Riyad Al-Saleh from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace
Chapter on seeking permission and its etiquette
God Almighty said
O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own until you have socialized yourself and greeted its people
And the Almighty said
And when your children reach puberty, let them ask for permission just as those before them asked for permission
On the authority of Abu Musa Al-Ashari, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Ask for permission three times: If he gives you permission, otherwise return
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
It is Sunnah to ask permission three times until the man has no excuse for not standing in front of the house
If the owner of the house hears the call for permission, he may give permission whether he says the salutation once, twice, or three times
It is not permissible for a man to enter the house except with the permission of its owner
Returning from the door is not a disgrace to the owner of the house, nor is it a disgrace to the one who returns
Rather, it is an application of the Book of God and the Sunnah of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
On the authority of Sahl bin Saad, may God be pleased with him, he said:
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
He only requested permission for the sake of sight
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
Explaining the reason why it is permissible to ask for permission, which is for consideration
Asking for permission prevents someone from seeing what he hates inside his house
It indicates the legitimacy of measurement and reasons
His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace, is about sight
It indicates that prohibition and analysis relate to things
Whenever it is found in something, it must be judged
Murr does not need permission to enter his house
To lose the reason for which permission was prescribed
If it is possible that what he needs will be renewed with him, it is permissible for him
It is prescribed for everyone to ask for permission, even mahrams
Because her private parts are not exposed
On the authority of Rab’i bin Harash, he said:
A man from Bani Amir told us that he asked permission to come to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He is in a house
And he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to his servant
Go out to this and teach him to ask for permission
So tell him
Say peace be upon you
Enter
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, gave him permission
So he entered
Narrated by Abu Dawood
One of the benefits of talking
Evidence that permission to enter is not delivered
Mere surrender is not permission to enter
Teaching people how to ask permission and greet people
Aspects
How to ask permission and greet people
It is permissible to take knowledge from someone you know has the truth
It is permissible to communicate knowledge through intermediary
If it can be delivered as is
Without distortion or alteration
On the authority of Kalada bin Al-Hanbal, may God be pleased with him, he said
I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I entered upon him and did not greet him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Come back and say peace be upon you
Enter
Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
Internal delivery is required
Peace be upon you before speaking
Whoever enters before he greets
He does not speak until he greets
Permissibility of return inside
To learn how to ask permission
If it does not result
Greater harm than that
Kurdah and the like
Chapter on explaining that the Sunnah
If the person seeking permission is asked, “Who are you?”
That so-and-so says
He calls himself what he is known for
From a name or nickname
It is disliked to say “I” and the like
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him
In his famous hadith about the Night Journey
He said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Then Gabriel brought me up
To the lowest heaven and ask for it to be opened
It was said about this
Gabriel said
It was said: Who is with you?
Muhammad said
Then he ascended to the second heaven
The third and fourth
And all the others
It is said in the chapter on every sky
Who is this?
Gabriel says:
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
Evidence of the ascension of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
From Jerusalem in the land of Palestine
To the sky
The first heaven is called the lowest heaven
This is due to its proximity to the people
For others
Evidence of permission
And this also exists for the people of heaven
And he does not enter heaven
Except for whom God permits
By entering it
Evidence that the authorized person shows his name
So that the family can recognize him
On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said
I went out one night
So, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
He walks alone
So I started walking in the shadow of the moon
He turned and saw me
He said who is this?
I said: Abu Dharr
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
Permissibility to walk alone at night
If a man fears for my brother
He may monitor him
And to be close to him
Maybe he needs it
It is desirable to introduce the questioner by name
On the authority of Umm Hani, may God be pleased with her, she said:
I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He is taking a shower
And Fatima covers it
He said who is this?
So I said, “I am Umm Hani.”
Agreed
On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him, he said:
I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I checked the door
He said who is that?
So I said, “I am.”
He said, “I am.”
As if he hated her
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
The first request for permission was to knock and knock on the door
It is permissible to show boredom
Whose name is not known
When you knock on the door and ask for permission
Chapter on the desirability of sneezing
If God Almighty is praised
It is disliked to insult him if he does not praise God Almighty
Explaining the etiquette of gloating, sneezing, and yawning
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
God loves sneezing
He hates yawning
If one of you sneezes
And praise be to God Almighty
It was true for every Muslim who heard it
To tell him
May God have mercy on you
As for yawning
It is from Satan
If one of you yawns
Let him return it as much as he can
If one of you yawns
Satan laughed at him
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
One of the benefits of talking
God Almighty loves sneezing and hates yawning
It is desirable for the sneezer to take the initiative to gloat
A sneezer does not gloat
Unless he praises God Almighty
Giving praise is only permissible for the one who hears the sneezer and hears his praise
If he heard someone gloating at someone else
Neither his sneezing nor his praise was heard
Don't gloat over it
Everyone who heard him had to gloat over him
Satan controls human beings through yawning
This is so that they may be inactive in their worship and not active
Every yawn of the devil
It is necessary for those who solve it
To suppress it as much as possible
Explaining that Satan laughs at those who possess him
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
If one of you sneezes, let him say, “Praise be to God.”
Let his brother or friend tell him
May God have mercy on you
If he says to him, may God have mercy on you
Let him say, “May God guide you and set your mind at ease.”
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
One of the benefits of talking
Teaching the nation how to worship during Al-Attas
And how to respond when adhering to the guidance of prophecy
Evidence of the great blessing of God Almighty upon the sneezer
This is taken from the good that has been brought about by him
An indication of the great favor of God Almighty upon His servant
The harm was removed from him by the grace of sneezing
An explanation of the grace of God Almighty upon the servant
As He prescribed for Him the praise that will be rewarded
Praying for goodness for those who started you with a good prayer
On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said:
I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say
If one of you sneezes, thank God and smell him
If he does not praise God, do not gloat over him
Narrated by Muslim
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
Two men sneezed in front of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
One of them gloated, but the other did not
He said that he did not smell it
So-and-so sneezed and I gloated at him
I sneezed and she did not smell me
He said: This is praise be to God
And you did not thank God
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
It is permissible to ask an inquiry about the reason for a matter
His truth is hidden from the questioner
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sneezed
He put his hand or his garment on his mouth
And he lowered or lowered his voice
complained a narrator
Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
Explaining etiquette in sneezing
This is so that he does not harm those around him
With what comes out of his mouth, such as saliva, spit, and the like
Protecting Muslims from harm
It is obligatory as much as possible
Disturbing Muslims with a loud Bedouin
When sneezing, it is not permissible
The volume should be reduced as much as possible
And what he is not able to do, he does not have to do it
On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said:
The Jews were socializing with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
They hope he tells them
May God have mercy on you
And he says
May God guide you and set your mind at ease
Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
The Jews were rushing to receive supplication from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Because they knew deep down that he was a prophet
Jews are by nature deceitful and lying
It is not permissible to go along with their deception and lies
Rather, he responds to them in a way that suits the situation
It is not said to the People of the Book when sneezing
What is reserved for people of faith
This is because what they need most is guidance
It is the greatest mercy from God to them
On the authority of Abu Saeed Al-Khudri, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
If one of you yawns, let him hold his hand over his mouth
Satan enters
Narrated by Muslim
One of the benefits of talking
It indicates that yawning is from the devil
To push the yawner to laziness
Satan watches the negligence of the son of Adam
To make fun of him
He gets into it and laughs at him
There is nothing more beautiful than this moment for him
Guidance to repel Satan's machinations
This is done by placing the hand over the mouth when yawning
This has significance for a Muslim
To fight Satan by every means
God has made this clear to His servants
To protect them from the evils of Satan
He suppresses his arrogance
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