WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.399 --> 00:00:16.440 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 00:00:16.440 --> 00:00:22.460 I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother 00:00:22.460 --> 00:00:27.460 After Aisha, may God be pleased with her, finished telling the women’s story 00:00:27.460 --> 00:00:30.460 Don't we meet and talk about his wives? 00:00:30.460 --> 00:00:35.460 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, listened carefully to her 00:00:35.460 --> 00:00:39.460 Comment on her long speech with short words 00:00:39.460 --> 00:00:43.460 Expressing the kindness of his family and his treatment of her 00:00:43.460 --> 00:00:49.520 He said, “I am to you like my father, Zar’a, or mother Zar’a.” 00:00:49.520 --> 00:00:55.520 And in a narration, O Aisha, I was to you like my father Zar’a and my mother Zar’a 00:00:55.520 --> 00:01:00.520 However, Abu Zara divorced and I will not divorce him 00:01:00.520 --> 00:01:03.710 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:03.710 --> 00:01:07.709 And what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha 00:01:07.709 --> 00:01:10.709 I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother 00:01:10.709 --> 00:01:15.709 Pampering herself and exaggerating her good relations 00:01:15.709 --> 00:01:19.709 When Umm Zar’a mentioned his good company with her 00:01:19.709 --> 00:01:22.709 She thanked him for his intercourse with her 00:01:22.709 --> 00:01:26.709 Then he made an exception for that matter which he disliked 00:01:26.709 --> 00:01:29.709 By saying that he divorced her 00:01:29.709 --> 00:01:31.709 And I will not divorce you 00:01:31.709 --> 00:01:34.709 As an accessory to perfume herself 00:01:34.709 --> 00:01:37.709 And to complete the reassurance of her heart 00:01:37.709 --> 00:01:42.709 And to raise the illusion due to the generality of the comparison to the general conditions of Abu Zara’ 00:01:42.709 --> 00:01:47.709 There was nothing reprehensible about it except his divorce from her 00:01:47.709 --> 00:01:52.670 Yes, he was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:52.670 --> 00:01:57.670 A role model in dealing with the wife 00:01:57.670 --> 00:02:00.670 The details of this model cannot be known 00:02:00.670 --> 00:02:04.670 Except by reading his biography with his wives 00:02:04.670 --> 00:02:09.699 These pages are too narrow to mention this fragrant biography 00:02:09.699 --> 00:02:16.699 But I will give some examples from his beautiful life with Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:02:16.699 --> 00:02:20.889 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was playing with her 00:02:20.889 --> 00:02:23.889 They both wash themselves from impurity 00:02:23.889 --> 00:02:27.110 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:02:27.110 --> 00:02:33.110 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I used to wash from one vessel 00:02:33.110 --> 00:02:36.110 He initiates me and I initiate him 00:02:36.110 --> 00:02:39.110 So he says let me 00:02:39.110 --> 00:02:42.110 I say leave me 00:02:42.110 --> 00:02:44.110 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:02:44.110 --> 00:02:50.680 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to accept it while he was fasting 00:02:50.680 --> 00:02:53.680 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:02:53.680 --> 00:02:59.680 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss and have intercourse while fasting 00:02:59.680 --> 00:03:02.680 And your hope was for him 00:03:02.680 --> 00:03:04.710 Narrated by Muslim 00:03:04.710 --> 00:03:11.539 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss her while he was going out to pray 00:03:11.539 --> 00:03:15.770 On the authority of Urwa, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:03:15.770 --> 00:03:20.770 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, kissed one of his wives 00:03:20.770 --> 00:03:24.860 Then he went out to pray and did not perform ablution 00:03:24.860 --> 00:03:28.860 Urwa said: Who is she but you? 00:03:28.860 --> 00:03:30.900 I laughed 00:03:30.900 --> 00:03:32.900 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:03:32.900 --> 00:03:38.949 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to eat from the place where he ate 00:03:38.949 --> 00:03:42.110 And he drinks from where he drank it 00:03:42.110 --> 00:03:46.110 On the authority of Shuraih, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:03:46.110 --> 00:03:51.110 I asked her: Does a woman eat with her husband while she is menstruating? 00:03:51.110 --> 00:03:52.110 Yes 00:03:52.110 --> 00:03:59.110 The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, would invite me to eat with him while I was naked 00:03:59.110 --> 00:04:03.110 He used to take the sweat and swear on it 00:04:03.110 --> 00:04:06.110 So I sweat it and then put it on 00:04:06.110 --> 00:04:08.110 So he takes it and frees himself from it 00:04:08.110 --> 00:04:12.180 He puts his mouth where I put my mouth of sweat 00:04:12.180 --> 00:04:18.180 He calls for a drink and swears on it before he drinks from it 00:04:18.180 --> 00:04:21.180 He takes it and drinks from it, then I put it down 00:04:21.180 --> 00:04:24.180 He takes it and drinks from it 00:04:24.180 --> 00:04:28.430 And he puts his mouth where I put my mouth of the mug 00:04:28.430 --> 00:04:31.329 Narrated by Muslim 00:04:31.329 --> 00:04:37.459 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was holding her hand as he walked among the people 00:04:37.459 --> 00:04:41.459 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:04:41.459 --> 00:04:45.459 I loved to enter the house and pray there 00:04:45.459 --> 00:04:49.459 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, took my hand 00:04:49.459 --> 00:04:51.459 So he put me in quarantine 00:04:51.459 --> 00:04:56.459 He said, “Pray in quarantine if you want to enter the house.” 00:04:56.459 --> 00:04:59.459 It is a piece of the house 00:04:59.459 --> 00:05:03.459 Your people were limited when they built the Kaaba 00:05:03.459 --> 00:05:05.459 So they took him out of the house 00:05:05.459 --> 00:05:08.459 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:05:08.459 --> 00:05:14.379 May God bless him and grant him peace, he used to help her with the housework 00:05:14.379 --> 00:05:16.420 About the lions he said 00:05:16.420 --> 00:05:19.420 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, asked 00:05:19.420 --> 00:05:24.420 What the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to do in his house 00:05:24.420 --> 00:05:25.420 She said 00:05:25.420 --> 00:05:28.420 He was in his family's profession 00:05:28.420 --> 00:05:30.420 It means serving his family 00:05:30.420 --> 00:05:32.420 If you attend prayer 00:05:32.420 --> 00:05:34.420 He went out to pray 00:05:34.420 --> 00:05:36.420 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:05:36.420 --> 00:05:44.089 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was considerate of her feelings and psychological state 00:05:44.089 --> 00:05:47.279 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:05:47.279 --> 00:05:50.279 We went out to see nothing but Hajj 00:05:50.279 --> 00:05:53.279 When we were very busy, he came 00:05:53.279 --> 00:05:59.279 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying 00:05:59.279 --> 00:06:00.279 He said 00:06:00.279 --> 00:06:03.279 What's wrong with you? 00:06:03.279 --> 00:06:04.279 I said yes 00:06:04.279 --> 00:06:05.279 He said 00:06:05.279 --> 00:06:10.279 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 00:06:10.279 --> 00:06:12.279 So fulfill what the pilgrim fulfills 00:06:12.279 --> 00:06:15.279 However, do not circumambulate the Kaaba 00:06:15.279 --> 00:06:16.279 She said 00:06:16.279 --> 00:06:22.279 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sacrificed cows on behalf of his wives 00:06:22.279 --> 00:06:24.379 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:06:24.379 --> 00:06:29.779 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, pampered her 00:06:29.779 --> 00:06:34.040 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:06:34.040 --> 00:06:38.040 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was sitting 00:06:38.040 --> 00:06:42.040 We heard murmurs and the voices of boys 00:06:42.040 --> 00:06:46.040 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up 00:06:46.040 --> 00:06:51.040 An Ethiopian was buried and the boys were around her 00:06:51.040 --> 00:06:52.040 And he said 00:06:52.040 --> 00:06:56.040 O Aisha, come and see 00:06:56.040 --> 00:06:57.040 So I came 00:06:57.040 --> 00:07:03.040 So Hayya was placed on the shoulder of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:03.040 --> 00:07:07.040 So I looked at her from shoulder to head 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:09.040 He said to me 00:07:09.040 --> 00:07:12.040 As for my satiety, as for my satiety 00:07:12.040 --> 00:07:13.040 She said 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:16.040 So I started saying no 00:07:16.040 --> 00:07:19.170 To see my status with him 00:07:19.170 --> 00:07:21.550 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:07:21.550 --> 00:07:24.550 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:07:24.550 --> 00:07:26.550 I said, O Messenger of God 00:07:26.550 --> 00:07:32.550 What do you think if you went down to a valley and there was a tree from which he had eaten? 00:07:32.550 --> 00:07:35.550 I found a tree that had not been eaten 00:07:35.550 --> 00:07:38.579 Where did you feed your camels? 00:07:38.579 --> 00:07:39.579 He said 00:07:39.579 --> 00:07:42.579 In the one who was not terrified by it 00:07:42.579 --> 00:07:49.680 It means that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not marry another virgin 00:07:49.680 --> 00:07:51.680 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:07:51.680 --> 00:07:57.959 His knowledge, may God bless him and grant him peace, of various conditions 00:07:57.959 --> 00:08:01.379 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:08:01.379 --> 00:08:05.379 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me 00:08:05.379 --> 00:08:08.379 I don't know if you are satisfied with me 00:08:08.379 --> 00:08:11.379 And if you are angry with me 00:08:11.379 --> 00:08:13.470 She said 00:08:13.470 --> 00:08:14.470 So I said 00:08:14.470 --> 00:08:16.470 How do you know that? 00:08:16.470 --> 00:08:17.470 And he said 00:08:17.470 --> 00:08:20.470 But if you are satisfied with me 00:08:20.470 --> 00:08:24.470 You say, “No, by the Lord of Muhammad.” 00:08:24.470 --> 00:08:27.470 And if you are angry with me 00:08:27.470 --> 00:08:30.470 I said, “No, by the Lord of Abraham.” 00:08:30.470 --> 00:08:31.500 She said 00:08:31.500 --> 00:08:32.500 I said 00:08:32.500 --> 00:08:35.500 Yes, by God, O Messenger of God 00:08:35.500 --> 00:08:37.500 I only leave your name behind 00:08:37.500 --> 00:08:40.629 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:08:40.629 --> 00:08:46.429 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to talk to her at dawn 00:08:46.429 --> 00:08:48.750 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:08:48.750 --> 00:08:53.750 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed 00:08:53.750 --> 00:08:56.750 If you are awake, tell me 00:08:56.750 --> 00:09:00.750 Otherwise, return to prayer until the call to prayer is given 00:09:00.750 --> 00:09:02.779 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:09:02.779 --> 00:09:09.159 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to have intercourse with her while she was menstruating 00:09:09.159 --> 00:09:12.539 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:09:12.539 --> 00:09:17.539 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I were taking a bath 00:09:17.539 --> 00:09:19.539 From one vessel 00:09:19.539 --> 00:09:20.539 We are both side by side 00:09:20.539 --> 00:09:23.539 He used to order me to wear my belt 00:09:23.539 --> 00:09:26.539 He had intercourse with me while I was menstruating 00:09:26.539 --> 00:09:30.580 He used to take his head out while he was in seclusion 00:09:30.580 --> 00:09:33.580 So I wash it while I am menstruating 00:09:33.580 --> 00:09:35.740 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:09:35.740 --> 00:09:43.700 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to recline on her lap and read the Qur’an 00:09:43.700 --> 00:09:46.950 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:09:46.950 --> 00:09:53.950 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was reclining on my lap while I was menstruating 00:09:53.950 --> 00:09:56.950 Then he reads the Qur’an 00:09:56.950 --> 00:09:58.980 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:09:58.980 --> 00:10:06.980 May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he took into account her need for entertainment and permissible play 00:10:06.980 --> 00:10:10.299 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:10:10.299 --> 00:10:15.299 I was playing with the girls with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:15.299 --> 00:10:19.299 I had friends who played with me 00:10:19.299 --> 00:10:25.299 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered, they would suppress him 00:10:25.299 --> 00:10:29.299 He sends them to me and they play with me 00:10:29.299 --> 00:10:32.389 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:10:32.389 --> 00:10:38.509 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to race and play with her 00:10:38.509 --> 00:10:41.929 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:10:41.929 --> 00:10:46.929 She was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, on a journey 00:10:46.929 --> 00:10:47.929 She said 00:10:47.929 --> 00:10:51.929 So I raced to him, and I overtook him on my feet 00:10:51.929 --> 00:10:54.960 When I carried the meat 00:10:54.960 --> 00:10:57.960 I preceded him and he preceded me 00:10:57.960 --> 00:10:58.960 And he said 00:10:58.960 --> 00:11:02.090 This is a precedent 00:11:02.090 --> 00:11:05.759 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:11:05.759 --> 00:11:12.820 These are examples of the life of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha 00:11:12.820 --> 00:11:16.820 How are you, honorable man, with your wife? 00:11:16.820 --> 00:11:21.590 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:11:21.590 --> 00:11:25.590 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds