WEBVTT 00:00:01.419 --> 00:00:07.419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:07.419 --> 00:00:18.620 The difference between the treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to Safiyya when she menstruated, and the treatment of Aisha 00:00:18.620 --> 00:00:30.679 Sister Al-Hajja may wonder about the difference between the position of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, towards our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, when she menstruated excessively. 00:00:30.679 --> 00:00:38.679 He explained his position, may God bless him and grant him peace, regarding our mother Safiyya, may God be pleased with her, when she had her menstruation with Mina 00:00:38.679 --> 00:00:46.869 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, responds to that and says that the words differ according to the position 00:00:46.869 --> 00:00:54.869 Aisha entered upon her while she was crying with regret over the rituals she had missed, so he consoled her with that 00:00:54.869 --> 00:01:05.870 Safiya wanted from her what a man wants from his family, but she expressed the objection, so what he addressed her with in that situation suited both of them. 00:01:05.870 --> 00:01:14.129 These words were said by Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, in response to those who said that the reason for the difference is in treatment 00:01:14.129 --> 00:01:21.129 He is more inclined toward our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, than his mother Safiya, may God be pleased with her 00:01:21.129 --> 00:01:27.129 This statement is not true, as the morals of prophecy reject that 00:01:27.129 --> 00:01:34.260 It can also be added that menstruation occurred on our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:01:34.260 --> 00:01:38.260 It did not affect people’s progress in performing rituals or anything else 00:01:38.260 --> 00:01:43.260 Unlike the onset of menstruation on our mother Safiya, may God be pleased with her 00:01:43.260 --> 00:01:48.260 It would have affected people's movement and movement from Mecca 00:01:48.260 --> 00:01:56.019 If it does not interrupt the ifadah, the menstruating woman does not have to do a farewell tawaf 00:01:56.019 --> 00:02:04.900 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, became certain that our mother was Safiya, may God be pleased with her 00:02:04.900 --> 00:02:12.900 She performed the Ifadah Tawaf before her menstruation. She had to leave with the people and it was called the Farewell Tawaf. 00:02:12.900 --> 00:02:18.900 He, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said to her, “There is no problem, go away.” 00:02:19.900 --> 00:02:24.969 And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to leave 00:02:24.969 --> 00:02:30.969 Evidence that a menstruating woman does not have to do the farewell circumambulation or wait until she becomes pure 00:02:30.969 --> 00:02:33.969 And all jurists do so 00:02:33.969 --> 00:02:36.129 My sister is in need 00:02:36.129 --> 00:02:42.129 If you had your period during one of our days, and you had circumambulated for Ifaadah before that 00:02:42.129 --> 00:02:46.129 You are free from the farewell tawaf 00:02:46.129 --> 00:02:51.129 Therefore, you must be careful to perform Tawaf al-Ifadah on the day of Eid 00:02:51.129 --> 00:02:58.129 Do not delay it, or something will be difficult for you and your guardian when traveling 00:02:58.129 --> 00:03:07.180 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was affected by the difference between her rituals and the rituals of the Mothers of the Believers 00:03:07.180 --> 00:03:12.860 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent away some of us after stoning the Jamarat 00:03:13.860 --> 00:03:18.860 He stayed in Al-Muhasab, which is a place between Mina and the Grand Mosque 00:03:18.860 --> 00:03:25.860 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed the noon, afternoon, sunset and evening prayers 00:03:25.860 --> 00:03:34.949 In the evening, our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, interviewed the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, about her ritual ritual 00:03:34.949 --> 00:03:37.949 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:03:37.949 --> 00:03:43.949 When it was the night of measles, she said, O Messenger of God 00:03:43.949 --> 00:03:48.949 Your women return for Umrah and Hajj, and I will return for Hajj 00:03:48.949 --> 00:03:53.080 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 00:03:53.080 --> 00:03:59.080 Circumambulating the Kaaba and between Safa and Marwa is sufficient for your Hajj and Umrah 00:03:59.080 --> 00:04:05.080 She refused and said, O Messenger of God, you performed Umrah and I did not perform Umrah 00:04:05.080 --> 00:04:11.080 O Messenger of God, I will return the people with two rewards, and I will return with a reward 00:04:11.080 --> 00:04:17.110 O Messenger of God, people issue two coins and I issue one coin 00:04:17.110 --> 00:04:25.110 O Messenger of God, your companions will return with the reward of Hajj and Umrah, and I have not done anything more than Hajj 00:04:25.110 --> 00:04:32.110 Will your wives return with a Hajj and an Umrah, and I will return with a Hajj without an Umrah 00:04:32.110 --> 00:04:37.269 When she persisted, he gave her life as a perfume for herself 00:04:37.269 --> 00:04:44.430 She decided in her mind that her companions would return with an independent Hajj and Umrah 00:04:44.430 --> 00:04:49.430 If they were tamattuhu and did not menstruate or have intercourse 00:04:49.430 --> 00:04:53.430 She returns with Umrah as part of her Hajj 00:04:53.430 --> 00:04:59.430 So he ordered her brother to grant her a lifetime of comfort, to purify her heart 00:04:59.430 --> 00:05:04.069 This action was done by our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:05:04.069 --> 00:05:08.069 It shows us the nature of women from many aspects 00:05:08.069 --> 00:05:16.069 The woman insists on the request and repeats it until she obtains approval from her guardian or husband 00:05:16.069 --> 00:05:22.069 Men do not get bored with this and do not demand from her that it is against her nature 00:05:22.069 --> 00:05:27.170 Women are affected by the superiority of their peers 00:05:27.170 --> 00:05:31.170 So what if they were her partners in her husband? 00:05:31.170 --> 00:05:37.170 She does not want to be preceded or distinguished from other wives 00:05:37.170 --> 00:05:46.899 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, applied perfume for the sake of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:05:46.899 --> 00:05:51.899 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, treated his family well 00:05:51.899 --> 00:05:57.899 When our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said to him what she said about age 00:05:57.899 --> 00:05:59.899 He agreed to what she wanted 00:05:59.899 --> 00:06:02.959 Jaber, may God be pleased with him, said 00:06:02.959 --> 00:06:07.959 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was an easy-going man 00:06:07.959 --> 00:06:11.959 If you like something, follow it 00:06:11.959 --> 00:06:20.220 Thus, a man should be with his women from his household, including wives, daughters, and sisters 00:06:20.220 --> 00:06:25.220 It is easy for his family to follow what they want as long as it is not a sin 00:06:25.220 --> 00:06:29.279 This is part of good treatment with women 00:06:29.279 --> 00:06:34.279 This behavior is required at all times when dealing with women 00:06:34.279 --> 00:06:37.279 But it is required when traveling more 00:06:37.279 --> 00:06:44.750 So that a woman does not suffer from the hardship of traveling with the hardship of a man 00:06:44.750 --> 00:06:46.750 Umrah Tanim 00:06:46.750 --> 00:06:53.290 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, called Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr 00:06:53.290 --> 00:06:57.290 He told him to take your sister out of the sanctuary 00:06:57.290 --> 00:06:59.290 Perform Umrah 00:06:59.290 --> 00:07:02.290 Then he finished and brought her here 00:07:02.290 --> 00:07:06.290 I will wait until you come to me 00:07:06.290 --> 00:07:12.540 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr, may God be pleased with him 00:07:12.540 --> 00:07:14.540 By leaving the sanctuary 00:07:14.540 --> 00:07:19.540 Because the Meccan pilgrim must go out to find a solution 00:07:19.540 --> 00:07:21.540 Then he is deprived of it 00:07:21.540 --> 00:07:23.579 Because Umrah is a visit 00:07:23.579 --> 00:07:26.579 The sanctuary is visited from outside 00:07:26.579 --> 00:07:30.579 The forger is also visited in his home from someone other than his home 00:07:30.579 --> 00:07:34.579 This is the Sunnah of God regarding His servants who perform Umrah 00:07:34.579 --> 00:07:42.149 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:07:42.149 --> 00:07:44.149 Go 00:07:44.149 --> 00:07:47.149 May Abdul Rahman guide you to bliss 00:07:47.149 --> 00:07:49.149 So my family is doing Umrah 00:07:49.149 --> 00:07:52.149 Al-Tan'im is the closest solution to Mecca 00:07:52.149 --> 00:07:55.149 It is the closest solution to Mecca 00:07:55.149 --> 00:07:58.149 The pilgrim from Mecca goes out to the solution 00:07:58.149 --> 00:08:01.149 To combine the solution and the forbidden 00:08:01.149 --> 00:08:08.339 This order was from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:08:08.339 --> 00:08:10.339 He had a reason 00:08:10.339 --> 00:08:13.339 She came to Mecca for Umrah 00:08:13.339 --> 00:08:17.339 She menstruated and did not become pure until a few days later 00:08:17.339 --> 00:08:20.339 She did not perform a single umrah 00:08:20.339 --> 00:08:24.339 So I asked that from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:24.339 --> 00:08:27.339 He allowed her to perform Umrah from Tan'im 00:08:27.339 --> 00:08:29.439 This, my sister, is necessary 00:08:29.439 --> 00:08:32.440 For every woman who came to Mecca 00:08:32.440 --> 00:08:35.440 Then she had her period before performing the Umrah rituals 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:38.440 Then Hajj came to her while she was in ihram 00:08:38.440 --> 00:08:43.440 To stop performing Umrah and perform Hajj 00:08:43.440 --> 00:08:45.440 Then, when she performs her Hajj 00:08:45.440 --> 00:08:47.440 I completed the umrah of softening 00:08:47.440 --> 00:08:50.440 As for what pilgrims do today? 00:08:51.440 --> 00:08:56.440 After Hajj, men and women repeat Umrah 00:08:56.440 --> 00:08:59.440 This was not known during the era of the predecessors 00:08:59.440 --> 00:09:03.440 No one quoted from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:03.440 --> 00:09:06.440 Not on behalf of any of those who performed Hajj with him 00:09:06.440 --> 00:09:08.440 They did it 00:09:08.440 --> 00:09:11.440 Except for Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:09:11.440 --> 00:09:14.440 Because it was fun 00:09:14.440 --> 00:09:15.440 She menstruated 00:09:15.440 --> 00:09:18.440 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered it 00:09:18.440 --> 00:09:21.440 Because you enter into ihram for Hajj and it is called Umrah 00:09:21.440 --> 00:09:25.440 Therefore, it used to express our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:09:25.440 --> 00:09:27.440 About this Umrah 00:09:27.440 --> 00:09:32.440 With words that indicate that it is the place of her incomplete Umrah 00:09:32.440 --> 00:09:36.539 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:09:36.539 --> 00:09:38.539 When I completed Hajj 00:09:38.539 --> 00:09:41.539 Abdul Rahman ordered the night of measles 00:09:41.539 --> 00:09:46.539 So grant me a lifetime of bliss in place of the Umrah which we kept silent 00:09:46.539 --> 00:09:48.539 She also said 00:09:48.539 --> 00:09:52.539 So Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq was sent with me 00:09:52.539 --> 00:09:57.539 He ordered me to perform Umrah in place of the Umrah that Hajj had completed 00:09:57.539 --> 00:10:00.539 I did not deprive her of the softness 00:10:00.539 --> 00:10:02.539 She also said 00:10:02.539 --> 00:10:04.539 So I went out to Tanim 00:10:04.539 --> 00:10:07.539 So I performed Ihram for Umrah in place of my Umrah 00:10:07.539 --> 00:10:12.570 Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told her explicitly 00:10:12.570 --> 00:10:15.570 This is your place of life