In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
Was Zara’s mother grateful to her husband?
One of the most dangerous bad behaviors for a woman in her married life
Ingratitude and lack of gratitude
And disapproval of their living conditions
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, warned against this morality
And what our Lord pleases is for the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
God Almighty said
O Prophet, tell your wives if you desire the life of this world and its adornments
Come, I will entertain you and give you a pleasant release
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
This is a command from God to His Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him
To give his wives the choice between separating from them
So they go to someone else who gives them the life of this world and its adornments
He showed patience in his difficult situation
They will have a great reward from God for that
So they chose, may God be pleased with them and please them
God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter
Then God combined for them the good of this world and the happiness of the afterlife
The Lord of God Almighty is the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Thankful for the blessing they are in
And prevent them from complaining about the hardship of living
Let him be a role model for the women of the world
Ibrahim Al-Khalil, peace and blessings be upon him, was not satisfied
That his son Ismail’s wife is not grateful for the blessing she has
So he ordered his son to divorce her
It was mentioned in Bukhari’s long hadith about the story of Abraham and Ishmael
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
After Ibrahim married Ismail, he came to look at his estate
He did not find Ismail
So ask his wife about him
And she said
He came out looking for us
Then he asked her about their livelihood and appearance
And she said
We are humans
We are in distress and distress
So I complained to him
He said
If your husband comes
So he, peace be upon him, read
And tell him
He changes his doorstep
When Ismail came
As if he had forgotten something
And he said
It came to you from someone
She said yes
Such-and-such sheikh came to us
So ask us about you
So I told him
He asked me how we lived
I told him that we were in great difficulty
He said
Did he advise you to do anything?
She said yes
He ordered me to read peace be upon you
And he says
Change your doorstep
He said
That's my father
He ordered me to separate from you
Follow your family
So he divorced her
He married another of them
So Abraham remained with them
God willing
Then he came to them afterward
He did not find it
So he entered on behalf of his wife
So he asked her about him
And she said
He came out looking for us
He said
How are you?
He asked her about their livelihood
And their form
And she said
We are fine
She praised God
And he said
What's your food?
she said
Meat
He said
What do you drink?
she said
Water
He said
May God bless them
In meat and water
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
They had no love at that time
Even if it was theirs
He called them in
He said
They are not without them
Someone other than Mecca
Except they didn't agree with him
He said
If your husband comes
So he, peace be upon him, read
And his Lord is steadfast
A lintel
When Ismail came
He said
Did it come to you from anyone?
she said
Yes
A good-looking sheikh came to us
She praised him
He asked me about you
So I told him
He asked me how we lived
I told him we were fine
He said
So he advised you to do something
she said
Yes
He reads peace be upon you
He orders you to fix your doorstep
He said
That's my father
And you are the threshold
He ordered me to hold you
Ismail's first wife was not grateful
So Ibrahim ordered him to divorce her
And not being grateful for the husband’s blessing
One of the reasons why women enter Hell
On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both
He said
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
I showed the fire
So most of its people are women
They disbelieve
It was said
Do they disbelieve in God?
He said
They deny the partner
And they deny charity
If you were good to one of them forever
Then she saw something from you
she said
I have never seen anything good from you
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
Ibn Baltal, may God have mercy on him, said
Disbelief here
It is blasphemy
And the infidelity of the partner’s blessing
He is the husband
And he gets upset
God commanded His Messenger to be thankful for blessings
It came in the hadith
He who does not thank people does not thank God
He thanked the husband for his blessing
It is out of gratitude for God's grace
Because every blessing the tithe gives to his family
It is from God's grace
I did it on my hand
On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with him
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said
God Almighty does not look
To a woman who does not thank her husband
She cannot do without him
Narrated by Al-Bazzar
This is a quality in married life
The man hates her very much
A man's love for his wife may change
Because she didn't thank him
Or remove it from his living situation
Was it a transplant?
A little thanks to her husband
Considering what Umm Zaraa said
About her second husband
We can figure it out
Is she grateful to her husband or not?
Umm Zara said
Then she married a secret man
Shreya rode
And he took it in writing
He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
And he gave me a pair of every scent
And he said
Whole or transplant
And see your family
she said
If I collect everything, he will give me
What amounted to the smallest pot of my father’s plants
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
She wanted to say this
He gave her a lot of everything he went to her house
Of camels, cows and sheep
And slaves and animals
And he gave her various types of that
This was not limited to the individual
Even his weakness and weakness
Be kind to her and honor her
He is a fishing and hunting owner
It goes two by two
He adds it to what has gained our time
Then he said, may God have mercy on him
She described this man she married
As bad as it is in itself
And I sought in his hand
And he is the owner of war and riding
As if he had a war and a ride
And with kindness to her
And be kind to her family
Then I told him that with all this
Abu Zara’s location was not located there
And a lot of it, not a little, is planted
How much?
And the condition of this other person is flawed
If you add it to the condition of my father, he planted it
With my father's abuse he finally planted her
But her love for him
People hated her after him
A woman's love for her husband
Doesn't mean she's thankful for him
The woman becomes attached to the man
It has many reasons
And with her attachment to him
You don't have to be good-natured with him
Especially in the issue of ingratitude
And good morals in humans
It appears in everyone's dealings
Also bad manners
It appears in everyone's dealings
Umm Zar’ did not thank her second husband
With the good things he gave her
Rather, she insisted
Can we imagine it?
She was thankful for her first husband
Blessings only last with gratitude
She was not grateful for the blessing of the first husband
So it went away from her
If she had been grateful, it would have lasted for her
God Almighty said
And when your Lord permits
If you are grateful, I will give you more
And if you disbelieve, my punishment is severe
And God Almighty said
What will God do with your torment?
If you are grateful and believe
And God was thankful, All-Knowing
And the wise man
If he has the same characteristics as Abu Zar’ah
Pictures of him manipulating divorce
Especially with a woman he lived with
And he gave birth to her
If a sane man divorces
Like my father planted
It is expected that he was divorced for a major matter
In himself, he did not reveal it
This is the nature of men
Lack of complaints about wives’ problems
Unlike women
She quickly complains to her husband
With the first disagreement
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds