Part of معاناة المرأة (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 16 of 18
معاناة المرأة في زمن موسى عليه السلام | الحلقة (16) | المرأة والأعمال الشاقة خارج البيت
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The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him
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Women and hard work outside the home
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The two women had to leave their home to graze the sheep
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Because there is no man to do this task on their behalf
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The father, as they described him, is an old man who is not able to struggle with herding sheep
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There is no alternative to them
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So I went out out of necessity to graze, not out of love for working outside the home
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The evidence for this is that they are at the first opportunity to find an alternative
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One of them offered advice to her father by saying:
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O father, do you hire? The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
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Even if they like to work outside the home
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When I presented this proposal to their father
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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She said to her father, Father, you are renting
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That is, to herd these sheep
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The other proof is their common sense
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Women naturally tend to decide at home
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She doesn't bother with that
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This can be realized in her since childhood
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The child wants to leave the house
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Playing outside the house is more than the girl wants
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When the girl is ordered to stay at home and not go out
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Don't be upset about it
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Unlike the boy, he is upset by staying at home
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It is a call for women to leave their homes
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And denying her nature
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I first came out in the West
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It was the reason for that
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The man shirks his responsibilities towards the woman
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And the desire of the immoral people among them to enjoy women in all fields
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What resulted from this invitation?
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It has produced a painful reality that rational people do not disagree with
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Dr. Al-Sibai, may God have mercy on him, says
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It brings together all those who visited the West from the East
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Especially Arab Muslims
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However, women there are in a painful and unenviable situation
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I have visited Europe four times
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I did not suffer from anything as much as I did from the misery of the Western woman
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And vulgarity for the sake of a living
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Or her desire to be just like a man
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Western men have been unable to exploit women's weakness in this regard
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He exploited her to the utmost extent for the sake of his material benefits and sexual desires
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It has been confirmed for me after everything I have seen
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That Muslim women are what they are today
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He is happier and has a more honorable status than Western women
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It is not surprising then if we hear and read demands from women in the West
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The woman returns to her home
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Devoting herself to her children and husband
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To find her true self
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In this proposal proposed by one of them
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Third evidence of their desire to decide at home
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He left work tending to sheep
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This is not in harmony with their nature and the nature of their creation
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It is in her words
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The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
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That is, Moses was the first to be hired
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It combines strength and honesty
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The best employee is the one who brings them together
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That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do
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And honesty in it is not betrayal
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The meaning here is strength
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She is the one who was lost in Sheikh Al-Kabir
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She was the one who made the girl propose this proposal to her father
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Because it is missing in women in general
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Women are naturally weak
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Evidenced by the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Oh God, I embarrass the rights of the weak
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Orphan and woman
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, considered her weak
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He combined it with the orphan in the same capacity
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It is a characteristic of weakness
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If the woman is naturally weak
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It is unfair for her to be treated like a man
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Men are given hard work
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Implementation of CEDAW decisions
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And pictures of that
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Working hours imposed on women
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And start working hours
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They do not fit the nature and character of women
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And the main job assigned to it
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It is taking care of the family
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Of motherhood and custody
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Taking care of the husband, home, and others
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We find women getting up before dawn
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To prepare herself to go to work
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People stand in queues
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Waiting for public transportation
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You ride with them in a frightening crowd between men and women
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To get to work on time
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Then she gives her best energy and a bright face during the work period
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Which is usually eight hours straight
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To return once again to the cycle of waiting for crowded transportation
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She arrived home exhausted and tired
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She throws herself on her bed to get some rest
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Or throw herself into the work that awaits her at home
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To increase the burden of this exhausted body
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What is expected from such a working woman?
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To provide her children with love, tenderness and a smile
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Before they leave home to school
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What do we expect from her to provide them with good reception?
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They will have good food and housing if they return home
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After a stressful day of school, he did not respect their innocent childhood
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What do we expect her to offer to her married life?
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Who cares for this husband who is looking for a place to shelter from the hardships of this world?
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Islam does not prohibit women from working
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But controls were put in place for him
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Whoever fulfills these controls is permitted to work
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Whoever violates these controls
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Work has become haram
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Or in the circle of evil for women
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Firstly, these controls
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The work must be permissible
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Singing and dancing are forbidden activities
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Connecting poetry and namas are forbidden acts
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Prostitution is a forbidden business
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Secondly, the woman must be disciplined by the legal controls for leaving the house
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Such as not going out wearing perfume or adornment
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Third, do not crowd with men
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It is not permissible for a woman to work in mixed jobs
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Because it exposes women to many legal violations
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Including wearing a cover in her clothing
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He broke the barrier of modesty between her and the man
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Her chastity is affected and causes the excitement of men’s lust and other things
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Fourthly, her work should not lead to negligence in the husband’s rights
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Or the loss of children or negligence in taking care of the home
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Fifthly, her work should not lead to the company of immoral women
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The friend will love it
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Sixthly, the work should not harm it
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In the hadith, there is no harm or harm
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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Seventh, the work should not lead to the loss of her religion
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It is one of the most important controls
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Eighthly, work should not kill her femininity
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And other legal controls for women’s work
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Here's this late confession from the American actress
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Barbara Sriand in her latest newspaper article
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Where she said
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I'm starting to realize that I'm missing many things
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I cared too much about the artistic life
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I forgot my life as a woman and as a human being
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Which today makes me envy women who have enough time
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To take care of their husbands and children
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And the truth
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Success and fame are meaningless in the absence of a normal family life
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Where a woman feels like a woman
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Did you realize the blessing of decision-making at home?
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Like a queen cared for by a man
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He suffers in his life outside the home because of her
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him