Daga jerin حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
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Rubutun magana
Fassarar inji ce — tana iya dauke da kurakurai
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Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai
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Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara'
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Mijina idan na tuna shi sai na tuna makomarsa
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Bayan mace ta farko ta gama bayanin mijinta
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Juyin na biyu ne
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Sai ta ce
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Mijina, ba na raba labarinsa
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Ina tsoron kar in bar shi ya tafi
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Idan na tuna shi sai in tuna da ladarsa da ladarsa
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Kungiyar ta yi alkawarin ambaton duk sharuddan mijinta
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Amma ta rude tsakanin abubuwa biyu
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Na farko
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Ta yi alkawarin ba za ta boye wa mijinta komai ba
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Na biyu
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Ta tsani kiyayyar mijinta da zancensa
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Dalilin wannan rudani
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Tsoron abinda zai fad'a mishi ne ta fad'a mishi
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Abu biyu take tsoro
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Na farko
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Don yin magana game da shi na dogon lokaci
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Ku tuna da dukkan laifofinsa na bayyane da na ɓoye
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Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
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Sai ta ce, "Ba na watsa labarinsa."
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Wato ba na buga labarai game da shi
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Ina tsoron kar in bar shi ya tafi
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Wato ban bar komai nasa a baya ba
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Wahalhalu da mummuna lahani ne
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Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Ta ce, "Ba na watsa labarinsa."
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Ina jin tsoro ba zan bar shi ba
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Wato a bar maganarsa
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Kuma ya koma ga labari
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Wato saboda tsayinsa da yawansa
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Idan na fara shi, ba zan iya gamawa ba
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Wannan yana nufin cewa rashin amfanin wannan mutum yana da yawa sosai
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Wasu sun fi wasu muni
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Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Wato idan aka gaya min wani kuskurensa da gazawarsa
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Ya kai ga ambaton wani abu dabam har ma da muni
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Sahabbanta sun yi alkawarin ba za su boye musu ko daya daga cikin halayensa ba
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Ta tsani abinda ta kulla da su
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Ta je ta rufawa mijinta asiri domin suna da yawa
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Ba ka so ka ambaci wasu ba tare da wasu ba
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Idan kuma ta fadi wani abu sai ya sa a ambaci wani
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Ta fara ganin ciki
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Haka nan maganarta ta nuna zuciyarta cike da shi
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Ba ta yi magana da kowa ba a gaban wannan majalisa game da damuwarta da mijinta
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Wannan yana daya daga cikin kurakuran mata
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Suna ɗaukar damuwar su kaɗai
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Idan matsalar ta yi girma, gudu
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Ya zama da wahala a magance matsalar
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Nasiha ga masu wannan hali
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Don komawa ga wanda ya ba ta shawarar magance matsalolinta
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Waɗanda ka amince da su mutanen kirki ne masu adalci
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Daga malamai, masu wa'azi, ko masu kawo gyara
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Bai isa ta watsa mata damuwarta ba
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Basu da wata shawara gareta
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Maimakon haka, yana da haɗari wajen yada yanayin rayuwar aure tsakanin mata
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Wadanda ba a san su da iliminsu, adalci, ko iya magance matsaloli ba
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Domin yada wadannan al'amura garesu
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Yana iya haɗa matsalar
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Kuma zuciyarki taji dadin mijinki
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Domin tana iya wahala kamar ku
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Yana ƙara damuwa akan damuwar su
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Wataƙila kuna magana ne game da dukan maza
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Ta siffanta su da azzalumai
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Don haka ka ba da zuciyarka ga su duka
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Abu na biyu da wannan matar ke tsoro
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saki ne
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Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
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Ma’ana idan ta bayyana halin da mijinta yake ciki, sai ta fadi aibunsa
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Kuma idan kun yi haka
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Tana tsoron barinsa
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Ta tsani ya rabu da alakar dake tsakaninsu
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Tsoron saki
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Yana da ma'anoni da dama
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Abu mafi mahimmanci shine tana son shi kuma ta ƙi barin shi
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Wannan shi ne abin da Al-Qurtubi ya ce
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Alakar da ke tsakaninsu ita ce alakar soyayya
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Tare da duk halayen da ake zargi
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Sai dai tana sonsa
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Wasu ƙila ba za su iya fahimtar wannan ma'auni mai wahala ba
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Soyayya da munanan halaye
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Domin ba mu fahimci mata da yanayinsu ba
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Da kuma yadda take tunani
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Wasu mazan ba za su gane tsananin son da matan su ke yi musu ba
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Babban abin da aka makala gare su
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Ko dai saboda sun shagaltu da rayuwarsu
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Ko kuma a rayuwa ta zahiri da samun abin rayuwa
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Ko ta hanyar rashin tunani game da batun kwata-kwata
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Na asali, maza masu daraja
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Cewa mata ba sa son saki ko son saki
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Ko da kun tambaye shi a lokacin matsaloli
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Yanayin fushi yana sa komai ya yiwu
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Domin mai fushi bai san me zai ce ba
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Wannan ba yana nufin ya kai mutum ba
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Domin amfanuwa da soyayyar mace gareka
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Don haka ku ci gaba da cutar da ita da halayen da ba ta so a cikin ku
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A'a, mafi hikimar mutane
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Wanda ya saka hannun jari a kan gaskiyar na kusa da shi wajen sukar sa
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Ta hanyar canza munanan halayensa
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Matar tana tsoron abin da mijinta zai ce mata
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Wani fa'ida mai mahimmanci
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Yana tunanin sakamakon abubuwa kafin aiwatar da su
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Wannan yana nuna cewa wannan mace ta biyu tana da hankali sosai
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Tana tunanin sakamakon abubuwa
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Kuka mai nisa daga gaugawar zargi
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Wanda zai iya lalata mata rayuwa a gaba
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Zuciyarta cike da nadama
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Tayi nadama a baya
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Haka kuma halin wannan mata yana nuna haquri da mijinta
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Ta kyautata masa
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Ba zato ba tsammani mutum ya kasance yana da irin wannan munanan ɗabi'u
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Ya hadu da wata mace mai halinsa
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Sannan baya sake ta
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Kamar yadda kalaman wannan mata suka nuna
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Dole ne ta kame harshenta yayin magana game da mijinta
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Kame harshe yana daga cikin manya-manyan dabi'u masu tseratar da mutum daga wuta
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Yana nuna babban matakin dalili da tunani
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Kafin ba da jawabi da magana
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Wanda ke da daidaito da kamun kai kawai za su iya tunanin hakan
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Musamman idan ta yi
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Wannan mace ce mai hakuri, mai hankali
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Ka yi tunanin sakamakon abubuwa
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Tana da iya sarrafa harshenta
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Mai kiyaye sirrin mijinta
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Kuma aibunsa a boye yake
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Amma wani miji da ya boye ya same ta
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Kyakkyawan mu'amala da mutane
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Ba a kula da shi sosai a cikin gidan
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Lalacewarsa suna da yawa
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Cutarwarsa tana ga iyalansa ne kawai
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Alkali Ayyab, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Kuma ina gani, kuma Allah ne mafi sani
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Da alama an boye
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Amsa Albat
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Bata son yaga murfinsa
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Idan kuma tayi magana
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Abin da sahabbanta suka yi ittifaqi a kai
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Ya bayyana munin sa na boye
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Ta kasance cikin mummunan hali
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Babban damuwarta gareshi shine abinda bai bayyana a baya ba
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Amma ko ta daga hannu ba ta ayyana shi ba
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Kun yi bayani da kyau sosai
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An watsa shi
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Idan kuma ta ce bana watsawa
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Dole ne tushen ya fitar da numfashi
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Wa ya albarkaci mace mai hankali?
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Bai dace ya ci gaba da kuskurensa wajen mu'amala da ita ba
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Ni'ima ce daga Allah Ta'ala a gare shi
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Kuna buƙatar godiya
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Yin godiya ga alheri yana farawa da canza rai
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Da kuma sadaukar da kai ga gaskiya
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Kuma ku samar da kyawawan halaye
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Ina shawartar maza da su yi aiki da wannan hadisin
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Yin koyi da Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
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Ya bi misalinsa a sha’aninsa da iyalinsa
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An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce
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Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce
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Mafificinku shine mafi alheri ga iyalansa
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Ni ne mafi alherin ku ga iyalina
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Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi
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Ibn Battar Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
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Wannan yana nuna a fili cewa abin da yake mafi alheri ga mutum kuma mai kyau a gare shi
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Ka yi hakuri da cutarwar iyalansa, ka rufe musu ido
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Da kuma gafarar cutarwar da yake fama da su a kansa
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Ba tare da abin da ke cikin zatin Allah ba
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Wannan kuwa saboda abin da Umar Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ambata
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An ruwaito daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
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Na haquri da sharrin da ya same shi daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
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Kuma ya ba shi, ya bar masa su
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Kuma ba a maganar cewa Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya azabtar da su a kan haka
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A’a, ya ce Umar shi ne ya yi musu nasiha a kan haka, maimakon Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi.
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Kuma kamar yadda Umar ya ambata, halittar Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
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Labari ya ci gaba a kansa
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Shin akwai wani kamarsa wanda ya yi makokin al'ummarsa, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi?
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Ibn Usaimin Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa
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Wannan shine mafi kyawun mutane
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Shi ne mafi alheri ga iyalinsa
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Idan akwai alheri a cikin ku
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Don haka kiyaye shi tare da mutanen da ke kusa da ku
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Bari shi ne farkon wanda zai amfana da wannan alheri
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Wannan shi ne akasin abin da wasu suke yi a yau
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Sai ka ga yana da mugun hali ga iyalinsa
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Kyakkyawan ɗabi'a tare da wasu
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Wannan kuskure ne babba
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Iyalin ku sun fi cancanta da kyawawan halaye
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Ka kasance da kyawawan halaye da su
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Domin su ne suke tare da ku dare da rana
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A asirce da bayyane
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Idan wani abu ya same ku
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Sun ji rauni tare da ku
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Idan ka yarda, za su yi tafiya tare da kai
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Idan kun yi baƙin ciki, za su yi baƙin ciki tare da ku
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Maganin ku da su ya kamata ya fi yadda kuke yi da baƙi
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Mafi kyawun mutane sune mafi kyau ga iyalansu
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Yaya kai mai girma da iyalinka?
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Wane iri kake tare da matarka?
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Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah
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Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai