Part of معاناة المرأة (اكتملت السلسلة)
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معاناة المرأة في زمن موسى عليه السلام | الحلقة (15) | الاختلاط أخطر معاناة على المرأة
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The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him
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Promiscuity is the most dangerous suffering for women
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The most precious thing a Muslim possesses is religion
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If he neglects it, he will lose this world and the hereafter
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As for the afterlife, its loss is known
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But the loss of the world
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You may be confused about the one to whom Satan has made his bad deeds seem pleasing
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So the woman thinks that if she goes out to work
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In mixed fields
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In order to help her family
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Or support for herself
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Or help her husband
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And maintenance for her children
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She is paid for it
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And she made a great sacrifice
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For these sake
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Society should appreciate this for her
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And to praise her
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And he even rewards her for it
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This sacrifice is justified by mixed work
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Which caused women to fall into this disorder
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These are misconceptions spread in societies
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Like work is worship
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They mean any work
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They ignore that worship
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But it will be what pleases God
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Not with what God has forbidden
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The one who consumes usury works
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Is his work an act of worship?
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And the dancer is working
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Is her dancing an act of worship?
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Not every act is worship
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It is one of the controls on women’s work in Islam
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To be away from mixing with men
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If this East is achieved
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She is allowed to work
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Otherwise, it is forbidden for her
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Dear sister, consider these hadiths
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Which educates the nation's women to stay away from men
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Compare that with what is happening in our societies today
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And the fields of work in it
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About Umm Hamid
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She came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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She said, O Messenger of God
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I love praying with you
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He said, “I know that you like to pray with me.”
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Praying in your home is better for you than praying in your room
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Your prayer in your room is better than your prayer in your home
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Praying in your home is better for you than praying in your people’s mosque
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He said
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So I ordered
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A mosque was built for her
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In the furthest part of her home
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She prayed there until she met God Almighty
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Narrated by Ahmed
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If this applies to prayer, it is said that it is better for you to pray at home
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What will be said to her if she goes out into mixed fields of work?
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On the authority of Abu Asid Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him
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He heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying as he was leaving the mosque
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The men mixed with the women on the way
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to the women
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Be late, for it will not be possible for us to achieve the path
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Stay on the side of the road
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The woman was sticking to the wall
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Her dress even stuck to the wall due to her being stuck to it
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not approve of women mingling with men in the public street
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Which she must pass through when she goes or comes from anywhere
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He regulates her way of walking on the public road
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So he makes both ends of the road for her
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And for the middle-of-the-road man
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Can it then be said that it is not permissible for her to mix on the public road?
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It is permissible to mix in work offices
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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The best rows for men are the first ones
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And evil is the last of it
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The best rows for women are the last ones
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The worst of it is the first
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Narrated by Muslim
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Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said
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Rather, he preferred the last rows of women present with the men
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Because they are away from mingling with and seeing men
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The heart becomes attached to them when seeing their movements, hearing their words, and so on
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Their first ranks were vilified for the opposite
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Says Western writer Annie Rourd
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Because our daughters work in homes as servants or servants
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It is better and less affliction than having them work in factories
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Where the girl becomes contaminated with impurities, the luster of her life is lost forever
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I wish our country was like Muslim countries
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It contains decency, chastity, and purity
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The maid and the slave enjoy a comfortable life
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They are treated as the children of the house are treated
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The symptoms are not bad
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Yes, it is a shame for the country of the English
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To make her daughters an example of vices through frequent association with men
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So why don't we go after what makes a girl
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She acts according to her natural nature
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From doing at home
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Leave the work of men to men
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Safety for her honor
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Wali Allah Al-Dahlawi said
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Or do you think a man will see the virtues of a foreign woman?
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So he takes care of it
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And he storms into ruins for her sake
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What do you think about someone who is alone with her?
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Its virtues are seen day and night
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And I think you are, my sister
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You know for sure that this is the case with mixed businesses
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Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said
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There is no doubt that enabling women to mix with men
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The root of every calamity and evil
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It is one of the greatest reasons for the infliction of public punishments
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It is also one of the causes of corruption in public and private matters
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Men and women mixing
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A reason for the abundance of immorality and adultery
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It is one of the causes of general death and related plagues
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These are sayings by contemporary women
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They talk about God's blessing upon them after they stayed away from mingling with men
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Dr. Aya says:
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The suffering I faced in keeping away from socializing
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When I decided to leave the prestigious job permanently
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I was accused of insanity
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I neglected my role in society
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The quarrel of my closest and dearest people
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Accusing me of concealing knowledge and misunderstanding of religion
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Hajar says
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Working in a public pharmacy passed far and wide
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Carrying a lot of corruption and cruelty to my heart
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This includes the effect on feminine nature
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By carrying out inventory and storage work
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And dispensing employee prescriptions
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Scratch life that is a hidden gem
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That's when the man addresses me with a complaint
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Which may be private
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He asks to prescribe the appropriate medication for her
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Disabling me from taking care of my family
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Under the pretext of the long hours spent outside the home
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Then I come back exhausted, waiting for sleep
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Then waking up early to relive the painful scene again
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It is born when there is a feeling of rebellion against everything that would force a woman
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Even if it is indirectly related to work
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As they say, your true self
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Climb the career ladder
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You must have a role in society
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Finally, and it is the most important
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But it was sealed with it to draw attention to it
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It distances my heart from God little by little
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Feeling a barrier between me and obedience
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My weakness and apathy from some closeness
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In addition to the inevitable occurrence of many violations
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During the same working hours
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These are some examples of the suffering of women today in mixed jobs
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But what is the second suffering of the woman in Media?
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him