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قصة ملكة سبأ | الحلقة (2) | وغاب الهدهد عن العرض العسكري
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The story of the Queen of Sheba
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The hoopoe was absent from the military parade
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The story of the Queen of Sheba begins with the Prophet Solomon, peace be upon him, inspecting his bird soldiers
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Pay attention to the disappearance of the hoopoe among the birds from the army
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The Prophet of God, Solomon, peace be upon him, became angry at the hoopoe’s absence
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He threatened to punish him severely if he had no excuse for his absence
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God Almighty said
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He inspected the bird and said, “What is the matter with me that I do not see the hoopoe or was it one of those absent?”
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I will punish him with a severe torment, or I will slaughter him, or he will bring me clear authority
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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said: This indicates the perfection of his determination and firmness
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He organized his soldiers well and managed matters personally, both small and large
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He did not even neglect this matter of inspecting the birds and seeing if they were all there or if anything was missing
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This is the case with a man who is firm with his subjects, so do not be distressed by my honorable sister if she is blessed with a firm husband
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He checks on you and your offspring, because if he does not do that, the family will be lost
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This is what is obligatory for him, because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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You are all a shepherd and you are all responsible for your flock
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The imam is a shepherd and responsible for his flock
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A man is a shepherd of his family and is responsible for his flock
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The woman is a shepherd in her husband’s house and responsible for her flock
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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And in another narration by Al-Bukhari
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The woman is the caretaker of her husband’s house and his children, and she is responsible for them
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The flock loses a praiseworthy quality that indicates the shepherd’s interest in the flock
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Follow up on their conditions, take care of their affairs, and solve their problems
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Al-Tahir bin Asoun, may God have mercy on him, said
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The soldiers inspected the emblem of the king and princes
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It is one of the purposes of gathering and marching soldiers
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The meaning is that you lose the bird as a whole
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He said to those who were concerned about the birds, “Why do I not see the hoopoe?”
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One of the duties of governors is to inspect the conditions of his subjects
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He inspected the workers and others himself
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What did Omar do when he left for the Levant in the year seventeen AH?
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Or to whomever is entrusted with that
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Omar made Muhammad bin Maslamah Al-Ansariyya inspect the workers
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And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in the previous hadith
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He distributed the responsibility of the family to the husband and wife
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He described each of them as a shepherd and having flocks
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It is not appropriate for a shepherd to neglect checking on his flock
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The entire family is the man’s subject
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It is his responsibility to check on his wife's condition
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Who do you associate with, who do you hang out with, and where do you go?
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What does she keep busy during her day and night?
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He checks her health conditions
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What medication or treatment you need
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And he checks her psychology
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What annoys her about his behavior and what does she like?
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So that he can make her happy
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And on himself in the marital home
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The husband needs to be firm in his decisions to take care of the house
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This is what the wife needs and looks for from her husband
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In fact, it makes her happy
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A sensible woman becomes upset if her husband is not decisive in matters of the home and family
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He did not follow up on her condition
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Firmness does not mean severity
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Rather, it means not being lenient and retreating from positions if they are correct
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The most beautiful packages were in Lynn
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You have a good example in the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And among his women, the mothers of the believers, are role models
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May God bless him and grant him peace, he used to check on the conditions of his wives
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And they don't get bored about it
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On the authority of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, she said
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I stayed at the time of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, one night after dinner
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Then I came and he said where were you?
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I said I was listening to the reading of one of your companions
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I have never heard his reading and voice from anyone
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She said, so he got up and I stayed with him so I could listen to him
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Then he turned to me and said
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This is Salem, the client of Abu Hudhayfah
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Praise be to God who made my nation like this
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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So what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha
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Where were you?
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It is a kind of holding the wife accountable for her late return home
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The reason for this delay
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That means
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The husband has the right to ask such questions when checking on his wife’s condition
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Especially if he is suspicious of one of her actions
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Then look at the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, standing with her to hear this man’s reading
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And his knowledge and interaction with what I mentioned
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It is not a denial or doubt about what she said
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There is nothing in her words or actions that would cause suspicion or doubt about her
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Far be it from that, may God be pleased with her
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But a man may doubt his wife’s words or one of her actions
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He wants to verify the veracity of what she said
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This is his right if it has a legal justification
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On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, he said:
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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If I were to stone someone without proof, I would stone so-and-so
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There was suspicion about its logic, its appearance, and who would enter it
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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This woman is evident from her words, her dress, and her appearance
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Any man who enters upon her will suspect that she is an adulteress
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But there is no proof that God has prescribed to prove this from the four witnesses
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Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not impose punishment on her
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Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said
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That is, if you were transgressing God’s right to it, to what was established to indicate it
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This woman would have been stoned to show evidence of her immorality
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Likewise, if a wife cares for her husband, she loses his condition
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The husband may change from one situation to another
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The wife sees some signs indicating his change in any matter
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Either in his relationship with her, his relationship with his Lord, or otherwise
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It is necessary to know this change, its cause, and quickly treat it before it gets worse
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This is Aisha, may God be pleased with her, who notices the change in the supplication of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And he repeated a certain supplication, so she inquired from him to find out the reason
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, often sought refuge from debtors and sinners
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I said, O Messenger of God, how often do you seek refuge from falling in love?
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He said that if someone is in debt, he tells lies and makes a promise and breaks it
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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This auspicious woman notices a change in the face of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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She asks him and makes him feel that she has noticed a change in his condition
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This is from the acumen of Maimuna, may God be pleased with her
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On the authority of Abdullah bin Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, he said
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Maimuna, may God be pleased with her, told me
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, became one day
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Maimuna said, O Messenger of God, I have disapproved of your appearance since today
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Gabriel promised to meet me tonight, but he did not meet me
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By God, I will not leave behind
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He said, so the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, continued that day
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Then he found himself being dragged by a dog under our tent
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So he ordered him to come out
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Then he took water in his hand and sprinkled his place
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When evening came, Gabriel met him
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He said to him: You promised me that you would meet me yesterday
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He said yes
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But we should not enter a house in which there is a dog or a picture
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So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, rose on that day
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So he ordered the dogs to be killed
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He even orders the little wall dog to be killed
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And he leaves the big wall dog
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Narrated by Muslim
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So check on your husband before he changes on you and you don't realize it
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Losing children is the responsibility of both spouses
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Even if the mother is closer to her children than the father
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This is normal
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Especially if she is a resident of her home
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Dedicated to taking care of her family
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Therefore, she was explicitly assigned responsibility for the children
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As in Al-Bukhari’s narration
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The woman is a shepherd over her husband’s house and his children
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She is responsible for them
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You are responsible for your children
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And about checking their conditions and knowing who they are with
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And where do they go?
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And if they are late in returning home
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I asked about them and why they were late
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If the mother feels some imbalance in her children’s lives
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Our advice is for her to make her husband feel that way
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She should avoid dealing with the matter alone without consulting her husband
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This action is one of them
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He might say that the matter will get worse and get out of her control
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The father's intervention in treating the problem was delayed
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It may create a new problem between the father and his children
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You are the reason for it
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You are also responsible for your home
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Checking on the conditions of the home is an important issue in your married life
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This inspection
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It helps you know the shortcomings in the home
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What needs to be repaired or cleaned?
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Or add beauty to it
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Which makes your husband and children happy
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Think about it, my dear sister
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This great lesson from the Prophet of God Solomon, peace be upon him
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In inspecting the bird
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And benefit from it in performing your responsibilities
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And those who are under your hand
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But what did God’s Prophet Solomon, peace be upon him, do with the hoopoe after that?
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How did the Prophet of God, Solomon, peace be upon him, control his king and his soldiers?
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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The story of the Queen of Sheba
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With the Prophet of God Solomon, peace be upon him