WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:03.779 Riyadh Al-Salehin 00:00:03.779 --> 00:00:06.780 From the words of the Master of Messengers 00:00:06.780 --> 00:00:09.779 May God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:16.339 Chapter on the prohibition of disobedience and severing family ties 00:00:16.339 --> 00:00:20.620 God Almighty said 00:00:20.620 --> 00:00:23.710 Is it possible for you if you turn away? 00:00:23.710 --> 00:00:27.710 To spread corruption on earth and sever your ties of kinship 00:00:27.710 --> 00:00:31.710 Those whom God has cursed 00:00:31.710 --> 00:00:34.710 He deafened them and blinded their sight 00:00:34.710 --> 00:00:36.780 And the Almighty said 00:00:36.780 --> 00:00:39.939 And those who break God's covenant 00:00:39.939 --> 00:00:41.939 After his covenant 00:00:41.939 --> 00:00:44.939 And they cut off what God has commanded 00:00:44.939 --> 00:00:48.939 To spread and spread corruption on earth 00:00:48.939 --> 00:00:50.939 Those are cursed 00:00:50.939 --> 00:00:53.939 And they have a bad home 00:00:53.939 --> 00:00:56.159 And the Almighty said 00:00:56.159 --> 00:01:00.159 Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him 00:01:00.159 --> 00:01:03.159 And be kind to parents 00:01:03.159 --> 00:01:09.159 Either one or both of them will reach adulthood by you 00:01:09.159 --> 00:01:13.159 Do not say sorry to them or rebuke them 00:01:13.159 --> 00:01:17.159 And speak to them kindly 00:01:17.159 --> 00:01:21.290 And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy 00:01:21.290 --> 00:01:26.290 And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.” 00:01:26.290 --> 00:01:29.730 On the authority of Abu Bakra 00:01:29.730 --> 00:01:32.730 Nafi` bin Al-Harith, may God be pleased with him, said 00:01:32.730 --> 00:01:36.730 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:36.730 --> 00:01:41.730 Shall I not inform you of the three greatest sins? 00:01:41.730 --> 00:01:44.730 We said, “Yes, O Messenger of God.” 00:01:44.730 --> 00:01:47.790 He said associating others with God 00:01:47.790 --> 00:01:50.790 And disobedience to parents 00:01:50.790 --> 00:01:53.790 He was reclining and sat down 00:01:53.790 --> 00:01:58.790 He said: Except for false speech and false testimony 00:01:58.790 --> 00:02:04.859 He kept repeating it until we said, “I wish he would shut up.” 00:02:04.859 --> 00:02:07.980 Agreed 00:02:07.980 --> 00:02:10.139 One of the benefits of talking 00:02:10.139 --> 00:02:15.680 Sins differ in severity according to their corruption 00:02:15.680 --> 00:02:21.419 Extreme intimidation of disobedience to parents and false speech 00:02:21.419 --> 00:02:26.419 The love of the Companions for the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:26.419 --> 00:02:29.419 The student's compassion for his sheikh is taken from him 00:02:29.419 --> 00:02:32.419 If he sees him upset 00:02:32.419 --> 00:02:34.419 He hoped he wouldn't get angry 00:02:34.419 --> 00:02:39.990 It is desirable to repeat the words and the exhortation three times to understand 00:02:39.990 --> 00:02:45.379 It is desirable for the preacher to be disturbed and emotional during his sermon 00:02:45.379 --> 00:02:47.379 And the preacher in his sermon 00:02:47.379 --> 00:02:50.379 So that this would be more aware of it 00:02:50.379 --> 00:02:53.379 And reprimanding oneself from doing what is forbidden 00:02:53.379 --> 00:02:58.379 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, delivered a sermon 00:02:58.379 --> 00:03:01.379 At his voice and his face blushed 00:03:01.379 --> 00:03:03.379 As if he were an army warden 00:03:03.379 --> 00:03:05.379 As for the mutawat in biting 00:03:05.379 --> 00:03:08.379 It makes me sleepy, I swear 00:03:08.379 --> 00:03:14.919 The hadith contains evidence that sins are divided into major and minor sins 00:03:14.919 --> 00:03:19.919 He taught that avoiding major sins is an atonement for minor ones 00:03:19.919 --> 00:03:21.919 As God Almighty said 00:03:21.919 --> 00:03:28.919 If you avoid the major sins that you are forbidden, We will atone for you your sins 00:03:28.919 --> 00:03:35.550 It is permissible for the scholar to start asking his friends 00:03:35.550 --> 00:03:39.550 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both 00:03:39.550 --> 00:03:43.550 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:03:43.550 --> 00:03:45.550 Major sins 00:03:45.550 --> 00:03:47.550 Associating God 00:03:47.550 --> 00:03:49.550 And disobedience to parents 00:03:49.550 --> 00:03:51.550 And killing oneself 00:03:51.550 --> 00:03:53.550 The right dip 00:03:53.550 --> 00:03:55.939 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:03:55.939 --> 00:03:57.939 The right dip 00:03:57.939 --> 00:04:00.939 Which he swears is a deliberate liar 00:04:00.939 --> 00:04:02.939 It was called Ghamosa 00:04:02.939 --> 00:04:06.939 Because it immerses the sworn person in sin 00:04:06.939 --> 00:04:09.699 One of the benefits of talking 00:04:09.699 --> 00:04:14.090 In addition to what was mentioned in the previous hadith 00:04:14.090 --> 00:04:16.089 This hadith was beneficial 00:04:16.089 --> 00:04:19.089 Prohibiting unlawful killing of oneself 00:04:19.089 --> 00:04:22.660 Major sins are more than what was mentioned 00:04:22.660 --> 00:04:25.660 But the situation requires it 00:04:25.660 --> 00:04:29.660 He mentioned the most harmful and most dangerous of them 00:04:29.660 --> 00:04:33.240 Explaining that oaths are divided 00:04:33.240 --> 00:04:36.240 Including the right oath 00:04:36.240 --> 00:04:38.240 It is false testimony 00:04:38.240 --> 00:04:41.240 Including the convened oath 00:04:41.240 --> 00:04:45.420 Including the idle oath 00:04:45.420 --> 00:04:49.420 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both 00:04:49.420 --> 00:04:53.420 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:53.420 --> 00:04:57.420 It is a major sin for a man to curse his parents 00:04:57.420 --> 00:04:59.550 They said, O Messenger of God 00:04:59.550 --> 00:05:02.550 Does a man insult his parents? 00:05:02.550 --> 00:05:04.550 He said yes 00:05:04.550 --> 00:05:06.550 My father curses the man 00:05:06.550 --> 00:05:08.550 He cursed my father 00:05:08.550 --> 00:05:10.550 He curses a nation 00:05:10.550 --> 00:05:12.620 He curses a nation 00:05:12.620 --> 00:05:14.740 Agreed 00:05:14.740 --> 00:05:16.740 And in a novel 00:05:16.740 --> 00:05:20.870 It is one of the biggest sins for a man to curse his parents 00:05:20.870 --> 00:05:22.870 It was said, O Messenger of God 00:05:22.870 --> 00:05:24.870 How does a man curse his parents? 00:05:24.870 --> 00:05:26.939 He said 00:05:26.939 --> 00:05:28.939 My father curses the man 00:05:28.939 --> 00:05:30.939 He cursed my father 00:05:30.939 --> 00:05:32.939 He curses a nation 00:05:32.939 --> 00:05:36.540 He curses a nation 00:05:36.540 --> 00:05:38.819 One of the benefits of talking 00:05:38.819 --> 00:05:40.819 Prohibition of cursing parents 00:05:40.819 --> 00:05:44.300 And a statement of the greatness of the rights of parents 00:05:44.300 --> 00:05:46.300 From disobedience to parents 00:05:46.300 --> 00:05:49.300 Exposing them to insults and insults 00:05:49.300 --> 00:05:51.300 Or cause it to happen to them 00:05:51.300 --> 00:05:53.819 Hadith is evidence 00:05:53.819 --> 00:05:55.819 On the basis of warding off evil 00:05:55.819 --> 00:05:57.819 And it's an introduction 00:05:57.819 --> 00:05:59.819 To bring interests 00:05:59.819 --> 00:06:01.850 And the rule of blocking pretexts 00:06:01.850 --> 00:06:03.850 Great base 00:06:03.850 --> 00:06:05.850 In religion 00:06:05.850 --> 00:06:07.850 Neglecting it leads to corruption 00:06:07.850 --> 00:06:10.459 In the ground 00:06:10.459 --> 00:06:12.459 Whoever caused an action 00:06:12.459 --> 00:06:14.459 He was like his doer 00:06:14.459 --> 00:06:16.899 Good or bad 00:06:16.899 --> 00:06:18.899 Working to block the pretexts 00:06:18.899 --> 00:06:20.899 And bring benefits 00:06:20.899 --> 00:06:22.899 Most likely 00:06:22.899 --> 00:06:24.899 It is permissible to curse 00:06:24.899 --> 00:06:26.899 The other man is his father 00:06:26.899 --> 00:06:28.899 He may not do that 00:06:28.899 --> 00:06:30.899 But mostly 00:06:30.899 --> 00:06:32.899 To answer him as he said 00:06:32.899 --> 00:06:34.899 Because it is a moment of inattention 00:06:34.899 --> 00:06:36.899 And an hour when he can 00:06:36.899 --> 00:06:38.899 Satan is human 00:06:38.899 --> 00:06:40.899 Except those who have mercy on God 00:06:40.899 --> 00:06:43.509 Permissibility of review 00:06:43.509 --> 00:06:45.509 The student to his sheikh 00:06:45.509 --> 00:06:47.509 What he says is what he says 00:06:47.509 --> 00:06:51.240 On the authority of Abu Muhammad 00:06:51.240 --> 00:06:53.240 Jubair bin Mut'im 00:06:53.240 --> 00:06:55.240 God bless him 00:06:55.240 --> 00:06:57.240 That the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:57.240 --> 00:06:59.240 He said 00:06:59.240 --> 00:07:01.240 He will not enter heaven 00:07:01.240 --> 00:07:03.430 Boycott 00:07:03.430 --> 00:07:05.430 Sufyan said in his narration 00:07:05.430 --> 00:07:07.529 It means a womb breaker 00:07:07.529 --> 00:07:10.740 Agreed 00:07:10.740 --> 00:07:12.740 One of the benefits of talking 00:07:12.740 --> 00:07:14.870 Severe warning 00:07:14.870 --> 00:07:16.870 From cutting off wombs 00:07:16.870 --> 00:07:18.870 And it is a cause of suffering 00:07:18.870 --> 00:07:20.870 The intense that transforms 00:07:20.870 --> 00:07:22.870 Between one and the entry 00:07:22.870 --> 00:07:25.540 Whoever makes it permissible to sever ties of kinship 00:07:25.540 --> 00:07:27.540 Knowing its sanctity 00:07:27.540 --> 00:07:29.540 He did not enter heaven 00:07:29.540 --> 00:07:31.540 Never 00:07:31.540 --> 00:07:34.920 And on the authority of Abu Issa 00:07:34.920 --> 00:07:36.920 Al-Mughira Ibn Shu'bah 00:07:36.920 --> 00:07:38.920 May God be pleased with him 00:07:38.920 --> 00:07:40.920 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:40.920 --> 00:07:42.920 He said 00:07:42.920 --> 00:07:45.019 God Almighty 00:07:45.019 --> 00:07:47.019 Uqq is forbidden to you 00:07:47.019 --> 00:07:49.019 Mothers 00:07:49.019 --> 00:07:51.019 And prevent it 00:07:51.019 --> 00:07:53.019 And female infanticide 00:07:53.019 --> 00:07:55.019 It was said and said 00:07:55.019 --> 00:07:57.019 And a lot of questions 00:07:57.019 --> 00:07:59.019 And wasting money 00:07:59.019 --> 00:08:01.209 Agreed 00:08:01.209 --> 00:08:03.209 Saying it is forbidden 00:08:03.209 --> 00:08:05.209 It means preventing what is obligatory 00:08:05.209 --> 00:08:07.269 And give it 00:08:07.269 --> 00:08:09.269 He asked for what he did not have 00:08:09.269 --> 00:08:11.430 And female infanticide 00:08:11.430 --> 00:08:13.430 It means burying them 00:08:13.430 --> 00:08:15.529 In life 00:08:15.529 --> 00:08:17.529 It was said and said 00:08:17.529 --> 00:08:19.529 It means talking about everything he hears 00:08:19.529 --> 00:08:21.529 And he says 00:08:21.529 --> 00:08:23.529 This was said 00:08:23.529 --> 00:08:25.529 So-and-so said such-and-such 00:08:25.529 --> 00:08:27.529 Which is not known to be true 00:08:27.529 --> 00:08:29.529 And he doesn't think so 00:08:29.529 --> 00:08:31.529 Palmer is enough of a lie 00:08:31.529 --> 00:08:33.529 To happen with everything he heard 00:08:33.529 --> 00:08:35.590 And wasting money 00:08:35.590 --> 00:08:37.590 Waste and waste 00:08:37.590 --> 00:08:39.590 In other than authorized ways 00:08:39.590 --> 00:08:41.590 It has purposes 00:08:41.590 --> 00:08:43.590 The afterlife and this world 00:08:43.590 --> 00:08:45.590 And leave it saved with 00:08:45.590 --> 00:08:47.850 Possibility of preservation 00:08:47.850 --> 00:08:49.850 And a lot of questions 00:08:49.850 --> 00:08:51.850 What is not needed 00:08:51.850 --> 00:08:55.379 One of the benefits of talking 00:08:55.379 --> 00:08:57.639 Prohibition of disobedience 00:08:57.639 --> 00:08:59.639 Mothers 00:08:59.639 --> 00:09:01.639 And so are parents 00:09:01.639 --> 00:09:03.639 Especially mothers 00:09:03.639 --> 00:09:05.639 Because of their weakness 00:09:05.639 --> 00:09:07.639 And the severity of their need 00:09:07.639 --> 00:09:09.639 And because kindness is towards them 00:09:09.639 --> 00:09:11.639 Provides kindness to parents 00:09:11.639 --> 00:09:14.149 Sanctity of prohibition 00:09:14.149 --> 00:09:16.539 The rights of the people 00:09:16.539 --> 00:09:18.539 It is forbidden to take what is not yours 00:09:18.539 --> 00:09:21.370 There is a right in it 00:09:21.370 --> 00:09:23.370 Arguing and bickering 00:09:23.370 --> 00:09:25.370 And the questions that don't 00:09:25.370 --> 00:09:27.370 Benefit in it 00:09:27.370 --> 00:09:29.370 No good results from it 00:09:29.370 --> 00:09:31.940 Or pay harm 00:09:31.940 --> 00:09:33.940 Prohibition of extravagance 00:09:33.940 --> 00:09:36.490 And wasting money 00:09:36.490 --> 00:09:38.490 Prohibition of burying children alive 00:09:38.490 --> 00:09:40.490 But only girls 00:09:40.490 --> 00:09:42.490 Because it is most likely 00:09:42.490 --> 00:09:44.490 It was common in the lives of Arabs before 00:09:44.490 --> 00:09:46.490 Islam 00:09:46.490 --> 00:09:49.059 So the prohibition was directed to him 00:09:49.059 --> 00:09:51.059 This hadith is the basis of knowledge 00:09:51.059 --> 00:09:53.059 Good manners 00:09:53.059 --> 00:09:55.059 It entails all 00:09:55.059 --> 00:09:59.500 Beautiful manners 00:09:59.500 --> 00:10:01.500 Chapter on the virtue of honoring friends 00:10:01.500 --> 00:10:03.500 Father, mother and relatives 00:10:03.500 --> 00:10:05.500 And the wife and everyone else 00:10:05.500 --> 00:10:08.940 He laments his honor 00:10:08.940 --> 00:10:10.940 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him 00:10:10.940 --> 00:10:12.940 About them that the Prophet 00:10:12.940 --> 00:10:14.940 May God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:10:14.940 --> 00:10:16.940 That is better 00:10:16.940 --> 00:10:18.940 Righteousness is for a man to reach 00:10:18.940 --> 00:10:21.259 My father's love 00:10:21.259 --> 00:10:23.259 On the authority of Abdullah Ibn Dinar 00:10:23.259 --> 00:10:25.259 Abdullah Ibn Omar 00:10:25.259 --> 00:10:27.259 May God be pleased with them both 00:10:27.259 --> 00:10:29.259 That a Bedouin man 00:10:29.259 --> 00:10:31.259 He met him on the road to Mecca 00:10:31.259 --> 00:10:33.259 Abdullah greeted him 00:10:33.259 --> 00:10:35.259 Ibn Omar 00:10:35.259 --> 00:10:37.259 And carry him on a donkey 00:10:37.259 --> 00:10:39.259 He was riding it 00:10:39.259 --> 00:10:41.350 And he gave him a turban 00:10:41.350 --> 00:10:43.350 It was on his head 00:10:43.350 --> 00:10:45.350 Ibn Dinar said 00:10:45.350 --> 00:10:47.350 So we told him 00:10:47.350 --> 00:10:49.350 May God fix you 00:10:49.350 --> 00:10:51.350 They are the Bedouins 00:10:51.350 --> 00:10:53.350 On the authority of Ibn Omar 00:10:53.350 --> 00:10:55.350 This was my father 00:10:55.350 --> 00:10:57.350 This is for Omar bin Al-Khattab 00:10:57.350 --> 00:10:59.350 May God be pleased with him 00:10:59.350 --> 00:11:01.350 And I heard the Messenger of God 00:11:01.350 --> 00:11:03.350 May God bless him and grant him peace, he says 00:11:03.350 --> 00:11:05.350 Indeed, the most righteous 00:11:05.350 --> 00:11:07.350 The man's relationship with his family 00:11:07.350 --> 00:11:09.539 My father's love 00:11:09.539 --> 00:11:10.539 And in a novel 00:11:10.539 --> 00:11:12.539 On the authority of Ibn Dinar 00:11:12.539 --> 00:11:13.539 On the authority of Ibn Omar 00:11:13.539 --> 00:11:15.539 That was when he went to Mecca 00:11:15.539 --> 00:11:17.539 He had a donkey 00:11:17.539 --> 00:11:19.539 He goes to him 00:11:19.539 --> 00:11:24.679 He was riding, with a turban around his head 00:11:24.679 --> 00:11:27.980 One day we showed him on that donkey 00:11:27.980 --> 00:11:30.480 As a Bedouin passed by him 00:11:30.480 --> 00:11:31.899 And he said 00:11:31.899 --> 00:11:34.440 Are you not so-and-so son of so-and-so? 00:11:34.440 --> 00:11:35.940 He said yes 00:11:35.940 --> 00:11:37.740 So he gave him the donkey 00:11:37.740 --> 00:11:38.879 And he said 00:11:38.879 --> 00:11:40.639 Ride this 00:11:40.639 --> 00:11:42.539 And he gave him the turban 00:11:42.539 --> 00:11:43.840 And he said 00:11:43.840 --> 00:11:46.100 Tighten your head with it 00:11:46.100 --> 00:11:48.539 Some of his friends said to him 00:11:48.539 --> 00:11:50.470 May God forgive you 00:11:50.470 --> 00:11:53.129 I gave this Bedouin a donkey 00:11:53.129 --> 00:11:55.230 You were going to him 00:11:55.230 --> 00:11:59.100 And a turban that you used to tie your head with 00:11:59.100 --> 00:12:00.440 And he said 00:12:00.440 --> 00:12:05.639 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying 00:12:05.639 --> 00:12:07.740 He is one of the most righteous people 00:12:07.740 --> 00:12:12.740 For a man to reach his father’s loved ones after he gives his guardianship 00:12:12.740 --> 00:12:17.600 His father was a friend of Omar, may God be pleased with him 00:12:17.600 --> 00:12:22.789 All of these narratives were narrated by Muslim 00:12:22.789 --> 00:12:24.289 The most righteous 00:12:24.289 --> 00:12:26.789 That is, complete it and inform it 00:12:26.789 --> 00:12:28.029 Friendliness 00:12:28.029 --> 00:12:31.679 That is, love, affection and friendship 00:12:31.679 --> 00:12:34.679 The Bedouins are the plural of Bedouins 00:12:34.679 --> 00:12:37.240 They are the people of the desert 00:12:37.240 --> 00:12:39.039 He goes to him 00:12:39.039 --> 00:12:41.440 That is, resting on it 00:12:41.440 --> 00:12:42.539 ml 00:12:42.539 --> 00:12:44.679 That is, he is fed up and fed up 00:12:44.679 --> 00:12:46.539 After he pays 00:12:46.539 --> 00:12:50.070 That is, after he dies 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:52.600 One of the benefits of talking 00:12:52.600 --> 00:12:54.460 From honoring parents 00:12:54.460 --> 00:12:58.460 To reach their friends and companions after their death 00:12:58.460 --> 00:13:00.259 Even if just a little 00:13:00.259 --> 00:13:01.860 Whoever does not find it 00:13:01.860 --> 00:13:06.039 With a visit or a kind word 00:13:06.039 --> 00:13:09.139 Teaching the etiquette of supplication in their saying 00:13:09.139 --> 00:13:10.840 May God forgive you 00:13:10.840 --> 00:13:13.360 May God bless you 00:13:13.360 --> 00:13:15.720 Of complete righteousness and connection 00:13:15.720 --> 00:13:18.519 Spending on friends and parents 00:13:18.519 --> 00:13:22.799 With his money and whatever he pleases for himself 00:13:22.799 --> 00:13:27.360 The many virtues of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both 00:13:27.360 --> 00:13:31.200 Among them is the intensity of his loyalty and love for my father 00:13:31.200 --> 00:13:34.200 His loved ones arrived after his death 00:13:34.200 --> 00:13:39.139 And his response to the Sunnah of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:13:39.139 --> 00:13:41.860 And spending it from his good money 00:13:41.860 --> 00:13:45.700 He prefers others over himself 00:13:45.700 --> 00:13:49.899 In the description of the Bedouins by the companions of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both 00:13:49.899 --> 00:13:52.500 They are satisfied with what is easy 00:13:52.500 --> 00:13:56.399 An indication of man's influence on his environment 00:13:56.399 --> 00:13:58.600 The Bedouins are subsistence people 00:13:58.600 --> 00:14:03.570 Therefore, they are content with what is easy 00:14:03.570 --> 00:14:05.269 On the authority of Abu Usayd 00:14:05.269 --> 00:14:10.129 Malik bin Rabia Al-Saadi, may God be pleased with him, said 00:14:10.129 --> 00:14:15.330 While we were sitting with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:14:15.429 --> 00:14:18.730 When a man from Banu Salamah came to him 00:14:18.730 --> 00:14:20.029 And he said 00:14:20.029 --> 00:14:21.830 O Messenger of God 00:14:21.830 --> 00:14:28.029 Is there anything left to honor my parents that I can do to them after their death? 00:14:28.029 --> 00:14:29.730 And he said yes 00:14:29.730 --> 00:14:31.629 Pray for them 00:14:31.629 --> 00:14:33.730 And ask forgiveness for them 00:14:33.730 --> 00:14:36.929 And enforcing their covenant after them 00:14:36.929 --> 00:14:38.330 Link of the womb 00:14:38.330 --> 00:14:41.330 Which can only be connected to them 00:14:41.330 --> 00:14:44.419 And honor their friend 00:14:44.419 --> 00:14:47.720 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:14:47.720 --> 00:14:50.149 One of the benefits of talking 00:14:50.149 --> 00:14:54.250 Seize the opportunity of having one or both parents 00:14:54.250 --> 00:14:56.730 To justify them 00:14:56.730 --> 00:14:59.230 From one's righteousness to one's father 00:14:59.230 --> 00:15:03.110 Pray and ask forgiveness for them 00:15:03.110 --> 00:15:08.110 Taking care of the affairs of parents during their life and death 00:15:08.110 --> 00:15:10.110 As for their lives 00:15:10.110 --> 00:15:12.909 By taking care of their affairs 00:15:12.909 --> 00:15:15.210 As for their death 00:15:15.210 --> 00:15:18.110 Implementing their legitimate will 00:15:18.110 --> 00:15:22.110 The connection of their kinship, which they are the cause of 00:15:22.110 --> 00:15:26.740 And honoring their friends and companions 00:15:26.740 --> 00:15:30.639 Ensure that children are raised well 00:15:30.639 --> 00:15:36.980 It benefits parents in life and death 00:15:36.980 --> 00:15:40.480 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:15:40.480 --> 00:15:45.779 I was not jealous of any of the women of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:15:45.779 --> 00:15:49.279 I was not jealous of Khadija, may God be pleased with her 00:15:49.279 --> 00:15:51.879 I never saw her 00:15:51.879 --> 00:15:54.879 But it was often mentioned 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:56.879 Perhaps he slaughtered his entrails 00:15:56.879 --> 00:15:59.379 Then members cut it off 00:15:59.379 --> 00:16:02.940 Then he sends it to Khadija's friends 00:16:02.940 --> 00:16:04.940 Maybe I told him 00:16:04.940 --> 00:16:08.440 As if there was no one in this world except Khadija 00:16:08.440 --> 00:16:09.940 And he says 00:16:09.940 --> 00:16:12.940 It was and it was 00:16:12.940 --> 00:16:15.440 I had a son from her 00:16:15.440 --> 00:16:17.440 Agreed 00:16:17.440 --> 00:16:18.940 And in a novel 00:16:18.940 --> 00:16:21.440 Even if it is to slaughter a sheep 00:16:21.440 --> 00:16:25.940 He guides her friends from her as much as they can 00:16:25.940 --> 00:16:27.440 And in a novel 00:16:27.440 --> 00:16:30.440 When he slaughtered a sheep, he would say: 00:16:30.440 --> 00:16:34.470 They sent it to Khadija's friends 00:16:34.470 --> 00:16:36.970 In a narration she said 00:16:36.970 --> 00:16:39.970 Hala Bint Khuwaylid asked permission 00:16:39.970 --> 00:16:41.470 Khadija's sister 00:16:41.970 --> 00:16:45.470 On the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:16:45.470 --> 00:16:47.970 He knew how to ask Khadija's permission 00:16:47.970 --> 00:16:49.970 So he was comfortable with that 00:16:49.970 --> 00:16:51.470 And he said 00:16:51.470 --> 00:16:56.399 Oh God, Hala Bint Khuwaylid 00:16:56.399 --> 00:16:58.659 One of the benefits of talking 00:16:58.659 --> 00:17:03.159 It contains the virtues of the Mother of the Believers, Khadija bint Khuwaylid 00:17:03.159 --> 00:17:05.160 May God be pleased with her 00:17:05.160 --> 00:17:09.660 I believed in the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:17:09.660 --> 00:17:11.660 She helped him with her money 00:17:11.660 --> 00:17:13.660 She urged him to persevere 00:17:13.660 --> 00:17:17.730 She was one of the first to come 00:17:17.730 --> 00:17:21.730 The good loyalty of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:17:21.730 --> 00:17:24.230 In memory of his first wife 00:17:24.230 --> 00:17:27.710 Which supported him and honored him 00:17:27.710 --> 00:17:31.210 One of the desirable qualities in a good woman 00:17:31.210 --> 00:17:34.210 Be friendly and kind 00:17:34.210 --> 00:17:37.710 That is why the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded 00:17:37.710 --> 00:17:40.319 By marrying her 00:17:40.319 --> 00:17:42.319 Proof of others 00:17:42.319 --> 00:17:46.319 It is not objectionable to virtuous women 00:17:46.319 --> 00:17:49.319 This is Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:17:49.319 --> 00:17:54.319 Which the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, were jealous of 00:17:54.319 --> 00:17:56.319 May God be pleased with them 00:17:56.319 --> 00:18:01.769 Then she became jealous of Khadija, may God be pleased with her 00:18:01.769 --> 00:18:05.769 A lot of mention indicates a lot of love 00:18:05.769 --> 00:18:10.769 Therefore, it was the slogan of those who love God, Lord of the worlds 00:18:10.769 --> 00:18:16.980 They are among the men and women who remember God a lot 00:18:16.980 --> 00:18:20.980 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:18:20.980 --> 00:18:26.980 I went out with Jarir bin Abdullah Al-Bajli, may God be pleased with him, on a trip 00:18:26.980 --> 00:18:28.980 He was serving me 00:18:28.980 --> 00:18:31.980 I told him don't do it 00:18:31.980 --> 00:18:32.980 And he said 00:18:32.980 --> 00:18:39.980 I saw the Ansar doing something to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:18:39.980 --> 00:18:46.109 I vowed to myself that I would not accompany any of them except to serve them 00:18:46.109 --> 00:18:49.170 Agreed 00:18:49.170 --> 00:18:52.170 I swore, meaning I swore 00:18:52.170 --> 00:18:56.809 Anything great 00:18:56.809 --> 00:18:58.809 One of the benefits of talking 00:18:58.809 --> 00:19:05.099 The humility and virtue of the Companions of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:19:05.099 --> 00:19:12.480 Honoring those who do good to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, even if he is younger than him 00:19:12.480 --> 00:19:15.829 Respect and reverence the great 00:19:15.829 --> 00:19:24.089 The virtues of the Ansar, their precedence, and their service to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:19:24.089 --> 00:19:28.180 Riyadh Al-Salehin