1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 Riyadh al-Salihin from the words of the Master of the Messengers, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:13,769 Chapter: Vigilance (Muraqabah). 3 00:00:13,769 --> 00:00:19,230 On the authority of Anas, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: 4 00:00:19,230 --> 00:00:26,260 "You perform deeds that you consider more insignificant than a strand of hair, 5 00:00:26,260 --> 00:00:33,259 yet during the time of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, we used to count them among the destructive sins." 6 00:00:33,259 --> 00:00:35,259 Narrated by al-Bukhari. 7 00:00:35,259 --> 00:00:40,259 He said: "The destructive sins are those that lead to ruin." 8 00:00:40,259 --> 00:00:47,060 "More insignificant than a strand of hair" is a metaphor for their perceived triviality and smallness. 9 00:00:47,060 --> 00:00:49,960 From the benefits of the hadith: 10 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:56,090 Taking a sin lightly indicates a lack of fear of Allah the Exalted. 11 00:00:56,090 --> 00:01:01,090 It is a sign of hypocrisy, contrary to viewing a sin as grave. 12 00:01:01,090 --> 00:01:07,090 For viewing a sin as grave indicates the perfection of fear and profound vigilance toward Allah the Exalted. 13 00:01:07,090 --> 00:01:11,219 The hadith contains a warning against a person relying on their own deeds, 14 00:01:11,219 --> 00:01:15,219 becoming conceited by them, and taking sins lightly. 15 00:01:15,219 --> 00:01:18,219 For the accumulation of minor sins will surround him, 16 00:01:18,219 --> 00:01:22,219 and he will meet Allah unable to find a way to escape them, 17 00:01:22,219 --> 00:01:24,219 so they will destroy and ruin him. 18 00:01:24,219 --> 00:01:28,379 The most knowledgeable of people regarding Allah the Exalted, after the Prophets, 19 00:01:28,379 --> 00:01:31,379 the most perfect in piety, and the most intense in fear, 20 00:01:31,379 --> 00:01:35,379 are the Companions of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. 21 00:01:35,379 --> 00:01:41,379 They used to view matters that others considered trivial as destructive, 22 00:01:41,379 --> 00:01:43,379 due to the greatness of their witnessing the majesty of Allah, 23 00:01:43,379 --> 00:01:46,379 and the perfection of their knowledge of Him. 24 00:01:46,379 --> 00:01:51,599 Their understanding—the Companions—of the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of His Messenger is what is considered authoritative, 25 00:01:51,599 --> 00:01:53,599 because it is the path of the believers. 26 00:01:53,599 --> 00:01:56,599 Whoever follows their methodology succeeds, 27 00:01:56,599 --> 00:01:59,599 and whoever deviates from it is ruined and causes others to be ruined. 28 00:01:59,599 --> 00:02:04,040 On the authority of Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, 29 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:08,039 from the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, who said: 30 00:02:08,039 --> 00:02:11,039 "Indeed, Allah the Exalted is jealous." 31 00:02:11,039 --> 00:02:13,039 And the jealousy of Allah the Exalted 32 00:02:13,039 --> 00:02:17,039 is that a person commits what Allah has forbidden him. 33 00:02:17,039 --> 00:02:19,039 Agreed upon. 34 00:02:19,039 --> 00:02:23,139 The essence of jealousy is indignation. 35 00:02:23,139 --> 00:02:26,159 From the benefits of the hadith: 36 00:02:26,159 --> 00:02:30,379 It is incumbent upon the servant to distance himself from sins, 37 00:02:30,379 --> 00:02:34,379 because they cause the wrath of Allah the Exalted. 38 00:02:34,379 --> 00:02:39,509 Allah, glory be to Him, dislikes disbelief, immorality, and disobedience. 39 00:02:39,509 --> 00:02:43,889 On the authority of Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, 40 00:02:43,889 --> 00:02:48,889 that he heard the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, saying: 41 00:02:48,889 --> 00:02:51,889 "There were three men from the Children of Israel: 42 00:02:51,889 --> 00:02:54,889 a leper, a bald man, and a blind man. 43 00:02:54,889 --> 00:02:57,949 Allah intended to test them, 44 00:02:57,949 --> 00:02:59,949 so He sent an angel to them. 45 00:02:59,949 --> 00:03:02,949 He came to the leper and said, 46 00:03:02,949 --> 00:03:04,949 'What thing is most beloved to you?' 47 00:03:04,949 --> 00:03:06,949 He said, 48 00:03:06,949 --> 00:03:09,949 'A beautiful complexion and beautiful skin, 49 00:03:09,949 --> 00:03:12,949 and for that which has caused people to shun me to be removed.' 50 00:03:12,949 --> 00:03:15,949 So he wiped him, and his affliction was removed, 51 00:03:15,949 --> 00:03:17,949 and he was given a beautiful complexion. 52 00:03:17,949 --> 00:03:19,949 He said, 53 00:03:19,949 --> 00:03:21,949 'And what wealth is most beloved to you?' 54 00:03:22,949 --> 00:03:23,949 He said, 55 00:03:23,949 --> 00:03:25,949 'Camels,' or he said, 56 00:03:25,949 --> 00:03:27,949 'Cows.' 57 00:03:27,949 --> 00:03:29,949 The narrator was in doubt. 58 00:03:29,949 --> 00:03:31,949 So he was given a pregnant she-camel, 59 00:03:31,949 --> 00:03:33,949 and he said, 60 00:03:33,949 --> 00:03:35,949 'May Allah bless you in it.' 61 00:03:35,949 --> 00:03:37,979 Then he came to the bald man and said, 62 00:03:37,979 --> 00:03:40,979 'What thing is most beloved to you?' 63 00:03:40,979 --> 00:03:41,979 He said, 64 00:03:41,979 --> 00:03:43,979 'Beautiful hair, 65 00:03:43,979 --> 00:03:47,979 and for that which has caused people to shun me to be removed.' 66 00:03:47,979 --> 00:03:49,979 So he wiped him, and it was removed, 67 00:03:49,979 --> 00:03:51,979 and he was given beautiful hair. 68 00:03:51,979 --> 00:03:53,979 He said, 69 00:03:53,979 --> 00:03:55,979 'And what wealth is most beloved to you?' 70 00:03:55,979 --> 00:03:57,979 He said, 71 00:03:57,979 --> 00:03:58,979 'Cows.' 72 00:03:58,979 --> 00:04:00,979 So he was given a pregnant cow, 73 00:04:00,979 --> 00:04:02,979 and he said, 74 00:04:02,979 --> 00:04:04,979 'May Allah bless you in it.' 75 00:04:04,979 --> 00:04:08,080 Then he came to the blind man and said, 76 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,080 'What thing is most beloved to you?' 77 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,110 He said, 78 00:04:12,110 --> 00:04:14,110 'That Allah restores my sight to me, 79 00:04:14,110 --> 00:04:16,110 so that I may see people.' 80 00:04:16,110 --> 00:04:19,110 So he wiped him, and Allah restored his sight to him. 81 00:04:19,110 --> 00:04:20,110 He said, 82 00:04:20,110 --> 00:04:23,180 'And what wealth is most beloved to you?' 83 00:04:23,180 --> 00:04:24,180 He said, 84 00:04:24,180 --> 00:04:25,180 'Sheep.' 85 00:04:25,180 --> 00:04:28,180 So he was given a pregnant ewe. 86 00:04:28,180 --> 00:04:31,180 It produced offspring, and the other produced offspring, 87 00:04:31,180 --> 00:04:34,180 until this one had a valley full of camels, 88 00:04:34,180 --> 00:04:37,180 this one had a valley full of cows, 89 00:04:37,180 --> 00:04:40,180 and this one had a valley full of sheep. 90 00:04:40,180 --> 00:04:44,339 Then he came to the leper in his [the leper's] former appearance and state, 91 00:04:44,339 --> 00:04:45,339 and said, 92 00:04:45,339 --> 00:04:47,339 'A poor man, 93 00:04:47,339 --> 00:04:50,339 whose means have been cut off in my journey, 94 00:04:50,339 --> 00:04:52,339 so I have no provision today 95 00:04:52,339 --> 00:04:55,339 except through Allah, then through you. 96 00:04:55,339 --> 00:05:01,339 I ask you by the One who gave you the beautiful complexion, the beautiful skin, and the wealth, 97 00:05:01,339 --> 00:05:04,339 for a camel to help me reach my destination.' 98 00:05:04,339 --> 00:05:06,339 He said, 99 00:05:06,339 --> 00:05:08,339 'The obligations are many.' 100 00:05:08,339 --> 00:05:09,430 He said, 101 00:05:09,430 --> 00:05:11,430 'It is as if I know you. 102 00:05:11,430 --> 00:05:14,430 Were you not a leper whom people shunned, 103 00:05:14,430 --> 00:05:17,430 and poor, then Allah gave you wealth?' 104 00:05:17,430 --> 00:05:19,430 He said, 105 00:05:19,430 --> 00:05:22,430 'I only inherited this wealth from my forefathers.' 106 00:05:22,430 --> 00:05:24,560 He said, 107 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,560 'If you are a liar, 108 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,560 may Allah return you to what you were.' 109 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,560 He came to the bald man in his former appearance and state, 110 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,560 and said to him the same as he said to the first, 111 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,560 and he replied to him the same as the first had replied. 112 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,560 He said, 113 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,560 'If you are a liar, 114 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,560 may Allah return you to what you were.' 115 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,560 He came to the blind man in his former appearance and state, 116 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:51,560 and said, 117 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,560 'A poor man and a traveler, 118 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,560 my means have been cut off in my journey, 119 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:01,560 so I have no provision today except through Allah, then through you. 120 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,620 I ask you by the One who restored your sight to you, 121 00:06:04,620 --> 00:06:08,620 for a sheep to help me reach my destination.' 122 00:06:08,620 --> 00:06:09,620 He said, 123 00:06:09,620 --> 00:06:11,620 'I was blind, 124 00:06:11,620 --> 00:06:14,620 and Allah restored my sight to me. 125 00:06:14,620 --> 00:06:17,620 So take what you wish and leave what you wish. 126 00:06:17,620 --> 00:06:20,689 For by Allah, I will not burden you today with anything 127 00:06:20,689 --> 00:06:23,689 that you take for the sake of Allah the Almighty.' 128 00:06:23,689 --> 00:06:24,689 He said, 129 00:06:24,689 --> 00:06:26,689 'Keep your wealth, 130 00:06:26,689 --> 00:06:28,689 for you have only been tested. 131 00:06:28,689 --> 00:06:30,689 Allah is pleased with you, 132 00:06:30,689 --> 00:06:33,750 and is angry with your two companions.' 133 00:06:33,750 --> 00:06:36,009 Agreed upon. 134 00:06:36,009 --> 00:06:38,009 The "pregnant she-camel" (al-ashara) 135 00:06:38,009 --> 00:06:39,009 is the one that is pregnant. 136 00:06:39,009 --> 00:06:41,040 His saying, 137 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:42,040 "It produced offspring" (antaja), 138 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,040 and in one narration "fa-nataja," 139 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:47,040 means he managed its breeding. 140 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:51,040 The "nataj" for a camel is like the midwife for a woman. 141 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,230 "It produced offspring" (walada hadha), 142 00:06:53,230 --> 00:06:55,230 meaning he managed its birth. 143 00:06:55,230 --> 00:06:58,230 It has the same meaning as "nataja" regarding the camel. 144 00:06:58,230 --> 00:07:02,230 So "muwallid," "natij," and "qabila" all have the same meaning, 145 00:07:02,230 --> 00:07:05,230 but the former is for animals, 146 00:07:05,230 --> 00:07:07,230 and the latter is for others. 147 00:07:07,230 --> 00:07:08,420 His saying, 148 00:07:08,420 --> 00:07:10,420 "My means have been cut off" (in quta'at biya al-hibal), 149 00:07:10,420 --> 00:07:12,420 means the causes and resources. 150 00:07:12,420 --> 00:07:13,420 His saying, 151 00:07:13,420 --> 00:07:15,420 "I will not burden you" (la ajhaduka), 152 00:07:15,420 --> 00:07:16,420 means: 153 00:07:16,420 --> 00:07:22,420 I will not make it difficult for you to return anything you take or request from my wealth. 154 00:07:22,420 --> 00:07:24,420 In the narration of al-Bukhari: 155 00:07:24,420 --> 00:07:25,420 "I will not reproach you" (la ahmaduka), 156 00:07:25,420 --> 00:07:27,420 meaning: 157 00:07:27,420 --> 00:07:31,420 I will not reproach you for leaving anything you need. 158 00:07:31,420 --> 00:07:32,420 As they said: 159 00:07:32,420 --> 00:07:35,420 "There is no regret over the length of life," 160 00:07:35,420 --> 00:07:38,420 meaning over the passing of its length. 161 00:07:38,420 --> 00:07:40,319 "Bald" (aqra'): 162 00:07:40,319 --> 00:07:43,319 is one who has lost the hair of his head due to an ailment. 163 00:07:43,319 --> 00:07:45,420 "Test them" (yabtaliyahum), 164 00:07:45,420 --> 00:07:47,420 meaning: He examines them. 165 00:07:47,420 --> 00:07:48,420 "Shunned me" (qadhara-ni), 166 00:07:48,420 --> 00:07:52,420 meaning: People disliked me and kept away from me. 167 00:07:52,420 --> 00:07:54,610 "No provision" (la balagh), 168 00:07:54,610 --> 00:07:58,610 "Balagh" is that by which one reaches the desired thing. 169 00:07:58,610 --> 00:08:00,800 "From forefathers" (kabiran 'an kabir), 170 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,800 meaning: from father to grandfather. 171 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:07,430 From the benefits of the hadith: 172 00:08:07,430 --> 00:08:10,720 The permissibility of speaking about past nations, 173 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,720 especially the Children of Israel, 174 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,720 for there were wonders among them. 175 00:08:16,910 --> 00:08:19,910 The obligation of thanking for blessings and not denying them. 176 00:08:19,910 --> 00:08:22,910 It is a cause for blessing and growth. 177 00:08:22,910 --> 00:08:25,040 The virtue of charity, 178 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:30,040 and the encouragement to be kind to the weak, to honor them, and to help them reach their needs. 179 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,230 Among the most despicable traits is stinginess, 180 00:08:33,230 --> 00:08:40,230 for it led those two individuals to forget the blessing of Allah the Exalted upon them and to deny it. 181 00:08:40,230 --> 00:08:45,419 Stinginess and lying are causes for the wrath and anger of Allah the Exalted, 182 00:08:45,419 --> 00:08:48,649 as happened to the leper and the bald man. 183 00:08:48,649 --> 00:08:51,649 Truthfulness and generosity are among the praiseworthy traits, 184 00:08:51,649 --> 00:08:54,649 and that blind man was characterized by them, 185 00:08:54,649 --> 00:08:57,649 which led him to gratitude and generosity, 186 00:08:57,649 --> 00:09:02,220 and he attained thereby the pleasure of Allah the Exalted. 187 00:09:02,220 --> 00:09:07,220 The reward with Allah the Exalted is based on what appears of a person's deed, 188 00:09:07,220 --> 00:09:09,450 and according to his intention. 189 00:09:09,450 --> 00:09:12,450 Providing guidance and instruction through stories, 190 00:09:12,450 --> 00:09:15,669 because their impact is more profound on the souls. 191 00:09:15,669 --> 00:09:17,669 The permissibility of asking by Allah, 192 00:09:17,669 --> 00:09:22,899 as the angel did with the bald man, the leper, and the blind man. 193 00:09:22,899 --> 00:09:25,899 When blessing settles in something, 194 00:09:25,899 --> 00:09:27,899 it makes the little much, 195 00:09:27,899 --> 00:09:30,059 and the opposite is also true. 196 00:09:30,059 --> 00:09:33,059 Sincere gratitude to Allah the Exalted 197 00:09:33,059 --> 00:09:37,059 is manifested in the servant's acknowledgment of Allah's favor upon him, 198 00:09:37,059 --> 00:09:39,059 with his heart and his tongue, 199 00:09:39,059 --> 00:09:42,059 And he was quick to spend in the way of Allah. 200 00:09:42,059 --> 00:09:44,059 Allah the Exalted says: 201 00:09:44,059 --> 00:09:49,240 "If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]." 202 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,240 On the authority of Abu Ya'la 203 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,240 Shaddad ibn Aws, may Allah be pleased with him, 204 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:58,240 from the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, who said: 205 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,240 "The wise person is the one who subdues his soul 206 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,240 and works for what comes after death, 207 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:07,240 while the helpless one is the one who lets his soul follow its whims 208 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,429 and relies upon Allah for [the fulfillment of] his desires." 209 00:10:10,429 --> 00:10:12,659 It was narrated by al-Tirmidhi. 210 00:10:12,659 --> 00:10:15,659 Al-Tirmidhi and other scholars said: 211 00:10:15,659 --> 00:10:19,659 "Subdues his soul" means he holds it to account. 212 00:10:19,659 --> 00:10:24,289 "The wise" refers to the intelligent and prudent person. 213 00:10:24,289 --> 00:10:31,250 "The helpless" refers to the weak person who neglects what must be done. 214 00:10:31,250 --> 00:10:33,250 Among the benefits of this hadith: 215 00:10:33,250 --> 00:10:38,659 The obligation of being firm with one's soul and holding it to account. 216 00:10:38,659 --> 00:10:43,019 Preparing for what comes after death through righteous deeds. 217 00:10:43,019 --> 00:10:45,019 Whoever follows the desires of his soul 218 00:10:45,019 --> 00:10:47,019 has gone astray and led others astray. 219 00:10:47,019 --> 00:10:52,340 One should not rely on false hopes and deceptive illusions, 220 00:10:52,340 --> 00:10:56,340 for Allah the Exalted rewards people for what they have done, 221 00:10:56,340 --> 00:10:59,340 not for what they wished for without action. 222 00:10:59,340 --> 00:11:05,350 On the authority of Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: 223 00:11:05,350 --> 00:11:09,350 The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said: 224 00:11:09,350 --> 00:11:11,350 "Part of the excellence of a person's Islam 225 00:11:11,350 --> 00:11:13,350 is his leaving alone that which does not concern him." 226 00:11:13,350 --> 00:11:15,480 It was narrated by al-Tirmidhi. 227 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,919 "Part of the excellence of a person's Islam" 228 00:11:18,919 --> 00:11:23,049 means it is a sign of his perfection and uprightness. 229 00:11:23,049 --> 00:11:25,049 "His leaving alone that which does not concern him" 230 00:11:25,049 --> 00:11:30,049 means he abandons what he does not need and what is not necessary according to the rulings of the Shari'ah, 231 00:11:30,049 --> 00:11:34,980 not according to whims and the desires of the self. 232 00:11:34,980 --> 00:11:36,980 Among the benefits of this hadith: 233 00:11:36,980 --> 00:11:42,200 A person should occupy himself with what brings him benefit in this life and the Hereafter, 234 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,200 and turn away from everything else 235 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,200 that he does not need and from which he derives no benefit, 236 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,519 and which may even harm or trouble him. 237 00:11:51,519 --> 00:11:54,519 A person should not meddle in the affairs of others, 238 00:11:54,519 --> 00:11:59,519 for that is part of the perfection of steadfastness in religion. 239 00:11:59,519 --> 00:12:02,350 On the authority of 'Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, 240 00:12:02,350 --> 00:12:06,350 from the Prophet, peace be upon him, who said: 241 00:12:06,350 --> 00:12:10,350 "A man shall not be asked why he beat his wife." 242 00:12:10,350 --> 00:12:13,509 It was narrated by Abu Dawud and others. 243 00:12:13,509 --> 00:12:17,950 Among the benefits of this hadith: 244 00:12:17,950 --> 00:12:23,110 One should preserve the secrets that exist between spouses. 245 00:12:23,110 --> 00:12:26,110 "A man shall not be asked why he beat his wife" 246 00:12:26,110 --> 00:12:30,110 because it may be for reasons that are embarrassing to mention, 247 00:12:30,110 --> 00:12:32,110 or matters that must be kept private. 248 00:12:32,110 --> 00:12:37,110 This is left to the husband and his mindfulness of Allah the Exalted. 249 00:12:37,110 --> 00:12:40,429 If matters are brought before a judge, 250 00:12:40,429 --> 00:12:43,429 and the situation requires questioning and answering, 251 00:12:43,429 --> 00:12:48,429 then that is permissible to establish the truth and reconcile between people. 252 00:12:49,429 --> 00:12:52,559 Riyad al-Salihin.