1 00:00:01,419 --> 00:00:07,419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:07,419 --> 00:00:18,620 The difference between the treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to Safiyya when she menstruated, and the treatment of Aisha 3 00:00:18,620 --> 00:00:30,679 Sister Al-Hajja may wonder about the difference between the position of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, towards our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, when she menstruated excessively. 4 00:00:30,679 --> 00:00:38,679 He explained his position, may God bless him and grant him peace, regarding our mother Safiyya, may God be pleased with her, when she had her menstruation with Mina 5 00:00:38,679 --> 00:00:46,869 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, responds to that and says that the words differ according to the position 6 00:00:46,869 --> 00:00:54,869 Aisha entered upon her while she was crying with regret over the rituals she had missed, so he consoled her with that 7 00:00:54,869 --> 00:01:05,870 Safiya wanted from her what a man wants from his family, but she expressed the objection, so what he addressed her with in that situation suited both of them. 8 00:01:05,870 --> 00:01:14,129 These words were said by Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, in response to those who said that the reason for the difference is in treatment 9 00:01:14,129 --> 00:01:21,129 He is more inclined toward our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, than his mother Safiya, may God be pleased with her 10 00:01:21,129 --> 00:01:27,129 This statement is not true, as the morals of prophecy reject that 11 00:01:27,129 --> 00:01:34,260 It can also be added that menstruation occurred on our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 12 00:01:34,260 --> 00:01:38,260 It did not affect people’s progress in performing rituals or anything else 13 00:01:38,260 --> 00:01:43,260 Unlike the onset of menstruation on our mother Safiya, may God be pleased with her 14 00:01:43,260 --> 00:01:48,260 It would have affected people's movement and movement from Mecca 15 00:01:48,260 --> 00:01:56,019 If it does not interrupt the ifadah, the menstruating woman does not have to do a farewell tawaf 16 00:01:56,019 --> 00:02:04,900 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, became certain that our mother was Safiya, may God be pleased with her 17 00:02:04,900 --> 00:02:12,900 She performed the Ifadah Tawaf before her menstruation. She had to leave with the people and it was called the Farewell Tawaf. 18 00:02:12,900 --> 00:02:18,900 He, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said to her, “There is no problem, go away.” 19 00:02:19,900 --> 00:02:24,969 And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to leave 20 00:02:24,969 --> 00:02:30,969 Evidence that a menstruating woman does not have to do the farewell circumambulation or wait until she becomes pure 21 00:02:30,969 --> 00:02:33,969 And all jurists do so 22 00:02:33,969 --> 00:02:36,129 My sister is in need 23 00:02:36,129 --> 00:02:42,129 If you had your period during one of our days, and you had circumambulated for Ifaadah before that 24 00:02:42,129 --> 00:02:46,129 You are free from the farewell tawaf 25 00:02:46,129 --> 00:02:51,129 Therefore, you must be careful to perform Tawaf al-Ifadah on the day of Eid 26 00:02:51,129 --> 00:02:58,129 Do not delay it, or something will be difficult for you and your guardian when traveling 27 00:02:58,129 --> 00:03:07,180 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was affected by the difference between her rituals and the rituals of the Mothers of the Believers 28 00:03:07,180 --> 00:03:12,860 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent away some of us after stoning the Jamarat 29 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:18,860 He stayed in Al-Muhasab, which is a place between Mina and the Grand Mosque 30 00:03:18,860 --> 00:03:25,860 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed the noon, afternoon, sunset and evening prayers 31 00:03:25,860 --> 00:03:34,949 In the evening, our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, interviewed the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, about her ritual ritual 32 00:03:34,949 --> 00:03:37,949 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 33 00:03:37,949 --> 00:03:43,949 When it was the night of measles, she said, O Messenger of God 34 00:03:43,949 --> 00:03:48,949 Your women return for Umrah and Hajj, and I will return for Hajj 35 00:03:48,949 --> 00:03:53,080 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 36 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:59,080 Circumambulating the Kaaba and between Safa and Marwa is sufficient for your Hajj and Umrah 37 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:05,080 She refused and said, O Messenger of God, you performed Umrah and I did not perform Umrah 38 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:11,080 O Messenger of God, I will return the people with two rewards, and I will return with a reward 39 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:17,110 O Messenger of God, people issue two coins and I issue one coin 40 00:04:17,110 --> 00:04:25,110 O Messenger of God, your companions will return with the reward of Hajj and Umrah, and I have not done anything more than Hajj 41 00:04:25,110 --> 00:04:32,110 Will your wives return with a Hajj and an Umrah, and I will return with a Hajj without an Umrah 42 00:04:32,110 --> 00:04:37,269 When she persisted, he gave her life as a perfume for herself 43 00:04:37,269 --> 00:04:44,430 She decided in her mind that her companions would return with an independent Hajj and Umrah 44 00:04:44,430 --> 00:04:49,430 If they were tamattuhu and did not menstruate or have intercourse 45 00:04:49,430 --> 00:04:53,430 She returns with Umrah as part of her Hajj 46 00:04:53,430 --> 00:04:59,430 So he ordered her brother to grant her a lifetime of comfort, to purify her heart 47 00:04:59,430 --> 00:05:04,069 This action was done by our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 48 00:05:04,069 --> 00:05:08,069 It shows us the nature of women from many aspects 49 00:05:08,069 --> 00:05:16,069 The woman insists on the request and repeats it until she obtains approval from her guardian or husband 50 00:05:16,069 --> 00:05:22,069 Men do not get bored with this and do not demand from her that it is against her nature 51 00:05:22,069 --> 00:05:27,170 Women are affected by the superiority of their peers 52 00:05:27,170 --> 00:05:31,170 So what if they were her partners in her husband? 53 00:05:31,170 --> 00:05:37,170 She does not want to be preceded or distinguished from other wives 54 00:05:37,170 --> 00:05:46,899 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, applied perfume for the sake of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 55 00:05:46,899 --> 00:05:51,899 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, treated his family well 56 00:05:51,899 --> 00:05:57,899 When our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said to him what she said about age 57 00:05:57,899 --> 00:05:59,899 He agreed to what she wanted 58 00:05:59,899 --> 00:06:02,959 Jaber, may God be pleased with him, said 59 00:06:02,959 --> 00:06:07,959 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was an easy-going man 60 00:06:07,959 --> 00:06:11,959 If you like something, follow it 61 00:06:11,959 --> 00:06:20,220 Thus, a man should be with his women from his household, including wives, daughters, and sisters 62 00:06:20,220 --> 00:06:25,220 It is easy for his family to follow what they want as long as it is not a sin 63 00:06:25,220 --> 00:06:29,279 This is part of good treatment with women 64 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:34,279 This behavior is required at all times when dealing with women 65 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:37,279 But it is required when traveling more 66 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:44,750 So that a woman does not suffer from the hardship of traveling with the hardship of a man 67 00:06:44,750 --> 00:06:46,750 Umrah Tanim 68 00:06:46,750 --> 00:06:53,290 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, called Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr 69 00:06:53,290 --> 00:06:57,290 He told him to take your sister out of the sanctuary 70 00:06:57,290 --> 00:06:59,290 Perform Umrah 71 00:06:59,290 --> 00:07:02,290 Then he finished and brought her here 72 00:07:02,290 --> 00:07:06,290 I will wait until you come to me 73 00:07:06,290 --> 00:07:12,540 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr, may God be pleased with him 74 00:07:12,540 --> 00:07:14,540 By leaving the sanctuary 75 00:07:14,540 --> 00:07:19,540 Because the Meccan pilgrim must go out to find a solution 76 00:07:19,540 --> 00:07:21,540 Then he is deprived of it 77 00:07:21,540 --> 00:07:23,579 Because Umrah is a visit 78 00:07:23,579 --> 00:07:26,579 The sanctuary is visited from outside 79 00:07:26,579 --> 00:07:30,579 The forger is also visited in his home from someone other than his home 80 00:07:30,579 --> 00:07:34,579 This is the Sunnah of God regarding His servants who perform Umrah 81 00:07:34,579 --> 00:07:42,149 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 82 00:07:42,149 --> 00:07:44,149 Go 83 00:07:44,149 --> 00:07:47,149 May Abdul Rahman guide you to bliss 84 00:07:47,149 --> 00:07:49,149 So my family is doing Umrah 85 00:07:49,149 --> 00:07:52,149 Al-Tan'im is the closest solution to Mecca 86 00:07:52,149 --> 00:07:55,149 It is the closest solution to Mecca 87 00:07:55,149 --> 00:07:58,149 The pilgrim from Mecca goes out to the solution 88 00:07:58,149 --> 00:08:01,149 To combine the solution and the forbidden 89 00:08:01,149 --> 00:08:08,339 This order was from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 90 00:08:08,339 --> 00:08:10,339 He had a reason 91 00:08:10,339 --> 00:08:13,339 She came to Mecca for Umrah 92 00:08:13,339 --> 00:08:17,339 She menstruated and did not become pure until a few days later 93 00:08:17,339 --> 00:08:20,339 She did not perform a single umrah 94 00:08:20,339 --> 00:08:24,339 So I asked that from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 95 00:08:24,339 --> 00:08:27,339 He allowed her to perform Umrah from Tan'im 96 00:08:27,339 --> 00:08:29,439 This, my sister, is necessary 97 00:08:29,439 --> 00:08:32,440 For every woman who came to Mecca 98 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,440 Then she had her period before performing the Umrah rituals 99 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,440 Then Hajj came to her while she was in ihram 100 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:43,440 To stop performing Umrah and perform Hajj 101 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,440 Then, when she performs her Hajj 102 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,440 I completed the umrah of softening 103 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,440 As for what pilgrims do today? 104 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:56,440 After Hajj, men and women repeat Umrah 105 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,440 This was not known during the era of the predecessors 106 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:03,440 No one quoted from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 107 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,440 Not on behalf of any of those who performed Hajj with him 108 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,440 They did it 109 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,440 Except for Aisha, may God be pleased with her 110 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,440 Because it was fun 111 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:15,440 She menstruated 112 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,440 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered it 113 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,440 Because you enter into ihram for Hajj and it is called Umrah 114 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:25,440 Therefore, it used to express our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 115 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,440 About this Umrah 116 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:32,440 With words that indicate that it is the place of her incomplete Umrah 117 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,539 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 118 00:09:36,539 --> 00:09:38,539 When I completed Hajj 119 00:09:38,539 --> 00:09:41,539 Abdul Rahman ordered the night of measles 120 00:09:41,539 --> 00:09:46,539 So grant me a lifetime of bliss in place of the Umrah which we kept silent 121 00:09:46,539 --> 00:09:48,539 She also said 122 00:09:48,539 --> 00:09:52,539 So Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq was sent with me 123 00:09:52,539 --> 00:09:57,539 He ordered me to perform Umrah in place of the Umrah that Hajj had completed 124 00:09:57,539 --> 00:10:00,539 I did not deprive her of the softness 125 00:10:00,539 --> 00:10:02,539 She also said 126 00:10:02,539 --> 00:10:04,539 So I went out to Tanim 127 00:10:04,539 --> 00:10:07,539 So I performed Ihram for Umrah in place of my Umrah 128 00:10:07,539 --> 00:10:12,570 Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told her explicitly 129 00:10:12,570 --> 00:10:15,570 This is your place of life