Part of قصة يوسف مع امرأة العزيز (اكتملت السلسلة)
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قصة يوسف مع امرأة العزيز | الحلقة (14) | هل تسبب العزيز في ذنب امرأته؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz
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Did the dear cause his wife to sin?
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A woman is a human being who is afflicted with the sins that afflict humans
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This is not the problem, but the real problem
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It is neglecting a woman until she falls into sin and then blaming her
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God Almighty made the man responsible for the woman’s affairs
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And He said, Glory be to Him
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Men are guardians of women because God has favored some of them over others
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God Almighty explains to us the man’s duty in the family system in Islam
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That is, standing up for the woman
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That is, he is primarily responsible for his wives and daughters
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He is concerned with raising them in what God loves and is pleased with
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And he will be responsible for this mission on the Day of Resurrection
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Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said
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He means by His saying, may He be glorified and praised
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Men are guardians of women
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Men are responsible for their women in performing their duties and taking their hands
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What they must do for God and for themselves
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If a man neglects a woman, a wife, a daughter, or someone else under his affliction, it is a sin for him
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He is her partner in sin because he neglected her upbringing and took her hand
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It is one of the main reasons why a married woman falls into the mire of sin and lust
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Which may lead to adultery
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The husband's neglect of her legal rights
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Satisfying the innate needs that people are born with
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A woman needs a man just as a man needs her
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She needs physical and psychological satisfaction
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She needs to be satisfied with beautiful, emotional words
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She also needs to satisfy her desires with what God has made permissible for her with her husband
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The husband's neglect of these needs may cause the woman to fall into sin
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If you do not fear God and fear His punishment
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The normal nature of a woman does not accept that she be with two men at the same time
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Neither physically nor psychologically
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If the nature is distorted, the woman becomes like an animal
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It descends on it from all shapes and sizes
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Without considering the consequences of this in this world or in the afterlife
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She is blinded by her lust from seeing these consequences
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Life was taken from her neck
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And I did everything to get what I wanted
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This is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about life
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It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy
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If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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And when we return to the story of Joseph with the wife of Al-Aziz
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We wonder if Al-Aziz caused his wife to deviate and fall into this sin
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There are some references in the story
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Through it, one can know the extent of the mistake of the dear
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And it caused his wife to woo Joseph, peace be upon him
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The first one
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Bringing a beautiful young man with a bully vibe into the house
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He left him with the woman
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Big mistake
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He may make a woman fall in love with him and invite him to herself
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As happened in this story
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A story happened in the time of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Similar to the mistake of the dear with his wife
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Bringing a young man into the house to serve the wife
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From Abu Hurairah and Zaid bin Khaled Al-Juhani, may God be pleased with them
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They said
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A Bedouin man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said:
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O Messenger of God
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I ask you, God
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Unless you decide for me according to the Book of God
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The other opponent said, and he is more knowledgeable than him
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Yes, it was decided between us according to the Book of God
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And humiliate me
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Say
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He said
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My son was stubborn about this, so we won over his wife
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And I was told that Ibn should be stoned
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So I ransomed him with a hundred female sheep and female slaves
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So I asked the scholars
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They told me that my son is not liable for a hundred lashes and a year’s exile
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And my wife must be stoned
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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By the One in whose hand is my soul
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I will judge between you according to the Book of God
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The newborn and the sheep replied
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Your son will be subjected to one hundred lashes and exile for a year
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Go tomorrow, Anis, to this woman
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If she confesses, stone her
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He said
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So he went to her and she confessed
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So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to be stoned
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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In a narration by Al-Bukhari, Al-Asif’s relationship with women was explained
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He was stubborn among the people of this
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And by Al-Nasa'i and Al-Tabarani
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My son was a servant to his wife
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This man hired this young man
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To work for him at home
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He was entrusted with carrying out whatever matters his wife needed
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This was a reason to get close to her, talk to her, and be familiar with her
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The matter led to adultery between them
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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In it, the questioner mentions everything that happened in the story
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Because it is possible that the mufti or ruler will understand this
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What is inferred regarding the specificity of the ruling on the issue
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To say the questioner
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My son was stubborn about this
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He only came to ask about the ruling on adultery
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And the secret is in that
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He wanted to make some excuse for his son
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And he was not famous for promiscuity
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He did not attack the woman, for example, or coerce her
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But this happened to him because of the constant saying
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Requires more humanization and pampering
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It can be used to encourage the deportation of foreigners
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From foreign countries as much as possible
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Because ten may lead to corruption
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And Satan uses it to cause corruption
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The second one
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Failure to maintain the wife’s chastity
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Not satisfying her physical and psychological needs
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This matter, although it cannot be confirmed
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Because it is not stipulated
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But it can be deduced from the perspective that a woman is satisfied with her husband
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Don't look to anyone else
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Unless the soul was malicious to begin with
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Usually holders of high political positions
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Being very busy outside the home
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Negligence towards the family
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The dear may have fallen into something like that
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This is a warning to all men
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In their various worldly and hereafter works
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Do not be distracted from the rights of wives by these actions
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They must balance work outside the home
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Whether for financial gain
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Or to call to God
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Between the rights of the wife and sitting with her
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And a nice talk with her
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Satisfying their innate needs
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The Commander of the Faithful Omar realized this fact
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It is a woman's need for her husband
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Because of an accident that happened to him
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He established a system for those who go out to fight for the sake of God
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The Mujahid is helped to maintain his wife’s honor
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It protects a woman from falling into vice
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On the authority of Zaid bin Aslam
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Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him
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He went out one night to guard people
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So he passed a woman while she was in her house and she was saying:
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This night grew long and darkened
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It took a long time for me not to play with Khalil
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By God, if it were not for the fear of God alone
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I would move the sides of this bed
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When Omar became
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Send to the woman and ask about her
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It was said: This is so-and-so, the daughter of so-and-so
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Her husband is a fighter for the sake of God
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So he sent a woman to her
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He said, "Stay with her until her husband comes."
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He wrote to her husband and closed it
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Then he went to his daughter Hafsa and said to her
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My daughter, how patient can a woman be with her husband?
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She said to him
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Father, may God forgive you
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Like you, I'm asking about this
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He told her that if it were not for something
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I want to look into it for the parish
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I didn't ask you about this
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She said four or five months
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Or six months
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Omar said: He invades people
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They walk for a month
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They will spend four months in their campaign
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They close for a month
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This was timed for the people because of their Sunnah in their invasion
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Narrated by Saeed bin Mansour
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The third one
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The dear’s reaction after he became certain
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That his wife was the one who sinned
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Do not suggest addressing the previous error
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In a correct way
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Rather, it indicates the continuity of error
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Who caused his wife to woo Joseph
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Al-Aziz has had enough of his wife
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Some of them ask for forgiveness
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Of the sin I fell into
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But he did not keep Joseph away from her
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Rather, he kept him in the palace
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This is what made her bold after that
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To conspire against him with the women
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Trying to convince him
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By falling into adultery
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But God protected him
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Al-Aziz had enough of Yusuf
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To ask him to cover up the matter
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And do not disclose it to anyone
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But he also did not protect Joseph
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From the dominance of a dear woman over him
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Rather, he kept it at her disposal
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And in her service
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This means the continuation of the meeting
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And the view from Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph
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That is, a continuing infatuation
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The wife of Al-Aziz Yusuf
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Fourth
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He was negligent in checking
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As they encouraged her to this corruption
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Rather, the verses indicate their resurrection
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Also by his whims
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A man must check out
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Who enters his house?
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He sits with his wife
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The friend will love it
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This is a lesson for every man
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He discovers deceptions from their women
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On Al-Afaf Avenue
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To any of its three degrees
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Negligence in concealment and apparent adornment
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Relax in modesty in her dealings
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With men in word or deed
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Falling into adultery
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Or in its introduction to privacy and the Qiblah
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Touching and obscene and obscene speech
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To address the issue
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Correct legal treatment
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Women are prohibited from continuing on this path
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Or fall into the wrong
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It is adultery
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A woman is a man's offering
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Either he preserves and protects him
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Or ignore it
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If the man does what he owes
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Of advice, guidance and protection to offer
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He excused himself before God
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Even if he neglects it
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He will be punished for causing it
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The presence of women in an environment is escapable
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Lots of finery
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The man must warn her against these deviations
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By raising her in the right way
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Explaining this with legal evidence
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And her commitment to it
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It is for God's sake
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Not for the sake of having a man with her in life
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If he dies, she leaves what she was in during his life
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told us
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quality of women
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They have these qualities
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Namely, going out in front of the husband and in his life
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Then if he dies or travels
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Or missed for any reason
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She showed what she was hiding in herself
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Or it relapsed from what it was
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Three don't ask about them
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A man left the group
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He disobeyed his imam and died a disobedient
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And a female slave or slave was left behind and died
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A woman whose husband was absent
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The worldly provisions are sufficient for her
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So I dressed up after him
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Don't ask about them
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Narrated by Ahmed
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Is a woman to blame if a man fails to keep her chaste?
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Because of this, she fell into adultery
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Or in some of its introductions
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Yes, women are to blame for that
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She is guilty and sinful
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She deserves divine punishment
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To do it in this world or in the afterlife
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Because she is commanded to obey God
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And to keep herself chaste and protect her from adultery and its precursors
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The man is also commanded to do so
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The man’s negligence in her legal rights
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This is no justification for her committing adultery
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Likewise, the woman’s failure to give the man his legal rights
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This is not a justification for him committing adultery
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But the man is blamed for his failure to keep his wife chaste
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He is accountable for that before God
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He is blamed for allowing his wife to work with men
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And expose her to temptation
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He is blamed for leaving his daughters with foreign men
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In various fields whatever
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And he was satisfied with that
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He is blamed for the way he handles the mistakes of his household
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If it violates the law
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Every man's reaction after finding out that his wife is cheating on him is his reaction
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It indicates his level of faith
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And his level of morals
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And his level of mind
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And his level of jealousy over his offer
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For the rest of the talk
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz