WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.469 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:05.469 --> 00:00:11.470 Summary of the book Ramadan Events and Lessons 00:00:11.470 --> 00:00:24.039 The marriage of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to the Mother of the Believers, Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 00:00:24.039 --> 00:00:31.320 The time is in the month of Ramadan in the third year of the Hijra 00:00:31.320 --> 00:00:39.710 Marriage is one of the laws of life for living beings 00:00:39.710 --> 00:00:44.710 It survives, reproduces, grows and lives 00:00:44.710 --> 00:00:47.710 It has many lofty goals 00:00:47.710 --> 00:00:52.710 It achieves life stability and sexual purity 00:00:52.710 --> 00:00:57.710 Individual, family and societal happiness 00:00:57.710 --> 00:01:00.899 It is one of the Sunnahs of the Messengers 00:01:00.899 --> 00:01:02.899 They are role models 00:01:02.899 --> 00:01:04.900 God said about them 00:01:04.900 --> 00:01:11.900 And We have sent messengers before you and given them wives and offspring. 00:01:11.900 --> 00:01:17.159 The prophets and messengers, peace and blessings be upon them, were married 00:01:17.159 --> 00:01:21.159 They urged this year of life 00:01:21.159 --> 00:01:27.189 Among those messengers is our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:27.189 --> 00:01:31.189 God Almighty has made him a good role model 00:01:31.189 --> 00:01:34.189 In this way, by his actions and words 00:01:34.189 --> 00:01:41.189 God Almighty has permitted a Muslim to marry up to four women 00:01:41.189 --> 00:01:43.189 God Almighty said 00:01:43.189 --> 00:01:57.189 And if you fear that you will not be fair to the orphans, then marry as many women as you please, two, three or four times. 00:01:57.189 --> 00:02:05.189 If you fear that you will not be just, then one or more of your 00:02:05.189 --> 00:02:11.189 That is lowly, if you do not support him 00:02:11.189 --> 00:02:15.639 God Almighty permitted His Messenger to do more than that 00:02:15.639 --> 00:02:19.639 For goals and objectives, some of which will be mentioned 00:02:19.639 --> 00:02:23.639 He was a role model for others in having many wives 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:25.639 Much to the nation 00:02:25.639 --> 00:02:29.639 And giving birth to other servants of God Almighty 00:02:29.639 --> 00:02:32.900 On the authority of Saeed bin Jubair, he said: 00:02:32.900 --> 00:02:34.900 Ibn Abbas told me 00:02:34.900 --> 00:02:36.900 Did you get married? 00:02:36.900 --> 00:02:37.900 I said no 00:02:37.900 --> 00:02:40.900 He said he got married 00:02:40.900 --> 00:02:44.900 The best of this nation are mostly women 00:02:44.900 --> 00:02:53.180 When three people came asking about worshiping the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, in secret 00:02:54.180 --> 00:02:57.310 One of them mentioned his seclusion for women 00:02:57.310 --> 00:03:01.310 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:01.310 --> 00:03:06.340 By God, I am the most God-fearing and most God-fearing of you 00:03:06.340 --> 00:03:13.379 But I fast, break my fast, pray, sleep, and marry women 00:03:13.379 --> 00:03:17.379 Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me 00:03:17.379 --> 00:03:21.569 The Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:22.569 --> 00:03:25.569 He married Al-Wadud Al-Walud 00:03:25.569 --> 00:03:29.599 For I am superior to you among the nations 00:03:29.599 --> 00:03:33.599 That is why the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, got married 00:03:33.599 --> 00:03:37.599 And a number of wives in the civil era 00:03:37.599 --> 00:03:44.889 God Almighty chose for his Prophet the kindest, purest, and purest women 00:03:44.889 --> 00:03:48.949 He made them his wives in this world and the hereafter 00:03:48.949 --> 00:03:52.949 In honor of God for His Messenger and for them as well 00:03:52.949 --> 00:03:57.949 Therefore, he imposed provisions on this matter 00:03:57.949 --> 00:04:02.949 He made them mothers of believers in righteousness and veneration 00:04:02.949 --> 00:04:08.949 The prohibition of marriage after the Messenger of God during his lifetime and after his death 00:04:08.949 --> 00:04:10.949 God Almighty said 00:04:10.949 --> 00:04:16.949 The Prophet is closer to the believers than they are to themselves 00:04:16.949 --> 00:04:21.949 And his wives are their mothers 00:04:21.949 --> 00:04:24.209 And the Almighty said 00:04:24.209 --> 00:04:39.209 It is not for you to harm the Messenger of God, nor to marry his wives after him, ever 00:04:39.209 --> 00:04:45.209 Indeed, this was great in the eyes of God 00:04:46.209 --> 00:04:51.620 They were the wives of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:51.620 --> 00:04:54.620 A good example for righteous believers 00:04:54.620 --> 00:04:58.620 Who prefer the afterlife over this world 00:04:58.620 --> 00:05:00.620 This is evidenced by 00:05:00.620 --> 00:05:05.620 That is when the verse of choice was revealed in Surah Al-Ahzab 00:05:05.620 --> 00:05:09.620 We chose God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter 00:05:09.620 --> 00:05:13.620 They were patient with the shortcomings of the world 00:05:13.620 --> 00:05:18.689 On the authority of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, she said: 00:05:18.689 --> 00:05:24.689 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered him to choose his wives 00:05:24.689 --> 00:05:26.689 My father started and said 00:05:26.689 --> 00:05:29.689 I remember something about you 00:05:29.689 --> 00:05:34.689 So you should not rush until you consult your parents 00:05:34.689 --> 00:05:35.779 She said 00:05:35.779 --> 00:05:40.779 He knew that my parents were not ordering me to leave him 00:05:40.779 --> 00:05:42.779 She said 00:05:42.779 --> 00:05:44.779 Then he said 00:05:44.779 --> 00:05:47.779 Indeed, God Gilth-Nah said 00:05:47.779 --> 00:05:59.879 O Prophet, tell your wives if you desire the life of this world and its adornments 00:05:59.879 --> 00:06:08.879 Come, I will entertain you and give you a pleasant release 00:06:08.879 --> 00:06:24.980 And if you desire God and His Messenger and the Hereafter, then God has prepared for the good deeds among you a great reward 00:06:24.980 --> 00:06:27.389 She said 00:06:27.389 --> 00:06:28.389 So I said 00:06:28.389 --> 00:06:31.389 In what way do I ask my parents? 00:06:31.389 --> 00:06:36.389 For I want God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter 00:06:36.389 --> 00:06:37.490 She said 00:06:37.490 --> 00:06:43.519 Then the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did the same as I did 00:06:43.519 --> 00:06:46.699 Mother of believers 00:06:46.699 --> 00:06:50.699 Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 00:06:51.149 --> 00:06:54.149 Among those pure wives 00:06:54.149 --> 00:06:59.149 Mother of the Believers Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 00:06:59.149 --> 00:07:02.149 She is Zainab bint Khuzaymah bin Abdullah 00:07:02.149 --> 00:07:05.149 Ibn Omar bin Abdul Manaf 00:07:05.149 --> 00:07:09.149 Ibn Hilal bin Amer bin Sasa'ah Al-Hilaliyya 00:07:09.149 --> 00:07:14.149 Mother of the Believers, wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:14.149 --> 00:07:18.149 She was called the Mother of the Poor 00:07:18.149 --> 00:07:23.149 Because she fed them and gave them alms 00:07:23.149 --> 00:07:27.149 It was under Abdullah bin Jahsh, may God be pleased with him 00:07:27.149 --> 00:07:29.149 So he martyred someone 00:07:29.149 --> 00:07:33.149 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 00:07:33.149 --> 00:07:34.149 And it was said 00:07:34.149 --> 00:07:38.149 It was under Al-Tufayl bin Al-Harith bin Al-Muttalib 00:07:38.149 --> 00:07:42.149 Then his brother Ubaidah bin Al-Harith succeeded her 00:07:42.149 --> 00:07:46.149 She was Maymunah bint Al-Harith's maternal sister 00:07:46.149 --> 00:07:50.220 His entry, may God bless him and grant him peace, was there 00:07:50.220 --> 00:07:54.220 After entering upon Hafsa bint Omar 00:07:54.220 --> 00:08:00.220 Then she only stayed with him for two or three months and died 00:08:00.220 --> 00:08:02.220 Ibn al-Kalbi said 00:08:02.220 --> 00:08:06.220 She was with Al-Tufayl bin Al-Harith, so he divorced her 00:08:06.220 --> 00:08:11.220 Then his brother succeeded her and was killed on her behalf at Badr 00:08:11.220 --> 00:08:16.220 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, proposed to her 00:08:16.220 --> 00:08:18.220 So she made her command to him 00:08:18.220 --> 00:08:23.220 So he married her in the month of Ramadan in the year three 00:08:23.220 --> 00:08:26.220 She stayed with him for eight months 00:08:26.220 --> 00:08:30.220 She died in the spring of four years 00:08:30.220 --> 00:08:35.220 Al-Waqidi stated that she was thirty years old 00:08:35.220 --> 00:08:38.950 Mothers of believers 00:08:38.950 --> 00:08:43.950 The date of the marriage of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to them 00:08:43.950 --> 00:08:46.240 And the year of their death 00:08:46.240 --> 00:08:51.240 The number of women whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, contracted 00:08:52.240 --> 00:08:54.240 Thirteen women 00:08:54.240 --> 00:08:57.240 Nine of them died 00:08:57.240 --> 00:09:00.240 Two women died during his lifetime 00:09:00.240 --> 00:09:02.240 One of them is Khadija 00:09:02.240 --> 00:09:07.240 The other is the mother of the poor, Zainab bint Khuzaymah 00:09:07.240 --> 00:09:10.240 And two that he did not enter 00:09:10.240 --> 00:09:12.240 Here are their names 00:09:12.240 --> 00:09:17.340 First, Khadija bint Khuwaylid, may God be pleased with her 00:09:17.340 --> 00:09:21.370 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 00:09:21.370 --> 00:09:24.370 He is twenty-five years old 00:09:24.370 --> 00:09:27.370 The date of her death is provided 00:09:27.370 --> 00:09:31.590 Secondly, Sawda bint Zam’ 00:09:31.590 --> 00:09:36.590 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Shawwal 00:09:36.590 --> 00:09:39.590 The tenth year of prophecy 00:09:39.590 --> 00:09:42.590 About a month after Khadija's death 00:09:42.590 --> 00:09:45.590 She died in Medina in Shawwal 00:09:45.590 --> 00:09:48.590 In the year fifty-four AH 00:09:48.590 --> 00:09:53.940 Third, Aisha bint Abi Bakr, according to Al-Siddiq 00:09:53.940 --> 00:09:55.980 He married her in Shawwal 00:09:55.980 --> 00:09:58.980 The eleventh year of the Prophet 00:09:58.980 --> 00:10:01.980 A year after his marriage to Sawda 00:10:01.980 --> 00:10:05.980 Two years and five months before the migration 00:10:05.980 --> 00:10:08.980 She died on the seventeenth of Ramadan 00:10:08.980 --> 00:10:11.980 In the year fifty-seven AH 00:10:11.980 --> 00:10:14.980 Or fifty-eight for immigration 00:10:14.980 --> 00:10:19.100 Fourth, Hafsa bint Omar bin Al-Khattab 00:10:19.100 --> 00:10:24.169 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Shaaban 00:10:24.169 --> 00:10:27.169 Three years after the Hijra 00:10:27.169 --> 00:10:32.169 She died in Sha`ban in the year forty-five AH 00:10:32.169 --> 00:10:37.299 Fifthly, Zainab bint Khuzaymah came forward 00:10:37.299 --> 00:10:40.330 Sixth: Umm Salamah 00:10:40.330 --> 00:10:43.330 Hind bint Abi Umayyah 00:10:43.330 --> 00:10:47.360 It was under Abu Salamah, may God be pleased with him 00:10:47.360 --> 00:10:51.360 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 00:10:51.360 --> 00:10:54.360 On the last night of Shawwal 00:10:54.360 --> 00:10:57.360 From the fourth year of Hijra 00:10:57.360 --> 00:11:00.360 She died in the year fifty-nine AH 00:11:00.360 --> 00:11:03.360 It was said that sixty-two of the Hijra 00:11:03.360 --> 00:11:07.460 Seventh: Zainab bint Jahsh bin Rabab 00:11:07.460 --> 00:11:10.460 From the Banu Asad bin Khuzaymah 00:11:10.460 --> 00:11:15.460 She is the cousin of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:11:15.460 --> 00:11:20.490 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Dhul-Qa’dah 00:11:20.490 --> 00:11:23.490 The fifth year of Hijra 00:11:23.490 --> 00:11:26.490 It was said in the year four AH 00:11:26.490 --> 00:11:29.490 She died in the year twenty AH 00:11:29.490 --> 00:11:33.649 Eighth: Juwayriyah bint Al-Harith 00:11:33.649 --> 00:11:36.649 Sayyid bin Al-Mustaliq from Khuza’a 00:11:36.649 --> 00:11:39.740 It was in Sami bin Al-Mustaliq 00:11:39.740 --> 00:11:42.740 In Sahm Thabit bin Qais bin Shammas 00:11:42.740 --> 00:11:44.740 So he wrote it 00:11:44.740 --> 00:11:49.740 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, decided to write it down 00:11:49.740 --> 00:11:53.740 He married her in Shaban, six years after the Hijra 00:11:53.740 --> 00:11:57.740 It was said that it was the fifth year of the Hijra 00:11:57.740 --> 00:12:00.740 She died in Rabi` al-Awwal 00:12:00.740 --> 00:12:03.740 In the year fifty-six AH 00:12:03.740 --> 00:12:06.740 It was said fifty-five for the Hijra 00:12:06.740 --> 00:12:09.970 Ninth: Umm Habiba 00:12:09.970 --> 00:12:12.970 Rablah bint Abi Sufyan 00:12:12.970 --> 00:12:15.970 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her 00:12:15.970 --> 00:12:17.970 Seventh year AH 00:12:17.970 --> 00:12:21.970 She died in the year forty-two AH 00:12:21.970 --> 00:12:24.970 Or forty-four for immigration 00:12:24.970 --> 00:12:26.970 Or fifty for immigration 00:12:26.970 --> 00:12:31.289 Tenth: Safiya bint Huyay bin Akhtab 00:12:31.289 --> 00:12:35.289 Sayyid ibn al-Nazir from the children of Israel 00:12:35.289 --> 00:12:37.289 Bin Sabi was Khaybar 00:12:37.289 --> 00:12:42.289 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, selected her for himself 00:12:42.289 --> 00:12:45.289 He offered her Islam and she converted to Islam 00:12:45.289 --> 00:12:49.289 He freed her and married her after the conquest of Khaybar 00:12:49.289 --> 00:12:51.289 Seventh year AH 00:12:51.289 --> 00:12:54.289 She died in the year fifty AH 00:12:54.289 --> 00:12:58.289 It was said that fifty-two of the Hijra 00:12:58.289 --> 00:13:00.480 Eleven o'clock 00:13:00.480 --> 00:13:02.480 Bibouna bint Al-Harith 00:13:03.480 --> 00:13:08.480 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Dhul-Qa’dah 00:13:08.480 --> 00:13:10.480 Seventh year AH 00:13:10.480 --> 00:13:12.480 She died lazily 00:13:12.480 --> 00:13:15.480 Sixty-one year AH 00:13:15.480 --> 00:13:19.480 It was said that sixty-three of the Hijra 00:13:19.480 --> 00:13:24.860 It was said that thirty-eight for the Hijrah 00:13:24.860 --> 00:13:27.860 There are lessons in this event 00:13:27.860 --> 00:13:28.860 Firstly 00:13:28.860 --> 00:13:34.860 Knowing the virtue of the Mother of the Believers, Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her 00:13:34.860 --> 00:13:38.860 In her mercy towards the poor and almsgiving to them 00:13:38.860 --> 00:13:41.899 Until she was known as the Mother of the Poor 00:13:41.899 --> 00:13:47.899 This became a description of her praise during her life and when she died 00:13:47.899 --> 00:13:51.899 This calls for emulating her in this goodness 00:13:51.899 --> 00:13:54.120 Secondly 00:13:54.120 --> 00:13:57.120 The legality of marriage during Ramadan 00:13:57.120 --> 00:14:02.120 He blamed himself for falling into what God had forbidden during the day of fasting 00:14:02.120 --> 00:14:03.629 Third 00:14:03.629 --> 00:14:08.629 Explaining the virtue of the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:14:08.629 --> 00:14:11.629 Their right over the nation is great 00:14:11.629 --> 00:14:15.629 They are the wives of her Prophet in this world and the hereafter 00:14:15.629 --> 00:14:18.629 They are the carriers of the noble Sharia 00:14:18.629 --> 00:14:22.629 Which no one else knew about 00:14:22.629 --> 00:14:28.759 When they used to show him the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, at home 00:14:28.759 --> 00:14:30.820 Fourth 00:14:30.820 --> 00:14:34.820 If a Muslim wants to marry more than one woman 00:14:34.820 --> 00:14:40.080 To have sound judgment and goals for this project 00:14:40.080 --> 00:14:42.110 Fifth 00:14:42.110 --> 00:14:44.110 On the wives of scholars 00:14:44.110 --> 00:14:49.110 To pass on their knowledge, good deeds, and righteous guidance 00:14:49.110 --> 00:14:52.110 Which people don't know about 00:14:52.110 --> 00:14:57.100 Be a role model and a gift 00:14:57.100 --> 00:15:01.100 Ramadan events and lessons