1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,399 --> 00:00:16,440 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:22,460 I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother 4 00:00:22,460 --> 00:00:27,460 After Aisha, may God be pleased with her, finished telling the women’s story 5 00:00:27,460 --> 00:00:30,460 Don't we meet and talk about his wives? 6 00:00:30,460 --> 00:00:35,460 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, listened carefully to her 7 00:00:35,460 --> 00:00:39,460 Comment on her long speech with short words 8 00:00:39,460 --> 00:00:43,460 Expressing the kindness of his family and his treatment of her 9 00:00:43,460 --> 00:00:49,520 He said, “I am to you like my father, Zar’a, or mother Zar’a.” 10 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:55,520 And in a narration, O Aisha, I was to you like my father Zar’a and my mother Zar’a 11 00:00:55,520 --> 00:01:00,520 However, Abu Zara divorced and I will not divorce him 12 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,710 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 13 00:01:03,710 --> 00:01:07,709 And what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha 14 00:01:07,709 --> 00:01:10,709 I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother 15 00:01:10,709 --> 00:01:15,709 Pampering herself and exaggerating her good relations 16 00:01:15,709 --> 00:01:19,709 When Umm Zar’a mentioned his good company with her 17 00:01:19,709 --> 00:01:22,709 She thanked him for his intercourse with her 18 00:01:22,709 --> 00:01:26,709 Then he made an exception for that matter which he disliked 19 00:01:26,709 --> 00:01:29,709 By saying that he divorced her 20 00:01:29,709 --> 00:01:31,709 And I will not divorce you 21 00:01:31,709 --> 00:01:34,709 As an accessory to perfume herself 22 00:01:34,709 --> 00:01:37,709 And to complete the reassurance of her heart 23 00:01:37,709 --> 00:01:42,709 And to raise the illusion due to the generality of the comparison to the general conditions of Abu Zara’ 24 00:01:42,709 --> 00:01:47,709 There was nothing reprehensible about it except his divorce from her 25 00:01:47,709 --> 00:01:52,670 Yes, he was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 26 00:01:52,670 --> 00:01:57,670 A role model in dealing with the wife 27 00:01:57,670 --> 00:02:00,670 The details of this model cannot be known 28 00:02:00,670 --> 00:02:04,670 Except by reading his biography with his wives 29 00:02:04,670 --> 00:02:09,699 These pages are too narrow to mention this fragrant biography 30 00:02:09,699 --> 00:02:16,699 But I will give some examples from his beautiful life with Aisha, may God be pleased with her 31 00:02:16,699 --> 00:02:20,889 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was playing with her 32 00:02:20,889 --> 00:02:23,889 They both wash themselves from impurity 33 00:02:23,889 --> 00:02:27,110 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 34 00:02:27,110 --> 00:02:33,110 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I used to wash from one vessel 35 00:02:33,110 --> 00:02:36,110 He initiates me and I initiate him 36 00:02:36,110 --> 00:02:39,110 So he says let me 37 00:02:39,110 --> 00:02:42,110 I say leave me 38 00:02:42,110 --> 00:02:44,110 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 39 00:02:44,110 --> 00:02:50,680 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to accept it while he was fasting 40 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,680 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 41 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:59,680 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss and have intercourse while fasting 42 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,680 And your hope was for him 43 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,710 Narrated by Muslim 44 00:03:04,710 --> 00:03:11,539 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss her while he was going out to pray 45 00:03:11,539 --> 00:03:15,770 On the authority of Urwa, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 46 00:03:15,770 --> 00:03:20,770 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, kissed one of his wives 47 00:03:20,770 --> 00:03:24,860 Then he went out to pray and did not perform ablution 48 00:03:24,860 --> 00:03:28,860 Urwa said: Who is she but you? 49 00:03:28,860 --> 00:03:30,900 I laughed 50 00:03:30,900 --> 00:03:32,900 Narrated by Abu Dawood 51 00:03:32,900 --> 00:03:38,949 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to eat from the place where he ate 52 00:03:38,949 --> 00:03:42,110 And he drinks from where he drank it 53 00:03:42,110 --> 00:03:46,110 On the authority of Shuraih, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 54 00:03:46,110 --> 00:03:51,110 I asked her: Does a woman eat with her husband while she is menstruating? 55 00:03:51,110 --> 00:03:52,110 Yes 56 00:03:52,110 --> 00:03:59,110 The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, would invite me to eat with him while I was naked 57 00:03:59,110 --> 00:04:03,110 He used to take the sweat and swear on it 58 00:04:03,110 --> 00:04:06,110 So I sweat it and then put it on 59 00:04:06,110 --> 00:04:08,110 So he takes it and frees himself from it 60 00:04:08,110 --> 00:04:12,180 He puts his mouth where I put my mouth of sweat 61 00:04:12,180 --> 00:04:18,180 He calls for a drink and swears on it before he drinks from it 62 00:04:18,180 --> 00:04:21,180 He takes it and drinks from it, then I put it down 63 00:04:21,180 --> 00:04:24,180 He takes it and drinks from it 64 00:04:24,180 --> 00:04:28,430 And he puts his mouth where I put my mouth of the mug 65 00:04:28,430 --> 00:04:31,329 Narrated by Muslim 66 00:04:31,329 --> 00:04:37,459 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was holding her hand as he walked among the people 67 00:04:37,459 --> 00:04:41,459 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 68 00:04:41,459 --> 00:04:45,459 I loved to enter the house and pray there 69 00:04:45,459 --> 00:04:49,459 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, took my hand 70 00:04:49,459 --> 00:04:51,459 So he put me in quarantine 71 00:04:51,459 --> 00:04:56,459 He said, “Pray in quarantine if you want to enter the house.” 72 00:04:56,459 --> 00:04:59,459 It is a piece of the house 73 00:04:59,459 --> 00:05:03,459 Your people were limited when they built the Kaaba 74 00:05:03,459 --> 00:05:05,459 So they took him out of the house 75 00:05:05,459 --> 00:05:08,459 Narrated by Abu Dawood 76 00:05:08,459 --> 00:05:14,379 May God bless him and grant him peace, he used to help her with the housework 77 00:05:14,379 --> 00:05:16,420 About the lions he said 78 00:05:16,420 --> 00:05:19,420 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, asked 79 00:05:19,420 --> 00:05:24,420 What the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to do in his house 80 00:05:24,420 --> 00:05:25,420 She said 81 00:05:25,420 --> 00:05:28,420 He was in his family's profession 82 00:05:28,420 --> 00:05:30,420 It means serving his family 83 00:05:30,420 --> 00:05:32,420 If you attend prayer 84 00:05:32,420 --> 00:05:34,420 He went out to pray 85 00:05:34,420 --> 00:05:36,420 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 86 00:05:36,420 --> 00:05:44,089 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was considerate of her feelings and psychological state 87 00:05:44,089 --> 00:05:47,279 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 88 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,279 We went out to see nothing but Hajj 89 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:53,279 When we were very busy, he came 90 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:59,279 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying 91 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:00,279 He said 92 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,279 What's wrong with you? 93 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:04,279 I said yes 94 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,279 He said 95 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:10,279 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 96 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,279 So fulfill what the pilgrim fulfills 97 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:15,279 However, do not circumambulate the Kaaba 98 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:16,279 She said 99 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:22,279 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sacrificed cows on behalf of his wives 100 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,379 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 101 00:06:24,379 --> 00:06:29,779 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, pampered her 102 00:06:29,779 --> 00:06:34,040 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 103 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:38,040 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was sitting 104 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,040 We heard murmurs and the voices of boys 105 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:46,040 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up 106 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:51,040 An Ethiopian was buried and the boys were around her 107 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:52,040 And he said 108 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:56,040 O Aisha, come and see 109 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,040 So I came 110 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:03,040 So Hayya was placed on the shoulder of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 111 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:07,040 So I looked at her from shoulder to head 112 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,040 He said to me 113 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,040 As for my satiety, as for my satiety 114 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:13,040 She said 115 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,040 So I started saying no 116 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,170 To see my status with him 117 00:07:19,170 --> 00:07:21,550 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 118 00:07:21,550 --> 00:07:24,550 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 119 00:07:24,550 --> 00:07:26,550 I said, O Messenger of God 120 00:07:26,550 --> 00:07:32,550 What do you think if you went down to a valley and there was a tree from which he had eaten? 121 00:07:32,550 --> 00:07:35,550 I found a tree that had not been eaten 122 00:07:35,550 --> 00:07:38,579 Where did you feed your camels? 123 00:07:38,579 --> 00:07:39,579 He said 124 00:07:39,579 --> 00:07:42,579 In the one who was not terrified by it 125 00:07:42,579 --> 00:07:49,680 It means that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not marry another virgin 126 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,680 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 127 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:57,959 His knowledge, may God bless him and grant him peace, of various conditions 128 00:07:57,959 --> 00:08:01,379 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 129 00:08:01,379 --> 00:08:05,379 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me 130 00:08:05,379 --> 00:08:08,379 I don't know if you are satisfied with me 131 00:08:08,379 --> 00:08:11,379 And if you are angry with me 132 00:08:11,379 --> 00:08:13,470 She said 133 00:08:13,470 --> 00:08:14,470 So I said 134 00:08:14,470 --> 00:08:16,470 How do you know that? 135 00:08:16,470 --> 00:08:17,470 And he said 136 00:08:17,470 --> 00:08:20,470 But if you are satisfied with me 137 00:08:20,470 --> 00:08:24,470 You say, “No, by the Lord of Muhammad.” 138 00:08:24,470 --> 00:08:27,470 And if you are angry with me 139 00:08:27,470 --> 00:08:30,470 I said, “No, by the Lord of Abraham.” 140 00:08:30,470 --> 00:08:31,500 She said 141 00:08:31,500 --> 00:08:32,500 I said 142 00:08:32,500 --> 00:08:35,500 Yes, by God, O Messenger of God 143 00:08:35,500 --> 00:08:37,500 I only leave your name behind 144 00:08:37,500 --> 00:08:40,629 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 145 00:08:40,629 --> 00:08:46,429 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to talk to her at dawn 146 00:08:46,429 --> 00:08:48,750 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 147 00:08:48,750 --> 00:08:53,750 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed 148 00:08:53,750 --> 00:08:56,750 If you are awake, tell me 149 00:08:56,750 --> 00:09:00,750 Otherwise, return to prayer until the call to prayer is given 150 00:09:00,750 --> 00:09:02,779 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 151 00:09:02,779 --> 00:09:09,159 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to have intercourse with her while she was menstruating 152 00:09:09,159 --> 00:09:12,539 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 153 00:09:12,539 --> 00:09:17,539 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I were taking a bath 154 00:09:17,539 --> 00:09:19,539 From one vessel 155 00:09:19,539 --> 00:09:20,539 We are both side by side 156 00:09:20,539 --> 00:09:23,539 He used to order me to wear my belt 157 00:09:23,539 --> 00:09:26,539 He had intercourse with me while I was menstruating 158 00:09:26,539 --> 00:09:30,580 He used to take his head out while he was in seclusion 159 00:09:30,580 --> 00:09:33,580 So I wash it while I am menstruating 160 00:09:33,580 --> 00:09:35,740 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 161 00:09:35,740 --> 00:09:43,700 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to recline on her lap and read the Qur’an 162 00:09:43,700 --> 00:09:46,950 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 163 00:09:46,950 --> 00:09:53,950 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was reclining on my lap while I was menstruating 164 00:09:53,950 --> 00:09:56,950 Then he reads the Qur’an 165 00:09:56,950 --> 00:09:58,980 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 166 00:09:58,980 --> 00:10:06,980 May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he took into account her need for entertainment and permissible play 167 00:10:06,980 --> 00:10:10,299 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 168 00:10:10,299 --> 00:10:15,299 I was playing with the girls with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 169 00:10:15,299 --> 00:10:19,299 I had friends who played with me 170 00:10:19,299 --> 00:10:25,299 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered, they would suppress him 171 00:10:25,299 --> 00:10:29,299 He sends them to me and they play with me 172 00:10:29,299 --> 00:10:32,389 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 173 00:10:32,389 --> 00:10:38,509 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to race and play with her 174 00:10:38,509 --> 00:10:41,929 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 175 00:10:41,929 --> 00:10:46,929 She was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, on a journey 176 00:10:46,929 --> 00:10:47,929 She said 177 00:10:47,929 --> 00:10:51,929 So I raced to him, and I overtook him on my feet 178 00:10:51,929 --> 00:10:54,960 When I carried the meat 179 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,960 I preceded him and he preceded me 180 00:10:57,960 --> 00:10:58,960 And he said 181 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,090 This is a precedent 182 00:11:02,090 --> 00:11:05,759 Narrated by Abu Dawood 183 00:11:05,759 --> 00:11:12,820 These are examples of the life of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha 184 00:11:12,820 --> 00:11:16,820 How are you, honorable man, with your wife? 185 00:11:16,820 --> 00:11:21,590 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 186 00:11:21,590 --> 00:11:25,590 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds