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Fassarar inji ce — tana iya dauke da kurakurai
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Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai
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Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara'
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Mijin da ba ya sa dabino don sanin watsa shirye-shirye
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Wannan wani nau'i ne na mutum mai rowa ta kowane bangare
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Haɗin zullumi na kuɗi da zullumi na ji
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Watakila rowa ta kud'i ta ratsa zuciyarsa har ta kai ga tunaninsa, don haka yana rowa da su.
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Don haka ne matarsa, mace ta shida ta siffanta shi da cewa:
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Mijina idan yaci abinci sai ya kau da kai, in bai sha ba sai ya kau da kai, in ya ci sai ya kau da kai.
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Ba ya sa tafin hannu don sanin watsa shirye-shirye
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Abu Ubaidan Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Mirgina a cikin gidan abinci
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Yawancinsa, yayin da ake hada nau'ikansa
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Har sai da babu abin da ya rage daga gare ta
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Kuma snuggling a cikin mashaya
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Don bincika abin da ke cikin jirgin ruwa
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Tambayoyi na ba su da farashi a ciki
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Amma an ɗauke shi daga m
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Shi ne ragowar abin sha da ya rage a cikin jirgin ruwa
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Idan mai shi ya sha
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Aka ce yayi kewarta
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Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Wannan mace ce ta wulakanta mijinta
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Ta fara siffanta shi da mugun nufi da rowa
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Al-Barm, Al-Nahamah, and Al-Jaraza
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Mummunan dangantaka da zumunci
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Kuma ba ya zama a cikin abin da yake ci, da abin sha, ko barinsa
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Yakan tattara duk abin da ya samu ya lalatar da shi
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Wannan ba kyawawan halaye bane
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Irin wannan maza
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Yana da mugu, mai rowa, kuma mai yawan cin abinci
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Yana ci duk abincin da ke kewaye da shi
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Ba ya la'akari da matarsa da 'ya'yansa
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Wannan yana daga munanan halayensa
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Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya yi mana bayani
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Da'a wajen cin abinci tare da mutane
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Ya hana cin dabino biyu tare
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Kuma mutane suna cin dabino
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Kuma akwai hadisi daga Ibn Umar, Allah Ya yarda da su, ya ce:
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Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya hana
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Domin namiji ya hada dabino biyu
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Har sai da ya nemi izini daga sahabbansa
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Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi
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Ibn Battal, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Haramcin Qur'ani game da dabino a cewar malamai
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Daga kyawawan halaye wajen cin abinci
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Domin mutanen da aka sanya kwanan wata a hannunsu
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Kamar dai-daita wajen cin abinci
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Idan dayansu ya mallaki fiye da ɗayan
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Bai godewa hakan ba
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Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
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Ya hana hakan
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Domin yana haifar da ci da sha'awar ci da yawa
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Kuma a cikin wancan ne abin kunya ga mai shi
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Duk wanda ya tuna masa da haka, ya kuma zarge shi da aikata zunubi
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Abincin da ke cikin gidan yana raba tsakanin mutum, matarsa, da 'ya'yansa
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Idan ya ci abinci daga gare su, sai ya zalunce su
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Ko da shi ne ya kawo abincin
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Amma iyalansa suna da hakkin ciyar da su da kashe musu kudi
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Wannan mutumin ya isa abin zargi
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Malamai sun yi sabani dangane da hukuncin yin haka
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Shin haramun ne ko ba a so?
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Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa
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Sun yi sabani a kan wannan haramcin
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Shin haramun ne ko ba a so?
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Yayi daidai daki-daki
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Idan aka raba abinci a tsakaninsu
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Alkur'ani haramun ne sai da yardarsu
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Yana faruwa da maganarsu
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Ko kuma duk abin da ya ɗauki matsayinsa daga dalilai masu ma'ana
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Don haka mafi kusantar hakan
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Idan abincin na wasu ne, haramun ne
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Idan daya daga cikinsu yana da izinin ci
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Ya bukaci gamsuwarsa
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haramun ne ga wasu kuma ya halatta a gare shi
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Amma an so ya nemi izini daga masu cin abinci tare da shi
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Ko da yake hukuncin da aka yanke kan lamarin ya bambanta
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Duk da haka, sun yarda cewa wanda ya yi haka
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Yayi rashin da'a wajen cin abinci
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Dangane da lamari na biyu da matar ta yi Allah wadai da cewa:
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A ina ya kwanta?
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Ba ya saka cuff don sanin watsa shirye-shirye
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Ibn Qutaybah al-Din Wari, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce
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Ta so ya kwana
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Juyowa yayi bai kwanta da ita ba
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Ba ya aiki da ita abin da namiji zai yi da mace idan yana son saduwa da ita
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Don haka ya sa hannu cikin rigarta ya san watsa shirye-shiryen
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Babu wani abu da ake watsawa a wajen sai soyayyar mace da mijinta na kusa da ita
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Kuma ta yi lalata da shi
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Kuma ina yada labarai game da shi
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Domin watsa shirye-shiryen nasa ne
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Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Sannan ta bayyana hakan a matsayin rashin aiki
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Kuma ku tarwatsa shi
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Idan kuma yayi bacci
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Ya lullube kansa da kayansa bai yi lalata da ita ba
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Kuma ba ya kasa da kansa
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Kuma ba shi da sha'awar yin shawarwari
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Wanda yana daga cikin yabon maza
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Larabawa sun kasance suna yabon karfi akan jima'i
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Domin shaida ce ta lafiyar namiji
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Kuma wulakanta akasin haka
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Kamar yadda dayan Ayaa yace
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Wannan mutumin yana da rowa
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Hatta a bai wa mata haqqin su na saduwa
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Idan ya kwana da ita akan gado, sai ya kau da kai daga gare ta
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Wannan alamar yana daya daga cikin abubuwan da suka fi tsanani ga mace ta al'ada
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Domin jima'i yana daya daga cikin dalilan aure
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Hanya ce zuwa ga tsarki
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Idan mutum ya kasa yin haka da matarsa
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Ya jawo mata babbar illa
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Idan ta kasance daga masu tsoron Allah
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Ta tsare kanta ta zauna da ciwonta
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Amma idan tana cikin wadanda Shaidan ya jarabce ta
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Za ta dauki hanyar da aka haramta
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Domin gamsar da kanta
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Al'amarin ya yi kama da irin wannan nau'in maza
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Kamar yadda ta ce
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Ba ya karkatar da ma'auni don koyar da watsa shirye-shirye
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Hakan yana nufin ko shafa hannunshi a jikinta ya bata
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A'a jikinsa baya taba jikinta
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Domin yayi nisa da ita
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Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce
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Ta koka da wannan hali daga mijinta
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Na dora masa laifin hakan
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Ta rasa sa'arta da shi
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Kuma baya saduwa da ita ko kusantarta
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Kusa da ita ya kwana
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Kamar yadda ta ce
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Idan kuma ya kwanta sai ya juya
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Baya kusantarta da kansa
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Ya sa hannu a ciki
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Ya taba ta ya taba ta
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Don haka zai kasance daga gare shi zuwa gare ta
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Abin da maza suke yi wa mazajensu
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Ya san cewa an watsa shi
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Da sonta gareshi
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Ita kuwa bakin cikinta don bai yi mata haka ba
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Da kyar ya ke kewarsa domin yana bukata
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Matar tayi bakin ciki matuka
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Domin irin wannan mazan
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Bai kula ta ba
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Bai san komai ba game da yanayinta da damuwarta
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Kuma kamar wannan
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Kar ki yi tsammanin zai yi mata magana da kyau
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Yana da rowa da ji
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Da kuma haɗarin yin rowa tare da ji
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Idan mace ta rasa mijinta
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Na neme shi da sauransu
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Idan mace ce
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Tana aiki a wajen gida
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Yana aiki a cikin fili mai gauraye
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Yana tsoron kada ta fada cikin jaraba
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Tare da maza a kusa da ita
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Kuma idan ta kasance daga cikin wadanda aka makala
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Ta hanyar sadarwa da shagaltuwa da ita
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Yana tsoron kada ta fadi
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A cikin tarkon mutum
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A cikin wadannan hanyoyi
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Mutumin ya ɗauka
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Laifin matarsa yana tare da ita
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Idan shi ne dalilin samuwar ta
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Nasiha ga irin wannan maza
8:36
Muji tsoron Allah Ta'ala
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Ya canza wannan mugun halin
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Ta hanyar koyon yadda ake mu'amala da matar
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Kafin yayi latti
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Idan dalilin ritayar namiji matarsa ce
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Rauni ne da kasala
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Wadannan al'amura ne
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A yau ana bi da shi ta hanyoyi daban-daban
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Amma idan ritayarsa ta kasance gare ta
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Saboda raunin soyayyarta a cikin zuciyarsa
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Ba duk gidajen sun ginu akan soyayya ba
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Babu wani abu da ya wuce ba ta haƙƙin saduwa da ita
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Koda zuciyarsa bata karkata zuwa gareta ba
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Mace tana yawan son mijinta
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Ko da ya gaza da ita
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Idan mutum ya taba hakan
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Idan ya sami zuciyar kulawa da soyayya
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Yana zaune da shi a gida
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Yana son gamsuwarsa kuma yana ƙoƙarin sa shi farin ciki
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Idan wasu al'ummomi a yau
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Suna korafin yawan sakin aure
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Ya roki mata da su rabu da mazajensu
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Dole ne a lura da wannan dalili
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A maza da maganinsa
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Yana daga cikin manyan dalilai
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Akwai saki da buƙatun saki da yawa
9:50
Dole mace ta ji tsoron Allah Ta'ala
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Rashin kulawar mijinta ba zai cutar da ita ba
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Don buɗe kofar sadarwa da maza
10:00
A kula sosai kada ka yi yawa
10:04
Jaraba ce ga mata
10:07
Saboda haka, an umurci mace kamar yadda aka umarci namiji
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Tare da fushin gani
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Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah
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Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai