1 00:00:00,180 --> 00:00:03,540 In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. 2 00:00:03,540 --> 00:00:06,459 The Ifadah Center 3 00:00:06,459 --> 00:00:09,580 for Humanities Studies and Research 4 00:00:09,580 --> 00:00:10,939 presents: 5 00:00:10,939 --> 00:00:16,300 An Abridgment of Sahih al-Bukhari. 6 00:00:16,300 --> 00:00:20,030 The Book of Menstruation. 7 00:00:20,030 --> 00:00:25,260 Chapter: How Menstruation First Began. 8 00:00:25,260 --> 00:00:29,420 On the authority of 'A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who said: 9 00:00:29,420 --> 00:00:34,859 "We set out with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) during the months of Hajj, 10 00:00:34,859 --> 00:00:36,859 and during the sacred season of Hajj, 11 00:00:36,859 --> 00:00:38,859 and we camped at Sarif." 12 00:00:38,859 --> 00:00:40,299 She said: 13 00:00:40,299 --> 00:00:43,500 "He went out to his Companions and said: 14 00:00:43,500 --> 00:00:46,640 'Whoever among you does not have a sacrificial animal (hady) with him, 15 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,640 and wishes to make it an 'Umrah, let him do so; 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,420 but whoever has a sacrificial animal with him should not.'" 17 00:00:54,420 --> 00:00:55,939 In another narration: 18 00:00:55,939 --> 00:00:58,820 "Had I known beforehand what I came to know later, 19 00:00:58,820 --> 00:01:00,820 I would not have brought the sacrificial animal, 20 00:01:00,820 --> 00:01:04,019 and I would have exited ihram along with the people when they exited it." 21 00:01:04,450 --> 00:01:05,650 She said: 22 00:01:05,650 --> 00:01:10,129 "So among his Companions, there were those who adopted this concession and those who refrained." 23 00:01:10,129 --> 00:01:11,409 She said: 24 00:01:11,409 --> 00:01:17,010 "As for the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) and some men among his Companions, 25 00:01:17,010 --> 00:01:19,170 they were people of means, 26 00:01:19,170 --> 00:01:21,489 and they had sacrificial animals with them, 27 00:01:21,489 --> 00:01:24,299 so they were unable to perform 'Umrah." 28 00:01:24,299 --> 00:01:25,500 She said: 29 00:01:25,500 --> 00:01:31,340 "The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) entered upon me while I was weeping. 30 00:01:31,340 --> 00:01:32,700 He said: 31 00:01:32,780 --> 00:01:35,599 'What makes you weep, O little one?' 32 00:01:35,599 --> 00:01:36,799 I said: 33 00:01:36,799 --> 00:01:39,280 'I heard what you said to your Companions, 34 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,489 and I have been prevented from performing 'Umrah.' 35 00:01:41,489 --> 00:01:42,609 He said: 36 00:01:42,609 --> 00:01:44,370 'What is the matter with you?' 37 00:01:44,370 --> 00:01:45,489 She said: 38 00:01:45,489 --> 00:01:47,489 'I cannot pray [due to menses].' 39 00:01:47,489 --> 00:01:48,609 He said: 40 00:01:48,609 --> 00:01:50,450 'That will not harm you. 41 00:01:50,450 --> 00:01:54,049 You are merely one of the daughters of Adam; 42 00:01:54,049 --> 00:01:57,810 Allah has ordained for you what He has ordained for them. 43 00:01:57,810 --> 00:02:00,579 So continue with your Hajj rites.'" 44 00:02:00,579 --> 00:02:01,939 In another narration: 45 00:02:02,019 --> 00:02:03,540 "'Abandon your 'Umrah, 46 00:02:03,540 --> 00:02:05,299 undo your hair, 47 00:02:05,299 --> 00:02:08,689 comb it, and enter ihram for Hajj.' 48 00:02:08,689 --> 00:02:10,370 And in another narration: 49 00:02:10,370 --> 00:02:12,449 'Cast off your 'Umrah.' 50 00:02:12,449 --> 00:02:14,050 And in another narration: 51 00:02:14,050 --> 00:02:16,449 'Perform all that a pilgrim performs, 52 00:02:16,449 --> 00:02:19,860 except that you do not circumambulate the House, 53 00:02:19,860 --> 00:02:23,360 and may Allah grant you that 'Umrah later.' 54 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:24,800 In another narration: 55 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,080 'Wait; 56 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,439 then, when you become pure, go out to al-Tan'im, 57 00:02:29,439 --> 00:02:30,800 enter ihram for 'Umrah, 58 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,759 and meet us at such-and-such a place. 59 00:02:33,759 --> 00:02:38,210 However, its reward is in proportion to your expenditure or your exertion.' 60 00:02:38,210 --> 00:02:39,810 And in another narration: 61 00:02:39,810 --> 00:02:41,009 She said: 62 00:02:41,009 --> 00:02:47,340 'The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) sacrificed cattle on behalf of his wives.' 63 00:02:47,340 --> 00:02:48,620 She said: 64 00:02:48,620 --> 00:02:50,620 'So we proceeded with his Hajj 65 00:02:50,620 --> 00:02:52,780 until we reached Mina, 66 00:02:52,780 --> 00:02:54,219 where I became pure. 67 00:02:54,219 --> 00:02:56,379 Then I departed from Mina 68 00:02:56,379 --> 00:02:58,620 and performed the Ifadah circumambulation around the House.' 69 00:02:58,620 --> 00:02:59,979 She said: 70 00:03:00,060 --> 00:03:02,939 'Then I departed with him on the final day of departure (an-Nafr al-Akhir) 71 00:03:02,939 --> 00:03:05,419 until he camped at al-Muhassab, 72 00:03:05,419 --> 00:03:07,460 and we camped with him. 73 00:03:07,460 --> 00:03:10,500 He summoned 'Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr 74 00:03:10,500 --> 00:03:11,780 and said: 75 00:03:11,780 --> 00:03:14,259 'Take your sister outside the sacred precinct (Haram), 76 00:03:14,259 --> 00:03:16,419 let her enter ihram for 'Umrah, 77 00:03:16,419 --> 00:03:17,939 and when you both finish, 78 00:03:17,939 --> 00:03:20,340 come to this place, 79 00:03:20,340 --> 00:03:24,500 for I will wait for you both until you return to me.' 80 00:03:24,500 --> 00:03:25,699 She said: 81 00:03:25,699 --> 00:03:27,060 'So we set out, 82 00:03:27,060 --> 00:03:29,139 and when I had finished 83 00:03:29,219 --> 00:03:31,539 and completed the circumambulation, 84 00:03:31,539 --> 00:03:34,099 I returned to him in the late hours of the night before dawn.' 85 00:03:34,099 --> 00:03:35,460 He asked: 86 00:03:35,460 --> 00:03:37,139 'Have you finished?' 87 00:03:37,139 --> 00:03:39,169 I said: 'Yes.' 88 00:03:39,169 --> 00:03:40,610 In another narration: 89 00:03:40,610 --> 00:03:46,819 'And there was no requirement in any of that for a sacrificial animal, charity, or fasting.' 90 00:03:46,819 --> 00:03:49,860 Then he announced the departure among his Companions, 91 00:03:49,860 --> 00:03:51,939 so the people set out, 92 00:03:51,939 --> 00:03:55,710 and he passed by [the Ka'bah] heading toward Medina." 93 00:03:55,710 --> 00:03:57,229 In another narration: 94 00:03:57,229 --> 00:03:58,430 She said: 95 00:03:58,430 --> 00:04:02,270 "Those who had entered ihram for 'Umrah circumambulated the House 96 00:04:02,270 --> 00:04:04,750 and walked between al-Safa and al-Marwah, 97 00:04:04,750 --> 00:04:06,270 and then exited ihram. 98 00:04:06,270 --> 00:04:11,259 They then performed another circumambulation after returning from Mina. 99 00:04:11,259 --> 00:04:14,300 As for those who combined Hajj and 'Umrah (Qiran), 100 00:04:14,300 --> 00:04:18,670 they performed only a single circumambulation." 101 00:04:18,670 --> 00:04:21,839 Commentary on the Hadith: 102 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,040 "At Sarif": 103 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,290 It is a place near Mecca. 104 00:04:26,290 --> 00:04:27,410 "Hady": 105 00:04:27,410 --> 00:04:30,939 That is, the livestock driven as an offering to Mecca. 106 00:04:30,939 --> 00:04:33,259 "So they were unable to perform 'Umrah": 107 00:04:33,259 --> 00:04:35,939 Meaning, it was not permissible for them to do so. 108 00:04:35,939 --> 00:04:37,459 "Ya hantah": 109 00:04:37,459 --> 00:04:39,060 An expression meaning: "O you," 110 00:04:39,060 --> 00:04:42,779 used without implying either praise or blame. 111 00:04:42,779 --> 00:04:44,459 "And I have been prevented from performing 'Umrah": 112 00:04:44,459 --> 00:04:46,939 She wished to perform 'Umrah, 113 00:04:46,939 --> 00:04:48,980 but was prevented by menstruation. 114 00:04:48,980 --> 00:04:50,420 "I cannot pray": 115 00:04:50,420 --> 00:04:52,660 That is, on account of menstruation. 116 00:04:52,660 --> 00:04:54,180 "That will not harm you": 117 00:04:54,180 --> 00:04:55,699 Meaning, it causes you no detriment, 118 00:04:55,699 --> 00:04:57,439 derived from "darar" (harm). 119 00:04:57,439 --> 00:05:00,720 "Allah has ordained for you what He has ordained for them": 120 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:02,670 That is, of menstruation. 121 00:05:02,670 --> 00:05:05,470 "And may Allah grant you that 'Umrah later": 122 00:05:05,470 --> 00:05:07,310 Meaning, the 'Umrah. 123 00:05:07,310 --> 00:05:08,509 "Where I became pure": 124 00:05:08,509 --> 00:05:10,430 That is, from menstruation. 125 00:05:10,430 --> 00:05:12,350 "And performed the Ifadah circumambulation around the House": 126 00:05:12,350 --> 00:05:15,949 Meaning: I performed the Ifadah Tawaf around the Ka'bah. 127 00:05:15,949 --> 00:05:17,790 "On the final day of departure (an-Nafr al-Akhir)": 128 00:05:17,790 --> 00:05:21,519 It is the thirteenth day of Dhu al-Hijjah. 129 00:05:21,519 --> 00:05:23,839 "Until he camped at al-Muhassab": 130 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,519 Al-Abtah, al-Muhassab, and Khayf Bani Kinanah 131 00:05:27,519 --> 00:05:30,000 all refer to a single location, 132 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,980 situated between Mecca and Mina. 133 00:05:32,980 --> 00:05:35,540 "Take your sister outside the sacred precinct (Haram)": 134 00:05:35,540 --> 00:05:37,860 He took her out to al-Tan'im, 135 00:05:37,860 --> 00:05:40,660 which is a place located one parasang from Mecca 136 00:05:40,660 --> 00:05:42,819 along the road to Medina, 137 00:05:42,819 --> 00:05:46,980 where the Mosque of 'A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) stands today. 138 00:05:46,980 --> 00:05:48,899 "Let her enter ihram for 'Umrah": 139 00:05:48,899 --> 00:05:51,569 Meaning, let her assume ihram for 'Umrah. 140 00:05:51,569 --> 00:05:53,250 "Anzurukuma": 141 00:05:53,250 --> 00:05:55,730 Meaning: I will wait for the two of you. 142 00:05:55,730 --> 00:05:57,970 "Then I returned to him in the late hours of the night before dawn": 143 00:05:57,970 --> 00:06:01,939 Al-Sahar refers to the time shortly before the true dawn. 144 00:06:01,939 --> 00:06:03,620 "And undo your hair": 145 00:06:03,620 --> 00:06:05,759 Meaning, the hair of your head. 146 00:06:05,759 --> 00:06:07,600 "Cast off your 'Umrah": 147 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,519 Meaning: abandon your 'Umrah rites. 148 00:06:09,519 --> 00:06:11,079 "Have you finished?": 149 00:06:11,079 --> 00:06:13,279 That is, from the pilgrimage rites. 150 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,360 "Then he announced the departure": 151 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,680 Meaning, he notified the people. 152 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,560 "And he passed by heading toward Medina": 153 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:25,019 Meaning, he passed by the House on his way toward Medina. 154 00:06:25,019 --> 00:06:28,860 Key Benefits Derived from the Hadith: 155 00:06:28,939 --> 00:06:31,100 Among the lessons drawn from this hadith are: 156 00:06:31,100 --> 00:06:35,680 The permissibility of weeping when one is impeded from performing acts of worship; 157 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:40,160 that menstruation precludes ritual prayer and circumambulating the House; 158 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:45,629 the permissibility of a man sacrificing a single cow on behalf of all his wives; 159 00:06:45,629 --> 00:06:49,060 the permissibility of a man offering a sacrifice on behalf of his wife; 160 00:06:49,060 --> 00:06:53,220 the observance of proper etiquette and gracious companionship; 161 00:06:53,220 --> 00:06:58,100 that whoever is within Mecca and intends to perform 'Umrah must assume ihram from the non-sacred area (al-Hill); 162 00:06:58,100 --> 00:07:01,620 the permissibility of a man traveling with his wives; 163 00:07:01,620 --> 00:07:04,500 the permissibility of aspiring to lofty matters 164 00:07:04,500 --> 00:07:08,209 that involve obedience to Allah, the Exalted and Glorious; 165 00:07:08,209 --> 00:07:11,730 and that hardship brings about ease, 166 00:07:11,730 --> 00:07:14,689 as shown by his statement (peace be upon him): 167 00:07:14,689 --> 00:07:16,459 "That will not harm you." 168 00:07:16,459 --> 00:07:19,899 Furthermore, al-Bukhari's chapter headings for this hadith 169 00:07:19,899 --> 00:07:23,740 reflect many of his juridical preferences regarding the rulings of Hajj, 170 00:07:23,740 --> 00:07:27,759 so let the student ponder them. 171 00:07:27,839 --> 00:07:32,670 Chapter: A Menstruating Woman Washing and Combing Her Husband's Hair. 172 00:07:32,670 --> 00:07:34,189 On the authority of 'Urwah, 173 00:07:34,189 --> 00:07:35,870 who was asked: 174 00:07:35,870 --> 00:07:37,870 "May a menstruating woman serve me, 175 00:07:37,870 --> 00:07:41,420 or may a woman approach me while she is in a state of major ritual impurity (janabah)?" 176 00:07:41,420 --> 00:07:43,100 'Urwah replied: 177 00:07:43,100 --> 00:07:45,899 "All of that is inconsequential to me, 178 00:07:45,899 --> 00:07:48,540 and in all such states she may serve me; 179 00:07:48,540 --> 00:07:52,139 there is no harm in that for anyone. 180 00:07:52,139 --> 00:07:54,220 'A'ishah informed me 181 00:07:54,220 --> 00:07:56,620 that she used to comb 182 00:07:56,620 --> 00:08:00,540 the hair of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 183 00:08:00,540 --> 00:08:02,379 while she was menstruating, 184 00:08:02,379 --> 00:08:05,180 and the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 185 00:08:05,180 --> 00:08:08,220 would be secluded in i'tikaf in the mosque at the time; 186 00:08:08,220 --> 00:08:10,459 he would lean his head toward her 187 00:08:10,459 --> 00:08:12,699 while she remained in her chamber, 188 00:08:12,699 --> 00:08:16,100 and she would comb his hair while menstruating." 189 00:08:16,100 --> 00:08:17,620 In another narration: 190 00:08:17,620 --> 00:08:20,819 "And he would not enter the house except to relieve a need 191 00:08:20,819 --> 00:08:24,139 whenever he was in i'tikaf." 192 00:08:24,139 --> 00:08:27,519 Commentary on the Hadith: 193 00:08:27,519 --> 00:08:29,199 "Approach me": 194 00:08:29,199 --> 00:08:31,420 Meaning, come near me. 195 00:08:31,420 --> 00:08:32,860 "All of that": 196 00:08:32,860 --> 00:08:35,259 Meaning, whether menstruating or in major ritual impurity. 197 00:08:35,259 --> 00:08:36,940 "Is inconsequential to me": 198 00:08:36,940 --> 00:08:39,100 Meaning: it is completely permissible and uncomplicated for me. 199 00:08:39,100 --> 00:08:42,299 and no one is at fault for doing so; 200 00:08:42,299 --> 00:08:45,600 meaning there is no blame in being served by a menstruating woman. 201 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:46,960 "She combs": 202 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,549 meaning she grooms and styles his hair. 203 00:08:49,549 --> 00:08:50,750 "Observing i'tikaf": 204 00:08:50,750 --> 00:08:52,590 meaning remaining in seclusion in the mosque. 205 00:08:52,590 --> 00:08:54,669 "He would bring his head near to her": 206 00:08:54,669 --> 00:08:58,049 meaning he would draw his head close to 'A'ishah. 207 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:03,919 Derived from this hadith: 208 00:09:03,919 --> 00:09:07,279 the permissibility of a menstruating woman serving her husband; 209 00:09:07,279 --> 00:09:10,399 the permissibility for men to groom and comb their hair 210 00:09:10,399 --> 00:09:12,960 and engage in similar forms of proper grooming; 211 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,679 and that a menstruating woman does not enter the mosque, 212 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,480 out of veneration and keeping it purified. 213 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,960 It also establishes the ritual purity of the menstruating woman's body, 214 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,279 apart from the site of bleeding. 215 00:09:23,279 --> 00:09:24,559 Furthermore, the hadith shows 216 00:09:24,639 --> 00:09:27,759 that the physical intimacy prohibited for the person in i'tikaf 217 00:09:27,759 --> 00:09:30,000 is strictly sexual intercourse. 218 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,399 It also contains an analogy comparing one in major ritual impurity to a menstruating woman 219 00:09:32,399 --> 00:09:34,159 regarding physical closeness and being served, 220 00:09:34,159 --> 00:09:39,059 because both share the state of major ritual impurity. 221 00:09:39,059 --> 00:09:42,259 Chapter: A Man Reciting in His Wife's Lap 222 00:09:42,259 --> 00:09:44,659 While She Is Menstruating. 223 00:09:44,659 --> 00:09:46,820 On the authority of 'A'ishah, who said: 224 00:09:46,820 --> 00:09:49,620 "The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, 225 00:09:49,620 --> 00:09:51,299 used to recite the Qur'an 226 00:09:51,299 --> 00:09:53,139 with his head resting in my lap 227 00:09:53,139 --> 00:09:55,779 while I was menstruating." 228 00:09:55,860 --> 00:09:59,149 Commentary on the hadith: 229 00:09:59,149 --> 00:10:02,379 "My lap" refers to her bosom or lap. 230 00:10:02,379 --> 00:10:06,129 Among the benefits of this hadith: 231 00:10:06,129 --> 00:10:08,370 it is derived from the hadith 232 00:10:08,370 --> 00:10:10,370 that the body of a menstruating woman is ritually pure, 233 00:10:10,370 --> 00:10:12,529 except for the site of bleeding; 234 00:10:12,529 --> 00:10:18,769 and it indicates the permissibility of a menstruating woman listening to the Qur'an. 235 00:10:18,769 --> 00:10:21,490 Chapter: Calling Postnatal Bleeding Menstruation, 236 00:10:21,490 --> 00:10:24,539 and Menstruation Postnatal Bleeding. 237 00:10:24,539 --> 00:10:27,100 On the authority of Zaynab bint Abi Salamah, 238 00:10:27,100 --> 00:10:29,580 that Umm Salamah said: 239 00:10:29,580 --> 00:10:33,340 "My menses began while I was lying with the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, 240 00:10:33,340 --> 00:10:34,860 under a plush wool blanket, 241 00:10:34,860 --> 00:10:37,740 so I slipped away and stepped out from it, 242 00:10:37,740 --> 00:10:41,419 took my menstruation garments, and put them on. 243 00:10:41,419 --> 00:10:45,419 The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said to me: 244 00:10:45,419 --> 00:10:46,940 'Has your bleeding begun?' 245 00:10:46,940 --> 00:10:48,620 I said, 'Yes.' 246 00:10:48,620 --> 00:10:49,899 So he called me 247 00:10:49,899 --> 00:10:52,860 and had me enter with him under the plush blanket." 248 00:10:52,860 --> 00:10:54,059 She said: 249 00:10:54,059 --> 00:10:57,980 "And she narrated to me that the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, 250 00:10:58,059 --> 00:11:01,179 used to kiss her while he was fasting, 251 00:11:01,179 --> 00:11:05,419 and the Prophet, peace be upon him, and I used to perform ghusl 252 00:11:05,419 --> 00:11:09,539 from a single vessel following major ritual impurity." 253 00:11:09,539 --> 00:11:13,149 Commentary on the hadith: 254 00:11:13,149 --> 00:11:14,509 "The plush blanket" (al-khamilah) 255 00:11:14,509 --> 00:11:16,509 is a garment with a plush, velvety nap, 256 00:11:16,509 --> 00:11:18,110 resembling velvet; 257 00:11:18,110 --> 00:11:19,230 and it is said 258 00:11:19,230 --> 00:11:22,450 that the term specifically denotes a black plush garment. 259 00:11:22,450 --> 00:11:23,809 "So I slipped away": 260 00:11:23,809 --> 00:11:25,730 meaning she withdrew quietly and inconspicuously, 261 00:11:25,730 --> 00:11:29,090 out of concern that any of her blood might touch him, 262 00:11:29,090 --> 00:11:31,250 or fearing that revelation might descend, 263 00:11:31,250 --> 00:11:33,139 so she slipped away. 264 00:11:33,139 --> 00:11:34,500 "Has your bleeding begun?": 265 00:11:34,500 --> 00:11:36,850 meaning, has your menstruation started? 266 00:11:36,850 --> 00:11:40,419 Among the benefits of this hadith: 267 00:11:40,419 --> 00:11:42,500 it is derived from the hadith 268 00:11:42,500 --> 00:11:47,330 that one is guided to treat wives with kindness and gentleness during menstruation; 269 00:11:47,330 --> 00:11:49,409 the ritual purity of the menstruating woman's body, 270 00:11:49,409 --> 00:11:51,649 except for the site of bleeding; 271 00:11:51,649 --> 00:11:55,970 and an indication that the legal rulings of menstruation and postnatal bleeding are the same 272 00:11:55,970 --> 00:11:59,009 regarding the prohibition of prayer, the invalidity of fasting, 273 00:11:59,090 --> 00:12:00,929 and similar matters. 274 00:12:00,929 --> 00:12:04,850 It also shows the permissibility of a woman purifying herself with leftover water from a man, 275 00:12:04,850 --> 00:12:07,169 while scholars differ regarding the reverse; 276 00:12:07,169 --> 00:12:14,129 and the permissibility of a man looking at his wife's private parts and vice versa. 277 00:12:14,129 --> 00:12:17,629 Chapter: Physical Intimacy with a Menstruating Wife. 278 00:12:17,629 --> 00:12:19,870 On the authority of 'A'ishah, who said: 279 00:12:19,870 --> 00:12:23,389 "Whenever one of us was menstruating 280 00:12:23,389 --> 00:12:28,750 and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, wished to be intimate with her, 281 00:12:28,750 --> 00:12:32,669 he would tell her to wrap an izar tightly around her waist at the height of her menses, 282 00:12:32,669 --> 00:12:34,909 and then be intimate with her." 283 00:12:34,909 --> 00:12:36,110 She added: 284 00:12:36,110 --> 00:12:43,580 "And which of you can master his desires as the Prophet, peace be upon him, mastered his?" 285 00:12:43,580 --> 00:12:45,899 And on the authority of Maymunah, who said: 286 00:12:45,899 --> 00:12:53,100 "Whenever the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, wished to be intimate with one of his wives, 287 00:12:53,100 --> 00:12:57,600 he would instruct her to wear an izar while she was menstruating." 288 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:01,100 Commentary on the hadith: 289 00:13:01,100 --> 00:13:03,730 Chapter: Physical Intimacy with a Menstruating Wife. 290 00:13:03,730 --> 00:13:09,409 Intimacy here refers to skin-to-skin contact and the foreplay 291 00:13:09,409 --> 00:13:10,850 leading up to intercourse, 292 00:13:10,850 --> 00:13:14,029 because intercourse with a menstruating woman is unlawful. 293 00:13:14,029 --> 00:13:15,549 "To wrap an izar": 294 00:13:15,549 --> 00:13:18,740 meaning to tie a waist-wrapper firmly around herself. 295 00:13:18,740 --> 00:13:20,659 "At the height of her menses": 296 00:13:20,659 --> 00:13:22,500 meaning when the bleeding is at its heaviest; 297 00:13:22,500 --> 00:13:23,460 and it is said: 298 00:13:23,460 --> 00:13:26,620 at the very onset of her menstrual cycle. 299 00:13:26,620 --> 00:13:28,940 "And which of you can master his desires": 300 00:13:28,940 --> 00:13:30,139 the word "irb" 301 00:13:30,139 --> 00:13:32,779 refers to the physical urge for sexual intercourse; 302 00:13:32,779 --> 00:13:33,980 and the intended meaning is 303 00:13:33,980 --> 00:13:38,750 that he possessed complete self-control, never lapsing into what is prohibited. 304 00:13:38,750 --> 00:13:42,129 Among the benefits of this hadith: 305 00:13:42,129 --> 00:13:44,289 it is derived from the hadith 306 00:13:44,289 --> 00:13:47,970 that physical intimacy with a menstruating wife is permissible short of intercourse; 307 00:13:47,970 --> 00:13:50,450 and it establishes the ritual purity of the menstruating woman's body, 308 00:13:50,450 --> 00:13:52,610 except for the site of bleeding; 309 00:13:52,610 --> 00:13:55,730 and that intercourse with a menstruating woman is explicitly unlawful by textual proof, 310 00:13:55,730 --> 00:13:58,049 though scholars differ regarding expiation. 311 00:13:58,049 --> 00:14:01,009 It also highlights the great right of the husband, 312 00:14:01,009 --> 00:14:03,090 as the wife serves her husband 313 00:14:03,090 --> 00:14:07,840 even during her period of menstruation. 314 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:11,490 Chapter: The Menstruating Woman Abstaining from Fasting. 315 00:14:11,490 --> 00:14:15,809 On the authority of Abu Sa'id al-Khudri, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: 316 00:14:15,809 --> 00:14:18,929 "The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, went out 317 00:14:18,929 --> 00:14:22,529 on the day of Adha or Fitr to the prayer ground. 318 00:14:22,529 --> 00:14:24,129 Then he turned, 319 00:14:24,129 --> 00:14:27,649 exhorted the people, and commanded them to give charity, 320 00:14:27,649 --> 00:14:29,009 saying: 321 00:14:29,009 --> 00:14:32,139 'O people, give charity!' 322 00:14:32,139 --> 00:14:34,059 Then he passed by the women 323 00:14:34,059 --> 00:14:35,340 and said: 324 00:14:35,340 --> 00:14:38,460 'O gathering of women, give charity, 325 00:14:38,460 --> 00:14:42,529 for I have seen that you constitute the majority of the dwellers of the Fire.' 326 00:14:42,529 --> 00:14:46,289 We said, 'And why is that, O Messenger of Allah?' 327 00:14:46,289 --> 00:14:47,490 He said: 328 00:14:47,490 --> 00:14:49,250 'You curse frequently 329 00:14:49,250 --> 00:14:51,740 and are ungrateful to your husbands. 330 00:14:51,740 --> 00:14:55,259 I have never seen anyone deficient in intellect and religion 331 00:14:55,259 --> 00:15:01,740 more capable of swaying the mind of a resolute man than one of you, O women.' 332 00:15:01,740 --> 00:15:03,179 In one narration: 333 00:15:03,179 --> 00:15:08,179 'We said, "And what is the deficiency of our religion and our intellect, O Messenger of Allah?" 334 00:15:08,179 --> 00:15:09,379 He said: 335 00:15:09,379 --> 00:15:14,100 "Is not the testimony of a woman equal to half the testimony of a man?" 336 00:15:14,100 --> 00:15:15,700 We said, "Yes." 337 00:15:15,700 --> 00:15:16,740 He said: 338 00:15:16,740 --> 00:15:20,000 "That is from the deficiency of her intellect. 339 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:24,080 Is it not so that when she menstruates, she neither prays nor fasts?" 340 00:15:24,159 --> 00:15:25,840 We said, "Yes." 341 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:27,039 He said: 342 00:15:27,039 --> 00:15:30,720 "That is from the deficiency of her religion."' 343 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:32,320 Then he departed. 344 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,799 When he arrived at his home, 345 00:15:34,799 --> 00:15:36,559 Zaynab, 346 00:15:36,559 --> 00:15:38,480 the wife of Ibn Mas'ud, arrived, 347 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,480 asking permission to enter upon him. 348 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:41,519 It was said: 349 00:15:41,519 --> 00:15:43,120 'O Messenger of Allah, 350 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,039 here is Zaynab.' 351 00:15:45,039 --> 00:15:46,240 He asked: 352 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,080 'Which of the Zaynabs?' 353 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:49,200 It was said: 354 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,440 'The wife of Ibn Mas'ud.' 355 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:52,480 He said: 356 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:53,279 'Yes, 357 00:15:53,279 --> 00:15:55,039 permit her to enter.' 358 00:15:55,039 --> 00:15:56,639 So she was granted permission, 359 00:15:56,639 --> 00:15:57,919 and she said: 360 00:15:57,919 --> 00:15:59,679 'O Prophet of Allah, 361 00:15:59,679 --> 00:16:02,720 you commanded charity today, 362 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:05,600 and I had some jewelry belonging to me 363 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,320 which I intended to give away as charity, 364 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:10,240 but Ibn Mas'ud claimed 365 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:15,360 that he and his children are more deserving of what I give in charity.' 366 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:18,799 The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: 367 00:16:18,799 --> 00:16:21,039 'Ibn Mas'ud has spoken the truth; 368 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:27,149 your husband and your children are most entitled to what you give in charity.'" 369 00:16:27,149 --> 00:16:30,700 Commentary on the hadith: 370 00:16:30,700 --> 00:16:31,980 "He exhorted": 371 00:16:31,980 --> 00:16:36,539 exhortation is reminding people of good and warning against evil, 372 00:16:36,539 --> 00:16:40,909 and similar speech that softens the heart of the listener. 373 00:16:40,909 --> 00:16:43,070 "O gathering of women": 374 00:16:43,070 --> 00:16:47,860 a gathering (ma'shar) refers to any group sharing a common state. 375 00:16:47,860 --> 00:16:49,539 "You curse frequently": 376 00:16:49,539 --> 00:16:50,899 cursing here 377 00:16:50,980 --> 00:16:53,539 means invoking banishment from Allah's mercy 378 00:16:53,539 --> 00:16:56,129 and distance from good. 379 00:16:56,129 --> 00:16:58,129 "And are ungrateful to your husbands": 380 00:16:58,129 --> 00:17:00,210 the word "ashir" means the husband, 381 00:17:00,210 --> 00:17:02,450 and it is also said to mean anyone with whom one associates closely; 382 00:17:02,450 --> 00:17:04,369 and the meaning of ingratitude (kufr) here 383 00:17:04,369 --> 00:17:06,210 is denial of good treatment. 384 00:17:06,210 --> 00:17:08,289 For he is a maintainer over her, 385 00:17:08,289 --> 00:17:09,569 yet she denies his kindness 386 00:17:09,569 --> 00:17:13,390 owing to the vulnerability of her intellect and her limited discernment. 387 00:17:13,390 --> 00:17:16,349 "More capable of swaying the mind of a resolute man": 388 00:17:16,349 --> 00:17:18,509 "lubb" means the intellect, 389 00:17:18,509 --> 00:17:19,789 and "resolute" 390 00:17:19,869 --> 00:17:22,990 refers to one who is cautious, firm, and discerning in his affairs. 391 00:17:22,990 --> 00:17:24,720 Zaynab: 392 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:28,559 it is said she is Zaynab bint Mu'awiyah al-Thaqafiyyah, 393 00:17:28,559 --> 00:17:31,119 the wife of 'Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud, 394 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,519 and her agnomen was Ra'itah; 395 00:17:33,519 --> 00:17:35,599 other opinions have also been stated. 396 00:17:35,599 --> 00:17:37,119 "He claimed": 397 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:38,559 Meaning that he said: 398 00:17:38,559 --> 00:17:43,339 "Your husband and your child are the most deserving of those upon whom you bestow charity." 399 00:17:43,339 --> 00:17:46,220 That is, as long as the need exists, 400 00:17:46,220 --> 00:17:48,940 and the charity is voluntary charity, 401 00:17:49,099 --> 00:17:51,579 then spending it upon the husband and the child 402 00:17:51,579 --> 00:17:54,619 is better than spending it upon others. 403 00:17:54,619 --> 00:17:59,250 Points of Benefit from the Hadith: 404 00:17:59,250 --> 00:18:01,329 It is derived from the hadith: 405 00:18:01,329 --> 00:18:05,250 Going out to the prayer place (musalla) to perform the 'Eid prayer; 406 00:18:05,250 --> 00:18:09,250 The prescribed nature of women attending the 'Eid prayer; 407 00:18:09,250 --> 00:18:12,529 Singling out women for exhortation and reminder 408 00:18:12,529 --> 00:18:15,250 in a gathering separate from that of men, 409 00:18:15,250 --> 00:18:18,210 provided it does not lead to any harm or corruption; 410 00:18:18,369 --> 00:18:22,450 In it is the command for those guilty of sins and infractions to give charity, 411 00:18:22,450 --> 00:18:25,809 because it is among the means of repelling the punishment of Hellfire; 412 00:18:25,809 --> 00:18:29,250 In it is the permissibility of interceding on behalf of the destitute; 413 00:18:29,250 --> 00:18:33,579 The permissibility of applying the term "kufr" to ingratitude for blessings (kufr al-ni'mah); 414 00:18:33,579 --> 00:18:37,900 In the hadith is an indication toward firmness in admonishing by highlighting the underlying flaw 415 00:18:37,900 --> 00:18:44,240 that prompts the removal of the defect and sin with which a person is characterized; 416 00:18:44,319 --> 00:18:49,839 In it is taking care to mention matters most urgently needed by the addressees; 417 00:18:49,839 --> 00:18:53,200 Offering sincere advice to whoever needs it 418 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,440 and taking the initiative to go to them with it; 419 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,240 Addressing people in general terms 420 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,440 rather than singling out a specific individual, 421 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:05,279 for in generality there is comfort and ease of acceptance; 422 00:19:05,279 --> 00:19:09,119 The prescribed nature of women seeking permission to enter upon men; 423 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:13,920 The prescribed nature of inquiring about the one seeking permission and asking for their lineage or identity; 424 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:19,119 And the permissibility of a woman giving in charity from her own wealth without her husband's permission. 425 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:24,609 Chapter: Washing Menstrual Blood. 426 00:19:24,609 --> 00:19:26,849 On the authority of 'A'ishah, who said: 427 00:19:26,849 --> 00:19:29,170 "One of us would menstruate, 428 00:19:29,170 --> 00:19:33,410 then she would pinch the blood from her garment upon attaining purity, 429 00:19:33,410 --> 00:19:37,009 wash it, sprinkle water over the rest of the garment, 430 00:19:37,009 --> 00:19:40,019 and then pray in it." 431 00:19:40,019 --> 00:19:43,390 Commentary on the Hadith: 432 00:19:43,390 --> 00:19:45,150 "She would pinch the blood" (taqrusuhu), 433 00:19:45,390 --> 00:19:48,990 meaning she would rub it with the fingertips and fingernails 434 00:19:48,990 --> 00:19:52,829 while pouring water over it until it was removed. 435 00:19:52,829 --> 00:19:55,630 "Tandahu", meaning she would sprinkle water 436 00:19:55,630 --> 00:19:59,650 "over the rest of it", meaning over the remainder of the garment. 437 00:20:03,460 --> 00:20:05,700 It is derived from the hadith: 438 00:20:05,700 --> 00:20:08,900 A menstruating woman does not have to wash her entire garment, 439 00:20:08,900 --> 00:20:13,089 but rather only washes the part where impurity is confirmed; 440 00:20:13,089 --> 00:20:17,250 And the practice of the Mothers of the Believers in acts of worship 441 00:20:17,250 --> 00:20:21,890 carries the ruling of being marfu' (raised to the Prophet). 442 00:20:21,890 --> 00:20:25,730 Chapter: I'tikaf for the Woman Experiencing Chronic Vaginal Bleeding (Istihadah). 443 00:20:25,730 --> 00:20:29,410 On the authority of 'A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who said: 444 00:20:29,410 --> 00:20:33,170 "A woman from among the Prophet's wives who was experiencing istihadah 445 00:20:33,170 --> 00:20:36,769 performed i'tikaf with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). 446 00:20:36,769 --> 00:20:39,980 She would see red and yellowish discharge, 447 00:20:39,980 --> 00:20:45,660 and we would sometimes place a basin beneath her while she was praying." 448 00:20:45,740 --> 00:20:49,230 Commentary on the Hadith: 449 00:20:49,230 --> 00:20:52,380 Chapter: I'tikaf for the Woman Experiencing Istihadah. 450 00:20:52,380 --> 00:20:57,069 I'tikaf is remaining in the mosque with a specific intention. 451 00:20:57,069 --> 00:21:03,140 Istihadah is the continuation of bleeding in a woman beyond the days of her menstrual period. 452 00:21:03,140 --> 00:21:05,460 "A woman from among his wives": 453 00:21:05,460 --> 00:21:09,700 It is said she was Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her), 454 00:21:09,700 --> 00:21:14,019 and it is said Sawdah bint Zam'ah (may Allah be pleased with her), 455 00:21:14,099 --> 00:21:20,819 and it is said Ramlah, Umm Habibah bint Abi Sufyan (may Allah be pleased with her). 456 00:21:20,819 --> 00:21:26,670 "The basin" (tast) is like a pot made of brass or stone. 457 00:21:26,670 --> 00:21:30,299 Points of Benefit from the Hadith: 458 00:21:30,299 --> 00:21:36,019 It is derived from the hadith that the status of a woman experiencing istihadah is like that of a pure woman; 459 00:21:36,019 --> 00:21:46,299 And in it is the permissibility of i'tikaf for someone suffering from urinary incontinence or a bleeding wound, by analogy to the woman with istihadah. 460 00:21:46,380 --> 00:21:52,130 Chapter: May a Woman Pray in a Garment in Which She Menstruated? 461 00:21:52,130 --> 00:21:59,970 On the authority of 'A'ishah, who said: "None of us had more than a single garment in which she would menstruate. 462 00:21:59,970 --> 00:22:08,259 If any blood got onto it, she would moisten it with her saliva and scrape it off with her fingernail." 463 00:22:08,259 --> 00:22:11,630 Commentary on the Hadith: 464 00:22:11,630 --> 00:22:20,829 "She used her saliva", meaning she wetted it with her saliva and rubbed it; "al-qas'" means rubbing and working it out. 465 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:31,119 It is derived from the hadith that it is permissible to remove impurity with something other than water, 466 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:39,819 and that removing impurity does not require a specific number of washings; rather, what matters is achieving cleanliness. 467 00:22:39,819 --> 00:22:45,710 Chapter: Perfume for a Woman When Purifying Herself from Menses. 468 00:22:45,710 --> 00:22:53,490 On the authority of Umm 'Atiyyah: In a narration, a son of Umm 'Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) passed away, 469 00:22:53,490 --> 00:22:59,940 and when the third day arrived, she called for a yellowish perfume (sufrah) and wiped it over herself. 470 00:22:59,940 --> 00:23:09,059 Reporting from the Prophet (peace be upon him), she said: "We were forbidden to mourn for any deceased person beyond three days, 471 00:23:09,140 --> 00:23:13,779 except for a husband, which is four months and ten days; 472 00:23:13,779 --> 00:23:17,380 and we were not to wear kohl, apply perfume, 473 00:23:17,380 --> 00:23:22,690 or wear dyed clothes, except for patterned Yemeni garments ('asb). 474 00:23:22,690 --> 00:23:28,289 But we were granted a concession, upon attaining purity when one of us washed after her menses, 475 00:23:28,289 --> 00:23:31,789 to use a small piece of costus and 'azfar perfume. 476 00:23:31,789 --> 00:23:36,059 And we were forbidden from following funeral processions," 477 00:23:36,140 --> 00:23:40,720 and in a narration: "though it was not made strictly binding upon us." 478 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,579 Commentary on the Hadith: 479 00:23:44,579 --> 00:23:49,730 "We were forbidden", meaning prevented from mourning over a deceased person. 480 00:23:49,730 --> 00:23:54,049 Mourning (ihdad) is for a woman to abandon adornment, perfume, 481 00:23:54,049 --> 00:23:58,829 and anything that invites marriage proposals for a specified duration. 482 00:23:58,829 --> 00:24:03,809 "Beyond three", meaning three nights along with their days. 483 00:24:03,890 --> 00:24:07,970 "Except for a husband, four months and ten days", 484 00:24:07,970 --> 00:24:12,910 because usually the movement of the fetus becomes evident within that period. 485 00:24:12,910 --> 00:24:18,190 "Except a garment of 'asb", which refers to striped Yemeni cloaks. 486 00:24:18,190 --> 00:24:21,710 "A small piece" (nubdhah), meaning a small amount. 487 00:24:21,710 --> 00:24:25,309 "Costus" (qust/kust) is a type of perfume. 488 00:24:25,309 --> 00:24:28,750 "'Azfar" is attributed to Dhafar, 489 00:24:28,750 --> 00:24:31,710 which is a coastal region of Aden; 490 00:24:31,789 --> 00:24:34,430 and it is also said that "qust azfar" 491 00:24:34,430 --> 00:24:37,230 is a type of black fragrance, 492 00:24:37,230 --> 00:24:41,140 a piece of which resembles a fingernail (zufur). 493 00:24:41,140 --> 00:24:44,859 Points of Benefit from the Hadith: 494 00:24:44,859 --> 00:24:46,940 It is derived from the hadith: 495 00:24:46,940 --> 00:24:50,859 A Companion's statement "we were forbidden" or "we were granted a concession" 496 00:24:50,859 --> 00:24:53,279 carries the ruling of being marfu' (raised to the Prophet); 497 00:24:53,279 --> 00:24:54,880 The scholars are unanimously agreed 498 00:24:54,880 --> 00:25:00,240 that it is impermissible for a mourning woman to wear safflower-dyed or brightly colored garments, 499 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,960 except for what is dyed black; 500 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,000 The general rule for a woman observing the post-bereavement waiting period ('iddat al-wafat) 501 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,640 is that she observes it by months, 502 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,039 but if she is pregnant, 503 00:25:11,039 --> 00:25:13,710 then her waiting period ends with the delivery of the child; 504 00:25:13,710 --> 00:25:15,230 And the apparent meaning of the hadith 505 00:25:15,230 --> 00:25:18,430 indicates that following funeral processions for women is disliked (makruh), 506 00:25:18,430 --> 00:25:21,710 due to the statement of Umm 'Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her): 507 00:25:21,710 --> 00:25:26,559 "Though it was not made strictly binding upon us." 508 00:25:26,559 --> 00:25:28,720 Chapter: A Woman Rubbing Her Body 509 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,279 When Purifying Herself from Menses, 510 00:25:31,279 --> 00:25:33,200 How She Performs Ghusl, 511 00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:35,920 and Takes a Piece of Cloth Scented with Musk 512 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,759 to Trace the Traces of Blood. 513 00:25:39,759 --> 00:25:41,279 On the authority of 'A'ishah, 514 00:25:41,279 --> 00:25:45,200 that a woman asked the Prophet (peace be upon him) 515 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,839 about her ghusl from menses. 516 00:25:47,839 --> 00:25:50,640 So he instructed her on how to perform ghusl, 517 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,839 and said: 518 00:25:51,839 --> 00:25:54,160 "Take a piece of cloth scented with musk 519 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,539 and purify yourself with it." 520 00:25:56,539 --> 00:25:57,900 In a narration: 521 00:25:57,900 --> 00:26:00,420 "And perform ablution three times." 522 00:26:00,420 --> 00:26:01,460 She asked: 523 00:26:01,460 --> 00:26:03,460 "How do I purify myself with it?" 524 00:26:03,460 --> 00:26:04,500 He said: 525 00:26:04,500 --> 00:26:06,660 "Purify yourself with it." 526 00:26:06,660 --> 00:26:07,700 She asked: 527 00:26:07,700 --> 00:26:08,980 "How?" 528 00:26:08,980 --> 00:26:10,019 He said: 529 00:26:10,019 --> 00:26:11,700 "Glory be to Allah (Subhan Allah)! 530 00:26:11,700 --> 00:26:13,380 Purify yourself!" 531 00:26:13,380 --> 00:26:14,900 In a narration: 532 00:26:14,900 --> 00:26:19,220 Then the Prophet (peace be upon him) felt shy 533 00:26:19,220 --> 00:26:21,440 and turned his face away, 534 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,869 so I pulled her toward me. 535 00:26:23,869 --> 00:26:25,230 In a narration, 536 00:26:25,230 --> 00:26:26,990 'A'ishah said: 537 00:26:26,990 --> 00:26:32,029 "I understood what the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) meant, 538 00:26:32,029 --> 00:26:33,230 so I said: 539 00:26:33,230 --> 00:26:37,250 'Trace the traces of blood with it.'" 540 00:26:37,250 --> 00:26:40,559 Commentary on the Hadith: 541 00:26:40,559 --> 00:26:41,759 "A woman": 542 00:26:41,759 --> 00:26:44,539 She was Asma' bint Shakl. 543 00:26:44,539 --> 00:26:46,460 "A piece of cloth scented with musk" (firsah min misk), 544 00:26:46,460 --> 00:26:48,059 meaning a piece of cotton 545 00:26:48,059 --> 00:26:50,380 or a rag scented with musk 546 00:26:50,380 --> 00:26:53,180 with which a woman cleanses herself after menstruation; 547 00:26:53,180 --> 00:26:56,220 and it is also said to be a piece of scented leather. 548 00:26:56,220 --> 00:26:58,299 "I pulled her toward me", 549 00:26:58,299 --> 00:27:00,960 meaning I drew her close to myself. 550 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,680 "Trace the traces of blood with it", 551 00:27:03,759 --> 00:27:06,339 meaning with that scented piece. 552 00:27:06,339 --> 00:27:10,109 Points of Benefit from the Hadith: 553 00:27:10,109 --> 00:27:12,349 It is derived from the hadith: 554 00:27:12,349 --> 00:27:18,349 Modesty does not prevent asking about essential matters of religious law; 555 00:27:18,349 --> 00:27:21,549 Expressing astonishment by saying "Subhan Allah"; 556 00:27:21,549 --> 00:27:25,230 That women are better suited to teach other women; 557 00:27:25,230 --> 00:27:29,710 The recommendation of perfuming oneself for a woman performing ghusl from menses and post-natal bleeding, 558 00:27:29,710 --> 00:27:34,430 applied to all areas of her body touched by blood; 559 00:27:34,430 --> 00:27:38,829 The recommendation of using euphemisms for sensitive body parts ('awrah); 560 00:27:38,829 --> 00:27:41,710 And explaining a scholar's words in his presence 561 00:27:41,710 --> 00:27:43,470 to someone who did not understand them, 562 00:27:43,470 --> 00:27:48,779 if it is known that the scholar would welcome that. 563 00:27:48,779 --> 00:27:51,579 Chapter: The Statement of Allah, the Exalted and Majestic: 564 00:27:51,579 --> 00:27:56,109 "Formed and unformed." 565 00:27:56,109 --> 00:27:57,869 On the authority of Anas ibn Malik, 566 00:27:57,869 --> 00:28:02,130 from the Prophet (peace be upon him), who said: 567 00:28:02,130 --> 00:28:06,690 "Allah, the Exalted and Majestic, has appointed an angel over the womb, 568 00:28:06,849 --> 00:28:08,289 who says: 569 00:28:08,289 --> 00:28:10,210 'O Lord, a drop of semen (nutfah); 570 00:28:10,210 --> 00:28:12,289 O Lord, a clinging clot ('alaqah); 571 00:28:12,289 --> 00:28:14,460 O Lord, a lump of flesh (mudghah).' 572 00:28:14,460 --> 00:28:18,140 Then, when He wills to decree its creation, the angel says: 573 00:28:18,140 --> 00:28:20,619 'Male or female? 574 00:28:20,619 --> 00:28:23,180 Wretched or blessed? 575 00:28:23,180 --> 00:28:25,740 What is the provision and the lifespan?' 576 00:28:25,740 --> 00:28:29,170 And that is recorded while it is in its mother's womb." 577 00:28:29,170 --> 00:28:32,369 Commentary on the Hadith: 578 00:28:32,369 --> 00:28:34,450 Chapter: The Statement of Allah, the Exalted and Majestic: 579 00:28:34,450 --> 00:28:37,599 "Formed and unformed." 580 00:28:37,599 --> 00:28:42,319 "Formed" means shaped into a complete human form, 581 00:28:42,319 --> 00:28:44,160 and "unformed" 582 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,920 means cast out by the womb before complete development. 583 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,200 "'Alaqah" 584 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,160 means thick, congealed blood. 585 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,359 "Mudghah" 586 00:28:53,359 --> 00:28:55,039 means a piece of flesh 587 00:28:55,039 --> 00:28:58,380 the size of what a person can chew. 588 00:28:58,380 --> 00:29:01,950 Points of Benefit from the Hadith: 589 00:29:01,950 --> 00:29:03,150 In the hadith 590 00:29:03,150 --> 00:29:06,750 is an indication that a pregnant woman does not menstruate, 591 00:29:06,910 --> 00:29:09,390 because the womb's containment of the fetus 592 00:29:09,390 --> 00:29:12,109 prevents the discharge of menstrual blood; 593 00:29:12,109 --> 00:29:14,589 In it is belief in the angels 594 00:29:14,589 --> 00:29:17,710 and mention of one of their assigned duties; 595 00:29:17,710 --> 00:29:21,309 and the obligation of believing in divine decree and predestination.