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From the words of the Master of Messengers
May God bless him and grant him peace
Chapter on making a will regarding women
God Almighty said
And treat them kindly
And the Almighty said
You will not be able to treat women justly
Even if you care
Do not lean completely
So leave it like a hanging spoon
And if they are righteous and pious
For God is Forgiving and Merciful
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Treat women well
Woman was created from a rib
The crooked part of the rib is higher
If you go to straighten it, it will be broken
Even if you leave it, it will still be crooked
So treat women well
Agreed
And in a narration in the two Sahihs
A woman is like a rib
If you set it up, you break it
Even if you enjoy it
I enjoyed it and it was crooked
And in a narration by Muslim
Woman was created from a rib
It will not straighten your path
If you enjoy it
I enjoyed it and it was crooked
If you go to straighten it, you will break it
Her divorce broke her
Crookedness is a bend in what was standing and tilted
One of the benefits of talking
Women should be kind
Because of their weakness and lack of resourcefulness
Women do not settle in one state
It must be orbited
May life continue with her
Women are not worthy of men
Because it was created from a crooked rib
There is no denying its crookedness
If you want to straighten it out
I broke it because I couldn't do it
Discord and separation occur
Even if she is patient with her bad condition
The weakness of her mind and other crookedness
It lasted for ten days
The educator’s knowledge of the nature of the person he wants to correct and refine
Appoint him in his advocacy and educational mission
The commentators and commentators of the hadith agreed
That Eve was created from the left rib
To Adam, peace and blessings be upon him
This is the saying of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both
We do not know of any of the Companions who disagreed with him, may God be pleased with them
The scholars have provided evidence for this with this hadith
And according to what God Almighty says
O people, fear your Lord, who created you from a single soul
And her husband was created from her
On the authority of Abdullah Ibn Zamah, may God be pleased with him
He heard the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, giving a sermon
He mentioned the camel and the one who licked it
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
So he sent her brothers
If he sends her a dear, powerful and invincible man in his company
Then he mentioned women and preached to them
And he said
One of you baptizes and flogs his wife like a slave
Maybe he will have sex with her from the end of his day
Then he preached to them about their fart laughter
And he said
When one of you laughs at what he does
Agreed
And the evil one is the evil one who corrupts
And their saying “he resurrected” means he rose quickly
A dear man, i.e. a lowly man
Impervious, meaning strong and forbidding
Rahta means his people
That is, his people
Flogging a slave indicates severe, harmful beating
He has intercourse with her
One of the benefits of talking
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
People do not know except through revelation
Including telling stories of the past
The scholar should preach to the people
To remind them of God’s laws in the past
Because it contains good times and a reminder for those who remember
Explanation of the miracle of Saleh, peace and blessings be upon him
She is a camel
Human beings do not know what is right for them in this world and the hereafter
If they abandon the approach of their Prophet
And destruction is upon them
Who spreads corruption among people
And he diverts them from the path of God
They are people of luxury and wealth
The owners of the rahat and the prohibition
The common people follow the highest people
Most likely their eldest
If the public accepts the corruption of the private
Torment covered them all
It is permissible to beat a woman without causing harm
This is after preaching and abandoning the beds
Laughter is only about strange and strange things
It is the usual thing for every human being
Laughing at him is the opposite of being funny
This is the sanctity of a Muslim
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
A male believer does not rub against a female believer
If he dislikes one of her traits, he is satisfied with another
Or someone else said
Narrated by Muslim
The word “rubs” means “to hate.”
It is said that the woman rubbed her husband
Her husband hated her, meaning he hated her
And God knows best
One of the benefits of talking
A man is forbidden from hating his believing wife
Completely hateful
It makes him sad to part with her
Rather, he has to balance it while he hates it
And while he is satisfied with it
So he forgives her
It overlooks its shortcomings
He ignores what he hates with what he loves
This is what Islam teaches us
The intention of love and hate
That's why Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said
O Aslam, do not let your love be a burden
Nor will your hatred be destroyed
He said: How is that?
Omar said
If you like
Do not be burdened as a boy is burdened with something he loves
And if you want
Do not hate with hatred
You like your companion to be destroyed and destroyed
In general, women
They fluctuate between good and evil
They do not remain in one condition
A man should
Control his emotions and emotions
With the wisdom of his mind
In any dispute that breaks out with his wife
On the authority of Omar bin Al-Ahwas Al-Jashmi, may God be pleased with him
He heard the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
In his farewell pilgrimage he says:
After thanking God Almighty
He praised him, mentioned and preached
Then he said
Beware of women
They are your helpers
You have nothing else from them
Unless they commit a clear indecency
If they do
They abandoned them in their beds
And beat them not badly
If they obey you, do not seek a way against them
Indeed, you have a right over your women
And your women have a right over you
So you have the right over them
Don't those you hate put on your beds?
He does not allow anyone you hate into your homes
Indeed, their right is upon you
Be good to them
In their clothing and food
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace
Awan
That is, female captives
Aniya plural
She is a captive
And the suffering
The prisoner
He resembled the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
The woman comes under the rule of the husband
With the prisoner
And severe beatings
It is very hard
And his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace
Do not seek a way against them
That is, do not ask for a way
You invoke it against them
And you harm them with it
And God knows best
You have nothing else from them
That is, not having fun
The husband protected herself, his money, and his child
And carry out his affairs and service
With clear obscenity
Any major matter of bad behavior is apparent and clear
Beds
That is, bedding
One of the benefits of talking
From the Sunnah in the sermon
To begin by praising and praising God for what He deserves
If the woman shows disobedience
The man should discipline her within the following stages
Firstly
Punishment, reminders, intimidation, and enticement
Secondly
Abandonment in bed
Third
Unexplained beating
Men have rights
A wife has rights
A woman should not allow anyone
By entering her husband's house
Except with His permission
Women are not allowed to act
In a man's money and property
Except with His permission
A man should spend on his wife
And honor her as much as possible
On the authority of Muawiyah bin Haidah, may God be pleased with him, he said
I said, O Messenger of God
What right does one of our wife have over him?
He said
To feed her if she is fed
And you cover it when it is covered
Do not hit the face or be obscene
Do not migrate except at home
Narrated by Abu Dawood
And he said
With us, don't be ugly
That is, do not say that God is ugly to you
One of the benefits of talking
It is forbidden to hit the face for the sake of dignity
It is not permissible to shame the wife
In the blood of creation
Because all of God's creation is good
A man should know his wife's rights
To lead him to her
Abandonment while staying overnight
A way to lead women
The abandonment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, has been proven
For his wives in Mashraba
outside the house
The wife's right to be fed and clothed
And spending on it
It is forbidden to prevent her from doing anything
Or he gives it to the girl he despises
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Complete the believers in faith
The best of them
Your choice is your choice for their wives
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
Sunnis are the followers of the righteous predecessors based on their belief in faith
And it is word and deed
It increases with obedience and decreases with disobedience
The hadith indicates that faith has origin and perfection
Who has no good for his family
There is no good in it for people
It indicates that the closest relatives are more deserving of good deeds
Encouragement to treat one's wife with courtesy and refrain from harming her
Be kind to her and be patient with her
Good character is one of the characteristics of perfect believers
And the righteous are sincere
On the authority of Iyas bin Abdullah bin Abi Dhubab, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Do not hit God's servants
Then Omar, may God be pleased with him, came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
And he said
We slandered women against their husbands
So he took the liberty of hitting him
So many women went around the family of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
They complain about their wives
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Many women traveled around the family of Muhammad
They complain about their wives
These are not your choice
Narrated by Abu Dawood
His saying is a warning
That is, dare
He said, “Attaf.”
That is, surrounded
One of the benefits of talking
Beating is a means of disciplining a disobedient woman
It is permissible in general
But it is required
To be unobtrusive
And to avoid the face
And he does not look ugly
And it should be after being bitten and abandoned
It should be discipline, not harm
The man is a shepherd in his house
He should walk with his family happily
He disciplines them and raises them
With wisdom and good advice
It is permissible to review a scholar in a fatwa
To know its consequences and outcome
It is permissible to complain to the prince or scholar
If the complainant is harmed by someone else
Because of a fatwa
Or injustice was committed against him by others
There is one of the secrets in the hadith
He had many wives, may God bless him and grant him peace
It is the legislative aspect
Where his wives were mediators between him
And among Muslim women
In the question and answer
On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
The world is a pleasure
The best enjoyment for her is a righteous woman
Narrated by Muslim
Enjoyment
Anything he enjoys from time to time
Then it goes away
One of the benefits of talking
It is permissible to enjoy the good things of this world that God has made lawful for His servants
Without extravagance or imagination
Encouragement to choose a good woman
Because it is one of the pillars of happiness
It helps the husband to obey his Lord
The greatest pleasure in the world is obedience to God
Or help her
Because every enjoyment is fleeting
Except what was in obedience
It is for survival and permanence
When a crime is not lost, a good deed is done
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