In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. The story of Maryam, daughter of Imran, peace be upon her.
Imran’s wife’s supplication for her daughter Maryam
When the woman gave birth to Imran and learned the sex of her child
Which came against her desire and wish
She did not sit and lament her luck, moping and bemoaning
Rather, she took the initiative to take practical steps in her life and the life of her new baby
The matter cannot be delayed
Regret and pain do not change reality at all
So she started by naming her first, saying:
My Lord, I have given birth to her as a female
And God knows best what you have put in place
The male is not like the female
And I named her Maryam
The scholars took from her action that it is permissible to name the newborn at his birth
As Ibn Attiyah, may God have mercy on him, said
And in her saying, “And I named her Maryam.”
The year of naming children near birth
Similar to what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Tonight a baby boy was born to me, and I named him after my father Ibrahim.
Also, how quickly she took this step
Evidence of her satisfaction with the gender of the baby
Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said
She chose the name and was satisfied with what she was given
Then Imran's wife moved to the most important means of raising offspring
It is seeking God’s help for their well-being and praying for them
And she said
And I seek refuge with You and her offspring from the accursed Satan.
Following the actions of the father of the prophets, Ibrahim Al-Khalil, peace be upon him
And he who prayed for his descendants in many occasions that God told us
And he said
Our Lord, make us Muslims to You and from our descendants a Muslim nation to You
Show us our rituals and accept our repentance. Indeed, You are the Most Merciful
And he said
Lord, make this country safe and keep me and my children from worshiping idols
And he said
Our Lord, I have made some of my descendants dwell in an uncultivated valley near Your Sacred House
May God establish prayer
So make the hearts of people yearn for them and provide them with fruits that they may give thanks
And he said
Lord, make me and my descendants establish prayer
May God accept our prayers
This is the creation of the righteous servants of God
Seeking help from God in raising their offspring
And not relying on themselves, their knowledge, and their experience as they imagine
God Almighty said
And those who say, “Our Lord, we have made our wives and our offspring a delight to our eyes.”
And make us leaders for the righteous
Those will reward us with the same room for their patience
They receive greetings and peace
Imran’s wife feared for her daughter because of Satan’s temptation towards her and her offspring
So she and her offspring seek refuge in God from the accursed Satan
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
She seeks refuge in God Almighty from the evil of Satan, and she seeks refuge with her offspring
Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said
And the meaning of seeking refuge
To be in a refuge from God Almighty, who will protect her from Satan
This is because seeking refuge is seeking refuge
The meaning of I seek refuge in God is that I seek refuge in Him and take refuge from Him
And the meaning of: I protected him in God from Satan
May God Almighty protect him from it
This exhortation was a supplication from God Almighty
This supplication was another act of worship
Thus, Mary’s birth and pregnancy were linked before
With continuous, continuous, victorious worship
And humility indicates self-sincerity
And submit your face to God Almighty
Today, I am a Muslim sister
Satan's means of seducing human beings are varied
Until we started buying Satan's means
With which he seduces our daughters with our money
We leave it in their hands
They adhere to it more than they adhere to the remembrance of God and prayer
These are mobile phones connected to the Internet
Did your daughter seek refuge from its evil?
Did you pray for her sincerely in the back of the unseen?
May God protect her from the machinations of the devils of mankind and the jinn
Here is a beautiful gesture in the saying of Imran’s woman
I seek refuge for her and her descendants in You from the accursed Satan
I would like to point it out
She is the wife of Imran
Or on the nature with which God created people
She thinks about her daughter's interests and her future
It is in her daughter's interest to marry and have children
So Imran's wife called her daughter Maryam
With the result that every girl desires
They are good offspring
This is her thinking
She will not delay her daughter's marriage if the right man comes to her
Under the pretext of completing studies
Obtaining the certificate and ensuring the future
As are some selfish mothers
In this time
They only think about their personal interests
Even at the cost of destroying her daughter's psyche
This selfish mother does not care
What her daughter suffers from her desire to marry
Because she is sufficient for her husband
She does not feel her daughter's suffering
And this selfish mother
She likes to take pride among women in her daughter's studies
Even if it was at the expense of her psyche and her unhappiness
And this selfish mother
She dictates to her daughter the specialty she wants
Not what her daughter wanted
And this selfish mother
She puts her interests ahead of her daughter's interests
She does not raise her to prepare for married life
Or encourage her to do so
But she hates her marriage
It adorns her studies and work
Either to be proud of it
Or to benefit from its money
Even if this led to the corruption of her married life
If it happens in the future
And this selfish mother
She doesn't care where her daughter studies
Is it in a place mixed with men or not?
She does not care whether the major her daughter is studying suits her femininity or not
It does not care about the future employment location for this specialty
Is it compatible with God’s pleasure or not?
Because this mother is selfish
She does not take into account God's law in raising her daughter
Rather, she is interested in bragging about her daughter in women's gatherings
And in front of the family
As for Imran’s wife
It was the opposite of all of that
Therefore, it was the result of her prayer
So her Lord accepted her with good acceptance
Its umba is a beautiful plant
Zechariah sponsored her
Whenever Zechariah entered the sanctuary for her, he found sustenance with her
He said: O Mary, I am yours for this
She said it is from God
God provides for whomever He wills without reckoning
Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said
Its meaning
Her Lord provided her with food and provided him with good growth
Until it was done
She became a complete adult woman
Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said
He tells our Lord that he accepted her from her mother as a harbinger
And he made it grow a good plant
That is, make it a beautiful shape and a pleasant sight
He gave her reasons for acceptance
He compared it to the righteous among His servants
You learn from them knowledge, goodness and religion
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, a wonderful, religious, moral, and moral upbringing
Her circumstances were complete
She corrected her words and actions
And its perfection grew in it
Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
The meaning of its bulb is a good plant
He created it properly
This is in character and internal integrity
He likened her creation and youth to the growth of a young plant
Do you wish for your daughter that God would give her good growth?
Did you understand the reasons for this happening?
I ask God to give your daughter and the daughters of righteous men and women good growth
And to mend their hearts
We will continue in the next meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
The story of Maryam, Imran’s daughter