1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:11,289 O Muslims, one day I met a man, so I greeted him and then asked him about his condition and the condition of his children. 2 00:00:11,849 --> 00:00:17,350 He sighed a little, looking very worried and sad 3 00:00:17,850 --> 00:00:23,850 Then he said that children grow up and their concerns grow with them 4 00:00:24,350 --> 00:00:30,850 Then he left sadly, as if the earth had become too narrow for him as it was spacious 5 00:00:31,350 --> 00:00:37,509 What affection and what concern does this father have for his child? 6 00:00:38,009 --> 00:00:45,829 Then I remembered the words of Jacob, peace be upon him, when he lost Joseph 7 00:00:46,329 --> 00:00:51,429 He turned away from them and said, “How sorry for Joseph!” 8 00:00:51,929 --> 00:00:56,929 His eyes turned white with sadness, and he was depressed 9 00:00:57,429 --> 00:00:59,619 And I said to myself 10 00:01:00,119 --> 00:01:07,120 If every parent, living or dead, wrote a letter to his child 11 00:01:07,620 --> 00:01:13,780 What could he say? 12 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:18,969 It is a message and not like any other message 13 00:01:19,469 --> 00:01:23,969 A message from the middle gates of Paradise 14 00:01:24,469 --> 00:01:27,969 O Paradise of the Most Gracious, you are not cheap 15 00:01:28,469 --> 00:01:31,969 Rather, you are precious to the lazy 16 00:01:32,469 --> 00:01:35,469 Here is one of its doors 17 00:01:35,969 --> 00:01:39,469 Do not close it or suffer loss 18 00:01:39,969 --> 00:01:43,469 How do you close it and claim reason? 19 00:01:43,969 --> 00:01:47,969 Will the middle gates of Paradise be closed? 20 00:01:48,469 --> 00:01:52,969 Yes, he is the one who heard you 21 00:01:53,469 --> 00:01:56,969 Do not be heedless or lazy 22 00:01:57,469 --> 00:02:02,469 Father and father are the middle gates of Paradise 23 00:02:02,969 --> 00:02:06,469 He who is satisfied with the satisfaction of the Most Gracious 24 00:02:06,969 --> 00:02:11,469 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 25 00:02:11,969 --> 00:02:14,969 The satisfaction of the Lord is in the satisfaction of the father 26 00:02:15,469 --> 00:02:18,969 And the wrath of the Lord is in the wrath of the father 27 00:02:19,469 --> 00:02:21,969 A message from your father 28 00:02:22,469 --> 00:02:24,469 Yes, he is the father 29 00:02:24,969 --> 00:02:27,969 A word with few letters 30 00:02:28,469 --> 00:02:32,469 Great in her giving and feeling 31 00:02:32,969 --> 00:02:38,319 Father and father are not sufficient expressions 32 00:02:38,819 --> 00:02:41,319 Words do not lift him up 33 00:02:41,819 --> 00:02:44,819 Poems do not reward him 34 00:02:45,319 --> 00:02:48,819 No matter how much you praise and praise 35 00:02:49,319 --> 00:02:54,319 The father is the support if the money is on you 36 00:02:54,819 --> 00:02:59,319 He is your helper if days are bad for you 37 00:02:59,819 --> 00:03:02,819 His existence and his life are life 38 00:03:03,319 --> 00:03:06,819 His cruelty and guidance saved him 39 00:03:06,819 --> 00:03:12,319 The parent is the educator and guide without fail 40 00:03:12,819 --> 00:03:18,819 He is generous and generous to you without stinginess or killing 41 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,800 He takes of himself to give you 42 00:03:23,300 --> 00:03:26,300 And he will cut off his body to redeem you 43 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:30,300 Even if he doesn't give you what you wish for 44 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,800 He gave you everything he found and helped us 45 00:03:35,340 --> 00:03:48,340 It is a message whose ink is not ink 46 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,340 Its ink is the tears of the eyes 47 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,340 Tears of eyes 48 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,340 Tears of eyes 49 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:02,840 It is a message from me to you, my son 50 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:11,280 A letter from your father that I wrote and based on the life you spent with me 51 00:04:11,599 --> 00:04:17,399 Yes, my son, it is a message from me to you 52 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:22,240 So listen to her and bring your heart to her 53 00:04:22,519 --> 00:04:26,879 Perhaps you will find a landing place for her in your heart 54 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:32,879 My son, I am calling you, so listen to me 55 00:04:33,199 --> 00:04:36,680 I appeal to you, so do not reject me 56 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:43,360 I was one of the happiest people when I got the news that your mother was pregnant with you 57 00:04:43,879 --> 00:04:50,199 I was doing my best to be with your mother so that nothing would happen to you. 58 00:04:50,519 --> 00:04:58,230 My son, you do not need treatment or a hospital without being frightened 59 00:04:58,709 --> 00:05:01,980 Even from my dearest sleep 60 00:05:02,300 --> 00:05:06,500 I was counting the days and nights and waiting 61 00:05:06,819 --> 00:05:11,300 When will you come out into the world and my eyes will recognize you? 62 00:05:11,620 --> 00:05:16,899 When I left, it was the happiest moment of my life 63 00:05:17,339 --> 00:05:21,819 I look at you as if I look at myself 64 00:05:22,139 --> 00:05:25,899 How could you not when you are a part of me? 65 00:05:26,459 --> 00:05:29,860 You grow and my hope grows with you 66 00:05:30,259 --> 00:05:35,459 It is true, my son, that your mother is the one who feeds you 67 00:05:35,779 --> 00:05:40,180 But I am the one who strives and toils during the day 68 00:05:40,500 --> 00:05:44,139 To provide this food for you and your mother 69 00:05:45,139 --> 00:05:52,740 It is true, my son, that your mother was the one who changed your clothes for you 70 00:05:53,139 --> 00:05:58,939 But who paid for those clothes, my son? 71 00:05:59,220 --> 00:06:02,740 It is me who toils and toils 72 00:06:03,139 --> 00:06:09,379 My son, you were sleeping peacefully in your mother’s arms 73 00:06:09,779 --> 00:06:15,980 Who, O Tari, provided you with this house and everything in it? 74 00:06:16,379 --> 00:06:21,980 Who provided you with security so that you could sleep soundly? 75 00:06:22,579 --> 00:06:27,379 My son, if I am cruel to you, do not blame me 76 00:06:27,779 --> 00:06:32,579 I want you to be a man of religion and character 77 00:06:32,980 --> 00:06:37,579 Because of you, my Lord is pleased with me 78 00:06:37,980 --> 00:06:41,779 And raise my head in this world, my son 79 00:06:42,180 --> 00:06:46,579 My son, do not blame me for hitting you 80 00:06:46,980 --> 00:06:49,579 For me, your mistake is big 81 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:54,639 And I want you to be good and upright after me 82 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:58,240 Don't blame me for hitting you, my son 83 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:05,639 My son, I do not wish for anyone to be better than me except you 84 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,240 Yes, except you 85 00:07:08,639 --> 00:07:13,240 Rather, it is my wish that you become better than me 86 00:07:14,139 --> 00:07:20,939 My son, if heaven is under your mother’s feet 87 00:07:21,540 --> 00:07:24,339 I am the middle of the gates of heaven 88 00:07:25,269 --> 00:07:31,470 Didn't you listen to what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said in the authentic hadith? 89 00:07:31,870 --> 00:07:34,670 The father is the middle of the gates of Paradise 90 00:07:34,870 --> 00:07:37,870 So close that door or save it 91 00:07:38,269 --> 00:07:46,870 My son, did you not hear what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about the good hadith? 92 00:07:47,269 --> 00:07:51,870 Three prayers are answered, without a doubt 93 00:07:52,470 --> 00:07:59,269 The supplication of the father, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication of the oppressed 94 00:08:00,069 --> 00:08:03,670 My son, you are growing and growing 95 00:08:04,069 --> 00:08:11,769 My hopes are high to see you as a good man who is beneficial to your religion and your nation. 96 00:08:12,529 --> 00:08:17,730 My son, my bones have thinned and my hair has grown young 97 00:08:18,129 --> 00:08:22,529 And all I hope is that you will be righteous to me 98 00:08:22,930 --> 00:08:28,529 My son, I worked hard raising you to be a man 99 00:08:28,930 --> 00:08:33,730 Don't abandon me when you become a man 100 00:08:34,129 --> 00:08:41,730 My son, when you were young, I would never stop caring for you 101 00:08:42,129 --> 00:08:48,129 And guide you to all the good things you want in this world and the hereafter 102 00:08:48,529 --> 00:08:53,730 Do not fail to take care of me in my old age, my son 103 00:08:54,879 --> 00:09:00,480 You were young and unable to protect yourself, so you took shelter in me 104 00:09:00,879 --> 00:09:05,879 Now I want you to be by my side 105 00:09:06,279 --> 00:09:09,879 You had no money and I forgot 106 00:09:10,279 --> 00:09:14,480 I forgot the money you took from me 107 00:09:14,879 --> 00:09:17,879 And you were trying to take it 108 00:09:18,639 --> 00:09:19,840 My boy 109 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,440 If I am ashamed of anything from you 110 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:27,240 If you give me some of your money, do not be kind to me 111 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,440 So do not favor me, my son 112 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:35,840 Did you not listen to the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace? 113 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,240 You and your money belong to your father 114 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:40,840 Didn't you know, my son? 115 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:45,240 It is not permissible for anyone to give a gift 116 00:09:45,639 --> 00:09:48,840 Then only the father returns to it 117 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,840 Except for the father in what he gives to his child 118 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:58,039 This was also stated in the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 119 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,840 And the hadith is true 120 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:01,240 My boy 121 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:06,440 Everything I collect and everything I get from the world 122 00:10:07,039 --> 00:10:10,639 One day it will be your inheritance 123 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,440 Do not be stingy with my money, my son 124 00:10:15,039 --> 00:10:18,639 Do not be stingy with my money, my son 125 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:20,440 My boy 126 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,440 If I die, then wash me well 127 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:27,840 And bury me quickly if you are close to me 128 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:32,840 Even if you are far from me, pray for me more 129 00:10:33,639 --> 00:10:34,840 My boy 130 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:39,840 If my burden burdens you, remember those years 131 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:44,440 When I was playing with you and carrying you on my back 132 00:10:45,039 --> 00:10:46,240 My boy 133 00:10:46,639 --> 00:10:52,639 If the dust bothers you while you make me happy in my grave 134 00:10:53,039 --> 00:10:58,440 Remember how many times I wiped the dust off you with my hand 135 00:10:59,279 --> 00:11:00,480 My boy 136 00:11:00,879 --> 00:11:07,080 You were young and helpless, needing my care, my efforts, and my efforts 137 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:12,080 I am in my grave unable to obtain good deeds 138 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:16,080 Do not deprive me of it, for you are my hope 139 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:22,480 Didn't you hear what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said in the authentic hadith? 140 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:28,480 If the son of Adam dies, his work is cut off except for three 141 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:33,080 An ongoing charity or beneficial knowledge 142 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,279 Or a good son who prays for him 143 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,080 Be that good boy, my son 144 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,080 My boy 145 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,279 If I force you to memorize the Book of God 146 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,879 Know that I want good for you 147 00:11:50,279 --> 00:11:52,679 As I want it for myself 148 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:58,480 Didn't you hear the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace? 149 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,480 In the good hadith 150 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:07,679 The parents are dressed in two clothes that the world does not support 151 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:12,480 They say: “We are covered with this.” 152 00:12:12,879 --> 00:12:17,279 It is said that your child will learn the Qur’an 153 00:12:17,879 --> 00:12:21,879 Do not deprive me of that silver, my son 154 00:12:22,279 --> 00:12:27,080 And do not blame me for forcing you to memorize the Book of God 155 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:32,080 I only want good for you in this world and the hereafter 156 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,679 O giver 157 00:12:35,389 --> 00:12:37,990 If someone honored you one day 158 00:12:38,389 --> 00:12:42,389 I would have praised his good and beautiful deeds 159 00:12:42,789 --> 00:12:45,990 Where is the reward and loyalty to your father? 160 00:12:46,389 --> 00:12:48,190 A wonder to our hearts 161 00:12:48,590 --> 00:12:51,190 How do we sleep with our eyelids closed? 162 00:12:51,590 --> 00:12:53,990 And we laugh out of our mouths 163 00:12:54,389 --> 00:12:56,190 We keep company with whomever we want 164 00:12:56,590 --> 00:12:58,190 Whenever we want 165 00:12:58,789 --> 00:12:59,789 And we pray to them 166 00:13:00,190 --> 00:13:01,990 And we get closer to them 167 00:13:02,389 --> 00:13:03,990 We court them 168 00:13:04,190 --> 00:13:05,389 By giving 169 00:13:05,590 --> 00:13:07,389 And we get closer to them 170 00:13:07,590 --> 00:13:10,789 With the most beautiful words and gifts 171 00:13:11,389 --> 00:13:14,789 We are disobedient to the closest relatives 172 00:13:15,190 --> 00:13:17,789 They neglect their rights 173 00:13:18,190 --> 00:13:20,190 And they have waste 174 00:13:20,789 --> 00:13:24,389 And we turn to the commands of our Lord 175 00:13:24,990 --> 00:13:27,590 May God bless you 176 00:13:27,990 --> 00:13:30,990 To deny Paradise to the disobedient 177 00:13:31,590 --> 00:13:33,389 May God bless you 178 00:13:33,590 --> 00:13:37,190 That the disobedient will not be looked at on the Day of Resurrection 179 00:13:37,590 --> 00:13:41,190 It will not be accepted from him in exchange or justice 180 00:13:42,470 --> 00:13:45,669 You who get close to your friends 181 00:13:46,070 --> 00:13:49,070 And you are like stones to your father 182 00:13:49,269 --> 00:13:50,669 Or more cruel 183 00:13:51,070 --> 00:13:55,669 And there are stones from which rivers gush out 184 00:13:56,269 --> 00:14:00,070 And some of them fall out of fear of God 185 00:14:00,269 --> 00:14:04,669 Do you pretend to have reason when you are like stones to your father? 186 00:14:05,269 --> 00:14:07,470 O you who forgot your father 187 00:14:07,870 --> 00:14:11,070 O you who have been distracted by the world from your father 188 00:14:11,470 --> 00:14:13,870 Fear God 189 00:14:14,269 --> 00:14:17,269 Fear God 190 00:14:17,669 --> 00:14:20,070 Fear God regarding your father 191 00:14:20,470 --> 00:14:22,470 Fear the fire 192 00:14:22,870 --> 00:14:24,870 Fear the fire 193 00:14:25,269 --> 00:14:27,269 Fear the fire 194 00:14:27,870 --> 00:14:30,870 Its bottom is far 195 00:14:31,070 --> 00:14:33,470 And it's very hot 196 00:14:33,669 --> 00:14:35,870 Fear the fire 197 00:14:36,070 --> 00:14:38,470 Fear God regarding your father 198 00:14:38,669 --> 00:14:41,070 Whether alive or dead 199 00:14:41,269 --> 00:14:44,269 The reward is of the same type as the work 200 00:14:44,470 --> 00:14:46,470 Wake up, my son 201 00:14:46,669 --> 00:14:49,269 The years are fleeting 202 00:14:49,470 --> 00:14:52,070 Then you become an old father 203 00:14:52,269 --> 00:14:55,070 And you will write letters to your children 204 00:14:55,269 --> 00:14:56,470 With tears 205 00:14:56,669 --> 00:14:58,669 Like I wrote to you 206 00:14:58,870 --> 00:15:02,669 To the judge of the Day of Judgment we go 207 00:15:02,870 --> 00:15:06,070 With God, adversaries meet 208 00:15:06,470 --> 00:15:09,870 With God, adversaries meet 209 00:15:10,269 --> 00:15:12,669 Obey God as He commands 210 00:15:12,870 --> 00:15:15,269 And fill your heart with caution 211 00:15:15,470 --> 00:15:17,669 And obey your father 212 00:15:17,870 --> 00:15:20,269 He raised you when you were young 213 00:15:20,470 --> 00:15:22,470 And submit to him and accept him 214 00:15:22,470 --> 00:15:25,470 So his disobedience touched the grave 215 00:15:25,759 --> 00:15:27,759 Oh my boy 216 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,960 The last thing I would like to say is to you 217 00:15:32,519 --> 00:15:35,519 The father is not required of him 218 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,120 To treat you as you like 219 00:15:38,509 --> 00:15:41,909 But God commanded you to treat him 220 00:15:42,110 --> 00:15:43,509 With what he likes 221 00:15:43,710 --> 00:15:46,710 Oh God, grant us the righteousness of our fathers 222 00:15:46,909 --> 00:15:49,710 Oh God, grant us the righteousness of our fathers 223 00:15:49,909 --> 00:15:51,909 Alive and dead 224 00:15:52,110 --> 00:15:55,110 Oh God, grant us the righteousness of our fathers 225 00:15:55,309 --> 00:15:57,309 Alive and dead