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Fassarar inji ce — tana iya dauke da kurakurai
0:00 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai
0:03 Kayan maza
0:08 A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’
0:13 Mijin masoyi
0:21 Babu lokacin da mace ke fama da mijinta
0:25 Babu wahala ga namiji daga matarsa
0:29 Halin rayuwar nan ita ce ba ta da wahala
0:34 Amma wahala ya bambanta da wahala
0:38 Akwai wahala na ɗan lokaci
0:40 Akwai wahala akai-akai
0:43 Mafi wuya kuma mafi tsawo
0:45 Wahalar da ke da alaka da halin namiji ko mace
0:50 Wahalar ta samo asali ne daga rashin son mutum ya canza halinsa
0:55 Da kuma daidaitawa da na kusa da shi
0:58 In ba haka ba
0:59 Kowace halitta abin zargi tana canzawa
1:03 Wanda ya canza kansa, Allah ya canza yanayinsa
1:07 Wasu mutane na iya musun yiwuwar canza ɗabi'a
1:11 Karkashin cewa an haife shi da cewa
1:14 Kuma suka ce
1:16 Bugawa ya yi nasara akan bugawa
1:19 Ya amsa gayyata
1:21 Imam Al-Ghazali, Allah ya yi masa rahama
1:24 Kuma yana cewa
1:25 Idan ɗabi'a ba su yarda da canji ba
1:28 Umarni, wa'azi, da azabtuwa sun zama marasa inganci
1:33 Al-Ghazali ya yi adawa da wannan magana da wani abu daban, yana mai cewa:
1:38 Ta yaya za a hana wannan a kan mutane?
1:41 Canza halin dabba yana yiwuwa
1:44 Yana canja wurin goshawk daga Istihaash zuwa Anas
1:48 Kare mai yawan cin abinci ne
1:51 Don zama mai ladabi, kaurace, kuma a sake
1:54 Kuma doki yana daga raga
1:56 Don santsi da biyayya
1:59 Duk wannan canji ne a cikin ɗabi'a
2:04 Idan wannan ya shafi dabbobi
2:06 A cikin dan Adam da Allah ya girmama shi da hankali, na farko
2:11 Bai inganta ba a yi uzuri da maganar namiji ko mace
2:15 Wannan dabi'ata ce
2:16 Kyakkyawar dabi'a ta kasance tare da shi
2:19 Kuma mummunan fushi yana canzawa
2:22 Abin da ya same mu shi ne wahalar da matan farko da na biyu suka sha
2:27 Wannan duk ya faru ne saboda mummunan hali na mutum wanda bai canza ba
2:32 Wannan shine wahala ta uku
2:35 Mace ta uku ce ta ruwaito
2:37 Don haka ta ce
2:39 Mijin masoyi
2:41 Idan nayi magana zan saketa
2:43 Idan na yi shiru zan yi sharhi
2:46 Wahala na nuni da cewa mace ba ta da lafiya, ba a shiru ko a zance ba
2:52 To me kuke yi?
2:54 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
2:57 Dogon runguma
3:00 Al-Asmai ta ce
3:02 Tace
3:03 Ba shi da fiye da tsayinsa ba tare da amfani ba
3:07 Idan na ambaci laifinsa zai sake ni
3:11 Idan ya yi shiru sai ya bar ni a rataye
3:13 Ba wani ko ɗaya da Ba'al
3:18 Wannan mata ta kwatanta mijinta da tsayi
3:22 Yabonsa take yi ko kuwa bata masa rai?
3:26 Yanayin maganar yana nuna batanci
3:29 Me kuke nufi da wannan kalmar?
3:32 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa
3:34 Al-Asmai ta ce
3:36 Ta so kada ya wuce tsayinsa ba tare da amfani ba
3:41 Sai wani yace
3:42 Tsawon dole ne ya kasance
3:45 Kuma aka ce
3:46 Na kwatanta shi da tsayi
3:48 Domin tsayi galibi jagora ne ga wauta
3:52 Ya kuma ce, Allah Ya yi masa rahama
3:54 Abu Saeed Al-Dareer yace
3:56 Wanda ya dace
3:58 Wannan soyayya
3:59 Mai tsawo da daraja
4:01 Wanda ya mallaki al'amuransa
4:03 Mata ba sa sarrafa shi
4:06 Maimakon haka, yana sarauta bisa su yadda yake so
4:09 Matarsa tana tsoron magana a gabansa
4:13 Tayi shiru
4:15 Al-Zamakhshari ya ce
4:17 Babban korafi ne
4:20 Ya kare
4:21 Wannan abin da ya faru a cikin ruwayar Yaqub bin Al-Sakit ya inganta
4:25 Daga karuwa a karshen
4:27 Yana da banƙyama kamar haƙori
4:31 Ta hanyar buɗe ƙamus da ƙarfafa lam
4:34 Wato abstract tare da nauyinsa da ma'anarsa
4:37 Ta nuna tana hattara dashi
4:41 Mai yiyuwa ne hakan ta so
4:44 Ba shi da hankali kuma ba zai iya daidaitawa ba
4:47 Kamar kaifi hakora
4:51 Dangane da siffanta shi a matsayin wawa, wauta ce
4:55 Wannan abin zargi ne a fili
4:57 Larabawa sun ce yana da ra'ayi ba tare da mai ba da labari ba
5:01 Yana ganin yara maza a matsayin dabino
5:03 Kuma ba ku san menene kudin shiga ba
5:06 Dangane da bayyana shi da cewa ba mata ne ke sarrafa su ba
5:10 Wannan yana daya daga cikin ma'anonin namiji
5:13 Ba a yi la'akari da abin zargi ba
5:15 Da kuma yanayin maganarta
5:17 Yana nuni da cewa ta wulakanta shi ta hanyar kwatanta shi da tsayi
5:21 Ma'anar daidai
5:23 Cewa irin waɗannan maza suna da kamanni
5:26 Ba su da mai ba da labari
5:28 Abin takaici
5:30 A yau, akwai matasa da yawa masu kula da kamannin su
5:34 Don fita cikin mutane ta hanya mai kyau
5:37 Idan yayi magana yayi magana
5:39 Ya nuna maka dan hankalinsa
5:42 Kuma har sai mutumin ya rabu da wannan annoba
5:46 Ya kamata ya kasance yana da ilimi da al'adun da suke haɓaka tunaninsa
5:50 Ba wai don haɓaka tsokar sa ba
5:53 Kuma babban bala'i
5:55 Idan mata da miji sun shagaltu
5:57 Abin da ake kira triviality a yau
6:00 Rayuwar aure za ta ruguje da sauri
6:04 Kuma wanda ya kalli rayuwar mashahuran mutane sosai
6:08 Ya sami zullumi da halaka da waɗannan mutane suka rayu a ciki
6:12 Waɗanda suke yaudarar mutane da kamanceceniya
6:16 Suna kwana a kan ƙaya na matsaloli da bambance-bambance
6:20 Domin hankalinsa ya shagaltu da wasu abubuwa marasa muhimmanci
6:23 Mafi yawan abin da ya dame shi shi ne yadda ake siffanta Al-Baraka na karya
6:28 Kuma a buga a social media
6:30 Domin samun mabiya da samun suna
6:34 Wannan ba shine kawai wahala ba
6:37 Wanda ta rayu a wannan lokaci
6:40 Amma akwai sauran wahala
6:42 Ta bayyana hakan da cewa:
6:45 Idan nayi magana zan saketa
6:47 Idan na yi shiru zan yi sharhi
6:50 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa
6:52 Wanda kuma ya bayyana a gareni
6:55 Ta so ta kwatanta masa mummunan yanayinta
6:58 Ta nuna mugun halinsa
7:01 Alkawari mai yuwuwar maganarta
7:03 Idan ta yi masa korafin halin da take ciki
7:06 Kuma ta san lokacin da ta ambace shi
7:08 Babu wani abu makamancin haka
7:10 Ya dau matakin ya sake ta
7:12 Bai shafi sakinsa ba
7:14 Don sonta a cikinsa
7:17 Sai na haye jimla ta biyu
7:19 Alamar cewa haka ne
7:21 Idan ta yi hakuri a cikin wannan hali
7:24 Ya zama kamar cokali a gare shi
7:27 Wanda bashi da miji ko wani
7:32 Ba ta zaune da shi lafiya
7:35 Maimakon haka, tana rayuwa cikin damuwa na dindindin
7:38 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
7:41 Ya cika duk abin da na kwatanta
7:44 Mummunan halaye da munanan halaye
7:47 Kuma ba ta tsira daga cutarwa ko cutarwa
7:50 Bugu da ƙari, abin zargi ne ga mata da mutane
7:54 Kuma ta yi hattara da kamfaninsa
7:57 Ban amince da kaina ba
7:59 Kuma babu kwanciyar hankali gare shi
8:02 Tsammanin cutarwarsa ko rabuwarsa
8:05 Tana tare da shi kamar yana gefe guda
8:09 Na tsoro da taka tsantsan
8:11 Rashin kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali
8:14 Larabawa suka ce wane ne
8:16 Mai hankali da rashin kwanciyar hankali
8:19 Kamar mashin mashi ne
8:22 Kamar gefen takobi
8:24 Kamar ƙahon barewa
8:28 Wani lamari mai mahimmanci ga mata
8:30 A rayuwar aurenta
8:32 Don jin kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali tare da mijinta
8:36 Wannan matar bata san tsaro ba
8:39 Kuma ba kwanciyar hankali
8:40 Domin mijin baya karbar maganarta
8:43 Yayi mata barazanar saki idan tayi magana
8:47 Idan ta yi shiru za ta zauna da shi cikin shakku
8:51 Kuma Allah Ta'ala
8:52 Ya hana maza cutar da mata
8:54 Ta hanyar dakatar da shi a rayuwar aure
8:57 Ita ba matar aure ba ce kuma ba ta rabu ba
9:00 Sai ya ce
9:02 Kuma ba za ku iya yi wa mata adalci ba, ko da kun yi ƙoƙari.
9:08 Don haka kada ku karkata gaba daya, har ku bar shi a rataye
9:15 Al-Saadi Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
9:17 Idan matar ta bar mijinta
9:20 Abin da ta kamata
9:22 Ta zama kamar wadda aka rataye ba ta da miji
9:25 Ta huta ta shirya aure
9:28 Ba ta da mijin da zai iya biyan mata hakkinta
9:34 Maganar matar tana matukar goyan bayanta
9:37 Domin rayuwar aure ta ginu ne a kan alakar shari'a tsakanin ma'aurata
9:43 Idan mijin ya kasa kiyaye macen
9:47 Yana nuna mata jaraba
9:49 Musamman a irin wannan lokaci
9:52 A cikin abin da mata suke hulɗa da maza a cikin ayyuka da yawa
9:57 Maganar mace ta uku ta nuna
10:00 Duk da haka, tana son mijinta kuma ba ta son wani
10:04 Domin idan ta kyamace ta
10:06 Da na yi magana na nuna laifinsa don ya sake ta
10:10 Amma ta gwammace ta yi shiru ba ta yi magana ba
10:14 Ko da yake shi ma ya halatta
10:17 Domin zai kasance a dakatar
10:19 Ba ta samun daga rayuwar aure abin da wasu mata suke samu
10:25 Sai dai da wuya
10:27 Sai dai ta zabi zama da shi saboda son da take masa
10:32 Shin namiji zai iya yaba wannan soyayyar da mace take masa?
10:36 Da tsananin cin mutuncin da yayi mata
10:39 Shin zai sake duba salon rayuwarsa da matarsa?
10:43 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah
10:49 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai