1 00:00:00,850 --> 00:00:04,759 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:04,759 --> 00:00:11,910 The life of the predecessors between words and deeds 3 00:00:11,910 --> 00:00:15,410 The condition of the predecessors in dealing with their wives 4 00:00:15,410 --> 00:00:19,410 He advised and guided the husband and wife 5 00:00:20,429 --> 00:00:26,429 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said to a man who was about to divorce his wife 6 00:00:26,429 --> 00:00:28,429 Didn't divorce her 7 00:00:28,429 --> 00:00:31,460 He said I don't like her 8 00:00:31,460 --> 00:00:38,460 He said, “All homes are built on love, where is the care and blame?” 9 00:00:38,460 --> 00:00:42,689 And he, may God be pleased with him, said: Women are private parts 10 00:00:42,689 --> 00:00:47,689 So they covered them with homes and treated their weakness with silence 11 00:00:47,689 --> 00:00:54,780 He said, may God be pleased with him, that a believing servant is not given anything after believing in God 12 00:00:54,780 --> 00:00:59,780 Better than a woman who is friendly, friendly, and well-mannered 13 00:00:59,780 --> 00:01:03,909 Nothing happens to a servant after disbelief in God 14 00:01:03,909 --> 00:01:06,909 It is worse for him than a woman who boiled him 15 00:01:06,909 --> 00:01:10,909 She has an iron tongue and bad manners 16 00:01:10,909 --> 00:01:18,200 He, may God be pleased with him, said: No man spends so much on himself and his family 17 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,200 Except for him his reward 18 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:25,230 Let the man start with those he supports, then the closest, then the closest 19 00:01:25,230 --> 00:01:28,230 If he prefers, let him start with it 20 00:01:28,230 --> 00:01:32,650 Ali, may God be pleased with him, had two women 21 00:01:32,650 --> 00:01:37,650 If it was this day, he would buy meat for half a dirham 22 00:01:37,650 --> 00:01:42,650 If it was this day, he would buy meat for half a dirham 23 00:01:42,650 --> 00:01:47,099 On the authority of Hudhayfah, may God be pleased with him, he said: 24 00:01:47,099 --> 00:01:52,099 I acknowledge that I am an eye when people in need complain to me 25 00:01:52,099 --> 00:01:57,379 Moaz bin Jabal, may God be pleased with him, had two women 26 00:01:57,379 --> 00:02:03,379 If he was with one of them, he would not perform ablution from the other’s house 27 00:02:03,379 --> 00:02:06,609 A woman came to him and said: 28 00:02:06,609 --> 00:02:10,610 You are truly the messenger of the Messenger of God 29 00:02:10,610 --> 00:02:13,610 What is the wife's right over her husband? 30 00:02:13,610 --> 00:02:16,740 He said it was her right 31 00:02:16,740 --> 00:02:19,740 He should not hit her face or make her look ugly 32 00:02:19,740 --> 00:02:21,900 And her right is on him 33 00:02:21,900 --> 00:02:24,900 To feed her from what she eats 34 00:02:24,900 --> 00:02:26,900 And he covers her with whatever he wears 35 00:02:26,900 --> 00:02:28,900 And her right is on him 36 00:02:28,900 --> 00:02:31,900 Not to leave her in her home 37 00:02:31,900 --> 00:02:37,090 She died from a plague that struck them in one day 38 00:02:37,090 --> 00:02:40,090 He brought them to the pit 39 00:02:40,090 --> 00:02:42,090 Then I knock between them 40 00:02:42,090 --> 00:02:45,090 Whichever one enters the hole before the other 41 00:02:45,090 --> 00:02:49,379 Al-Zabarqan bin Badr, may God be pleased with him, was 42 00:02:49,379 --> 00:02:53,379 If he marries his daughter, he approaches her room 43 00:02:53,379 --> 00:02:55,379 He said, "Are you listening?" 44 00:02:55,379 --> 00:02:59,379 Be his slave and he will appoint you as a slave 45 00:02:59,379 --> 00:03:02,659 Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, said 46 00:03:02,659 --> 00:03:07,659 If you want to get married, give gifts to your mother 47 00:03:07,659 --> 00:03:12,110 Abu Al-Aswad Al-Dawali, may God have mercy on him, said to his daughter 48 00:03:12,110 --> 00:03:17,110 Beware of jealousy, for it is the key to divorce 49 00:03:17,110 --> 00:03:19,110 And you have to decorate 50 00:03:19,110 --> 00:03:21,110 I adorn the adornments with kohl 51 00:03:21,110 --> 00:03:23,110 And you have to be kind 52 00:03:24,110 --> 00:03:27,110 The best good thing is to enlighten the topic 53 00:03:27,110 --> 00:03:31,180 And be like you told your mother sometimes 54 00:03:31,180 --> 00:03:35,240 Take my pardon, you will always receive my affection 55 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:39,240 And do not say my surah when they get angry 56 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:43,240 I found love in the chest and hurt 57 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:47,240 If they meet, love will soon go away 58 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,590 Abu Sinan said 59 00:03:49,590 --> 00:03:52,590 Dirar Ibn Murrah, may God have mercy on him 60 00:03:52,590 --> 00:03:56,590 You have given water to the people of today and fodder for the Shah 61 00:03:56,590 --> 00:03:58,590 And he was saying 62 00:03:58,590 --> 00:04:01,590 The best of you is the one who benefits his family 63 00:04:01,590 --> 00:04:06,009 Imam Ahmed, may God have mercy on him, was asked about women fasting 64 00:04:06,009 --> 00:04:08,009 Her husband prevents her 65 00:04:08,009 --> 00:04:11,009 She thinks she should fast 66 00:04:11,009 --> 00:04:14,009 He said: Do not fast 67 00:04:14,009 --> 00:04:18,009 She does not think of herself as praying or fasting 68 00:04:18,009 --> 00:04:20,009 Unless he gives her permission 69 00:04:20,009 --> 00:04:23,009 Except what is obligatory 70 00:04:23,009 --> 00:04:27,009 Otherwise, do not fast except with His permission 71 00:04:27,009 --> 00:04:31,009 She obeys him in everything he commands her to do 72 00:04:31,009 --> 00:04:35,550 It belonged to Abu Bakr bin Al-Labbad, may God have mercy on him 73 00:04:35,550 --> 00:04:37,550 bastard 74 00:04:37,550 --> 00:04:39,550 She hurts him with her tongue 75 00:04:39,550 --> 00:04:41,550 His companions told him 76 00:04:41,550 --> 00:04:43,550 He divorced her 77 00:04:43,550 --> 00:04:45,550 We do her justice 78 00:04:45,550 --> 00:04:47,550 And he said 79 00:04:47,550 --> 00:04:51,550 I fear that if I divorce her, a Muslim will be afflicted with her 80 00:04:51,550 --> 00:04:57,620 Perhaps God has protected me from a great calamity due to its severity 81 00:04:57,620 --> 00:04:59,620 And he was saying 82 00:04:59,620 --> 00:05:01,620 Every believer has a trial 83 00:05:01,620 --> 00:05:04,800 It is my ordeal 84 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,120 A life of peace 85 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,120 Between words and action