In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
After Aisha, may God be pleased with her, finished telling the women’s story
Don't we meet and talk about his wives?
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, listened carefully to her
Comment on her long speech with short words
Expressing the kindness of his family and his treatment of her
He said, “I am to you like my father, Zar’a, or mother Zar’a.”
And in a narration, O Aisha, I was to you like my father Zar’a and my mother Zar’a
However, Abu Zara divorced and I will not divorce him
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
And what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha
I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
Pampering herself and exaggerating her good relations
When Umm Zar’a mentioned his good company with her
She thanked him for his intercourse with her
Then he made an exception for that matter which he disliked
By saying that he divorced her
And I will not divorce you
As an accessory to perfume herself
And to complete the reassurance of her heart
And to raise the illusion due to the generality of the comparison to the general conditions of Abu Zara’
There was nothing reprehensible about it except his divorce from her
Yes, he was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
A role model in dealing with the wife
The details of this model cannot be known
Except by reading his biography with his wives
These pages are too narrow to mention this fragrant biography
But I will give some examples from his beautiful life with Aisha, may God be pleased with her
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was playing with her
They both wash themselves from impurity
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I used to wash from one vessel
He initiates me and I initiate him
So he says let me
I say leave me
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to accept it while he was fasting
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss and have intercourse while fasting
And your hope was for him
Narrated by Muslim
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss her while he was going out to pray
On the authority of Urwa, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, kissed one of his wives
Then he went out to pray and did not perform ablution
Urwa said: Who is she but you?
I laughed
Narrated by Abu Dawood
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to eat from the place where he ate
And he drinks from where he drank it
On the authority of Shuraih, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
I asked her: Does a woman eat with her husband while she is menstruating?
Yes
The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, would invite me to eat with him while I was naked
He used to take the sweat and swear on it
So I sweat it and then put it on
So he takes it and frees himself from it
He puts his mouth where I put my mouth of sweat
He calls for a drink and swears on it before he drinks from it
He takes it and drinks from it, then I put it down
He takes it and drinks from it
And he puts his mouth where I put my mouth of the mug
Narrated by Muslim
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was holding her hand as he walked among the people
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
I loved to enter the house and pray there
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, took my hand
So he put me in quarantine
He said, “Pray in quarantine if you want to enter the house.”
It is a piece of the house
Your people were limited when they built the Kaaba
So they took him out of the house
Narrated by Abu Dawood
May God bless him and grant him peace, he used to help her with the housework
About the lions he said
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, asked
What the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to do in his house
She said
He was in his family's profession
It means serving his family
If you attend prayer
He went out to pray
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was considerate of her feelings and psychological state
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
We went out to see nothing but Hajj
When we were very busy, he came
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying
He said
What's wrong with you?
I said yes
He said
This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
So fulfill what the pilgrim fulfills
However, do not circumambulate the Kaaba
She said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sacrificed cows on behalf of his wives
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, pampered her
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was sitting
We heard murmurs and the voices of boys
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up
An Ethiopian was buried and the boys were around her
And he said
O Aisha, come and see
So I came
So Hayya was placed on the shoulder of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I looked at her from shoulder to head
He said to me
As for my satiety, as for my satiety
She said
So I started saying no
To see my status with him
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
I said, O Messenger of God
What do you think if you went down to a valley and there was a tree from which he had eaten?
I found a tree that had not been eaten
Where did you feed your camels?
He said
In the one who was not terrified by it
It means that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not marry another virgin
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
His knowledge, may God bless him and grant him peace, of various conditions
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me
I don't know if you are satisfied with me
And if you are angry with me
She said
So I said
How do you know that?
And he said
But if you are satisfied with me
You say, “No, by the Lord of Muhammad.”
And if you are angry with me
I said, “No, by the Lord of Abraham.”
She said
I said
Yes, by God, O Messenger of God
I only leave your name behind
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to talk to her at dawn
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed
If you are awake, tell me
Otherwise, return to prayer until the call to prayer is given
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to have intercourse with her while she was menstruating
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I were taking a bath
From one vessel
We are both side by side
He used to order me to wear my belt
He had intercourse with me while I was menstruating
He used to take his head out while he was in seclusion
So I wash it while I am menstruating
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to recline on her lap and read the Qur’an
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was reclining on my lap while I was menstruating
Then he reads the Qur’an
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he took into account her need for entertainment and permissible play
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
I was playing with the girls with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
I had friends who played with me
When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered, they would suppress him
He sends them to me and they play with me
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to race and play with her
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
She was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, on a journey
She said
So I raced to him, and I overtook him on my feet
When I carried the meat
I preceded him and he preceded me
And he said
This is a precedent
Narrated by Abu Dawood
These are examples of the life of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha
How are you, honorable man, with your wife?
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds