Part of معاناة المرأة (اكتملت السلسلة)
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معاناة المرأة في زمن موسى عليه السلام | الحلقة (17) | معاناة المرأة في الزواج
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The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him
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Women's suffering in marriage
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A woman is wanted, not a student, desired by a man
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This is what women like to feel
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She wants to see young men approaching her in hopes of obtaining her approval
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She chooses from them what she likes
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According to the specifications you want
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And the dreams she has for the future of her family life
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But a woman may suffer from not having the qualities she is looking for in a future husband
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If she is in a society where there are few men with the characteristics she wants
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Women are righteous and religious today
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Don't look for money or fame
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Rather, you are looking for a good, upright man
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The effect of adherence to his religion appears in his obedience to his Lord
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His morals appear in his dealings with people
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Here the suffering of women in the marriage journey appears
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Many young people may apply for it
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But she does not accept their religion
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Years pass by as she waits
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Others take precedence over her in marriage and childbearing
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And achieving motherhood while she waits
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Because the woman of principle does not accept any man to live with
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This is the suffering that women go through today in some societies
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The righteous woman passed by it in the city of Media
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In the time of Moses, peace be upon him
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Medea's men lack chivalry, jealousy and mercy towards women
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They are harsh and have a harsh approach to women
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As we saw in a previous episode
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We add in this episode that honesty is scarce among the men of Medea
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Evidenced by what the daughter said to her father
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O Father, hire. The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
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If the trait of honesty was widespread among the men of Medea
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When this girl said this to her father
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Because there is a need for someone to take care of the sheep
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It existed before the coming of Moses, peace be upon him
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But what prevents you from taking a hired worker from the people of Media
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Loss of the quality of honesty or its scarcity in them
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A good woman looks for a faithful and strong husband
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He has chivalry and is jealous of his wives
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The two women are the daughters of a righteous man
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She was raised with high morals
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Which appeared in their dealings in life
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Outside and inside the house
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When I was outside the home, I was raised not to
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Mixing with foreign men
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This is indicated by the Almighty’s saying
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When he reached the waters of Midian, he found a nation on it
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Of people watering
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And besides him, he found two women fleeing
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I was also raised to talk to foreign men
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Be as much as needed and with complete clarity
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This is indicated by what God Almighty says about them
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He said what's wrong with you
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Then he said: Water until the shepherds leave
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Our father is a great sheikh
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And the Almighty said
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She said: My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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This is politeness in the phrase
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She never asked for it
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But it is not suspicious
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Rather, she said, “My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us.”
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It means to reward you and reward you for watering our sheep
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As I was raised on life
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Which is the true adornment of a woman
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From which the rest of morals radiate
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Life is a branch of faith
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Life has affected her movement outside the home
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God Almighty said
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Then one of them came to him, walking timidly
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It's the mission you came out for
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She was very hard on herself
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It is the call of Moses, and he was a stranger to it
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To meet her father
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Its difficulty stems from the severity of life
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Which you adored
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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
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Then she suddenly walked shyly
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This indicates the generosity of her element
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And her good creation
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Life is a matter of virtuous morals
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Especially in women
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Like this living woman
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A man of low temperament is not suitable for her
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Thick silver
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He is not jealous of his wives
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He is not a trustee of people's money
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How can he be faithful to this woman?
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However, this is alive
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When you find the qualities you desire
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Every girl in the pair
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It was represented by the Prophet of God, Moses
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She hinted to her father that she wanted to marry him
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And she said
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Father, rent
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The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
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That is, Moses was the first to be hired
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It combines strength and honesty
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The best employee is the one who brings them together
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That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do
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And honesty in it is not betrayal
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These are two descriptions
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They should be considered
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In everyone who takes over for man
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Pursuant to a lease or other
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The defect will not be
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Unless they are lost or one of them is lost
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As for their meeting
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The work is done and completed
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But she said that
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Because she witnessed the power of Moses
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When watering them and its activity
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What I knew about his strength
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I witnessed his honesty and religion
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And He had mercy on them
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If not, please benefit from them
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But he meant it
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The face of God Almighty
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This description of a woman
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To this strange man
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She couldn't pass on her father
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Go unnoticed
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He is the one who raised her to live
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And teach her how to deal
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With foreign men
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He quickly realized what she meant
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And seize the opportunity
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Ibn Jarir said
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May God have mercy on him
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It was said that what she said
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That's for her father
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Her father denounced this
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He told her who described it to him
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He said to her
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And what do you know about that?
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And she said
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As for his strength
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I have not seen any treatment for it
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What was treated when watering the well
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As for honesty
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I did not see anyone angry with me
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And so it came
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News about people of interpretation
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This is the description of it
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It indicates the accuracy of observation
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It also indicates admiration
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With this boy
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The compassionate father has realized
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What happened to his daughter's heart
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From the beginning of the story
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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When the two women returned
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They quickly brought the sheep to their father
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He denied their situation
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Because they came quickly
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So he asked them about
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Tell them
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So they told them something
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Moses, peace be upon him
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One of them came to him
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To invite him to her father
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God Almighty said
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One of them came to him
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She walks shyly
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That is, walking silks
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This is the good father
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He knows his daughter's need to get married
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So I understood her message
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Mentioning the most important characteristics of a good husband
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So he made an offer
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Ali Musa's two daughters
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To choose whichever one he wants
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To marry her
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And he said
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I want to marry you
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One of my daughters, Yahatin
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And so it should
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For the good man
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If so, seize the opportunity
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He had the opportunity to marry his daughter
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With a good man
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And hope my dear sister
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How do I honor God Almighty?
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Who adhered to her religion and her life
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Which was
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She suffers from a lack of masculinity
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For the youth of Media
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To get her a good husband
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Rather, he is a noble prophet
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One of the first determination of the Messengers
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From outside her city
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To marry her
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We continue in a meeting
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Coming, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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A story of suffering
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Women
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In the time of Moses
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Peace be upon him