WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:09.779 Riyad Al-Saleh from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:15.339 Chapter on seeking permission and its etiquette 00:00:15.339 --> 00:00:19.489 God Almighty said 00:00:19.489 --> 00:00:29.809 O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own until you have socialized yourself and greeted its people 00:00:29.809 --> 00:00:31.899 And the Almighty said 00:00:31.899 --> 00:00:39.899 And when your children reach puberty, let them ask for permission just as those before them asked for permission 00:00:39.899 --> 00:00:46.179 On the authority of Abu Musa Al-Ashari, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:00:46.179 --> 00:00:50.179 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:00:50.179 --> 00:00:56.179 Ask for permission three times: If he gives you permission, otherwise return 00:00:56.179 --> 00:00:59.429 Agreed 00:00:59.429 --> 00:01:01.429 One of the benefits of talking 00:01:01.429 --> 00:01:11.170 It is Sunnah to ask permission three times until the man has no excuse for not standing in front of the house 00:01:11.170 --> 00:01:20.170 If the owner of the house hears the call for permission, he may give permission whether he says the salutation once, twice, or three times 00:01:20.170 --> 00:01:25.620 It is not permissible for a man to enter the house except with the permission of its owner 00:01:25.620 --> 00:01:33.060 Returning from the door is not a disgrace to the owner of the house, nor is it a disgrace to the one who returns 00:01:33.060 --> 00:01:41.150 Rather, it is an application of the Book of God and the Sunnah of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:41.150 --> 00:01:45.150 On the authority of Sahl bin Saad, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:01:45.150 --> 00:01:49.150 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:49.150 --> 00:01:53.219 He only requested permission for the sake of sight 00:01:53.219 --> 00:01:55.219 Agreed 00:01:55.219 --> 00:01:58.019 One of the benefits of talking 00:01:58.019 --> 00:02:04.659 Explaining the reason why it is permissible to ask for permission, which is for consideration 00:02:04.659 --> 00:02:10.659 Asking for permission prevents someone from seeing what he hates inside his house 00:02:10.659 --> 00:02:15.039 It indicates the legitimacy of measurement and reasons 00:02:15.039 --> 00:02:20.039 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace, is about sight 00:02:20.039 --> 00:02:24.039 It indicates that prohibition and analysis relate to things 00:02:24.039 --> 00:02:28.039 Whenever it is found in something, it must be judged 00:02:28.039 --> 00:02:32.550 Murr does not need permission to enter his house 00:02:32.550 --> 00:02:36.550 To lose the reason for which permission was prescribed 00:02:36.550 --> 00:02:42.550 If it is possible that what he needs will be renewed with him, it is permissible for him 00:02:42.550 --> 00:02:48.030 It is prescribed for everyone to ask for permission, even mahrams 00:02:48.030 --> 00:02:51.030 Because her private parts are not exposed 00:02:52.030 --> 00:02:56.150 On the authority of Rab’i bin Harash, he said: 00:02:56.150 --> 00:03:01.150 A man from Bani Amir told us that he asked permission to come to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:01.150 --> 00:03:03.150 He is in a house 00:03:03.150 --> 00:03:06.150 And he said 00:03:06.150 --> 00:03:10.180 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to his servant 00:03:10.180 --> 00:03:14.180 Go out to this and teach him to ask for permission 00:03:14.180 --> 00:03:16.180 So tell him 00:03:16.180 --> 00:03:18.180 Say peace be upon you 00:03:18.180 --> 00:03:20.180 Enter 00:03:20.180 --> 00:03:23.180 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, gave him permission 00:03:23.180 --> 00:03:25.180 So he entered 00:03:25.180 --> 00:03:28.180 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:03:28.180 --> 00:03:30.180 One of the benefits of talking 00:03:30.180 --> 00:03:34.979 Evidence that permission to enter is not delivered 00:03:34.979 --> 00:03:39.270 Mere surrender is not permission to enter 00:03:39.270 --> 00:03:44.270 Teaching people how to ask permission and greet people 00:03:44.270 --> 00:03:47.719 Aspects 00:03:47.719 --> 00:03:50.719 How to ask permission and greet people 00:03:50.719 --> 00:03:56.139 It is permissible to take knowledge from someone you know has the truth 00:03:56.139 --> 00:03:59.550 It is permissible to communicate knowledge through intermediary 00:03:59.550 --> 00:04:02.550 If it can be delivered as is 00:04:02.550 --> 00:04:05.550 Without distortion or alteration 00:04:05.550 --> 00:04:10.610 On the authority of Kalada bin Al-Hanbal, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:04:10.610 --> 00:04:13.610 I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:13.610 --> 00:04:16.610 So I entered upon him and did not greet him 00:04:16.610 --> 00:04:19.610 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:19.610 --> 00:04:23.610 Come back and say peace be upon you 00:04:23.610 --> 00:04:25.610 Enter 00:04:25.610 --> 00:04:28.670 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 00:04:28.670 --> 00:04:32.410 One of the benefits of talking 00:04:32.410 --> 00:04:35.699 Internal delivery is required 00:04:35.699 --> 00:04:37.699 Peace be upon you before speaking 00:04:37.699 --> 00:04:40.699 Whoever enters before he greets 00:04:40.699 --> 00:04:44.079 He does not speak until he greets 00:04:44.079 --> 00:04:46.079 Permissibility of return inside 00:04:46.079 --> 00:04:49.079 To learn how to ask permission 00:04:49.079 --> 00:04:51.079 If it does not result 00:04:51.079 --> 00:04:53.079 Greater harm than that 00:04:53.079 --> 00:04:55.079 Kurdah and the like 00:04:55.079 --> 00:04:59.959 Chapter on explaining that the Sunnah 00:04:59.959 --> 00:05:02.959 If the person seeking permission is asked, “Who are you?” 00:05:02.959 --> 00:05:04.959 That so-and-so says 00:05:04.959 --> 00:05:06.959 He calls himself what he is known for 00:05:06.959 --> 00:05:08.959 From a name or nickname 00:05:08.959 --> 00:05:12.959 It is disliked to say “I” and the like 00:05:12.959 --> 00:05:16.139 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him 00:05:16.139 --> 00:05:18.139 In his famous hadith about the Night Journey 00:05:18.139 --> 00:05:20.139 He said 00:05:20.139 --> 00:05:23.139 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:23.139 --> 00:05:25.139 Then Gabriel brought me up 00:05:25.139 --> 00:05:28.139 To the lowest heaven and ask for it to be opened 00:05:28.139 --> 00:05:31.139 It was said about this 00:05:31.139 --> 00:05:33.139 Gabriel said 00:05:33.139 --> 00:05:36.180 It was said: Who is with you? 00:05:36.180 --> 00:05:39.180 Muhammad said 00:05:39.180 --> 00:05:41.180 Then he ascended to the second heaven 00:05:41.180 --> 00:05:43.180 The third and fourth 00:05:43.180 --> 00:05:45.180 And all the others 00:05:45.180 --> 00:05:47.180 It is said in the chapter on every sky 00:05:47.180 --> 00:05:49.180 Who is this? 00:05:49.180 --> 00:05:52.180 Gabriel says: 00:05:52.180 --> 00:05:54.180 Agreed 00:05:54.180 --> 00:05:57.009 One of the benefits of talking 00:05:57.009 --> 00:06:01.300 Evidence of the ascension of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:01.300 --> 00:06:04.300 From Jerusalem in the land of Palestine 00:06:04.300 --> 00:06:06.839 To the sky 00:06:06.839 --> 00:06:09.839 The first heaven is called the lowest heaven 00:06:09.839 --> 00:06:12.839 This is due to its proximity to the people 00:06:12.839 --> 00:06:14.839 For others 00:06:14.839 --> 00:06:17.420 Evidence of permission 00:06:17.420 --> 00:06:21.420 And this also exists for the people of heaven 00:06:21.420 --> 00:06:23.420 And he does not enter heaven 00:06:23.420 --> 00:06:25.420 Except for whom God permits 00:06:25.420 --> 00:06:27.420 By entering it 00:06:27.420 --> 00:06:30.990 Evidence that the authorized person shows his name 00:06:30.990 --> 00:06:33.990 So that the family can recognize him 00:06:33.990 --> 00:06:39.180 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:06:39.180 --> 00:06:42.180 I went out one night 00:06:42.180 --> 00:06:45.180 So, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:45.180 --> 00:06:47.180 He walks alone 00:06:48.209 --> 00:06:51.209 So I started walking in the shadow of the moon 00:06:51.209 --> 00:06:53.209 He turned and saw me 00:06:53.209 --> 00:06:56.209 He said who is this? 00:06:56.209 --> 00:06:59.209 I said: Abu Dharr 00:06:59.209 --> 00:07:01.269 Agreed 00:07:01.269 --> 00:07:05.459 One of the benefits of talking 00:07:05.459 --> 00:07:08.459 Permissibility to walk alone at night 00:07:08.459 --> 00:07:11.709 If a man fears for my brother 00:07:11.709 --> 00:07:13.709 He may monitor him 00:07:13.709 --> 00:07:15.709 And to be close to him 00:07:15.709 --> 00:07:17.709 Maybe he needs it 00:07:18.160 --> 00:07:21.160 It is desirable to introduce the questioner by name 00:07:21.160 --> 00:07:26.860 On the authority of Umm Hani, may God be pleased with her, she said: 00:07:26.860 --> 00:07:29.860 I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:29.860 --> 00:07:31.860 He is taking a shower 00:07:31.860 --> 00:07:33.860 And Fatima covers it 00:07:33.860 --> 00:07:36.860 He said who is this? 00:07:36.860 --> 00:07:39.860 So I said, “I am Umm Hani.” 00:07:39.860 --> 00:07:41.889 Agreed 00:07:41.889 --> 00:07:45.300 On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:07:45.300 --> 00:07:48.300 I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:48.300 --> 00:07:50.300 So I checked the door 00:07:50.300 --> 00:07:53.300 He said who is that? 00:07:53.300 --> 00:07:55.300 So I said, “I am.” 00:07:55.300 --> 00:07:58.339 He said, “I am.” 00:07:58.339 --> 00:08:01.339 As if he hated her 00:08:01.339 --> 00:08:03.370 Agreed 00:08:03.370 --> 00:08:07.420 One of the benefits of talking 00:08:07.420 --> 00:08:10.420 The first request for permission was to knock and knock on the door 00:08:10.420 --> 00:08:12.899 It is permissible to show boredom 00:08:12.899 --> 00:08:14.899 Whose name is not known 00:08:14.899 --> 00:08:20.819 When you knock on the door and ask for permission 00:08:20.819 --> 00:08:22.819 Chapter on the desirability of sneezing 00:08:22.819 --> 00:08:25.819 If God Almighty is praised 00:08:25.819 --> 00:08:29.819 It is disliked to insult him if he does not praise God Almighty 00:08:29.819 --> 00:08:34.820 Explaining the etiquette of gloating, sneezing, and yawning 00:08:34.820 --> 00:08:39.100 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:08:39.100 --> 00:08:43.129 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:08:43.129 --> 00:08:46.129 God loves sneezing 00:08:46.129 --> 00:08:48.129 He hates yawning 00:08:48.129 --> 00:08:50.129 If one of you sneezes 00:08:50.129 --> 00:08:52.129 And praise be to God Almighty 00:08:52.129 --> 00:08:55.129 It was true for every Muslim who heard it 00:08:55.129 --> 00:08:57.129 To tell him 00:08:57.129 --> 00:08:59.129 May God have mercy on you 00:08:59.129 --> 00:09:01.129 As for yawning 00:09:01.129 --> 00:09:03.129 It is from Satan 00:09:03.129 --> 00:09:05.129 If one of you yawns 00:09:05.129 --> 00:09:08.129 Let him return it as much as he can 00:09:08.129 --> 00:09:11.159 If one of you yawns 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:14.259 Satan laughed at him 00:09:14.259 --> 00:09:16.259 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:09:16.259 --> 00:09:20.500 One of the benefits of talking 00:09:20.500 --> 00:09:25.500 God Almighty loves sneezing and hates yawning 00:09:25.500 --> 00:09:30.210 It is desirable for the sneezer to take the initiative to gloat 00:09:30.210 --> 00:09:32.210 A sneezer does not gloat 00:09:32.210 --> 00:09:35.210 Unless he praises God Almighty 00:09:35.210 --> 00:09:40.590 Giving praise is only permissible for the one who hears the sneezer and hears his praise 00:09:40.590 --> 00:09:43.590 If he heard someone gloating at someone else 00:09:43.590 --> 00:09:46.590 Neither his sneezing nor his praise was heard 00:09:46.590 --> 00:09:49.139 Don't gloat over it 00:09:49.139 --> 00:09:53.620 Everyone who heard him had to gloat over him 00:09:53.620 --> 00:09:57.620 Satan controls human beings through yawning 00:09:57.620 --> 00:10:01.620 This is so that they may be inactive in their worship and not active 00:10:01.620 --> 00:10:04.940 Every yawn of the devil 00:10:04.940 --> 00:10:06.940 It is necessary for those who solve it 00:10:06.940 --> 00:10:09.940 To suppress it as much as possible 00:10:09.940 --> 00:10:15.259 Explaining that Satan laughs at those who possess him 00:10:15.259 --> 00:10:19.409 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:10:19.409 --> 00:10:23.409 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:10:23.409 --> 00:10:28.409 If one of you sneezes, let him say, “Praise be to God.” 00:10:28.409 --> 00:10:31.409 Let his brother or friend tell him 00:10:31.409 --> 00:10:33.409 May God have mercy on you 00:10:33.409 --> 00:10:36.409 If he says to him, may God have mercy on you 00:10:36.409 --> 00:10:41.409 Let him say, “May God guide you and set your mind at ease.” 00:10:41.409 --> 00:10:44.570 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:10:44.570 --> 00:10:47.460 One of the benefits of talking 00:10:47.460 --> 00:10:51.559 Teaching the nation how to worship during Al-Attas 00:10:51.559 --> 00:10:55.559 And how to respond when adhering to the guidance of prophecy 00:10:55.559 --> 00:11:01.139 Evidence of the great blessing of God Almighty upon the sneezer 00:11:01.139 --> 00:11:05.139 This is taken from the good that has been brought about by him 00:11:05.139 --> 00:11:10.519 An indication of the great favor of God Almighty upon His servant 00:11:10.519 --> 00:11:14.840 The harm was removed from him by the grace of sneezing 00:11:14.840 --> 00:11:17.840 An explanation of the grace of God Almighty upon the servant 00:11:17.840 --> 00:11:20.840 As He prescribed for Him the praise that will be rewarded 00:11:20.840 --> 00:11:26.220 Praying for goodness for those who started you with a good prayer 00:11:26.220 --> 00:11:31.379 On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:11:31.379 --> 00:11:35.379 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say 00:11:35.379 --> 00:11:40.379 If one of you sneezes, thank God and smell him 00:11:40.379 --> 00:11:44.470 If he does not praise God, do not gloat over him 00:11:44.470 --> 00:11:46.730 Narrated by Muslim 00:11:46.730 --> 00:11:49.730 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:11:49.730 --> 00:11:54.730 Two men sneezed in front of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:11:54.730 --> 00:11:58.730 One of them gloated, but the other did not 00:11:58.730 --> 00:12:01.730 He said that he did not smell it 00:12:01.730 --> 00:12:04.730 So-and-so sneezed and I gloated at him 00:12:04.730 --> 00:12:07.759 I sneezed and she did not smell me 00:12:07.759 --> 00:12:10.759 He said: This is praise be to God 00:12:10.759 --> 00:12:13.860 And you did not thank God 00:12:13.860 --> 00:12:15.860 Agreed 00:12:15.860 --> 00:12:19.909 One of the benefits of talking 00:12:19.909 --> 00:12:22.909 It is permissible to ask an inquiry about the reason for a matter 00:12:22.909 --> 00:12:25.909 His truth is hidden from the questioner 00:12:25.909 --> 00:12:31.059 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:12:31.059 --> 00:12:35.059 Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sneezed 00:12:35.059 --> 00:12:39.059 He put his hand or his garment on his mouth 00:12:39.059 --> 00:12:42.059 And he lowered or lowered his voice 00:12:42.059 --> 00:12:44.190 complained a narrator 00:12:44.190 --> 00:12:47.190 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 00:12:47.190 --> 00:12:51.250 One of the benefits of talking 00:12:51.250 --> 00:12:53.250 Explaining etiquette in sneezing 00:12:53.250 --> 00:12:56.250 This is so that he does not harm those around him 00:12:56.250 --> 00:13:00.250 With what comes out of his mouth, such as saliva, spit, and the like 00:13:00.250 --> 00:13:03.659 Protecting Muslims from harm 00:13:03.659 --> 00:13:07.179 It is obligatory as much as possible 00:13:07.179 --> 00:13:10.179 Disturbing Muslims with a loud Bedouin 00:13:10.179 --> 00:13:13.179 When sneezing, it is not permissible 00:13:13.179 --> 00:13:16.179 The volume should be reduced as much as possible 00:13:16.179 --> 00:13:20.179 And what he is not able to do, he does not have to do it 00:13:20.179 --> 00:13:24.230 On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:13:24.230 --> 00:13:30.230 The Jews were socializing with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:13:30.230 --> 00:13:32.230 They hope he tells them 00:13:32.230 --> 00:13:34.230 May God have mercy on you 00:13:34.230 --> 00:13:36.230 And he says 00:13:36.230 --> 00:13:39.230 May God guide you and set your mind at ease 00:13:39.230 --> 00:13:43.230 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 00:13:43.230 --> 00:13:46.059 One of the benefits of talking 00:13:46.059 --> 00:13:53.320 The Jews were rushing to receive supplication from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:13:53.320 --> 00:13:57.320 Because they knew deep down that he was a prophet 00:13:57.320 --> 00:14:00.740 Jews are by nature deceitful and lying 00:14:00.740 --> 00:14:04.740 It is not permissible to go along with their deception and lies 00:14:04.740 --> 00:14:08.740 Rather, he responds to them in a way that suits the situation 00:14:08.740 --> 00:14:12.149 It is not said to the People of the Book when sneezing 00:14:12.149 --> 00:14:14.149 What is reserved for people of faith 00:14:14.149 --> 00:14:19.149 This is because what they need most is guidance 00:14:19.149 --> 00:14:22.149 It is the greatest mercy from God to them 00:14:22.149 --> 00:14:28.080 On the authority of Abu Saeed Al-Khudri, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:14:28.080 --> 00:14:32.080 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:14:32.080 --> 00:14:37.080 If one of you yawns, let him hold his hand over his mouth 00:14:37.080 --> 00:14:40.240 Satan enters 00:14:40.240 --> 00:14:42.240 Narrated by Muslim 00:14:42.240 --> 00:14:45.100 One of the benefits of talking 00:14:45.100 --> 00:14:48.549 It indicates that yawning is from the devil 00:14:48.549 --> 00:14:51.549 To push the yawner to laziness 00:14:51.549 --> 00:14:54.940 Satan watches the negligence of the son of Adam 00:14:54.940 --> 00:14:56.940 To make fun of him 00:14:56.940 --> 00:14:59.940 He gets into it and laughs at him 00:14:59.940 --> 00:15:03.940 There is nothing more beautiful than this moment for him 00:15:03.940 --> 00:15:07.350 Guidance to repel Satan's machinations 00:15:07.350 --> 00:15:11.350 This is done by placing the hand over the mouth when yawning 00:15:11.350 --> 00:15:14.350 This has significance for a Muslim 00:15:14.350 --> 00:15:17.350 To fight Satan by every means 00:15:17.350 --> 00:15:20.350 God has made this clear to His servants 00:15:20.350 --> 00:15:23.350 To protect them from the evils of Satan 00:15:23.350 --> 00:15:25.350 He suppresses his arrogance 00:15:25.350 --> 00:15:29.480 Riyadh Al-Salehin