1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,469 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:05,469 --> 00:00:11,470 Summary of the book Ramadan Events and Lessons 3 00:00:11,470 --> 00:00:24,039 The marriage of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to the Mother of the Believers, Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 4 00:00:24,039 --> 00:00:31,320 The time is in the month of Ramadan in the third year of the Hijra 5 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:39,710 Marriage is one of the laws of life for living beings 6 00:00:39,710 --> 00:00:44,710 It survives, reproduces, grows and lives 7 00:00:44,710 --> 00:00:47,710 It has many lofty goals 8 00:00:47,710 --> 00:00:52,710 It achieves life stability and sexual purity 9 00:00:52,710 --> 00:00:57,710 Individual, family and societal happiness 10 00:00:57,710 --> 00:01:00,899 It is one of the Sunnahs of the Messengers 11 00:01:00,899 --> 00:01:02,899 They are role models 12 00:01:02,899 --> 00:01:04,900 God said about them 13 00:01:04,900 --> 00:01:11,900 And We have sent messengers before you and given them wives and offspring. 14 00:01:11,900 --> 00:01:17,159 The prophets and messengers, peace and blessings be upon them, were married 15 00:01:17,159 --> 00:01:21,159 They urged this year of life 16 00:01:21,159 --> 00:01:27,189 Among those messengers is our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 17 00:01:27,189 --> 00:01:31,189 God Almighty has made him a good role model 18 00:01:31,189 --> 00:01:34,189 In this way, by his actions and words 19 00:01:34,189 --> 00:01:41,189 God Almighty has permitted a Muslim to marry up to four women 20 00:01:41,189 --> 00:01:43,189 God Almighty said 21 00:01:43,189 --> 00:01:57,189 And if you fear that you will not be fair to the orphans, then marry as many women as you please, two, three or four times. 22 00:01:57,189 --> 00:02:05,189 If you fear that you will not be just, then one or more of your 23 00:02:05,189 --> 00:02:11,189 That is lowly, if you do not support him 24 00:02:11,189 --> 00:02:15,639 God Almighty permitted His Messenger to do more than that 25 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,639 For goals and objectives, some of which will be mentioned 26 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,639 He was a role model for others in having many wives 27 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,639 Much to the nation 28 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,639 And giving birth to other servants of God Almighty 29 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,900 On the authority of Saeed bin Jubair, he said: 30 00:02:32,900 --> 00:02:34,900 Ibn Abbas told me 31 00:02:34,900 --> 00:02:36,900 Did you get married? 32 00:02:36,900 --> 00:02:37,900 I said no 33 00:02:37,900 --> 00:02:40,900 He said he got married 34 00:02:40,900 --> 00:02:44,900 The best of this nation are mostly women 35 00:02:44,900 --> 00:02:53,180 When three people came asking about worshiping the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, in secret 36 00:02:54,180 --> 00:02:57,310 One of them mentioned his seclusion for women 37 00:02:57,310 --> 00:03:01,310 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 38 00:03:01,310 --> 00:03:06,340 By God, I am the most God-fearing and most God-fearing of you 39 00:03:06,340 --> 00:03:13,379 But I fast, break my fast, pray, sleep, and marry women 40 00:03:13,379 --> 00:03:17,379 Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me 41 00:03:17,379 --> 00:03:21,569 The Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 42 00:03:22,569 --> 00:03:25,569 He married Al-Wadud Al-Walud 43 00:03:25,569 --> 00:03:29,599 For I am superior to you among the nations 44 00:03:29,599 --> 00:03:33,599 That is why the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, got married 45 00:03:33,599 --> 00:03:37,599 And a number of wives in the civil era 46 00:03:37,599 --> 00:03:44,889 God Almighty chose for his Prophet the kindest, purest, and purest women 47 00:03:44,889 --> 00:03:48,949 He made them his wives in this world and the hereafter 48 00:03:48,949 --> 00:03:52,949 In honor of God for His Messenger and for them as well 49 00:03:52,949 --> 00:03:57,949 Therefore, he imposed provisions on this matter 50 00:03:57,949 --> 00:04:02,949 He made them mothers of believers in righteousness and veneration 51 00:04:02,949 --> 00:04:08,949 The prohibition of marriage after the Messenger of God during his lifetime and after his death 52 00:04:08,949 --> 00:04:10,949 God Almighty said 53 00:04:10,949 --> 00:04:16,949 The Prophet is closer to the believers than they are to themselves 54 00:04:16,949 --> 00:04:21,949 And his wives are their mothers 55 00:04:21,949 --> 00:04:24,209 And the Almighty said 56 00:04:24,209 --> 00:04:39,209 It is not for you to harm the Messenger of God, nor to marry his wives after him, ever 57 00:04:39,209 --> 00:04:45,209 Indeed, this was great in the eyes of God 58 00:04:46,209 --> 00:04:51,620 They were the wives of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 59 00:04:51,620 --> 00:04:54,620 A good example for righteous believers 60 00:04:54,620 --> 00:04:58,620 Who prefer the afterlife over this world 61 00:04:58,620 --> 00:05:00,620 This is evidenced by 62 00:05:00,620 --> 00:05:05,620 That is when the verse of choice was revealed in Surah Al-Ahzab 63 00:05:05,620 --> 00:05:09,620 We chose God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter 64 00:05:09,620 --> 00:05:13,620 They were patient with the shortcomings of the world 65 00:05:13,620 --> 00:05:18,689 On the authority of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, she said: 66 00:05:18,689 --> 00:05:24,689 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered him to choose his wives 67 00:05:24,689 --> 00:05:26,689 My father started and said 68 00:05:26,689 --> 00:05:29,689 I remember something about you 69 00:05:29,689 --> 00:05:34,689 So you should not rush until you consult your parents 70 00:05:34,689 --> 00:05:35,779 She said 71 00:05:35,779 --> 00:05:40,779 He knew that my parents were not ordering me to leave him 72 00:05:40,779 --> 00:05:42,779 She said 73 00:05:42,779 --> 00:05:44,779 Then he said 74 00:05:44,779 --> 00:05:47,779 Indeed, God Gilth-Nah said 75 00:05:47,779 --> 00:05:59,879 O Prophet, tell your wives if you desire the life of this world and its adornments 76 00:05:59,879 --> 00:06:08,879 Come, I will entertain you and give you a pleasant release 77 00:06:08,879 --> 00:06:24,980 And if you desire God and His Messenger and the Hereafter, then God has prepared for the good deeds among you a great reward 78 00:06:24,980 --> 00:06:27,389 She said 79 00:06:27,389 --> 00:06:28,389 So I said 80 00:06:28,389 --> 00:06:31,389 In what way do I ask my parents? 81 00:06:31,389 --> 00:06:36,389 For I want God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter 82 00:06:36,389 --> 00:06:37,490 She said 83 00:06:37,490 --> 00:06:43,519 Then the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did the same as I did 84 00:06:43,519 --> 00:06:46,699 Mother of believers 85 00:06:46,699 --> 00:06:50,699 Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 86 00:06:51,149 --> 00:06:54,149 Among those pure wives 87 00:06:54,149 --> 00:06:59,149 Mother of the Believers Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 88 00:06:59,149 --> 00:07:02,149 She is Zainab bint Khuzaymah bin Abdullah 89 00:07:02,149 --> 00:07:05,149 Ibn Omar bin Abdul Manaf 90 00:07:05,149 --> 00:07:09,149 Ibn Hilal bin Amer bin Sasa'ah Al-Hilaliyya 91 00:07:09,149 --> 00:07:14,149 Mother of the Believers, wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 92 00:07:14,149 --> 00:07:18,149 She was called the Mother of the Poor 93 00:07:18,149 --> 00:07:23,149 Because she fed them and gave them alms 94 00:07:23,149 --> 00:07:27,149 It was under Abdullah bin Jahsh, may God be pleased with him 95 00:07:27,149 --> 00:07:29,149 So he martyred someone 96 00:07:29,149 --> 00:07:33,149 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 97 00:07:33,149 --> 00:07:34,149 And it was said 98 00:07:34,149 --> 00:07:38,149 It was under Al-Tufayl bin Al-Harith bin Al-Muttalib 99 00:07:38,149 --> 00:07:42,149 Then his brother Ubaidah bin Al-Harith succeeded her 100 00:07:42,149 --> 00:07:46,149 She was Maymunah bint Al-Harith's maternal sister 101 00:07:46,149 --> 00:07:50,220 His entry, may God bless him and grant him peace, was there 102 00:07:50,220 --> 00:07:54,220 After entering upon Hafsa bint Omar 103 00:07:54,220 --> 00:08:00,220 Then she only stayed with him for two or three months and died 104 00:08:00,220 --> 00:08:02,220 Ibn al-Kalbi said 105 00:08:02,220 --> 00:08:06,220 She was with Al-Tufayl bin Al-Harith, so he divorced her 106 00:08:06,220 --> 00:08:11,220 Then his brother succeeded her and was killed on her behalf at Badr 107 00:08:11,220 --> 00:08:16,220 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, proposed to her 108 00:08:16,220 --> 00:08:18,220 So she made her command to him 109 00:08:18,220 --> 00:08:23,220 So he married her in the month of Ramadan in the year three 110 00:08:23,220 --> 00:08:26,220 She stayed with him for eight months 111 00:08:26,220 --> 00:08:30,220 She died in the spring of four years 112 00:08:30,220 --> 00:08:35,220 Al-Waqidi stated that she was thirty years old 113 00:08:35,220 --> 00:08:38,950 Mothers of believers 114 00:08:38,950 --> 00:08:43,950 The date of the marriage of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to them 115 00:08:43,950 --> 00:08:46,240 And the year of their death 116 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:51,240 The number of women whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, contracted 117 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,240 Thirteen women 118 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,240 Nine of them died 119 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,240 Two women died during his lifetime 120 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,240 One of them is Khadija 121 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:07,240 The other is the mother of the poor, Zainab bint Khuzaymah 122 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,240 And two that he did not enter 123 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,240 Here are their names 124 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:17,340 First, Khadija bint Khuwaylid, may God be pleased with her 125 00:09:17,340 --> 00:09:21,370 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 126 00:09:21,370 --> 00:09:24,370 He is twenty-five years old 127 00:09:24,370 --> 00:09:27,370 The date of her death is provided 128 00:09:27,370 --> 00:09:31,590 Secondly, Sawda bint Zam’ 129 00:09:31,590 --> 00:09:36,590 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Shawwal 130 00:09:36,590 --> 00:09:39,590 The tenth year of prophecy 131 00:09:39,590 --> 00:09:42,590 About a month after Khadija's death 132 00:09:42,590 --> 00:09:45,590 She died in Medina in Shawwal 133 00:09:45,590 --> 00:09:48,590 In the year fifty-four AH 134 00:09:48,590 --> 00:09:53,940 Third, Aisha bint Abi Bakr, according to Al-Siddiq 135 00:09:53,940 --> 00:09:55,980 He married her in Shawwal 136 00:09:55,980 --> 00:09:58,980 The eleventh year of the Prophet 137 00:09:58,980 --> 00:10:01,980 A year after his marriage to Sawda 138 00:10:01,980 --> 00:10:05,980 Two years and five months before the migration 139 00:10:05,980 --> 00:10:08,980 She died on the seventeenth of Ramadan 140 00:10:08,980 --> 00:10:11,980 In the year fifty-seven AH 141 00:10:11,980 --> 00:10:14,980 Or fifty-eight for immigration 142 00:10:14,980 --> 00:10:19,100 Fourth, Hafsa bint Omar bin Al-Khattab 143 00:10:19,100 --> 00:10:24,169 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Shaaban 144 00:10:24,169 --> 00:10:27,169 Three years after the Hijra 145 00:10:27,169 --> 00:10:32,169 She died in Sha`ban in the year forty-five AH 146 00:10:32,169 --> 00:10:37,299 Fifthly, Zainab bint Khuzaymah came forward 147 00:10:37,299 --> 00:10:40,330 Sixth: Umm Salamah 148 00:10:40,330 --> 00:10:43,330 Hind bint Abi Umayyah 149 00:10:43,330 --> 00:10:47,360 It was under Abu Salamah, may God be pleased with him 150 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:51,360 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 151 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,360 On the last night of Shawwal 152 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,360 From the fourth year of Hijra 153 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,360 She died in the year fifty-nine AH 154 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,360 It was said that sixty-two of the Hijra 155 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:07,460 Seventh: Zainab bint Jahsh bin Rabab 156 00:11:07,460 --> 00:11:10,460 From the Banu Asad bin Khuzaymah 157 00:11:10,460 --> 00:11:15,460 She is the cousin of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 158 00:11:15,460 --> 00:11:20,490 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Dhul-Qa’dah 159 00:11:20,490 --> 00:11:23,490 The fifth year of Hijra 160 00:11:23,490 --> 00:11:26,490 It was said in the year four AH 161 00:11:26,490 --> 00:11:29,490 She died in the year twenty AH 162 00:11:29,490 --> 00:11:33,649 Eighth: Juwayriyah bint Al-Harith 163 00:11:33,649 --> 00:11:36,649 Sayyid bin Al-Mustaliq from Khuza’a 164 00:11:36,649 --> 00:11:39,740 It was in Sami bin Al-Mustaliq 165 00:11:39,740 --> 00:11:42,740 In Sahm Thabit bin Qais bin Shammas 166 00:11:42,740 --> 00:11:44,740 So he wrote it 167 00:11:44,740 --> 00:11:49,740 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, decided to write it down 168 00:11:49,740 --> 00:11:53,740 He married her in Shaban, six years after the Hijra 169 00:11:53,740 --> 00:11:57,740 It was said that it was the fifth year of the Hijra 170 00:11:57,740 --> 00:12:00,740 She died in Rabi` al-Awwal 171 00:12:00,740 --> 00:12:03,740 In the year fifty-six AH 172 00:12:03,740 --> 00:12:06,740 It was said fifty-five for the Hijra 173 00:12:06,740 --> 00:12:09,970 Ninth: Umm Habiba 174 00:12:09,970 --> 00:12:12,970 Rablah bint Abi Sufyan 175 00:12:12,970 --> 00:12:15,970 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 176 00:12:15,970 --> 00:12:17,970 Seventh year AH 177 00:12:17,970 --> 00:12:21,970 She died in the year forty-two AH 178 00:12:21,970 --> 00:12:24,970 Or forty-four for immigration 179 00:12:24,970 --> 00:12:26,970 Or fifty for immigration 180 00:12:26,970 --> 00:12:31,289 Tenth: Safiya bint Huyay bin Akhtab 181 00:12:31,289 --> 00:12:35,289 Sayyid ibn al-Nazir from the children of Israel 182 00:12:35,289 --> 00:12:37,289 Bin Sabi was Khaybar 183 00:12:37,289 --> 00:12:42,289 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, selected her for himself 184 00:12:42,289 --> 00:12:45,289 He offered her Islam and she converted to Islam 185 00:12:45,289 --> 00:12:49,289 He freed her and married her after the conquest of Khaybar 186 00:12:49,289 --> 00:12:51,289 Seventh year AH 187 00:12:51,289 --> 00:12:54,289 She died in the year fifty AH 188 00:12:54,289 --> 00:12:58,289 It was said that fifty-two of the Hijra 189 00:12:58,289 --> 00:13:00,480 Eleven o'clock 190 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,480 Bibouna bint Al-Harith 191 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:08,480 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Dhul-Qa’dah 192 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,480 Seventh year AH 193 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,480 She died lazily 194 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,480 Sixty-one year AH 195 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:19,480 It was said that sixty-three of the Hijra 196 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:24,860 It was said that thirty-eight for the Hijrah 197 00:13:24,860 --> 00:13:27,860 There are lessons in this event 198 00:13:27,860 --> 00:13:28,860 Firstly 199 00:13:28,860 --> 00:13:34,860 Knowing the virtue of the Mother of the Believers, Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 200 00:13:34,860 --> 00:13:38,860 In her mercy towards the poor and almsgiving to them 201 00:13:38,860 --> 00:13:41,899 Until she was known as the Mother of the Poor 202 00:13:41,899 --> 00:13:47,899 This became a description of her praise during her life and when she died 203 00:13:47,899 --> 00:13:51,899 This calls for emulating her in this goodness 204 00:13:51,899 --> 00:13:54,120 Secondly 205 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,120 The legality of marriage during Ramadan 206 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:02,120 He blamed himself for falling into what God had forbidden during the day of fasting 207 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:03,629 Third 208 00:14:03,629 --> 00:14:08,629 Explaining the virtue of the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 209 00:14:08,629 --> 00:14:11,629 Their right over the nation is great 210 00:14:11,629 --> 00:14:15,629 They are the wives of her Prophet in this world and the hereafter 211 00:14:15,629 --> 00:14:18,629 They are the carriers of the noble Sharia 212 00:14:18,629 --> 00:14:22,629 Which no one else knew about 213 00:14:22,629 --> 00:14:28,759 When they used to show him the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, at home 214 00:14:28,759 --> 00:14:30,820 Fourth 215 00:14:30,820 --> 00:14:34,820 If a Muslim wants to marry more than one woman 216 00:14:34,820 --> 00:14:40,080 To have sound judgment and goals for this project 217 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,110 Fifth 218 00:14:42,110 --> 00:14:44,110 On the wives of scholars 219 00:14:44,110 --> 00:14:49,110 To pass on their knowledge, good deeds, and righteous guidance 220 00:14:49,110 --> 00:14:52,110 Which people don't know about 221 00:14:52,110 --> 00:14:57,100 Be a role model and a gift 222 00:14:57,100 --> 00:15:01,100 Ramadan events and lessons