In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
Mother of planting and beauty of the family environment
Of the happiness that a woman achieves in her married life
To have a cohesive, sane family
They are surrounded by love, tolerance, and good morals
Far from trouble
Neither from the husband nor from his relatives
Neither of the children nor of the servants
Umm Zar’a experienced all of this
She was the one who told me the details
My father's mother planted, but my father's mother did not plant
Her house is spacious and her house is spacious
My father's son planted, but my father's son did not plant
His bed is like a bevel
And the arm of Jafr satisfies him
The daughter of my father, Zar’, but not the daughter of my father, Zur’
Her father willingly and her mother willingly
And fill her clothes and please her neighbour
My father’s maid Zar’a, but not my father’s maid Zar’a
Don't broadcast our conversation
And do not let our mirror be cleansed
Do not fill our house with nests
This is the environment that surrounds a sow mother
But this is eloquent Arabic
Which described the mother of the members of this environment
It needs explanation
To reveal the beauty of this environment to us
And the extent of the bliss that Umm Zar’a lived
Let's ask then
How did you lose this bliss?
Did she cause his loss through her bad behavior?
Before answering this question
We show the beauty of the family environment that Umm Zara lived in
First, my father's mother planted
Umm Zara said about her
Her house is spacious and her house is spacious
She praised her husband's mother for two things
The first one praised her to herself
That her mind is bad
Akoum has two meanings
The first meaning
They are similar to lockers or bags
Where luggage is stored
She described it as heavy and full of luggage
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
Akoum
Loads and bags containing containers
Of all kinds of food and enjoyment
One of them is yours
And what she said was redundant
She says
They are bones with a lot of filling
The second meaning
It means a woman's buttocks
It is called Kafla
The meaning
Her buttocks are great
And from her bones
It becomes swollen from too much grease
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
It is possible that it is the kenab of Al-Akum and its rada
About its greatness and greatness
As he said
Raddah's slave girl
That is, great Kafl
He made the keel an akum, which is a plural of its bones
It is as if every aspect of it is blind
And everyone involved
It tells me that my father's mother is a transplant
She lived the life of the affluent rich
Until she had a place for her belongings
Because of its abundance and diversity
She was infected with food
Which left its mark on her body
Of grease, bliss, and body glasses
The second praised her home
She described him as being abundant in his bounties and his mortality
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
He praised the spaciousness of the house and the spaciousness of the yard
About his abundance of goodness
Raghad is a living
And righteousness descends
They were also generous with what they said
Hello
And they said
So-and-so welcomed the house
They do not want the capacity of its drop
Rather, the abundance of His goodness and the abundance of His righteousness
But why did she praise her husband's mother?
Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
She described her mother-in-law
Until her husband is very kind to his mother
And he was not aged
Because that is the majority
Who has a mother described as such
This is a compliment to her husband
And to his mother as well
If her husband’s mother is young
There was no conversation between her and Umm Zar’
Problems related to jealousy among women
This is the bliss that Umm Zar’a used to experience
From her competition
On the heart of this honorable young man, my father has a seed
Secondly
Ibn Abi Zar'a
Umm Zara said about him
His bed is like a bevel
And the arm of jealousy satisfies him
She praised him for his slim body
For whom a narrow space is sufficient
Like stick mats
A little food is enough for him
He is not a foodie
He makes her tired of asking for food
Its abundance and diversity
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
I thought that his bed in which he sleeps is in distress
One bevel cam
If you bleed from the mat
Her place remains empty among her sisters
It is something that Arab men praise
Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
And so is what she said
The arm of Jafra satisfies him
He doesn't need what she has to eat
As well as taking
Even if it tastes like it
It's easy to be convinced
Which fills one's thirst for food and drink
This is one of the bliss she lived with Ibn Abi Zara’
Third
Daughter of Abu Zara
Umm Zara said about her
Her father willingly and her mother willingly
And its clothing and its neighbor's tip
I praised her for three things
The first
Her obedience to her parents
This is one of the things that makes a woman happy the most
That her daughter be obedient to her
Because it's usually a girl
She competes with her mother for her father's heart
Problems often happen
Between the girl and her mother
Because of stubbornness and jealousy between them
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, she is righteous towards them
Not out of their mind
This indicates her chastity and intelligence
The second
She praised the beauty of her body
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
She described it as plump
Lots of meat
She expressed this by being fully dressed
Because it is only filled to the bone of its body
And the perfection of her person
And its abundance of meat
And the grace of her body
This is what he praises women for
He blames us for its opposite
Third
That her peers are jealous of her
Because of her beauty and good morals
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
Then I emphasized her praise
That she is the best of her women
Any women of her time or her people
And it is perfectly fine
Her character and character are similar in perfection
Tip her neighbor
That is, its harm or neighbourhood
But she sees this as making her angry and jealous of him
And he is confused by it
If we look closely at Umm Zara’s praise of her family
We found that it focused on the aesthetic appearance of the body
No wonder
The women of pre-Islamic times
Their greatest concern is taking care of the body
As for the woman's mind and heart
This is for those who adhere to the teachings of Islam
Otherwise, even Muslim women today
They were busy making the body according to the pre-Islamic European style and standards
I ask God for guidance and success for them
Fourth
My father's maid planted
I praised her with three beautiful qualities
Every woman wishes her in her maid
And she said
Don't broadcast our conversation
And do not let our mirror be cleansed
Do not fill our house with nests
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
She described it as honesty over secrets and money
And carry out their services and advise them
And there are no recent outbreaks of them
Do not waste food for them or betray it
Do not pass it on to others
Don't spoil it and waste it
Let no grudges enter between them
Do not neglect serving them and improving their home
This is a maid with the highest ratings for housework
This is part of the bliss in which Umm Zara lived
Every woman dreams of it in her life
How did you lose this bliss?
Is this really the reason, as she mentioned at the end of her speech?
He went out and looked and divorced
Or are there other reasons she hid it?
It was the real reason for the divorce
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds