WEBVTT 00:00:00.240 --> 00:00:08.800 Summary of Sunni concepts 00:00:08.800 --> 00:00:13.599 Marriage in Islam and its purposes 00:00:13.599 --> 00:00:21.000 In Islam, marriage is not just an instinctive, bestial relationship between a man and a woman 00:00:21.000 --> 00:00:25.399 Such as the relationship between females and males of most animals 00:00:25.399 --> 00:00:29.600 Or love and passion without strict controls and systems 00:00:29.600 --> 00:00:32.799 It is also common today in the lands of infidelity 00:00:32.899 --> 00:00:36.299 Rather, it is a sacred bond between spouses 00:00:36.299 --> 00:00:40.500 It has noble goals and lofty purposes 00:00:40.500 --> 00:00:42.299 And most importantly 00:00:42.299 --> 00:00:43.500 Firstly 00:00:43.500 --> 00:00:46.799 The immunity and chastity of both spouses 00:00:46.799 --> 00:00:50.200 In an organized manner, it is permissible according to Islamic law 00:00:50.200 --> 00:00:52.299 As God Almighty said 00:00:52.299 --> 00:00:55.600 I will explain to you what is behind them 00:00:55.600 --> 00:01:01.000 That you seek with your wealth chaste and not transgressors 00:01:01.100 --> 00:01:03.200 And in another verse 00:01:03.200 --> 00:01:08.200 They are protected, neither fornicators nor deceivers 00:01:08.200 --> 00:01:12.200 Cheating is adultery with mistresses 00:01:12.200 --> 00:01:14.500 Marriage is called marriage 00:01:14.500 --> 00:01:16.799 Any prevention and maintenance 00:01:16.799 --> 00:01:22.700 Because it results in the spouses being chaste to each other 00:01:22.700 --> 00:01:24.599 And the Almighty said 00:01:24.599 --> 00:01:30.900 And I will marry the days among you and the righteous among your male and female servants 00:01:30.900 --> 00:01:34.299 And the saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:34.299 --> 00:01:36.200 O young people! 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:40.200 Whoever of you can afford it, let him get married 00:01:40.200 --> 00:01:44.000 It lowers one's gaze and protects one's chastity 00:01:44.000 --> 00:01:47.599 Whoever is unable must fast 00:01:47.599 --> 00:01:50.269 For it came to him 00:01:50.269 --> 00:01:52.269 Agreed 00:01:52.269 --> 00:01:55.670 All of this is decided in the souls of believers 00:01:55.670 --> 00:02:00.069 Singleness and non-marriage are a temporary condition 00:02:00.069 --> 00:02:02.370 One must strive to end it 00:02:02.370 --> 00:02:05.569 And remove everything that hinders him from it 00:02:05.569 --> 00:02:09.069 Marriage thus becomes the custom of believers 00:02:09.069 --> 00:02:13.419 Obedience and closeness to God Almighty 00:02:13.419 --> 00:02:14.719 Secondly 00:02:14.719 --> 00:02:17.020 God willing, the Muslim family 00:02:17.020 --> 00:02:21.319 In which the rights of both spouses are taken into account 00:02:21.319 --> 00:02:24.919 As indicated by the Almighty’s saying 00:02:24.919 --> 00:02:29.020 Who created you from one soul 00:02:29.020 --> 00:02:31.810 And her husband was created from her 00:02:31.810 --> 00:02:35.210 Wives are creatures of men 00:02:35.210 --> 00:02:37.710 Because he was the husband of Adam, peace be upon him 00:02:37.710 --> 00:02:39.610 Created from his rib 00:02:39.610 --> 00:02:42.409 There is the closest lineage between them and them 00:02:42.409 --> 00:02:44.110 And the tightest connection 00:02:44.110 --> 00:02:46.110 And the most sacred relationship 00:02:46.110 --> 00:02:48.110 As God Almighty said 00:02:48.110 --> 00:02:52.710 They are clothes for you and you are clothes for them 00:02:52.810 --> 00:02:56.009 It is a connection between one soul and another 00:02:56.009 --> 00:02:57.210 And so 00:02:57.210 --> 00:03:00.310 The Muslim family and the Muslim home 00:03:00.310 --> 00:03:04.210 It is a residence where affection and compassion are widespread 00:03:04.210 --> 00:03:06.310 As God Almighty said 00:03:06.310 --> 00:03:11.210 Among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves 00:03:11.210 --> 00:03:13.210 That you may dwell in it 00:03:13.210 --> 00:03:17.439 And He placed between you affection and mercy 00:03:17.439 --> 00:03:19.939 This is the most wonderful and accurate depiction 00:03:19.939 --> 00:03:21.740 For marital relationship 00:03:21.740 --> 00:03:24.400 The formation of the Muslim home 00:03:24.400 --> 00:03:27.599 Islam is not satisfied with these gestures 00:03:27.599 --> 00:03:30.000 And spiritual radiation 00:03:30.000 --> 00:03:32.000 Rather, it is followed by regulations 00:03:32.000 --> 00:03:33.800 And guaranteeing legislation 00:03:33.800 --> 00:03:36.879 rights of each 00:03:36.879 --> 00:03:38.280 Third 00:03:38.280 --> 00:03:41.009 Increasing the descendants of Muslims 00:03:41.009 --> 00:03:44.310 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:44.310 --> 00:03:46.909 He married Al-Wadud Al-Walud 00:03:46.909 --> 00:03:50.270 For I am superior to you among the nations 00:03:50.270 --> 00:03:53.770 Narrated by Abu Dawud, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad 00:03:53.770 --> 00:03:57.879 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 00:03:57.879 --> 00:04:00.500 Guardianship 00:04:00.500 --> 00:04:05.599 God Almighty established that the man in his house has guardianship over the woman 00:04:05.599 --> 00:04:07.599 And God Almighty said 00:04:07.599 --> 00:04:10.800 Men are guardians of women 00:04:10.800 --> 00:04:14.400 Because God has favored some of them over others 00:04:14.400 --> 00:04:18.040 And what they spent of their money 00:04:18.040 --> 00:04:19.939 Not in this format 00:04:19.939 --> 00:04:22.540 To eliminate the woman’s personality in the home 00:04:22.540 --> 00:04:24.639 Nor in human society 00:04:24.639 --> 00:04:26.639 As some believe 00:04:26.639 --> 00:04:30.139 Ignorance of what Sharia wants from us 00:04:30.139 --> 00:04:32.540 But it is something that has its reasons 00:04:32.540 --> 00:04:35.740 Of composition and innate predisposition 00:04:35.740 --> 00:04:37.240 God Almighty 00:04:37.240 --> 00:04:39.540 Make it a woman's job 00:04:39.540 --> 00:04:41.339 Pregnancy and childbirth 00:04:41.339 --> 00:04:44.139 Breastfeeding and child rearing 00:04:44.139 --> 00:04:45.939 Those are huge things 00:04:45.939 --> 00:04:48.639 You need tenderness and compassion 00:04:48.639 --> 00:04:49.939 And effective speed 00:04:49.939 --> 00:04:51.639 And urgent response 00:04:51.639 --> 00:04:53.939 To childhood demands 00:04:53.939 --> 00:04:57.040 All of this is a characteristic of women 00:04:57.040 --> 00:05:00.339 What distinguishes her from men 00:05:00.339 --> 00:05:01.540 It is not fair 00:05:01.540 --> 00:05:02.839 To cost a woman 00:05:02.839 --> 00:05:05.639 In addition to these huge burdens 00:05:05.639 --> 00:05:07.040 Responsible for work 00:05:07.040 --> 00:05:09.439 And maintenance on the marital home 00:05:09.439 --> 00:05:11.439 And manage his affairs 00:05:11.439 --> 00:05:15.639 These are things that require properties that they do not have 00:05:15.639 --> 00:05:18.839 Rather, it is a characteristic of men 00:05:18.839 --> 00:05:20.839 Spherical in thinking 00:05:20.839 --> 00:05:22.139 And study things 00:05:22.139 --> 00:05:24.439 From all its aspects 00:05:24.439 --> 00:05:27.439 Strength and firmness in decisions 00:05:27.439 --> 00:05:29.040 So God assigned them 00:05:29.040 --> 00:05:30.540 With all that 00:05:30.540 --> 00:05:32.040 And give them leadership 00:05:32.040 --> 00:05:34.240 And the guardianship in that 00:05:34.240 --> 00:05:36.639 To be able to do their job 00:05:36.639 --> 00:05:38.939 Those assigned to it 00:05:38.939 --> 00:05:41.040 If this balance is imbalanced 00:05:41.040 --> 00:05:43.939 Jobs and tasks changed 00:05:43.939 --> 00:05:45.540 Or account for all of them 00:05:45.540 --> 00:05:47.540 One party or the other 00:05:47.540 --> 00:05:49.740 Disagreement arose between the spouses 00:05:49.740 --> 00:05:51.139 It is necessary 00:05:51.139 --> 00:05:52.339 And the house rapture 00:05:52.339 --> 00:05:54.540 His problems abounded 00:05:54.540 --> 00:05:57.740 And God Almighty spoke the truth 00:05:57.740 --> 00:05:59.540 Doesn't he know who created him? 00:05:59.540 --> 00:06:02.560 He is the Kind and All-Knowing 00:06:02.560 --> 00:06:05.759 Stewardship is also a must 00:06:05.759 --> 00:06:07.259 Because the house is his business 00:06:07.259 --> 00:06:09.060 Like any institution 00:06:09.060 --> 00:06:11.860 There must be one value 00:06:11.860 --> 00:06:13.660 He has a responsibility 00:06:13.660 --> 00:06:14.660 In her home 00:06:14.660 --> 00:06:16.660 After consultation and understanding 00:06:16.660 --> 00:06:19.160 With his partners in it 00:06:19.160 --> 00:06:22.060 Its existence does not negate the presence of partners 00:06:22.060 --> 00:06:24.160 And workers in their jobs 00:06:24.160 --> 00:06:26.490 Nor their personality 00:06:26.490 --> 00:06:29.490 Guardianship is also a man’s right 00:06:29.490 --> 00:06:31.490 Corresponding to the duty of assignment 00:06:31.490 --> 00:06:33.290 By spending on the house 00:06:33.290 --> 00:06:36.389 Protect him and manage his affairs 00:06:36.389 --> 00:06:38.589 So it's in short 00:06:38.589 --> 00:06:40.790 A strength accompanied by kindness 00:06:40.790 --> 00:06:42.990 Care and maintenance 00:06:42.990 --> 00:06:44.490 And etiquette in behavior 00:06:44.490 --> 00:06:46.490 With wife and children 00:06:46.490 --> 00:06:48.990 It is a complementary relationship 00:06:48.990 --> 00:06:51.990 Between both men and women 00:06:51.990 --> 00:06:54.990 It is misleading to transform this relationship 00:06:54.990 --> 00:06:59.920 To a relationship of opposition and contradiction 00:06:59.920 --> 00:07:04.569 Polygamy and justice between them 00:07:04.569 --> 00:07:06.069 May God allow men 00:07:06.069 --> 00:07:09.069 Polygamy up to four 00:07:09.069 --> 00:07:12.069 A condition for this is fairness between them 00:07:12.069 --> 00:07:14.069 God Almighty said 00:07:14.069 --> 00:07:18.069 So marry whatever women you like 00:07:18.069 --> 00:07:21.069 Two, three and a quarter 00:07:21.069 --> 00:07:24.069 If you fear that you will not be fair, then one 00:07:24.069 --> 00:07:27.069 Or whatever your right hand possesses 00:07:27.069 --> 00:07:30.230 That is less likely that you should not depend 00:07:30.230 --> 00:07:32.230 And the justice required 00:07:32.230 --> 00:07:36.230 It is fairness in treatment, maintenance, and treatment 00:07:36.230 --> 00:07:39.730 As for justice, it is in the feelings of the hearts and feelings 00:07:39.730 --> 00:07:42.230 No one demands it 00:07:42.230 --> 00:07:45.230 It is beyond human power 00:07:45.230 --> 00:07:49.230 He is the one God said about in the other verse 00:07:49.230 --> 00:07:55.230 And you will not be able to treat women justly, even if you strive. 00:07:55.230 --> 00:08:00.230 So do not incline completely, lest you leave it hanging 00:08:00.230 --> 00:08:07.389 Let no one try to take this verse as evidence for the prohibition of polygamy 00:08:07.389 --> 00:08:11.389 This is a multiplication of the verses of the Book one by another 00:08:11.389 --> 00:08:15.389 And it was revealed to it other than what it was revealed to 00:08:15.389 --> 00:08:17.389 And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:17.389 --> 00:08:23.389 He is the best example of applying justice between his wives in terms of maintenance and treatment 00:08:23.389 --> 00:08:25.389 And yet 00:08:25.389 --> 00:08:28.389 All his wives, may God be pleased with them 00:08:28.389 --> 00:08:33.389 They know the extent of his love for the Mother of the Believers, Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:08:33.389 --> 00:08:37.389 And cherish her with a special heartfelt affection 00:08:37.389 --> 00:08:40.389 And do not blame him for that 00:08:40.389 --> 00:08:45.220 The importance of home and family for a Muslim child 00:08:45.220 --> 00:08:51.210 The child grows gradually in the Muslim home and family 00:08:51.210 --> 00:08:58.210 During this, he receives a sufficient balance of love, cooperation, solidarity and construction 00:08:58.210 --> 00:09:04.210 He experiences the mother's tenderness and compassion and the father's guardianship and care 00:09:04.210 --> 00:09:08.210 He notices the affection and mercy between them 00:09:08.210 --> 00:09:14.370 He grows up balanced and upright, with common sense and feelings 00:09:14.370 --> 00:09:18.370 As for the child who is deprived of this natural embrace 00:09:18.370 --> 00:09:24.370 His upbringing was abnormal in many aspects of his life 00:09:24.370 --> 00:09:30.370 No matter how much comfort and education he has available outside the family environment 00:09:30.370 --> 00:09:34.399 The first thing he loses is the feeling of love and tenderness 00:09:34.399 --> 00:09:42.399 Because the child by nature loves to be alone with his mother for the first two years of his life 00:09:42.399 --> 00:09:49.399 In which he depends mainly on her and cannot bear to be shared with anyone else 00:09:49.399 --> 00:09:57.399 Children from shelters and orphanages share a foster carer and a nanny who takes care of them 00:09:57.399 --> 00:10:05.399 Rather, they have multiple nannies and take turns depending on the work time allocated to each one of them 00:10:05.399 --> 00:10:10.399 This results in confusion and a defect in the child’s nature 00:10:10.399 --> 00:10:14.399 Perhaps the children hate each other 00:10:14.399 --> 00:10:19.399 It also leads to his lack of a single authority that supervises him 00:10:19.399 --> 00:10:23.399 To the strangeness of his personality and its instability 00:10:23.399 --> 00:10:33.399 The experiences of public incubators reveal every day the original wisdom in making the family the first building block for building a healthy society 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:41.399 Which targets Islam, if it wishes, on a sound basis consistent with human nature 00:10:41.399 --> 00:10:47.299 Family and caring for the rights of parents and other relatives 00:10:47.299 --> 00:10:56.389 In a Muslim family, children should be raised to respect the rights of their parents and maximize their value 00:10:56.389 --> 00:11:02.389 In encouraging it and enjoining it, it was coupled with the command to worship God and monotheize Him 00:11:02.389 --> 00:11:08.450 And worship God and do not associate anything with Him, and be kind to parents 00:11:08.450 --> 00:11:12.480 But charity is not limited to them only 00:11:12.480 --> 00:11:16.480 Even if it takes precedence over all other types of charity 00:11:16.480 --> 00:11:24.480 But it extends to all relatives, neighbors, orphans, the poor, and so on 00:11:24.480 --> 00:11:26.480 So the verse continues 00:11:27.480 --> 00:11:38.480 And the kinsfolk, and the orphans, and the needy, and the neighbour, and the neighbour, and the neighbour, and the neighbour, and the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess. 00:11:38.480 --> 00:11:43.480 God does not like someone who is arrogant and proud 00:11:43.480 --> 00:11:52.580 The end of the verse indicates that neglecting this and being negligent in it is a kind of pride, arrogance, and arrogance 00:11:52.580 --> 00:12:00.639 Caring for parental rights is not limited to living with them in one family and one home 00:12:00.639 --> 00:12:06.639 Rather, when a son or daughter grows up and each one of them gets married 00:12:06.639 --> 00:12:11.639 They separate from their parents and form an independent family 00:12:11.639 --> 00:12:14.639 The parents grow older and older 00:12:14.639 --> 00:12:20.639 In this case, their righteousness, care, and non-neglect are confirmed 00:12:20.639 --> 00:12:22.639 God Almighty said 00:12:22.639 --> 00:12:28.639 Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him and that you be kind to your parents 00:12:28.639 --> 00:12:37.639 Either one or both of them reach old age with you, so do not say “fuck” to them or rebuke them 00:12:37.639 --> 00:12:41.639 And speak to them kindly 00:12:41.639 --> 00:12:44.639 And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy 00:12:44.639 --> 00:12:49.639 And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.” 00:12:49.639 --> 00:12:54.799 No son is distracted by his family and his new responsibility 00:12:54.799 --> 00:12:59.919 The main job of a Muslim woman 00:12:59.919 --> 00:13:06.240 Sharia law makes a woman’s main job to be taking care of her husband’s house 00:13:06.240 --> 00:13:09.240 As he, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:13:09.240 --> 00:13:12.240 The woman is a shepherd in her husband’s house 00:13:12.240 --> 00:13:15.240 She is responsible for her flock 00:13:15.240 --> 00:13:17.240 Agreed 00:13:18.240 --> 00:13:25.340 The reality of home and housing does not exist unless a woman creates it by spreading tenderness and kindness 00:13:25.340 --> 00:13:27.340 And good education in it 00:13:27.340 --> 00:13:31.340 Unlike women who work outside the home 00:13:31.340 --> 00:13:36.340 Where you spread nothing but exhaustion, weariness and boredom 00:13:36.340 --> 00:13:41.340 A woman may go out to work outside her home if necessary 00:13:41.340 --> 00:13:46.340 But it causes disasters of housing and instability 00:13:46.340 --> 00:13:50.340 This is what working women in the infidel West suffer from 00:13:50.340 --> 00:13:53.340 And in our contemporary societies 00:13:53.340 --> 00:13:57.370 A woman should not work outside her home 00:13:57.370 --> 00:14:01.370 Except within the limits of necessity and urgent need 00:14:01.370 --> 00:14:05.879 Home and family security 00:14:05.879 --> 00:14:10.419 Islam aims to spread peace in the home 00:14:10.419 --> 00:14:14.419 At the same time, he turns to the individual conscience 00:14:14.419 --> 00:14:17.419 And to the human community 00:14:17.419 --> 00:14:20.419 They are all interconnected links 00:14:20.419 --> 00:14:23.419 There is interconnection and communication between them 00:14:23.419 --> 00:14:27.419 To spread this peace, Islam has guaranteed several things 00:14:27.419 --> 00:14:31.419 He urged its availability in the Muslim home 00:14:31.419 --> 00:14:34.419 It is that first 00:14:34.419 --> 00:14:39.419 The couple's relationship must be based on mutual consent 00:14:39.419 --> 00:14:42.419 Neither of them should be forced to do so 00:14:42.419 --> 00:14:44.419 Especially women 00:14:44.419 --> 00:14:47.419 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:14:47.419 --> 00:14:50.419 Do not have sex with a virgin until she asks for permission 00:14:50.419 --> 00:14:53.419 Nor clothing until you ask for advice 00:14:53.419 --> 00:14:57.419 It was said, O Messenger of God, how about her permission? 00:14:57.419 --> 00:15:00.419 He said if you keep quiet 00:15:00.419 --> 00:15:02.710 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:15:02.710 --> 00:15:05.710 And so that satisfaction is real 00:15:05.710 --> 00:15:10.710 They must see each other before marriage 00:15:10.710 --> 00:15:12.710 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:15:12.710 --> 00:15:16.710 To Al-Mughirah bin Shu’bah when he wanted to get married 00:15:16.710 --> 00:15:18.710 Look at her 00:15:18.710 --> 00:15:21.710 It is better for it to last between you 00:15:21.710 --> 00:15:24.710 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad 00:15:24.710 --> 00:15:27.899 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 00:15:27.899 --> 00:15:29.899 Secondly 00:15:29.899 --> 00:15:33.899 There must also be publicity and testimony in marriage 00:15:33.899 --> 00:15:36.899 It is not done in secret as if it were a crime 00:15:36.899 --> 00:15:39.899 It also occurs in temporary marriage 00:15:39.899 --> 00:15:42.899 There must be an explicit offer and acceptance 00:15:42.899 --> 00:15:45.899 Witnesses bear witness to them 00:15:45.899 --> 00:15:49.899 So that there is no doubt about the reality of this connection 00:15:49.899 --> 00:15:52.059 Third 00:15:52.059 --> 00:15:57.059 Likewise, in marriage, there must be an intention to perpetuate the marriage 00:15:57.059 --> 00:15:59.059 So that it is not a fun marriage 00:15:59.059 --> 00:16:05.320 Its purpose is not to create a Muslim family and a Muslim home 00:16:05.320 --> 00:16:06.320 Fourth 00:16:06.320 --> 00:16:12.409 Islam emphasizes the concept of accommodation, affection and mercy between spouses 00:16:12.409 --> 00:16:13.409 Fifth 00:16:13.409 --> 00:16:19.409 The man was assigned the right of guardianship so that he could manage this partnership 00:16:19.409 --> 00:16:20.570 Sixth 00:16:20.570 --> 00:16:26.600 Make the woman's main job to take care of her husband's house 00:16:26.600 --> 00:16:27.600 Seventh 00:16:27.600 --> 00:16:30.600 Islam forbids adornment and mingling 00:16:30.600 --> 00:16:35.600 So that no strife occurs between women and men 00:16:35.600 --> 00:16:40.600 These include married women or married men 00:16:40.600 --> 00:16:43.600 If they meet with so-called co-workers 00:16:43.600 --> 00:16:47.600 Of the opposite sex for both of them 00:16:47.600 --> 00:16:53.600 The man finds his so-called female co-worker elegant, adorned and adorned 00:16:53.600 --> 00:16:59.600 He does not see her as she really is in her home as he sees his wife 00:16:59.600 --> 00:17:02.600 God Almighty said to women 00:17:02.600 --> 00:17:06.599 And do not show us the display of pre-Islamic times 00:17:06.599 --> 00:17:12.599 He ordered them to wear the veil and ordered both men and women to blind their eyes 00:17:12.599 --> 00:17:15.599 To prevent strife between them 00:17:15.599 --> 00:17:21.599 In return, the woman should adorn herself in her home for her husband 00:17:21.599 --> 00:17:25.599 She does not neglect herself to protect her husband 00:17:25.599 --> 00:17:28.599 In order not to be alienated from it and look at others 00:17:28.599 --> 00:17:31.599 Outside the family project for him 00:17:31.599 --> 00:17:33.990 Eighth 00:17:33.990 --> 00:17:35.990 Sharia law makes homes inviolable 00:17:35.990 --> 00:17:38.990 Permission must be sought before entering 00:17:38.990 --> 00:17:40.990 God Almighty said 00:17:40.990 --> 00:17:45.990 O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own 00:17:45.990 --> 00:17:49.990 Until you feel comfortable and greet its people 00:17:49.990 --> 00:17:53.990 That is better for you, so that you may remember 00:17:55.210 --> 00:17:56.210 Ninth 00:17:56.210 --> 00:17:58.210 He forbade spying on homes 00:17:58.210 --> 00:18:02.210 And to see what is inside her 00:18:02.210 --> 00:18:03.210 God Almighty said 00:18:03.210 --> 00:18:05.210 And do not spy 00:18:05.210 --> 00:18:08.210 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:18:08.210 --> 00:18:11.210 Whoever looks into people's homes without their permission 00:18:11.210 --> 00:18:13.210 So they gouged out his eye 00:18:13.210 --> 00:18:15.210 His eye wasted 00:18:15.210 --> 00:18:17.210 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:18:17.210 --> 00:18:19.210 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 00:18:19.210 --> 00:18:21.440 Tenth 00:18:21.440 --> 00:18:23.440 He ordered the preservation of private parts 00:18:23.440 --> 00:18:26.440 Even between members of the same family 00:18:26.440 --> 00:18:28.440 Even if they were children 00:18:28.440 --> 00:18:30.440 And he was no exception to that 00:18:30.440 --> 00:18:33.500 Except the spouses between each other 00:18:33.500 --> 00:18:35.500 God Almighty said 00:18:35.500 --> 00:18:38.500 O you who have believed, seek your permission 00:18:38.500 --> 00:18:40.500 Those whom your right hand possesses 00:18:40.500 --> 00:18:45.500 And those of you who have not reached the dream three times 00:18:45.500 --> 00:18:47.500 Before dawn prayer 00:18:47.500 --> 00:18:51.500 And when you put on your clothes at noon 00:18:51.500 --> 00:18:54.500 And after the evening prayer 00:18:54.500 --> 00:18:56.500 Three private parts for you 00:18:56.500 --> 00:19:01.500 There is no blame on you or them after them 00:19:01.500 --> 00:19:05.500 You are all over each other 00:19:05.500 --> 00:19:08.500 Thus God makes clear to you the signs 00:19:08.500 --> 00:19:11.500 And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise 00:19:11.500 --> 00:19:14.500 And if your children reach the dream 00:19:14.500 --> 00:19:18.500 Let them ask permission as those before them asked permission 00:19:18.500 --> 00:19:21.500 Thus God makes His signs clear to you 00:19:21.500 --> 00:19:24.500 And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise 00:19:24.500 --> 00:19:26.660 Eleventh 00:19:26.660 --> 00:19:28.660 He commanded justice between wives 00:19:28.660 --> 00:19:32.660 So that the wife can live safe from injustice 00:19:32.660 --> 00:19:37.660 Justice between children also applies to gifts and other things 00:19:37.660 --> 00:19:40.660 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:19:40.660 --> 00:19:43.660 So fear God and be fair among your children 00:19:43.660 --> 00:19:45.660 Agreed 00:19:45.660 --> 00:19:47.720 twelfth 00:19:47.720 --> 00:19:49.720 Until divorce 00:19:49.720 --> 00:19:52.720 The apparent joy of peace in the family 00:19:52.720 --> 00:19:55.720 In reality, it is security and peace 00:19:55.720 --> 00:19:58.720 When it is impossible to live together between spouses 00:19:58.720 --> 00:20:03.720 The children were negatively affected by this crisis 00:20:03.720 --> 00:20:05.720 But this is a condition of divorce 00:20:05.720 --> 00:20:08.720 So that it will be safe and sound 00:20:08.720 --> 00:20:12.720 In conducting it, it must adhere to the Sharia rulings 00:20:12.720 --> 00:20:14.720 To be the last medicine 00:20:14.720 --> 00:20:17.720 After attempts at reconciliation between the two parties 00:20:17.720 --> 00:20:20.720 And send a ruling from each party 00:20:20.720 --> 00:20:23.720 To try to reconcile them 00:20:23.720 --> 00:20:25.720 If he doesn't find it at last 00:20:25.720 --> 00:20:28.720 Then there is a need for divorce 00:20:28.720 --> 00:20:30.720 Taking into account what is known 00:20:30.720 --> 00:20:32.720 Between the two parties and their families 00:20:32.720 --> 00:20:34.759 thirteenth 00:20:34.759 --> 00:20:36.759 And more important than all of the above 00:20:36.759 --> 00:20:40.759 To achieve the security and safety of the Muslim home 00:20:40.759 --> 00:20:42.759 Maintaining the security of the faith 00:20:42.759 --> 00:20:45.759 And good morals for family members 00:20:45.759 --> 00:20:48.759 He commanded them to obey God and protect themselves 00:20:48.759 --> 00:20:52.819 One of the reasons for punishment in this world and the hereafter 00:20:52.819 --> 00:20:54.819 God Almighty said 00:20:54.819 --> 00:20:56.819 O you who have believed 00:20:56.819 --> 00:21:04.779 Protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones. 00:21:04.779 --> 00:21:08.799 From the evils of homes 00:21:08.799 --> 00:21:11.799 Violating the terms of the previous concept 00:21:11.799 --> 00:21:13.799 Especially the last item 00:21:13.799 --> 00:21:16.799 All of this is considered abominable in homes 00:21:16.799 --> 00:21:18.799 Added to this are other things 00:21:18.799 --> 00:21:21.799 It has now spread in the Muslim home 00:21:21.799 --> 00:21:22.799 From her 00:21:22.799 --> 00:21:23.799 Firstly 00:21:23.799 --> 00:21:26.799 Leniency in images of animate beings 00:21:26.799 --> 00:21:29.799 What's in comics? 00:21:29.799 --> 00:21:32.799 Especially women's ones 00:21:32.799 --> 00:21:36.799 This prevents angels from entering the house 00:21:36.799 --> 00:21:38.799 He is forbidden to bless him 00:21:38.799 --> 00:21:41.799 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:21:41.799 --> 00:21:46.799 Angels do not enter a house in which there are dogs or pictures 00:21:46.799 --> 00:21:48.799 Agreed 00:21:48.799 --> 00:21:50.029 Secondly 00:21:50.029 --> 00:21:54.029 Bringing unencrypted television into homes 00:21:54.029 --> 00:21:58.029 With the widespread evil and great sin it contains 00:21:58.029 --> 00:22:00.029 God Almighty becomes angry 00:22:00.029 --> 00:22:02.029 How many family members were tempted 00:22:02.029 --> 00:22:04.029 Male and female 00:22:04.029 --> 00:22:06.029 Because of this great evil 00:22:06.029 --> 00:22:08.029 They got lost and strayed 00:22:08.029 --> 00:22:11.029 Fear God, the head of the family 00:22:11.029 --> 00:22:15.029 And let him know that he will be responsible for that on the Day of Resurrection 00:22:15.029 --> 00:22:18.029 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:22:18.029 --> 00:22:23.029 You are all a shepherd and you are all responsible for your flock 00:22:23.029 --> 00:22:25.029 Hadith 00:22:25.029 --> 00:22:26.029 Third 00:22:26.029 --> 00:22:28.029 Introduction of foreign servants 00:22:28.029 --> 00:22:31.029 Male and female for homes 00:22:31.029 --> 00:22:34.029 Without taking into account the rules of hijab 00:22:34.029 --> 00:22:37.089 Preventing the mixing of genders 00:22:37.089 --> 00:22:41.089 This is something that has become common and beneficial in Muslim families 00:22:41.089 --> 00:22:44.089 Even the families of preachers and devotees 00:22:44.089 --> 00:22:48.089 There is no power nor strength except in God, the Most High, the Great 00:22:48.089 --> 00:22:50.119 Fourth 00:22:50.119 --> 00:22:52.119 Leniency in women's modesty 00:22:52.119 --> 00:22:55.119 Inside large family homes 00:22:55.119 --> 00:22:58.119 Which consists of several families 00:22:58.119 --> 00:23:02.119 Mixing between brothers and their wives is common 00:23:02.119 --> 00:23:05.119 Without adhering to the legal hijab 00:23:05.119 --> 00:23:08.119 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:23:08.119 --> 00:23:11.119 Beware of entering upon women 00:23:11.119 --> 00:23:14.119 A man from the Ansar said 00:23:14.119 --> 00:23:17.119 O Messenger of God, have you seen the flesh? 00:23:17.119 --> 00:23:20.119 The fever said death 00:23:20.119 --> 00:23:22.119 Agreed 00:23:22.119 --> 00:23:29.119 This is sufficient to discourage the mixing of relatives and in-laws in one place 00:23:29.119 --> 00:23:34.309 New issues threatening the Muslim family 00:23:34.309 --> 00:23:40.690 It is a serious issue that threatens the Muslim family and the Muslim home 00:23:40.690 --> 00:23:42.690 Firstly 00:23:42.690 --> 00:23:44.690 The issue of women's liberation 00:23:44.690 --> 00:23:50.690 It is an issue adopted by atheists, secularists, hypocrites and their like 00:23:50.690 --> 00:23:54.690 Claiming that they want women's freedom 00:23:54.690 --> 00:23:58.690 And to free her from the injustice and slavery that befell her 00:23:58.690 --> 00:24:00.690 And the truth of their claim 00:24:01.690 --> 00:24:05.690 I invited her to leave the hijab and mingle with men 00:24:05.690 --> 00:24:08.690 They called it women's liberation 00:24:08.690 --> 00:24:10.690 They forget that God Almighty 00:24:10.690 --> 00:24:14.690 He is the one who guaranteed women their rights and honor 00:24:14.690 --> 00:24:18.690 As is stated in detail in the Qur’an and Sunnah 00:24:18.690 --> 00:24:23.690 What they are calling for is in reality the destruction of the family 00:24:23.690 --> 00:24:25.849 Secondly 00:24:25.849 --> 00:24:27.849 And more severe than before 00:24:27.849 --> 00:24:31.849 What is currently known as independent women 00:24:31.849 --> 00:24:35.849 It is a call adopted by feminist organizations 00:24:35.849 --> 00:24:38.849 Known as the feminist movement 00:24:38.849 --> 00:24:41.849 It goes beyond women's liberation 00:24:41.849 --> 00:24:45.849 Spreading the concept that women do not need men 00:24:45.849 --> 00:24:49.849 And her independence by living alone in a private house 00:24:49.849 --> 00:24:55.849 They have no objection to bringing in whomever you want, whether lovers or lovers 00:24:55.849 --> 00:24:58.849 She is the one who spends on herself 00:24:58.849 --> 00:25:04.880 She has the full right and freedom, they claim, to live however she wants 00:25:04.880 --> 00:25:10.880 A feminist movement has now emerged in America to oppose this 00:25:10.880 --> 00:25:16.880 It calls on women to return to their main job at home and raising children 00:25:16.880 --> 00:25:22.170 It has an impact on politics today in America in particular 00:25:22.170 --> 00:25:23.170 Third 00:25:23.170 --> 00:25:25.170 And more dangerous than all of the above 00:25:25.170 --> 00:25:30.170 What is currently common is the support for gay men and women 00:25:30.170 --> 00:25:34.170 Where they allow a woman to be satisfied with a woman like her 00:25:34.170 --> 00:25:37.170 And a man with a man like him 00:25:37.170 --> 00:25:39.170 This is what the people of Lot did 00:25:39.170 --> 00:25:42.170 That is enough crime and obscenity 00:25:42.170 --> 00:25:46.170 They call for them to live together in one house 00:25:46.170 --> 00:25:49.170 They claim that it is like a family 00:25:49.170 --> 00:25:54.170 They call this category deception and embellishment of their actions 00:25:54.170 --> 00:25:56.170 Gays 00:25:56.170 --> 00:25:59.170 They established laws and regulations in the West 00:25:59.170 --> 00:26:02.170 Which allows a man to marry another man 00:26:02.170 --> 00:26:04.170 And a woman is a woman 00:26:04.170 --> 00:26:09.170 Rather, it is now turning to criminalizing those who object to this 00:26:09.170 --> 00:26:12.170 They threatened to impose sanctions on him 00:26:12.170 --> 00:26:14.170 For the life of God 00:26:14.170 --> 00:26:18.170 This has the essence of permissibility and legislation other than God 00:26:18.170 --> 00:26:21.170 Let Muslims adhere to their law 00:26:22.170 --> 00:26:24.170 Let them strongly reject this 00:26:24.170 --> 00:26:30.170 Let them await God’s wrath, curse, and destruction of all who permit this 00:26:30.170 --> 00:26:33.170 God is victorious over his affairs 00:26:33.170 --> 00:26:36.170 But most people don't know