people examined it carefully 00:05:30.860 --> 00:05:32.860 So I was one of those who had luck 00:05:32.860 --> 00:05:35.860 This was in the Battle of Mu'tah 00:05:35.860 --> 00:05:38.860 When we emerged, we said 00:05:38.860 --> 00:05:41.860 How do we do it when we have fled the encroachment? 00:05:41.860 --> 00:05:43.860 We were plagued with anger 00:05:43.860 --> 00:05:44.860 So we said 00:05:44.860 --> 00:05:48.860 We enter the city and slip out of it to go 00:05:48.860 --> 00:05:50.860 No one sees us 00:05:50.860 --> 00:05:51.860 He said 00:05:51.860 --> 00:05:53.860 So we entered 00:05:53.860 --> 00:05:54.860 So we said 00:05:54.860 --> 00:05:59.860 If we presented ourselves to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:59.860 --> 00:06:03.860 If we have repentance, we will remain 00:06:03.860 --> 00:06:06.860 If not, we will go 00:06:06.860 --> 00:06:07.860 He said 00:06:07.860 --> 00:06:13.860 So we sat with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, before the dawn prayer 00:06:13.860 --> 00:06:17.860 When he came out, we went to him and said 00:06:17.860 --> 00:06:19.860 We are fleeing 00:06:19.860 --> 00:06:22.860 So he came to us and said 00:06:22.860 --> 00:06:25.860 Rather, you are the Akkarun 00:06:25.860 --> 00:06:28.860 The rest is what was mentioned in the hadith 00:06:28.860 --> 00:06:31.720 One of the benefits of talking 00:06:31.720 --> 00:06:37.009 It is permissible to kiss the hand of the divine world and parents 00:06:37.009 --> 00:06:40.009 Unless this is a habit 00:06:40.009 --> 00:06:45.930 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:06:45.930 --> 00:06:48.930 Zaid bin Haritha came to the city 00:06:48.930 --> 00:06:52.930 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, is in my house 00:06:52.930 --> 00:06:55.930 He came to him and knocked on the door 00:06:55.930 --> 00:07:00.930 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up to him, dragging a garment 00:07:00.930 --> 00:07:04.060 So he embraced him and accepted him 00:07:04.060 --> 00:07:06.819 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:07:06.819 --> 00:07:09.050 One of the benefits of talking 00:07:09.050 --> 00:07:13.050 It is permissible to kiss and embrace someone who has returned from travel 00:07:13.050 --> 00:07:15.050 Unless he fears strife 00:07:15.050 --> 00:07:18.560 Rushing to meet the one he loves 00:07:18.560 --> 00:07:22.100 If he senses his arrival 00:07:22.100 --> 00:07:25.100 The virtue of Zaid bin Haritha, may God be pleased with him 00:07:25.100 --> 00:07:29.100 And the love of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:29.100 --> 00:07:34.740 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:07:34.740 --> 00:07:38.740 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me 00:07:38.740 --> 00:07:41.740 Do not despise any favor 00:07:41.740 --> 00:07:45.740 Even if you meet your brother with a cheerful face 00:07:45.740 --> 00:07:47.860 Narrated by Muslim 00:07:47.860 --> 00:07:52.060 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:07:52.060 --> 00:07:58.060 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, accepted Al-Hasan bin Ali, may God be pleased with them both 00:07:58.060 --> 00:08:01.060 Al-Aqra' bin Habis said: 00:08:01.060 --> 00:08:03.060 I have ten children 00:08:03.060 --> 00:08:06.060 I did not accept any of them 00:08:06.060 --> 00:08:10.149 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:08:10.149 --> 00:08:14.220 He who does not have mercy will not have mercy 00:08:14.220 --> 00:08:16.220 Agreed 00:08:16.220 --> 00:08:20.889 Riyadh Al-Salehin