The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him
Women's suffering in marriage
A woman is wanted, not a student, desired by a man
This is what women like to feel
She wants to see young men approaching her in hopes of obtaining her approval
She chooses from them what she likes
According to the specifications you want
And the dreams she has for the future of her family life
But a woman may suffer from not having the qualities she is looking for in a future husband
If she is in a society where there are few men with the characteristics she wants
Women are righteous and religious today
Don't look for money or fame
Rather, you are looking for a good, upright man
The effect of adherence to his religion appears in his obedience to his Lord
His morals appear in his dealings with people
Here the suffering of women in the marriage journey appears
Many young people may apply for it
But she does not accept their religion
Years pass by as she waits
Others take precedence over her in marriage and childbearing
And achieving motherhood while she waits
Because the woman of principle does not accept any man to live with
This is the suffering that women go through today in some societies
The righteous woman passed by it in the city of Media
In the time of Moses, peace be upon him
Medea's men lack chivalry, jealousy and mercy towards women
They are harsh and have a harsh approach to women
As we saw in a previous episode
We add in this episode that honesty is scarce among the men of Medea
Evidenced by what the daughter said to her father
O Father, hire. The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
If the trait of honesty was widespread among the men of Medea
When this girl said this to her father
Because there is a need for someone to take care of the sheep
It existed before the coming of Moses, peace be upon him
But what prevents you from taking a hired worker from the people of Media
Loss of the quality of honesty or its scarcity in them
A good woman looks for a faithful and strong husband
He has chivalry and is jealous of his wives
The two women are the daughters of a righteous man
She was raised with high morals
Which appeared in their dealings in life
Outside and inside the house
When I was outside the home, I was raised not to
Mixing with foreign men
This is indicated by the Almighty’s saying
When he reached the waters of Midian, he found a nation on it
Of people watering
And besides him, he found two women fleeing
I was also raised to talk to foreign men
Be as much as needed and with complete clarity
This is indicated by what God Almighty says about them
He said what's wrong with you
Then he said: Water until the shepherds leave
Our father is a great sheikh
And the Almighty said
She said: My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
This is politeness in the phrase
She never asked for it
But it is not suspicious
Rather, she said, “My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us.”
It means to reward you and reward you for watering our sheep
As I was raised on life
Which is the true adornment of a woman
From which the rest of morals radiate
Life is a branch of faith
Life has affected her movement outside the home
God Almighty said
Then one of them came to him, walking timidly
It's the mission you came out for
She was very hard on herself
It is the call of Moses, and he was a stranger to it
To meet her father
Its difficulty stems from the severity of life
Which you adored
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
Then she suddenly walked shyly
This indicates the generosity of her element
And her good creation
Life is a matter of virtuous morals
Especially in women
Like this living woman
A man of low temperament is not suitable for her
Thick silver
He is not jealous of his wives
He is not a trustee of people's money
How can he be faithful to this woman?
However, this is alive
When you find the qualities you desire
Every girl in the pair
It was represented by the Prophet of God, Moses
She hinted to her father that she wanted to marry him
And she said
Father, rent
The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, Moses was the first to be hired
It combines strength and honesty
The best employee is the one who brings them together
That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do
And honesty in it is not betrayal
These are two descriptions
They should be considered
In everyone who takes over for man
Pursuant to a lease or other
The defect will not be
Unless they are lost or one of them is lost
As for their meeting
The work is done and completed
But she said that
Because she witnessed the power of Moses
When watering them and its activity
What I knew about his strength
I witnessed his honesty and religion
And He had mercy on them
If not, please benefit from them
But he meant it
The face of God Almighty
This description of a woman
To this strange man
She couldn't pass on her father
Go unnoticed
He is the one who raised her to live
And teach her how to deal
With foreign men
He quickly realized what she meant
And seize the opportunity
Ibn Jarir said
May God have mercy on him
It was said that what she said
That's for her father
Her father denounced this
He told her who described it to him
He said to her
And what do you know about that?
And she said
As for his strength
I have not seen any treatment for it
What was treated when watering the well
As for honesty
I did not see anyone angry with me
And so it came
News about people of interpretation
This is the description of it
It indicates the accuracy of observation
It also indicates admiration
With this boy
The compassionate father has realized
What happened to his daughter's heart
From the beginning of the story
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
When the two women returned
They quickly brought the sheep to their father
He denied their situation
Because they came quickly
So he asked them about
Tell them
So they told them something
Moses, peace be upon him
One of them came to him
To invite him to her father
God Almighty said
One of them came to him
She walks shyly
That is, walking silks
This is the good father
He knows his daughter's need to get married
So I understood her message
Mentioning the most important characteristics of a good husband
So he made an offer
Ali Musa's two daughters
To choose whichever one he wants
To marry her
And he said
I want to marry you
One of my daughters, Yahatin
And so it should
For the good man
If so, seize the opportunity
He had the opportunity to marry his daughter
With a good man
And hope my dear sister
How do I honor God Almighty?
Who adhered to her religion and her life
Which was
She suffers from a lack of masculinity
For the youth of Media
To get her a good husband
Rather, he is a noble prophet
One of the first determination of the Messengers
From outside her city
To marry her
We continue in a meeting
Coming, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
A story of suffering
Women
In the time of Moses
Peace be upon him