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Rubutun magana

Fassarar inji ce — tana iya dauke da kurakurai
0:00 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai
0:05 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara'
0:13 Mijina idan na tuna shi sai na tuna makomarsa
0:23 Bayan mace ta farko ta gama bayanin mijinta
0:28 Juyin na biyu ne
0:30 Sai ta ce
0:31 Mijina, ba na raba labarinsa
0:34 Ina tsoron kar in bar shi ya tafi
0:37 Idan na tuna shi sai in tuna da ladarsa da ladarsa
0:41 Kungiyar ta yi alkawarin ambaton duk sharuddan mijinta
0:46 Amma ta rude tsakanin abubuwa biyu
0:49 Na farko
0:51 Ta yi alkawarin ba za ta boye wa mijinta komai ba
0:57 Na biyu
0:58 Ta tsani kiyayyar mijinta da zancensa
1:03 Dalilin wannan rudani
1:05 Tsoron abinda zai fad'a mishi ne ta fad'a mishi
1:09 Abu biyu take tsoro
1:11 Na farko
1:13 Don yin magana game da shi na dogon lokaci
1:15 Ku tuna da dukkan laifofinsa na bayyane da na ɓoye
1:19 Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
1:21 Sai ta ce, "Ba na watsa labarinsa."
1:24 Wato ba na buga labarai game da shi
1:26 Ina tsoron kar in bar shi ya tafi
1:29 Wato ban bar komai nasa a baya ba
1:33 Wahalhalu da mummuna lahani ne
1:38 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
1:41 Ta ce, "Ba na watsa labarinsa."
1:44 Ina jin tsoro ba zan bar shi ba
1:46 Wato a bar maganarsa
1:48 Kuma ya koma ga labari
1:51 Wato saboda tsayinsa da yawansa
1:54 Idan na fara shi, ba zan iya gamawa ba
1:58 Wannan yana nufin cewa rashin amfanin wannan mutum yana da yawa sosai
2:04 Wasu sun fi wasu muni
2:06 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
2:10 Wato idan aka gaya min wani kuskurensa da gazawarsa
2:15 Ya kai ga ambaton wani abu dabam har ma da muni
2:19 Sahabbanta sun yi alkawarin ba za su boye musu ko daya daga cikin halayensa ba
2:25 Ta tsani abinda ta kulla da su
2:29 Ta je ta rufawa mijinta asiri domin suna da yawa
2:33 Ba ka so ka ambaci wasu ba tare da wasu ba
2:36 Idan kuma ta fadi wani abu sai ya sa a ambaci wani
2:41 Ta fara ganin ciki
2:44 Haka nan maganarta ta nuna zuciyarta cike da shi
2:50 Ba ta yi magana da kowa ba a gaban wannan majalisa game da damuwarta da mijinta
2:57 Wannan yana daya daga cikin kurakuran mata
3:00 Suna ɗaukar damuwar su kaɗai
3:03 Idan matsalar ta yi girma, gudu
3:06 Ya zama da wahala a magance matsalar
3:09 Nasiha ga masu wannan hali
3:13 Don komawa ga wanda ya ba ta shawarar magance matsalolinta
3:17 Waɗanda ka amince da su mutanen kirki ne masu adalci
3:20 Daga malamai, masu wa'azi, ko masu kawo gyara
3:24 Bai isa ta watsa mata damuwarta ba
3:29 Basu da wata shawara gareta
3:31 Maimakon haka, yana da haɗari wajen yada yanayin rayuwar aure tsakanin mata
3:36 Wadanda ba a san su da iliminsu, adalci, ko iya magance matsaloli ba
3:42 Domin yada wadannan al'amura garesu
3:44 Yana iya haɗa matsalar
3:47 Kuma zuciyarki taji dadin mijinki
3:50 Domin tana iya wahala kamar ku
3:52 Yana ƙara damuwa akan damuwar su
3:55 Wataƙila kuna magana ne game da dukan maza
3:58 Ta siffanta su da azzalumai
4:00 Don haka ka ba da zuciyarka ga su duka
4:03 Abu na biyu da wannan matar ke tsoro
4:07 saki ne
4:09 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
4:12 Ma’ana idan ta bayyana halin da mijinta yake ciki, sai ta fadi aibunsa
4:17 Kuma idan kun yi haka
4:19 Tana tsoron barinsa
4:21 Ta tsani ya rabu da alakar dake tsakaninsu
4:26 Tsoron saki
4:29 Yana da ma'anoni da dama
4:31 Abu mafi mahimmanci shine tana son shi kuma ta ƙi barin shi
4:35 Wannan shi ne abin da Al-Qurtubi ya ce
4:38 Alakar da ke tsakaninsu ita ce alakar soyayya
4:41 Tare da duk halayen da ake zargi
4:44 Sai dai tana sonsa
4:46 Wasu ƙila ba za su iya fahimtar wannan ma'auni mai wahala ba
4:52 Soyayya da munanan halaye
4:55 Domin ba mu fahimci mata da yanayinsu ba
4:58 Da kuma yadda take tunani
5:00 Wasu mazan ba za su gane tsananin son da matan su ke yi musu ba
5:06 Babban abin da aka makala gare su
5:08 Ko dai saboda sun shagaltu da rayuwarsu
5:12 Ko kuma a rayuwa ta zahiri da samun abin rayuwa
5:15 Ko ta hanyar rashin tunani game da batun kwata-kwata
5:19 Na asali, maza masu daraja
5:22 Cewa mata ba sa son saki ko son saki
5:26 Ko da kun tambaye shi a lokacin matsaloli
5:29 Yanayin fushi yana sa komai ya yiwu
5:33 Domin mai fushi bai san me zai ce ba
5:37 Wannan ba yana nufin ya kai mutum ba
5:40 Domin amfanuwa da soyayyar mace gareka
5:42 Don haka ku ci gaba da cutar da ita da halayen da ba ta so a cikin ku
5:48 A'a, mafi hikimar mutane
5:50 Wanda ya saka hannun jari a kan gaskiyar na kusa da shi wajen sukar sa
5:54 Ta hanyar canza munanan halayensa
5:57 Matar tana tsoron abin da mijinta zai ce mata
6:02 Wani fa'ida mai mahimmanci
6:04 Yana tunanin sakamakon abubuwa kafin aiwatar da su
6:09 Wannan yana nuna cewa wannan mace ta biyu tana da hankali sosai
6:15 Tana tunanin sakamakon abubuwa
6:18 Kuka mai nisa daga gaugawar zargi
6:22 Wanda zai iya lalata mata rayuwa a gaba
6:25 Zuciyarta cike da nadama
6:27 Tayi nadama a baya
6:30 Haka kuma halin wannan mata yana nuna haquri da mijinta
6:36 Ta kyautata masa
6:38 Ba zato ba tsammani mutum ya kasance yana da irin wannan munanan ɗabi'u
6:43 Ya hadu da wata mace mai halinsa
6:45 Sannan baya sake ta
6:48 Kamar yadda kalaman wannan mata suka nuna
6:50 Dole ne ta kame harshenta yayin magana game da mijinta
6:54 Kame harshe yana daga cikin manya-manyan dabi'u masu tseratar da mutum daga wuta
6:59 Yana nuna babban matakin dalili da tunani
7:03 Kafin ba da jawabi da magana
7:07 Wanda ke da daidaito da kamun kai kawai za su iya tunanin hakan
7:12 Musamman idan ta yi
7:16 Wannan mace ce mai hakuri, mai hankali
7:19 Ka yi tunanin sakamakon abubuwa
7:22 Tana da iya sarrafa harshenta
7:25 Mai kiyaye sirrin mijinta
7:28 Kuma aibunsa a boye yake
7:30 Amma wani miji da ya boye ya same ta
7:34 Kyakkyawan mu'amala da mutane
7:36 Ba a kula da shi sosai a cikin gidan
7:39 Lalacewarsa suna da yawa
7:42 Cutarwarsa tana ga iyalansa ne kawai
7:46 Alkali Ayyab, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
7:49 Kuma ina gani, kuma Allah ne mafi sani
7:51 Da alama an boye
7:54 Amsa Albat
7:56 Bata son yaga murfinsa
7:58 Idan kuma tayi magana
8:00 Abin da sahabbanta suka yi ittifaqi a kai
8:03 Ya bayyana munin sa na boye
8:06 Ta kasance cikin mummunan hali
8:08 Babban damuwarta gareshi shine abinda bai bayyana a baya ba
8:11 Amma ko ta daga hannu ba ta ayyana shi ba
8:15 Kun yi bayani da kyau sosai
8:17 An watsa shi
8:19 Idan kuma ta ce bana watsawa
8:21 Dole ne tushen ya fitar da numfashi
8:27 Wa ya albarkaci mace mai hankali?
8:30 Bai dace ya ci gaba da kuskurensa wajen mu'amala da ita ba
8:35 Ni'ima ce daga Allah Ta'ala a gare shi
8:39 Kuna buƙatar godiya
8:41 Yin godiya ga alheri yana farawa da canza rai
8:44 Da kuma sadaukar da kai ga gaskiya
8:46 Kuma ku samar da kyawawan halaye
8:49 Ina shawartar maza da su yi aiki da wannan hadisin
8:52 Yin koyi da Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
8:56 Ya bi misalinsa a sha’aninsa da iyalinsa
9:00 An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce
9:03 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce
9:07 Mafificinku shine mafi alheri ga iyalansa
9:10 Ni ne mafi alherin ku ga iyalina
9:13 Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi
9:15 Ibn Battar Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
9:19 Wannan yana nuna a fili cewa abin da yake mafi alheri ga mutum kuma mai kyau a gare shi
9:24 Ka yi hakuri da cutarwar iyalansa, ka rufe musu ido
9:28 Da kuma gafarar cutarwar da yake fama da su a kansa
9:33 Ba tare da abin da ke cikin zatin Allah ba
9:36 Wannan kuwa saboda abin da Umar Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ambata
9:40 An ruwaito daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
9:43 Na haquri da sharrin da ya same shi daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
9:51 Kuma ya ba shi, ya bar masa su
9:54 Kuma ba a maganar cewa Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya azabtar da su a kan haka
10:00 A’a, ya ce Umar shi ne ya yi musu nasiha a kan haka, maimakon Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi.
10:08 Kuma kamar yadda Umar ya ambata, halittar Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi
10:14 Labari ya ci gaba a kansa
10:16 Shin akwai wani kamarsa wanda ya yi makokin al'ummarsa, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi?
10:21 Ibn Usaimin Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa
10:24 Wannan shine mafi kyawun mutane
10:26 Shi ne mafi alheri ga iyalinsa
10:28 Idan akwai alheri a cikin ku
10:30 Don haka kiyaye shi tare da mutanen da ke kusa da ku
10:33 Bari shi ne farkon wanda zai amfana da wannan alheri
10:37 Wannan shi ne akasin abin da wasu suke yi a yau
10:40 Sai ka ga yana da mugun hali ga iyalinsa
10:43 Kyakkyawan ɗabi'a tare da wasu
10:45 Wannan kuskure ne babba
10:48 Iyalin ku sun fi cancanta da kyawawan halaye
10:51 Ka kasance da kyawawan halaye da su
10:53 Domin su ne suke tare da ku dare da rana
10:57 A asirce da bayyane
10:59 Idan wani abu ya same ku
11:01 Sun ji rauni tare da ku
11:03 Idan ka yarda, za su yi tafiya tare da kai
11:05 Idan kun yi baƙin ciki, za su yi baƙin ciki tare da ku
11:08 Maganin ku da su ya kamata ya fi yadda kuke yi da baƙi
11:13 Mafi kyawun mutane sune mafi kyau ga iyalansu
11:19 Yaya kai mai girma da iyalinka?
11:22 Wane iri kake tare da matarka?
11:26 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah
11:31 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai