1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 Riyad Al-Saleh from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:15,339 Chapter on seeking permission and its etiquette 3 00:00:15,339 --> 00:00:19,489 God Almighty said 4 00:00:19,489 --> 00:00:29,809 O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own until you have socialized yourself and greeted its people 5 00:00:29,809 --> 00:00:31,899 And the Almighty said 6 00:00:31,899 --> 00:00:39,899 And when your children reach puberty, let them ask for permission just as those before them asked for permission 7 00:00:39,899 --> 00:00:46,179 On the authority of Abu Musa Al-Ashari, may God be pleased with him, he said 8 00:00:46,179 --> 00:00:50,179 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 9 00:00:50,179 --> 00:00:56,179 Ask for permission three times: If he gives you permission, otherwise return 10 00:00:56,179 --> 00:00:59,429 Agreed 11 00:00:59,429 --> 00:01:01,429 One of the benefits of talking 12 00:01:01,429 --> 00:01:11,170 It is Sunnah to ask permission three times until the man has no excuse for not standing in front of the house 13 00:01:11,170 --> 00:01:20,170 If the owner of the house hears the call for permission, he may give permission whether he says the salutation once, twice, or three times 14 00:01:20,170 --> 00:01:25,620 It is not permissible for a man to enter the house except with the permission of its owner 15 00:01:25,620 --> 00:01:33,060 Returning from the door is not a disgrace to the owner of the house, nor is it a disgrace to the one who returns 16 00:01:33,060 --> 00:01:41,150 Rather, it is an application of the Book of God and the Sunnah of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 17 00:01:41,150 --> 00:01:45,150 On the authority of Sahl bin Saad, may God be pleased with him, he said: 18 00:01:45,150 --> 00:01:49,150 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 19 00:01:49,150 --> 00:01:53,219 He only requested permission for the sake of sight 20 00:01:53,219 --> 00:01:55,219 Agreed 21 00:01:55,219 --> 00:01:58,019 One of the benefits of talking 22 00:01:58,019 --> 00:02:04,659 Explaining the reason why it is permissible to ask for permission, which is for consideration 23 00:02:04,659 --> 00:02:10,659 Asking for permission prevents someone from seeing what he hates inside his house 24 00:02:10,659 --> 00:02:15,039 It indicates the legitimacy of measurement and reasons 25 00:02:15,039 --> 00:02:20,039 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace, is about sight 26 00:02:20,039 --> 00:02:24,039 It indicates that prohibition and analysis relate to things 27 00:02:24,039 --> 00:02:28,039 Whenever it is found in something, it must be judged 28 00:02:28,039 --> 00:02:32,550 Murr does not need permission to enter his house 29 00:02:32,550 --> 00:02:36,550 To lose the reason for which permission was prescribed 30 00:02:36,550 --> 00:02:42,550 If it is possible that what he needs will be renewed with him, it is permissible for him 31 00:02:42,550 --> 00:02:48,030 It is prescribed for everyone to ask for permission, even mahrams 32 00:02:48,030 --> 00:02:51,030 Because her private parts are not exposed 33 00:02:52,030 --> 00:02:56,150 On the authority of Rab’i bin Harash, he said: 34 00:02:56,150 --> 00:03:01,150 A man from Bani Amir told us that he asked permission to come to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 35 00:03:01,150 --> 00:03:03,150 He is in a house 36 00:03:03,150 --> 00:03:06,150 And he said 37 00:03:06,150 --> 00:03:10,180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to his servant 38 00:03:10,180 --> 00:03:14,180 Go out to this and teach him to ask for permission 39 00:03:14,180 --> 00:03:16,180 So tell him 40 00:03:16,180 --> 00:03:18,180 Say peace be upon you 41 00:03:18,180 --> 00:03:20,180 Enter 42 00:03:20,180 --> 00:03:23,180 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, gave him permission 43 00:03:23,180 --> 00:03:25,180 So he entered 44 00:03:25,180 --> 00:03:28,180 Narrated by Abu Dawood 45 00:03:28,180 --> 00:03:30,180 One of the benefits of talking 46 00:03:30,180 --> 00:03:34,979 Evidence that permission to enter is not delivered 47 00:03:34,979 --> 00:03:39,270 Mere surrender is not permission to enter 48 00:03:39,270 --> 00:03:44,270 Teaching people how to ask permission and greet people 49 00:03:44,270 --> 00:03:47,719 Aspects 50 00:03:47,719 --> 00:03:50,719 How to ask permission and greet people 51 00:03:50,719 --> 00:03:56,139 It is permissible to take knowledge from someone you know has the truth 52 00:03:56,139 --> 00:03:59,550 It is permissible to communicate knowledge through intermediary 53 00:03:59,550 --> 00:04:02,550 If it can be delivered as is 54 00:04:02,550 --> 00:04:05,550 Without distortion or alteration 55 00:04:05,550 --> 00:04:10,610 On the authority of Kalada bin Al-Hanbal, may God be pleased with him, he said 56 00:04:10,610 --> 00:04:13,610 I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 57 00:04:13,610 --> 00:04:16,610 So I entered upon him and did not greet him 58 00:04:16,610 --> 00:04:19,610 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 59 00:04:19,610 --> 00:04:23,610 Come back and say peace be upon you 60 00:04:23,610 --> 00:04:25,610 Enter 61 00:04:25,610 --> 00:04:28,670 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 62 00:04:28,670 --> 00:04:32,410 One of the benefits of talking 63 00:04:32,410 --> 00:04:35,699 Internal delivery is required 64 00:04:35,699 --> 00:04:37,699 Peace be upon you before speaking 65 00:04:37,699 --> 00:04:40,699 Whoever enters before he greets 66 00:04:40,699 --> 00:04:44,079 He does not speak until he greets 67 00:04:44,079 --> 00:04:46,079 Permissibility of return inside 68 00:04:46,079 --> 00:04:49,079 To learn how to ask permission 69 00:04:49,079 --> 00:04:51,079 If it does not result 70 00:04:51,079 --> 00:04:53,079 Greater harm than that 71 00:04:53,079 --> 00:04:55,079 Kurdah and the like 72 00:04:55,079 --> 00:04:59,959 Chapter on explaining that the Sunnah 73 00:04:59,959 --> 00:05:02,959 If the person seeking permission is asked, “Who are you?” 74 00:05:02,959 --> 00:05:04,959 That so-and-so says 75 00:05:04,959 --> 00:05:06,959 He calls himself what he is known for 76 00:05:06,959 --> 00:05:08,959 From a name or nickname 77 00:05:08,959 --> 00:05:12,959 It is disliked to say “I” and the like 78 00:05:12,959 --> 00:05:16,139 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him 79 00:05:16,139 --> 00:05:18,139 In his famous hadith about the Night Journey 80 00:05:18,139 --> 00:05:20,139 He said 81 00:05:20,139 --> 00:05:23,139 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 82 00:05:23,139 --> 00:05:25,139 Then Gabriel brought me up 83 00:05:25,139 --> 00:05:28,139 To the lowest heaven and ask for it to be opened 84 00:05:28,139 --> 00:05:31,139 It was said about this 85 00:05:31,139 --> 00:05:33,139 Gabriel said 86 00:05:33,139 --> 00:05:36,180 It was said: Who is with you? 87 00:05:36,180 --> 00:05:39,180 Muhammad said 88 00:05:39,180 --> 00:05:41,180 Then he ascended to the second heaven 89 00:05:41,180 --> 00:05:43,180 The third and fourth 90 00:05:43,180 --> 00:05:45,180 And all the others 91 00:05:45,180 --> 00:05:47,180 It is said in the chapter on every sky 92 00:05:47,180 --> 00:05:49,180 Who is this? 93 00:05:49,180 --> 00:05:52,180 Gabriel says: 94 00:05:52,180 --> 00:05:54,180 Agreed 95 00:05:54,180 --> 00:05:57,009 One of the benefits of talking 96 00:05:57,009 --> 00:06:01,300 Evidence of the ascension of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 97 00:06:01,300 --> 00:06:04,300 From Jerusalem in the land of Palestine 98 00:06:04,300 --> 00:06:06,839 To the sky 99 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,839 The first heaven is called the lowest heaven 100 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,839 This is due to its proximity to the people 101 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,839 For others 102 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,420 Evidence of permission 103 00:06:17,420 --> 00:06:21,420 And this also exists for the people of heaven 104 00:06:21,420 --> 00:06:23,420 And he does not enter heaven 105 00:06:23,420 --> 00:06:25,420 Except for whom God permits 106 00:06:25,420 --> 00:06:27,420 By entering it 107 00:06:27,420 --> 00:06:30,990 Evidence that the authorized person shows his name 108 00:06:30,990 --> 00:06:33,990 So that the family can recognize him 109 00:06:33,990 --> 00:06:39,180 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said 110 00:06:39,180 --> 00:06:42,180 I went out one night 111 00:06:42,180 --> 00:06:45,180 So, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 112 00:06:45,180 --> 00:06:47,180 He walks alone 113 00:06:48,209 --> 00:06:51,209 So I started walking in the shadow of the moon 114 00:06:51,209 --> 00:06:53,209 He turned and saw me 115 00:06:53,209 --> 00:06:56,209 He said who is this? 116 00:06:56,209 --> 00:06:59,209 I said: Abu Dharr 117 00:06:59,209 --> 00:07:01,269 Agreed 118 00:07:01,269 --> 00:07:05,459 One of the benefits of talking 119 00:07:05,459 --> 00:07:08,459 Permissibility to walk alone at night 120 00:07:08,459 --> 00:07:11,709 If a man fears for my brother 121 00:07:11,709 --> 00:07:13,709 He may monitor him 122 00:07:13,709 --> 00:07:15,709 And to be close to him 123 00:07:15,709 --> 00:07:17,709 Maybe he needs it 124 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,160 It is desirable to introduce the questioner by name 125 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:26,860 On the authority of Umm Hani, may God be pleased with her, she said: 126 00:07:26,860 --> 00:07:29,860 I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 127 00:07:29,860 --> 00:07:31,860 He is taking a shower 128 00:07:31,860 --> 00:07:33,860 And Fatima covers it 129 00:07:33,860 --> 00:07:36,860 He said who is this? 130 00:07:36,860 --> 00:07:39,860 So I said, “I am Umm Hani.” 131 00:07:39,860 --> 00:07:41,889 Agreed 132 00:07:41,889 --> 00:07:45,300 On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him, he said: 133 00:07:45,300 --> 00:07:48,300 I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 134 00:07:48,300 --> 00:07:50,300 So I checked the door 135 00:07:50,300 --> 00:07:53,300 He said who is that? 136 00:07:53,300 --> 00:07:55,300 So I said, “I am.” 137 00:07:55,300 --> 00:07:58,339 He said, “I am.” 138 00:07:58,339 --> 00:08:01,339 As if he hated her 139 00:08:01,339 --> 00:08:03,370 Agreed 140 00:08:03,370 --> 00:08:07,420 One of the benefits of talking 141 00:08:07,420 --> 00:08:10,420 The first request for permission was to knock and knock on the door 142 00:08:10,420 --> 00:08:12,899 It is permissible to show boredom 143 00:08:12,899 --> 00:08:14,899 Whose name is not known 144 00:08:14,899 --> 00:08:20,819 When you knock on the door and ask for permission 145 00:08:20,819 --> 00:08:22,819 Chapter on the desirability of sneezing 146 00:08:22,819 --> 00:08:25,819 If God Almighty is praised 147 00:08:25,819 --> 00:08:29,819 It is disliked to insult him if he does not praise God Almighty 148 00:08:29,819 --> 00:08:34,820 Explaining the etiquette of gloating, sneezing, and yawning 149 00:08:34,820 --> 00:08:39,100 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 150 00:08:39,100 --> 00:08:43,129 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 151 00:08:43,129 --> 00:08:46,129 God loves sneezing 152 00:08:46,129 --> 00:08:48,129 He hates yawning 153 00:08:48,129 --> 00:08:50,129 If one of you sneezes 154 00:08:50,129 --> 00:08:52,129 And praise be to God Almighty 155 00:08:52,129 --> 00:08:55,129 It was true for every Muslim who heard it 156 00:08:55,129 --> 00:08:57,129 To tell him 157 00:08:57,129 --> 00:08:59,129 May God have mercy on you 158 00:08:59,129 --> 00:09:01,129 As for yawning 159 00:09:01,129 --> 00:09:03,129 It is from Satan 160 00:09:03,129 --> 00:09:05,129 If one of you yawns 161 00:09:05,129 --> 00:09:08,129 Let him return it as much as he can 162 00:09:08,129 --> 00:09:11,159 If one of you yawns 163 00:09:11,159 --> 00:09:14,259 Satan laughed at him 164 00:09:14,259 --> 00:09:16,259 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 165 00:09:16,259 --> 00:09:20,500 One of the benefits of talking 166 00:09:20,500 --> 00:09:25,500 God Almighty loves sneezing and hates yawning 167 00:09:25,500 --> 00:09:30,210 It is desirable for the sneezer to take the initiative to gloat 168 00:09:30,210 --> 00:09:32,210 A sneezer does not gloat 169 00:09:32,210 --> 00:09:35,210 Unless he praises God Almighty 170 00:09:35,210 --> 00:09:40,590 Giving praise is only permissible for the one who hears the sneezer and hears his praise 171 00:09:40,590 --> 00:09:43,590 If he heard someone gloating at someone else 172 00:09:43,590 --> 00:09:46,590 Neither his sneezing nor his praise was heard 173 00:09:46,590 --> 00:09:49,139 Don't gloat over it 174 00:09:49,139 --> 00:09:53,620 Everyone who heard him had to gloat over him 175 00:09:53,620 --> 00:09:57,620 Satan controls human beings through yawning 176 00:09:57,620 --> 00:10:01,620 This is so that they may be inactive in their worship and not active 177 00:10:01,620 --> 00:10:04,940 Every yawn of the devil 178 00:10:04,940 --> 00:10:06,940 It is necessary for those who solve it 179 00:10:06,940 --> 00:10:09,940 To suppress it as much as possible 180 00:10:09,940 --> 00:10:15,259 Explaining that Satan laughs at those who possess him 181 00:10:15,259 --> 00:10:19,409 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 182 00:10:19,409 --> 00:10:23,409 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 183 00:10:23,409 --> 00:10:28,409 If one of you sneezes, let him say, “Praise be to God.” 184 00:10:28,409 --> 00:10:31,409 Let his brother or friend tell him 185 00:10:31,409 --> 00:10:33,409 May God have mercy on you 186 00:10:33,409 --> 00:10:36,409 If he says to him, may God have mercy on you 187 00:10:36,409 --> 00:10:41,409 Let him say, “May God guide you and set your mind at ease.” 188 00:10:41,409 --> 00:10:44,570 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 189 00:10:44,570 --> 00:10:47,460 One of the benefits of talking 190 00:10:47,460 --> 00:10:51,559 Teaching the nation how to worship during Al-Attas 191 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:55,559 And how to respond when adhering to the guidance of prophecy 192 00:10:55,559 --> 00:11:01,139 Evidence of the great blessing of God Almighty upon the sneezer 193 00:11:01,139 --> 00:11:05,139 This is taken from the good that has been brought about by him 194 00:11:05,139 --> 00:11:10,519 An indication of the great favor of God Almighty upon His servant 195 00:11:10,519 --> 00:11:14,840 The harm was removed from him by the grace of sneezing 196 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,840 An explanation of the grace of God Almighty upon the servant 197 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,840 As He prescribed for Him the praise that will be rewarded 198 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:26,220 Praying for goodness for those who started you with a good prayer 199 00:11:26,220 --> 00:11:31,379 On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said: 200 00:11:31,379 --> 00:11:35,379 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say 201 00:11:35,379 --> 00:11:40,379 If one of you sneezes, thank God and smell him 202 00:11:40,379 --> 00:11:44,470 If he does not praise God, do not gloat over him 203 00:11:44,470 --> 00:11:46,730 Narrated by Muslim 204 00:11:46,730 --> 00:11:49,730 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 205 00:11:49,730 --> 00:11:54,730 Two men sneezed in front of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 206 00:11:54,730 --> 00:11:58,730 One of them gloated, but the other did not 207 00:11:58,730 --> 00:12:01,730 He said that he did not smell it 208 00:12:01,730 --> 00:12:04,730 So-and-so sneezed and I gloated at him 209 00:12:04,730 --> 00:12:07,759 I sneezed and she did not smell me 210 00:12:07,759 --> 00:12:10,759 He said: This is praise be to God 211 00:12:10,759 --> 00:12:13,860 And you did not thank God 212 00:12:13,860 --> 00:12:15,860 Agreed 213 00:12:15,860 --> 00:12:19,909 One of the benefits of talking 214 00:12:19,909 --> 00:12:22,909 It is permissible to ask an inquiry about the reason for a matter 215 00:12:22,909 --> 00:12:25,909 His truth is hidden from the questioner 216 00:12:25,909 --> 00:12:31,059 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 217 00:12:31,059 --> 00:12:35,059 Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sneezed 218 00:12:35,059 --> 00:12:39,059 He put his hand or his garment on his mouth 219 00:12:39,059 --> 00:12:42,059 And he lowered or lowered his voice 220 00:12:42,059 --> 00:12:44,190 complained a narrator 221 00:12:44,190 --> 00:12:47,190 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 222 00:12:47,190 --> 00:12:51,250 One of the benefits of talking 223 00:12:51,250 --> 00:12:53,250 Explaining etiquette in sneezing 224 00:12:53,250 --> 00:12:56,250 This is so that he does not harm those around him 225 00:12:56,250 --> 00:13:00,250 With what comes out of his mouth, such as saliva, spit, and the like 226 00:13:00,250 --> 00:13:03,659 Protecting Muslims from harm 227 00:13:03,659 --> 00:13:07,179 It is obligatory as much as possible 228 00:13:07,179 --> 00:13:10,179 Disturbing Muslims with a loud Bedouin 229 00:13:10,179 --> 00:13:13,179 When sneezing, it is not permissible 230 00:13:13,179 --> 00:13:16,179 The volume should be reduced as much as possible 231 00:13:16,179 --> 00:13:20,179 And what he is not able to do, he does not have to do it 232 00:13:20,179 --> 00:13:24,230 On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said: 233 00:13:24,230 --> 00:13:30,230 The Jews were socializing with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 234 00:13:30,230 --> 00:13:32,230 They hope he tells them 235 00:13:32,230 --> 00:13:34,230 May God have mercy on you 236 00:13:34,230 --> 00:13:36,230 And he says 237 00:13:36,230 --> 00:13:39,230 May God guide you and set your mind at ease 238 00:13:39,230 --> 00:13:43,230 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 239 00:13:43,230 --> 00:13:46,059 One of the benefits of talking 240 00:13:46,059 --> 00:13:53,320 The Jews were rushing to receive supplication from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 241 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,320 Because they knew deep down that he was a prophet 242 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,740 Jews are by nature deceitful and lying 243 00:14:00,740 --> 00:14:04,740 It is not permissible to go along with their deception and lies 244 00:14:04,740 --> 00:14:08,740 Rather, he responds to them in a way that suits the situation 245 00:14:08,740 --> 00:14:12,149 It is not said to the People of the Book when sneezing 246 00:14:12,149 --> 00:14:14,149 What is reserved for people of faith 247 00:14:14,149 --> 00:14:19,149 This is because what they need most is guidance 248 00:14:19,149 --> 00:14:22,149 It is the greatest mercy from God to them 249 00:14:22,149 --> 00:14:28,080 On the authority of Abu Saeed Al-Khudri, may God be pleased with him, he said 250 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,080 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 251 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:37,080 If one of you yawns, let him hold his hand over his mouth 252 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:40,240 Satan enters 253 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,240 Narrated by Muslim 254 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,100 One of the benefits of talking 255 00:14:45,100 --> 00:14:48,549 It indicates that yawning is from the devil 256 00:14:48,549 --> 00:14:51,549 To push the yawner to laziness 257 00:14:51,549 --> 00:14:54,940 Satan watches the negligence of the son of Adam 258 00:14:54,940 --> 00:14:56,940 To make fun of him 259 00:14:56,940 --> 00:14:59,940 He gets into it and laughs at him 260 00:14:59,940 --> 00:15:03,940 There is nothing more beautiful than this moment for him 261 00:15:03,940 --> 00:15:07,350 Guidance to repel Satan's machinations 262 00:15:07,350 --> 00:15:11,350 This is done by placing the hand over the mouth when yawning 263 00:15:11,350 --> 00:15:14,350 This has significance for a Muslim 264 00:15:14,350 --> 00:15:17,350 To fight Satan by every means 265 00:15:17,350 --> 00:15:20,350 God has made this clear to His servants 266 00:15:20,350 --> 00:15:23,350 To protect them from the evils of Satan 267 00:15:23,350 --> 00:15:25,350 He suppresses his arrogance 268 00:15:25,350 --> 00:15:29,480 Riyadh Al-Salehin