In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Summary of the book Ramadan Events and Lessons
The marriage of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to the Mother of the Believers, Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her
The time is in the month of Ramadan in the third year of the Hijra
Marriage is one of the laws of life for living beings
It survives, reproduces, grows and lives
It has many lofty goals
It achieves life stability and sexual purity
Individual, family and societal happiness
It is one of the Sunnahs of the Messengers
They are role models
God said about them
And We have sent messengers before you and given them wives and offspring.
The prophets and messengers, peace and blessings be upon them, were married
They urged this year of life
Among those messengers is our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace
God Almighty has made him a good role model
In this way, by his actions and words
God Almighty has permitted a Muslim to marry up to four women
God Almighty said
And if you fear that you will not be fair to the orphans, then marry as many women as you please, two, three or four times.
If you fear that you will not be just, then one or more of your
That is lowly, if you do not support him
God Almighty permitted His Messenger to do more than that
For goals and objectives, some of which will be mentioned
He was a role model for others in having many wives
Much to the nation
And giving birth to other servants of God Almighty
On the authority of Saeed bin Jubair, he said:
Ibn Abbas told me
Did you get married?
I said no
He said he got married
The best of this nation are mostly women
When three people came asking about worshiping the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, in secret
One of them mentioned his seclusion for women
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
By God, I am the most God-fearing and most God-fearing of you
But I fast, break my fast, pray, sleep, and marry women
Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me
The Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
He married Al-Wadud Al-Walud
For I am superior to you among the nations
That is why the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, got married
And a number of wives in the civil era
God Almighty chose for his Prophet the kindest, purest, and purest women
He made them his wives in this world and the hereafter
In honor of God for His Messenger and for them as well
Therefore, he imposed provisions on this matter
He made them mothers of believers in righteousness and veneration
The prohibition of marriage after the Messenger of God during his lifetime and after his death
God Almighty said
The Prophet is closer to the believers than they are to themselves
And his wives are their mothers
And the Almighty said
It is not for you to harm the Messenger of God, nor to marry his wives after him, ever
Indeed, this was great in the eyes of God
They were the wives of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
A good example for righteous believers
Who prefer the afterlife over this world
This is evidenced by
That is when the verse of choice was revealed in Surah Al-Ahzab
We chose God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter
They were patient with the shortcomings of the world
On the authority of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, she said:
When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered him to choose his wives
My father started and said
I remember something about you
So you should not rush until you consult your parents
She said
He knew that my parents were not ordering me to leave him
She said
Then he said
Indeed, God Gilth-Nah said
O Prophet, tell your wives if you desire the life of this world and its adornments
Come, I will entertain you and give you a pleasant release
And if you desire God and His Messenger and the Hereafter, then God has prepared for the good deeds among you a great reward
She said
So I said
In what way do I ask my parents?
For I want God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter
She said
Then the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did the same as I did
Mother of believers
Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her
Among those pure wives
Mother of the Believers Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her
She is Zainab bint Khuzaymah bin Abdullah
Ibn Omar bin Abdul Manaf
Ibn Hilal bin Amer bin Sasa'ah Al-Hilaliyya
Mother of the Believers, wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
She was called the Mother of the Poor
Because she fed them and gave them alms
It was under Abdullah bin Jahsh, may God be pleased with him
So he martyred someone
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her
And it was said
It was under Al-Tufayl bin Al-Harith bin Al-Muttalib
Then his brother Ubaidah bin Al-Harith succeeded her
She was Maymunah bint Al-Harith's maternal sister
His entry, may God bless him and grant him peace, was there
After entering upon Hafsa bint Omar
Then she only stayed with him for two or three months and died
Ibn al-Kalbi said
She was with Al-Tufayl bin Al-Harith, so he divorced her
Then his brother succeeded her and was killed on her behalf at Badr
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, proposed to her
So she made her command to him
So he married her in the month of Ramadan in the year three
She stayed with him for eight months
She died in the spring of four years
Al-Waqidi stated that she was thirty years old
Mothers of believers
The date of the marriage of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to them
And the year of their death
The number of women whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, contracted
Thirteen women
Nine of them died
Two women died during his lifetime
One of them is Khadija
The other is the mother of the poor, Zainab bint Khuzaymah
And two that he did not enter
Here are their names
First, Khadija bint Khuwaylid, may God be pleased with her
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her
He is twenty-five years old
The date of her death is provided
Secondly, Sawda bint Zam’
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Shawwal
The tenth year of prophecy
About a month after Khadija's death
She died in Medina in Shawwal
In the year fifty-four AH
Third, Aisha bint Abi Bakr, according to Al-Siddiq
He married her in Shawwal
The eleventh year of the Prophet
A year after his marriage to Sawda
Two years and five months before the migration
She died on the seventeenth of Ramadan
In the year fifty-seven AH
Or fifty-eight for immigration
Fourth, Hafsa bint Omar bin Al-Khattab
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Shaaban
Three years after the Hijra
She died in Sha`ban in the year forty-five AH
Fifthly, Zainab bint Khuzaymah came forward
Sixth: Umm Salamah
Hind bint Abi Umayyah
It was under Abu Salamah, may God be pleased with him
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her
On the last night of Shawwal
From the fourth year of Hijra
She died in the year fifty-nine AH
It was said that sixty-two of the Hijra
Seventh: Zainab bint Jahsh bin Rabab
From the Banu Asad bin Khuzaymah
She is the cousin of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Dhul-Qa’dah
The fifth year of Hijra
It was said in the year four AH
She died in the year twenty AH
Eighth: Juwayriyah bint Al-Harith
Sayyid bin Al-Mustaliq from Khuza’a
It was in Sami bin Al-Mustaliq
In Sahm Thabit bin Qais bin Shammas
So he wrote it
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, decided to write it down
He married her in Shaban, six years after the Hijra
It was said that it was the fifth year of the Hijra
She died in Rabi` al-Awwal
In the year fifty-six AH
It was said fifty-five for the Hijra
Ninth: Umm Habiba
Rablah bint Abi Sufyan
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her
Seventh year AH
She died in the year forty-two AH
Or forty-four for immigration
Or fifty for immigration
Tenth: Safiya bint Huyay bin Akhtab
Sayyid ibn al-Nazir from the children of Israel
Bin Sabi was Khaybar
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, selected her for himself
He offered her Islam and she converted to Islam
He freed her and married her after the conquest of Khaybar
Seventh year AH
She died in the year fifty AH
It was said that fifty-two of the Hijra
Eleven o'clock
Bibouna bint Al-Harith
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her in Dhul-Qa’dah
Seventh year AH
She died lazily
Sixty-one year AH
It was said that sixty-three of the Hijra
It was said that thirty-eight for the Hijrah
There are lessons in this event
Firstly
Knowing the virtue of the Mother of the Believers, Zainab bint Khuzaymah, may God be pleased with her
In her mercy towards the poor and almsgiving to them
Until she was known as the Mother of the Poor
This became a description of her praise during her life and when she died
This calls for emulating her in this goodness
Secondly
The legality of marriage during Ramadan
He blamed himself for falling into what God had forbidden during the day of fasting
Third
Explaining the virtue of the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Their right over the nation is great
They are the wives of her Prophet in this world and the hereafter
They are the carriers of the noble Sharia
Which no one else knew about
When they used to show him the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, at home
Fourth
If a Muslim wants to marry more than one woman
To have sound judgment and goals for this project
Fifth
On the wives of scholars
To pass on their knowledge, good deeds, and righteous guidance
Which people don't know about
Be a role model and a gift
Ramadan events and lessons