Summary of Sunni concepts
Marriage in Islam and its purposes
In Islam, marriage is not just an instinctive, bestial relationship between a man and a woman
Such as the relationship between females and males of most animals
Or love and passion without strict controls and systems
It is also common today in the lands of infidelity
Rather, it is a sacred bond between spouses
It has noble goals and lofty purposes
And most importantly
Firstly
The immunity and chastity of both spouses
In an organized manner, it is permissible according to Islamic law
As God Almighty said
I will explain to you what is behind them
That you seek with your wealth chaste and not transgressors
And in another verse
They are protected, neither fornicators nor deceivers
Cheating is adultery with mistresses
Marriage is called marriage
Any prevention and maintenance
Because it results in the spouses being chaste to each other
And the Almighty said
And I will marry the days among you and the righteous among your male and female servants
And the saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
O young people!
Whoever of you can afford it, let him get married
It lowers one's gaze and protects one's chastity
Whoever is unable must fast
For it came to him
Agreed
All of this is decided in the souls of believers
Singleness and non-marriage are a temporary condition
One must strive to end it
And remove everything that hinders him from it
Marriage thus becomes the custom of believers
Obedience and closeness to God Almighty
Secondly
God willing, the Muslim family
In which the rights of both spouses are taken into account
As indicated by the Almighty’s saying
Who created you from one soul
And her husband was created from her
Wives are creatures of men
Because he was the husband of Adam, peace be upon him
Created from his rib
There is the closest lineage between them and them
And the tightest connection
And the most sacred relationship
As God Almighty said
They are clothes for you and you are clothes for them
It is a connection between one soul and another
And so
The Muslim family and the Muslim home
It is a residence where affection and compassion are widespread
As God Almighty said
Among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves
That you may dwell in it
And He placed between you affection and mercy
This is the most wonderful and accurate depiction
For marital relationship
The formation of the Muslim home
Islam is not satisfied with these gestures
And spiritual radiation
Rather, it is followed by regulations
And guaranteeing legislation
rights of each
Third
Increasing the descendants of Muslims
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
He married Al-Wadud Al-Walud
For I am superior to you among the nations
Narrated by Abu Dawud, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad
It was authenticated by Al-Albani
Guardianship
God Almighty established that the man in his house has guardianship over the woman
And God Almighty said
Men are guardians of women
Because God has favored some of them over others
And what they spent of their money
Not in this format
To eliminate the woman’s personality in the home
Nor in human society
As some believe
Ignorance of what Sharia wants from us
But it is something that has its reasons
Of composition and innate predisposition
God Almighty
Make it a woman's job
Pregnancy and childbirth
Breastfeeding and child rearing
Those are huge things
You need tenderness and compassion
And effective speed
And urgent response
To childhood demands
All of this is a characteristic of women
What distinguishes her from men
It is not fair
To cost a woman
In addition to these huge burdens
Responsible for work
And maintenance on the marital home
And manage his affairs
These are things that require properties that they do not have
Rather, it is a characteristic of men
Spherical in thinking
And study things
From all its aspects
Strength and firmness in decisions
So God assigned them
With all that
And give them leadership
And the guardianship in that
To be able to do their job
Those assigned to it
If this balance is imbalanced
Jobs and tasks changed
Or account for all of them
One party or the other
Disagreement arose between the spouses
It is necessary
And the house rapture
His problems abounded
And God Almighty spoke the truth
Doesn't he know who created him?
He is the Kind and All-Knowing
Stewardship is also a must
Because the house is his business
Like any institution
There must be one value
He has a responsibility
In her home
After consultation and understanding
With his partners in it
Its existence does not negate the presence of partners
And workers in their jobs
Nor their personality
Guardianship is also a man’s right
Corresponding to the duty of assignment
By spending on the house
Protect him and manage his affairs
So it's in short
A strength accompanied by kindness
Care and maintenance
And etiquette in behavior
With wife and children
It is a complementary relationship
Between both men and women
It is misleading to transform this relationship
To a relationship of opposition and contradiction
Polygamy and justice between them
May God allow men
Polygamy up to four
A condition for this is fairness between them
God Almighty said
So marry whatever women you like
Two, three and a quarter
If you fear that you will not be fair, then one
Or whatever your right hand possesses
That is less likely that you should not depend
And the justice required
It is fairness in treatment, maintenance, and treatment
As for justice, it is in the feelings of the hearts and feelings
No one demands it
It is beyond human power
He is the one God said about in the other verse
And you will not be able to treat women justly, even if you strive.
So do not incline completely, lest you leave it hanging
Let no one try to take this verse as evidence for the prohibition of polygamy
This is a multiplication of the verses of the Book one by another
And it was revealed to it other than what it was revealed to
And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He is the best example of applying justice between his wives in terms of maintenance and treatment
And yet
All his wives, may God be pleased with them
They know the extent of his love for the Mother of the Believers, Aisha, may God be pleased with her
And cherish her with a special heartfelt affection
And do not blame him for that
The importance of home and family for a Muslim child
The child grows gradually in the Muslim home and family
During this, he receives a sufficient balance of love, cooperation, solidarity and construction
He experiences the mother's tenderness and compassion and the father's guardianship and care
He notices the affection and mercy between them
He grows up balanced and upright, with common sense and feelings
As for the child who is deprived of this natural embrace
His upbringing was abnormal in many aspects of his life
No matter how much comfort and education he has available outside the family environment
The first thing he loses is the feeling of love and tenderness
Because the child by nature loves to be alone with his mother for the first two years of his life
In which he depends mainly on her and cannot bear to be shared with anyone else
Children from shelters and orphanages share a foster carer and a nanny who takes care of them
Rather, they have multiple nannies and take turns depending on the work time allocated to each one of them
This results in confusion and a defect in the child’s nature
Perhaps the children hate each other
It also leads to his lack of a single authority that supervises him
To the strangeness of his personality and its instability
The experiences of public incubators reveal every day the original wisdom in making the family the first building block for building a healthy society
Which targets Islam, if it wishes, on a sound basis consistent with human nature
Family and caring for the rights of parents and other relatives
In a Muslim family, children should be raised to respect the rights of their parents and maximize their value
In encouraging it and enjoining it, it was coupled with the command to worship God and monotheize Him
And worship God and do not associate anything with Him, and be kind to parents
But charity is not limited to them only
Even if it takes precedence over all other types of charity
But it extends to all relatives, neighbors, orphans, the poor, and so on
So the verse continues
And the kinsfolk, and the orphans, and the needy, and the neighbour, and the neighbour, and the neighbour, and the neighbour, and the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess.
God does not like someone who is arrogant and proud
The end of the verse indicates that neglecting this and being negligent in it is a kind of pride, arrogance, and arrogance
Caring for parental rights is not limited to living with them in one family and one home
Rather, when a son or daughter grows up and each one of them gets married
They separate from their parents and form an independent family
The parents grow older and older
In this case, their righteousness, care, and non-neglect are confirmed
God Almighty said
Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him and that you be kind to your parents
Either one or both of them reach old age with you, so do not say “fuck” to them or rebuke them
And speak to them kindly
And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy
And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.”
No son is distracted by his family and his new responsibility
The main job of a Muslim woman
Sharia law makes a woman’s main job to be taking care of her husband’s house
As he, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
The woman is a shepherd in her husband’s house
She is responsible for her flock
Agreed
The reality of home and housing does not exist unless a woman creates it by spreading tenderness and kindness
And good education in it
Unlike women who work outside the home
Where you spread nothing but exhaustion, weariness and boredom
A woman may go out to work outside her home if necessary
But it causes disasters of housing and instability
This is what working women in the infidel West suffer from
And in our contemporary societies
A woman should not work outside her home
Except within the limits of necessity and urgent need
Home and family security
Islam aims to spread peace in the home
At the same time, he turns to the individual conscience
And to the human community
They are all interconnected links
There is interconnection and communication between them
To spread this peace, Islam has guaranteed several things
He urged its availability in the Muslim home
It is that first
The couple's relationship must be based on mutual consent
Neither of them should be forced to do so
Especially women
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Do not have sex with a virgin until she asks for permission
Nor clothing until you ask for advice
It was said, O Messenger of God, how about her permission?
He said if you keep quiet
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
And so that satisfaction is real
They must see each other before marriage
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
To Al-Mughirah bin Shu’bah when he wanted to get married
Look at her
It is better for it to last between you
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad
It was authenticated by Al-Albani
Secondly
There must also be publicity and testimony in marriage
It is not done in secret as if it were a crime
It also occurs in temporary marriage
There must be an explicit offer and acceptance
Witnesses bear witness to them
So that there is no doubt about the reality of this connection
Third
Likewise, in marriage, there must be an intention to perpetuate the marriage
So that it is not a fun marriage
Its purpose is not to create a Muslim family and a Muslim home
Fourth
Islam emphasizes the concept of accommodation, affection and mercy between spouses
Fifth
The man was assigned the right of guardianship so that he could manage this partnership
Sixth
Make the woman's main job to take care of her husband's house
Seventh
Islam forbids adornment and mingling
So that no strife occurs between women and men
These include married women or married men
If they meet with so-called co-workers
Of the opposite sex for both of them
The man finds his so-called female co-worker elegant, adorned and adorned
He does not see her as she really is in her home as he sees his wife
God Almighty said to women
And do not show us the display of pre-Islamic times
He ordered them to wear the veil and ordered both men and women to blind their eyes
To prevent strife between them
In return, the woman should adorn herself in her home for her husband
She does not neglect herself to protect her husband
In order not to be alienated from it and look at others
Outside the family project for him
Eighth
Sharia law makes homes inviolable
Permission must be sought before entering
God Almighty said
O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own
Until you feel comfortable and greet its people
That is better for you, so that you may remember
Ninth
He forbade spying on homes
And to see what is inside her
God Almighty said
And do not spy
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Whoever looks into people's homes without their permission
So they gouged out his eye
His eye wasted
Narrated by Abu Dawood
It was authenticated by Al-Albani
Tenth
He ordered the preservation of private parts
Even between members of the same family
Even if they were children
And he was no exception to that
Except the spouses between each other
God Almighty said
O you who have believed, seek your permission
Those whom your right hand possesses
And those of you who have not reached the dream three times
Before dawn prayer
And when you put on your clothes at noon
And after the evening prayer
Three private parts for you
There is no blame on you or them after them
You are all over each other
Thus God makes clear to you the signs
And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
And if your children reach the dream
Let them ask permission as those before them asked permission
Thus God makes His signs clear to you
And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
Eleventh
He commanded justice between wives
So that the wife can live safe from injustice
Justice between children also applies to gifts and other things
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
So fear God and be fair among your children
Agreed
twelfth
Until divorce
The apparent joy of peace in the family
In reality, it is security and peace
When it is impossible to live together between spouses
The children were negatively affected by this crisis
But this is a condition of divorce
So that it will be safe and sound
In conducting it, it must adhere to the Sharia rulings
To be the last medicine
After attempts at reconciliation between the two parties
And send a ruling from each party
To try to reconcile them
If he doesn't find it at last
Then there is a need for divorce
Taking into account what is known
Between the two parties and their families
thirteenth
And more important than all of the above
To achieve the security and safety of the Muslim home
Maintaining the security of the faith
And good morals for family members
He commanded them to obey God and protect themselves
One of the reasons for punishment in this world and the hereafter
God Almighty said
O you who have believed
Protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones.
From the evils of homes
Violating the terms of the previous concept
Especially the last item
All of this is considered abominable in homes
Added to this are other things
It has now spread in the Muslim home
From her
Firstly
Leniency in images of animate beings
What's in comics?
Especially women's ones
This prevents angels from entering the house
He is forbidden to bless him
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Angels do not enter a house in which there are dogs or pictures
Agreed
Secondly
Bringing unencrypted television into homes
With the widespread evil and great sin it contains
God Almighty becomes angry
How many family members were tempted
Male and female
Because of this great evil
They got lost and strayed
Fear God, the head of the family
And let him know that he will be responsible for that on the Day of Resurrection
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
You are all a shepherd and you are all responsible for your flock
Hadith
Third
Introduction of foreign servants
Male and female for homes
Without taking into account the rules of hijab
Preventing the mixing of genders
This is something that has become common and beneficial in Muslim families
Even the families of preachers and devotees
There is no power nor strength except in God, the Most High, the Great
Fourth
Leniency in women's modesty
Inside large family homes
Which consists of several families
Mixing between brothers and their wives is common
Without adhering to the legal hijab
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Beware of entering upon women
A man from the Ansar said
O Messenger of God, have you seen the flesh?
The fever said death
Agreed
This is sufficient to discourage the mixing of relatives and in-laws in one place
New issues threatening the Muslim family
It is a serious issue that threatens the Muslim family and the Muslim home
Firstly
The issue of women's liberation
It is an issue adopted by atheists, secularists, hypocrites and their like
Claiming that they want women's freedom
And to free her from the injustice and slavery that befell her
And the truth of their claim
I invited her to leave the hijab and mingle with men
They called it women's liberation
They forget that God Almighty
He is the one who guaranteed women their rights and honor
As is stated in detail in the Qur’an and Sunnah
What they are calling for is in reality the destruction of the family
Secondly
And more severe than before
What is currently known as independent women
It is a call adopted by feminist organizations
Known as the feminist movement
It goes beyond women's liberation
Spreading the concept that women do not need men
And her independence by living alone in a private house
They have no objection to bringing in whomever you want, whether lovers or lovers
She is the one who spends on herself
She has the full right and freedom, they claim, to live however she wants
A feminist movement has now emerged in America to oppose this
It calls on women to return to their main job at home and raising children
It has an impact on politics today in America in particular
Third
And more dangerous than all of the above
What is currently common is the support for gay men and women
Where they allow a woman to be satisfied with a woman like her
And a man with a man like him
This is what the people of Lot did
That is enough crime and obscenity
They call for them to live together in one house
They claim that it is like a family
They call this category deception and embellishment of their actions
Gays
They established laws and regulations in the West
Which allows a man to marry another man
And a woman is a woman
Rather, it is now turning to criminalizing those who object to this
They threatened to impose sanctions on him
For the life of God
This has the essence of permissibility and legislation other than God
Let Muslims adhere to their law
Let them strongly reject this
Let them await God’s wrath, curse, and destruction of all who permit this
God is victorious over his affairs
But most people don't know