In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The life of the predecessors between words and deeds
The condition of the predecessors in dealing with their wives
He advised and guided the husband and wife
Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said to a man who was about to divorce his wife
Didn't divorce her
He said I don't like her
He said, “All homes are built on love, where is the care and blame?”
And he, may God be pleased with him, said: Women are private parts
So they covered them with homes and treated their weakness with silence
He said, may God be pleased with him, that a believing servant is not given anything after believing in God
Better than a woman who is friendly, friendly, and well-mannered
Nothing happens to a servant after disbelief in God
It is worse for him than a woman who boiled him
She has an iron tongue and bad manners
He, may God be pleased with him, said: No man spends so much on himself and his family
Except for him his reward
Let the man start with those he supports, then the closest, then the closest
If he prefers, let him start with it
Ali, may God be pleased with him, had two women
If it was this day, he would buy meat for half a dirham
If it was this day, he would buy meat for half a dirham
On the authority of Hudhayfah, may God be pleased with him, he said:
I acknowledge that I am an eye when people in need complain to me
Moaz bin Jabal, may God be pleased with him, had two women
If he was with one of them, he would not perform ablution from the other’s house
A woman came to him and said:
You are truly the messenger of the Messenger of God
What is the wife's right over her husband?
He said it was her right
He should not hit her face or make her look ugly
And her right is on him
To feed her from what she eats
And he covers her with whatever he wears
And her right is on him
Not to leave her in her home
She died from a plague that struck them in one day
He brought them to the pit
Then I knock between them
Whichever one enters the hole before the other
Al-Zabarqan bin Badr, may God be pleased with him, was
If he marries his daughter, he approaches her room
He said, "Are you listening?"
Be his slave and he will appoint you as a slave
Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, said
If you want to get married, give gifts to your mother
Abu Al-Aswad Al-Dawali, may God have mercy on him, said to his daughter
Beware of jealousy, for it is the key to divorce
And you have to decorate
I adorn the adornments with kohl
And you have to be kind
The best good thing is to enlighten the topic
And be like you told your mother sometimes
Take my pardon, you will always receive my affection
And do not say my surah when they get angry
I found love in the chest and hurt
If they meet, love will soon go away
Abu Sinan said
Dirar Ibn Murrah, may God have mercy on him
You have given water to the people of today and fodder for the Shah
And he was saying
The best of you is the one who benefits his family
Imam Ahmed, may God have mercy on him, was asked about women fasting
Her husband prevents her
She thinks she should fast
He said: Do not fast
She does not think of herself as praying or fasting
Unless he gives her permission
Except what is obligatory
Otherwise, do not fast except with His permission
She obeys him in everything he commands her to do
It belonged to Abu Bakr bin Al-Labbad, may God have mercy on him
bastard
She hurts him with her tongue
His companions told him
He divorced her
We do her justice
And he said
I fear that if I divorce her, a Muslim will be afflicted with her
Perhaps God has protected me from a great calamity due to its severity
And he was saying
Every believer has a trial
It is my ordeal
A life of peace
Between words and action