Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai
Nau'in maza
A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’
Mace tana son magana da mijinta
Wannan doguwar magana ce
Hadisi ko shuka?
Uwar Muminai Aisha Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ruwaito
Akan Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
Yana sauraronta
Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
Wannan daidai ne a cikin wannan hadisin
Duk dai daga fadar A’isha, Allah Ya yarda da ita
Sai dai abin da Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce mata
Na kasance a gare ku kamar uban shuka ga uwar shuka
Wannan shi ne abin da malaman gyara suka hadu a kai
Sai Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya saurari Aisha
Tayi maganar haka
Daga kyakykyawan mu'amalar da yake yiwa matansa Allah ya jikansa da rahama
Ba wannan al'amari ba ne kaɗai ke faruwa ba
Hujjojin kyawawan halayensa, Allah ya jiqansa da rahama
Yana sauraren matansa da kyau
A’a, Sunnah cike take da misalan haka
Ciki harda labarinsa da Safiya yana sauraren ta
Ya kebance a masallaci
A wajen Safiyya matar Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama
Ta zo wajen Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama
Ta ziyarce shi a lokacin da yake keɓe a masallaci
A cikin goman karshe na Ramadan
Sai na yi magana da shi na tsawon awa daya
Sannan ta juya
Sai Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya tsaya da ita ya juyar da ita
Ko da kun isa kofar masallaci
A kofar Ummu Salamah
Ansar guda biyu suka wuce
Ya yi sallama da Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama
Sai Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce da su
A kan manzanninku
Ita ce Safiyya bint Huyay
Sai ya ce: Tsarki ya tabbata ga Allah, ya Manzon Allah
Kuma ya girma tare da su
Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce
Shaidan yana kai matakin jini daga mutum
Kuma na ji tsoron kada ya jefa wani abu a cikin zukatanku
Bukhari da Muslim ne suka ruwaito
Ibn Khuzaimah, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
Amma labarin Safiyya Thabet, gaskiya ne
A cikin su biyun, yana nuna cewa zancen matar yana tare da mijinta
Ya halatta gareshi ya kebe kansa da dare
Shi kansa mai launin ruwan kasa
Wannan lamari ya faru ne a cikin kwanaki goma na karshen watan Ramadan
Yana kebanta da Ubangijinsa a cikin masallaci
Sai dai kuma Itikafi bai hana shi zama da matansa ba, Allah Ya kara masa yarda
Kuma yana saurarensu
Yakan yi musu magana duk daren da ya keɓe
Lokacin da Uwar Muminai, Safiyya, ta nemi a yi masa magana shi kadai
Bai hanata ba
Maimakon haka, ya saurare ta na tsawon awa ɗaya yayin da take magana
Kuma bai kosa da hakan ba
Ba ta gagara ba a ce wannan watan ne na ibada
Yana cikin keɓe kuma yana buƙatar sadaukar da kansa ga ibada
Bai cutar da ita da kalmar da zai sa ta boye abin da ke cikin ranta ba ta zauna da ciwonta
Kamar yadda wasun su ke cewa
Ka kasance takaice kuma kada ka bata lokacinka na ibada
Yace a bar wannan batu sai bayan Ramadan
Taba
Allah ya jikansa da rahma ya saurari matansa
Ko da muka ci gaba da magana
Kamar yadda ya zo a cikin hadisin Ummu Zar’a da labarin Uwar Muminai Safiyya, Allah Ya yarda da ita.
Idan mace ta manta yin magana da mijinta, ba ya ƙarewa
Hadisin Uwar Muminai Safiyya Allah Ya yarda da ita ya ci gaba da cewa
Koda ta tashi daga zaune tana son fita
Sai Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ci gaba da yi mata magana yana saurarenta
Yana tsaye da kafafunsa a kofar masallaci
Bai kosa ba, hakan kuwa alheri ne ga kanta
Halin mace ne ta so yin magana da mijinta
Mai farin ciki shine wanda ya saka wannan soyayyar don farantawa kansa da matarsa rai
Akwai maganganu iri-iri tsakanin mace da mijinta
Ɗaya daga cikinsu yana da alaƙa da matsalolin yara
Wasu daga cikinsu suna da alaƙa da al'amuran gida
Wasu daga cikinsu na da alaka da yanayin matan da ke kusa da ita da alakarsu da mazajensu
Hadisi ko dasawa shine nau'in karshe
Kuma idan mace ta yi magana da mijinta
Tana son ya saurari maganarta
Suka yi mu'amala da ita ta hanyar kallon idanunta da fuskarta tana magana
Wannan manufa ta lalace idan mijin ya shagaltu da wasa da wayarsa
Ko mayar da hankali kan kallon tashoshi da jujjuya su
Lokacin da mace ta tayar da matsala
Ko ba da dogon labari
Takaitaccen bayani daga miji akan wannan batu ya ishe ta
Yana faranta mata rai kuma yana jin daɗin abin da ta faɗa
Kamar yadda Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya yi
Lokacin da ya gaya mata bayan ta gama
Na kasance a gare ku kamar uban shuka ga uwar shuka
Dole ne mata su zabi lokaci da kyau
Lokacin da take ƙoƙarin yin magana da mijinta
Ta kuma inganta wajen zabar batun da ya dace na lokacin da ta zaba
Bai dace a karbi miji ba idan ya fito daga wurin aiki
Ko daga tafiya ko lokacin zama don cin abinci
Ko kuma kafin ya yi barci, ya ambaci matsalolin yara ko buƙatun a gida
Wadannan lokuta ne da ba su dace da maza ba
Dole ne namiji ya jagoranci mace zuwa lokaci mafi kyau
Idan ta yi kuskure wajen zabar lokacin da ya dace
Dole ne kuma mutum ya ba da lokaci don sauraron danginsa
Kuma baya gajiya da hakan
Wani wanda ya fi shi saurarensu
Annabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam
Wadannan misalai ne na abin da malamai suka ce
Tafsirin hadisin Ummu Zara’
Al-Khattabi Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
Ya haɗa da sanin kyakkyawar dangantaka da iyalin mutum
Yana da kyawawa a yi musu magana game da wani abu da bai ƙunshi zunubi ba
Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
Kyakkyawan mu'amalar mutum da danginsa
Kuma ka sanya su cikin kwanciyar hankali da son yin magana da su game da wani abu da ba na zunubi ba
Kamar yadda Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya yi a nan
A hirarsa da Aisha da na matansa da suke tare da ita
Ka ba da labari game da waɗannan mata
Da haka Bukhari ya fassara shi
Babi na kyautata dangantaka da iyali
An ruwaito ingantattun ruwayoyi ingantattu
Da kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyakykyawan kyawawa a gareshi Allah ya jikanshi da rahama amin
Kuma ya watsa musu
Da kuma a kan magabata na qwarai
Malik Allah ya yi masa rahama ya kasance yana cewa:
A cikin wancan akwai yardar Ubangijinku
Kuma soyayya ga dangin ku
Da abubuwa game da Malik
Kuma mace saboda ku
Yace
An ruwaito min haka ta hanyar wasu Sahabban Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama
Shi ne Malik, Allah Ya yi masa rahama
Yana daya daga cikin mutanen da suka fi dacewa da iyalinsa da 'ya'yansa
Kuma yana cewa
Dole ne mutum ya ƙaunaci mutanensa
Ta yadda shi ne mafi soyuwa ga mutane
Yaya kyawun wulakancin Umar bin Khattab, Allah Ya yarda da shi
A lokacin da Thumama bn Hazn ya kore shi
Sauraron mace
Duk da cewa ta yi wuya ta furta hakan
Wallahi jin mace
Ta kai kara ga Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama
Yaya ya kasa saurare ta?
Thumama bin Hazn yace
Yayin da Umar bin Khattab yana tafiya akan jaki
Na same shi mace
Sai ta ce
Dakata Umar
Don haka ya mike tsaye
Wani mutum yace
Ya Amirul Muminin!
Ban ganki a matsayin mace mai tsauri kamar namiji ba
Namiji baya sauraron mace
Yace
Kaitonka!
Me zai hana ni saurarensa?
Ita ce Allah ya ji
Abin da aka saukar a cikinsa
Allah ya ji maganar matar da ta yi maka gardama akan mijinta
Ba ni da ikon sauraron wanda Allah ya ji
Wannan shine aikin mazan da muke koyi
To kai mai girma ne?
Wa kake jin matarka kana sauraronta in tana magana?
Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah
Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai